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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I’m ready. I think I’m finally ready to clear out my space, declutter, donate what I cannot sell, jst get RID of it all blocking me and my clarity. same goes for mental clutter as well. […] View

    Do stay determined to better yourself @invincible, I’m sure you will find positive ways to direct your energies into feeling happier mentally, emotionally and physically beautiful angel Cecelia, get rid of all that is troubling you and holding you back from achieving your full potential in life sweetie, always surround yourself with hope,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR EXISTING. YOU ARE AN ANGEL AND DESERVE THE WORLD. @oliver View

    I will always be here for you @invincible, remember you are so special, awesome and wonderful beautiful Cecelia, you can always reach out to me if you ever need to chat or vent about anything sweetheart, keep smiling and never give up angel, I’ll always support you and I want the best for you sweetie, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update completely broke now and its only wednesday and i don’t get paid til NEXT fri. I hate the bank I use currently, it’s ridiuclous and now I have anxiety about whether or not my pills will […] View

    I would try to save the money you do have and try to make it stretch if you can @invincible, don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for support such as financial help and advice if you need it sweetie, I would talk to your doctor about any issues with medications sweetie, remember you are such a wonderful, awesome and lovely angel who deserves all…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My brain needs a B • R • E • A • K View

    Do take a break @invincible, because it’s OK to take a break so you can rest, relax and recharge yourself sweetie, remember to always be kind to yourself lovely angel Cecelia and know your well-being matters and should always come first, everything will work out for you and things will be OK Cecelia, please know I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update everything is just blending into each other leaving me hopeless and rather depressed. IDK what to do about my schooling. I’m dropping the class but I know I should retake it ASAP I just […] View

    Don’t let hopelessness break you down @invincible, focus on doing what makes you feel happy and upbeat beautiful angel Cecelia, concentrate on your well-being and getting yourself to a good place mentally, emotionally and physically sweetheart, things will work out for you and you will make all your dreams come true angel, always be kind to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I am going to withdrawal from my class. I am making the right decision right now. I feel good and not bad about it, so that says a lot. Another time, sure. But for now, I’ve got other […] View

    I would do what you feel is right and beneficial for you and your future @invincible, I’m sure you will find the right path for you sweetie, focus on what is most important to you, on your priorities, your goals, dreams and aspirations beautiful Cecelia, always be kind to yourself Cecelia and know so much brightness lies ahead for you angel, I’m…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Excellent Listener posted an update It’s been four-ish years since ’ve logged in, looking to help and possibly make connections View

    It’s so great to see you back on BT @excellentlistener, hope you are well and everything is going amazingly in your life, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I got my midterm test extension approved, I am feeling like blocks are being opened, I couldn’t be more hopeful during a rocky time. Things can only look up for us now. But we have to work […] View

    Keep being hopeful and I’m sure that this extension will help you in being able to complete your work @invincible, stay upbeat and remember no matter what happens, you will make it through all the difficult times sweetie to be successful and to live a fulfilling and wonderful life, remember to always be kind to yourself angel and never give up,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Relieved. He won’t be relocating to the place I had such anxiety about. Now we can hopefully plan for something mutually and with our futures in prime view. View

    Do stay positive because I’m sure you will manage to relocate to a place where you feel comfortable and at ease @invincible, focus on your bright and awesome future that lies ahead beautiful angel Cecelia, hold your head up high and keep smiling, everything will be OK and things will work out for the best sweetheart, please know I’ll always be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I don’t know. I just do not know and I want to figure it out but without unnecessary pressure or tainted opinions from others. I wish I could just talk to someone about this though, the […] View

    Do reach out for support, help, advice and guidance @invincible, but remember to always do what makes you happy beautiful angel Cecelia and don’t let anyone or anything influence your decisions and choices sweetie, do what you feel is right and beneficial for you and your bright future sweetheart, stay upbeat and remember to focus on your own…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I had to say goodbye to my best friend today. Our dog who has been in congestive heart failure was euthanized in the comfort of his home today. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to […] View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @devilndisguise, do remember all the happy moments you were able to spend with your much loved pet, my awesome friend Hayden, all the times you played together, went on walks together and spent time cuddling with each other, focus on all the good times you had with him Hayden, be strong buddy, you will make it through…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update got lots of contemplation, research and self-reflection… need to spend some time with clarity pertaining to mental, physical, even spiritual self to realize what i should do. View

    Do find time for self-reflection and to work on making yourself better @invincible, I’m sure that once you complete all your self-analysis, you will make the right choices and decisions that will be beneficial for you and your future going forward beautiful angel Cecelia, remember to always do what makes you happy because your wellbeing and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I rlly need someone to talk to / vent. Yet I don’t know how to even express it. IDEK. View

    Talk to me @invincible, what’s on your mind sweetie, feel free to express yourself in any way you that makes you feel comfortable to get your feelings, thoughts and emotions out, inbox me if you need too Cecelia, I’m here for you and I’m here to listen to you sweetie, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I feel like I’m on thin ice and everything can shatter and change and I can’t tell which option is the best. Suddenly, there’s no comfortable hope and I’m just falling endlessly and I just […] View

    Please don’t feel hopeless @invincible, I’m sure you will make the right choices, options and decisions that will benefit you because you are so special beautiful angel Cecelia and you deserve to live a fulfilling, safe, positive and happy life filled with brightness, don’t let anything or anyone stand in the way of doing what you feel is right…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update There he goes (again) making me fucking anxious throwing things at me that just confuse me and make things unclear. How can he live like that. View

    He has absolutely no right treating you that way @invincible, you deserve so much better beautiful angel Cecelia, he should not be physically, mentally or emotionally abusive and violent towards you sweetie, I would leave the relationship Cecelia if he treats you that way sweetheart because you deserve someone who will love, cherish and care for…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Another great weekend. I’ve got lots of stuff to go through and get rid of/ sell / organize before I can move. I’ve got to prep for my cat to move. If you have pets you know how extensive […] View

    It’s good to see that you had a fabulous weekend, try to not get yourself too overwhelmed @invincible, I would focus on your move, getting everything ready and in order, so when moving day does come, you are completely ready to go and begin a new, exciting and wonderful chapter of your life beautiful angel Cecelia, I’m sure you will find a great…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    My life holds absolutely no meaning and no purpose, I’m 32, no friends, no social life, no romantic relationship, no goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations, no hobbies or interests, nothing in my depressing life, I’m so shy, awkward, introverted, lonely and alone, I wish I knew how to communicate with people, how to talk, socialise and build…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli, I can tell you, without a trace of doubt, that you are not any of that things. You are generous, kind hearted, selfless, wise, positive, honest, respectful, righteous, empathetic… You have so many virtues. It’s difficult to see them when the mind makes all the efforts to let you see just the bad side. But me, and everyone in BT, are here…[Read more]

    • @Oliver – Your life holds no meaning? Oh, Oli! I don’t know much about what’s going on outside of here in your personal life, but I think I can speak for everyone when I say that we see none of these faults in you.

      Your life has so much meaning to it. You have dedicated at LEAST a decade of your life logging on here and offering your kind,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Making an effort to be more active here. I will try to check in periodically. Although there aren’t many people around nowadays, I’m glad to see the spam isn’t around like it was years […] View

    Great to see you feeling peaceful and keeping yourself busy @devilndisguise, it’s sad to see the spam here on BT and how quiet this place has become, but hopefully one day, this site will return to being active and filled with kind people helping each other, I’m sure you will write something wonderful, inspiring and insightful, my awesome buddy…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I had such a happy weekend with my boyfriend. I can’t understand why coming from both ends comes drama and distress which just causes sadness and anger and pain when we are apart during […] View

    Every relationship has it’s up and down moments @invincible, I would focus on both you and your boyfriend keeping the lines of communication open and honest with each other, if you have any disagreements, talk to each other so you can work things out and come to a positive and hopeful agreement, listen to each other and try to understand where…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update There have been some positives, though!My identity is something that I’ve always struggled with. I consider myself gender-fluid nowadays. Any and all pronouns welcome. I’m more […] View

    It’s good to see you are in a more comfortable and happier place mentally, emotionally and physically @devilndisguise, always be kind to yourself and focus on making each day as bright as possible, my awesome friend Hayden, be proud of who you are Hayden and keep smiling, it’s so sweet to see that you are engaged to your fiancée/wife, hope your…[Read more]

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