Your parents and your partner should treat you with love and always be there to support you @invincible, you are such a lovely, wonderful and amazing angel who deserves happiness in your life sweetheart, don’t let them gaslight or bully you Cecelia, you have been through so much sweetie and come out as a brave, strong survivor Cecelia, please…[Read more]

That last line just hit right in the spot… You are not a priority to yourself. It did hit a soft spot to me too, because I’m the same way. It’s very difficult to change that if it’s something you’ve been doing for a long time. Even so, you have to treat yourself with the same kindness and love that you would treat a loved one. This won’t…[Read more]

You truly deserve to have dreams about and spend time with people who bring you happiness, love and support @invincible, don’t let anxiety and horrible people get you down beautiful Cecelia, remember to focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger and letting each day guide you with positivity, hope and brightness sweetie, smile…[Read more]

*facpalm* Absolutely ruined the dream xD. The worst part it’s that you wake up with negative feelings that are hard to shake off during the day. Try to do relaxing routines before bed time, so the chances to have bad dreams decrease.

and i can’t start to do credit because apparently you hagve to have a histor yof it but I never have??? frustrating. real world sucks. but i love it because i can be INDEPENDENT. all i crave.

Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

thank you so much Oli, I need to just remember to and apply budgeting to my life, especially since I have to look after myself first, my cat, and now my life with my new love who i think is the one. it’s big responsibilites but i want it more than anything.

It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

Moving fast does not equal moving towards the wrong direction @invincible. Just to give a little example, my partner asked me to live with him when we were just one month into our relationship as a couple (we were friends from a year ago). We finally moved in together when we were 10 months into the relationship. We are currently into our 2 year…[Read more]

I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your…[Read more]

thank you @m1s1m3 and @oliver, your sweet and helpful words mean so much to me, you don’t even know. I appreciate you both so much and am hoping you guys are well, I am here for you as you are here for me, and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. Trying to set up a therapy appt now, and am going to talk to my boyfriend about my concerns as well…[Read more]