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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    “You’ve gotta dance like there’s nobody watching,
    Love like you’ll never be hurt,
    Sing like there’s nobody listening,
    And live like it’s heaven on earth.”
    ― William W. Purkey

    • Indeed, you are correct @helplessandhelpful1996, keep living with positivity, hope and brightness, making each day as wonderful and brilliant as you can, remember to always be the awesome, special and amazing person that you are, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”
    ― Marilyn Monroe

    • You are a good person who deserves someone who will always be there for you through every emotion, struggle, all the ups and downs, through all the joys and triumphs of life @helplessandhelpful1996, remember to always surround yourself with people who will bring you compassion and empathy, please know I’ll always be here for you too, feel free to…[Read more]

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    Angel posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Why would I start watching a new show when I could re-watch Friends for the 700th time? (Hey, Blah!)

    Mood : Amused
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    mini_beethoven posted an update 2 months ago

    I miss being on this website! I’m thankful for all the hard times you all got me through

    Mood : Blissful
    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Hope you are doing well and things are going fantastically in your life @kittymew, it’s great to see you feeling blissful and back on BT, remember to smile brightly and always be the brilliant, fabulous and good person that you are Kayla, this site will always be here to support you, please know I’m always here for you too, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 3 months ago

    This week has been full of so many downs, I’ve been going hard in therapy and I have been dealing with a lot of doubt. Doubting if I am giving too much or not enough to those I care about. My career, should I go for it or not. I’m too focused on time and how fast it is going that I cannot seem to focus in the present. Before I know it, time has…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Please don’t doubt yourself @llunknownll, remember to stay positive and focused on making all your goals, dreams and aspirations come true, I’m sure you will do great things in life, you will have a fantastic career that makes you feel fulfilled and gives you a sense of purpose, hope and optimism, it can be nerve-racking to think of the future,…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your positive words of encouragement. It means a lot to me. Sometimes it’s harder to see the light in the darkness. I appreciate you. I hope youre doing well too. Keep being the light of blah therapy

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    It is with a heavy heart that I announce the passing of our beloved cat Neferpitou, also known as Pitou. He was the shining light in my life, even during the times when he caused chaos and tested my patience. I wouldn’t exchange him for anything in this world. Although I feel like I lost him too soon, there is never sufficient time with the…[Read more]

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy moments you spent with your beloved cat, all the times you played together and took care of him, focus on all the times and moments he brought joy, laughter and fun to you, be strong and remember him with love and positivity, you can do it, please know I’m always here…[Read more]

    • My condolences to you. I know that he was so loved. I hope that you can find solace in knowing that he was the happiest with you and that you gave him the best life.

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    I appear content, but I can’t help but imagine how foreign a smile would feel on my own face. It’s been ages since I genuinely smiled. This facade is slowly falling apart.

    Mood : Numb
    • Please don’t feel hopeless and numb @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a brilliant, awesome and lovely person who truly deserves all the happiness in the world, don’t let yourself fall apart, always be kind to yourself and surround yourself with love, positivity, compassion and hope, everything will be OK, hold your head up high because you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    sometimes he makes me feel empty
    but sometimes he makes me feel so alive

    • if he wants me to demonstrate confidence he needs to bring me an assured sense of being wanted

    • Your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness @invincible, he should make you feel beautiful, happy, wanted, loved and appreciated sweetheart, don’t ever let him be rude to you, make you feel empty or down, he should make you feel that you are important to him and that the relationship matters to him, I would talk to him…[Read more]

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    Katherine posted an update 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    daily reminder ~
    you are loved <3 you are valued <3 you matter <3

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    blackdog posted an update 5 months ago

    Life is actually pretty good even though I’m severely underemployed, but as I get older my unshakable feeling that I will never find love and die alone becomes more and more of a rational prediction

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Try to stay positive and upbeat @blackdog, I’m sure you will find the right career path and job that you will enjoy and will be beneficial for you and your bright future, you will make all your goals, hopes, dreams and aspirations come true, don’t give up on love, it may take time but I’m sure you will find the one for you, you will meet your…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    thank you so much for your kind words on my latest posts… I appreciate it and it feels good to know you you believe in me & are rooting for me. @llunknownll

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    day has gotten better… but the random intervals of people showing off what their SOs did for Vday is kind of annoying. esp getting texts from toxic or abusive relationships showing off what they got and how blah blah. meanwhile, i haven’t gotten what i want andneed. an apology from this morning. i dont want, expect or care much for the…[Read more]

    • I would talk to him about how he is treating you @invincible, be open and honest with him beautiful angel Cecelia, it’s up to him to listen and change his ways so you can strengthen your relationship together, I want to see you feeling truly happy sweetie and being treated right angel Cecelia, hope everything works out positively sweetheart,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    too stunned rn because my valentine’s morning consisted of my bf angrily snapping at me over the phone so i’m feeling real great rn.

    • That’s not OK @invincible, your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness every day but especially on this day, he should apologise to you sweetie and try to make things right because you deserve so much better angel Cecelia, remember you deserve to feel loved, looked after and taken care of by your partner, do your best to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel

    • Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

    • thanks im trying my best its still super fresh wound and it hurts alot loosing someone i cared so much for

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    So, since my last post I have begun working after some time off. I thought the transition would be harder because I have to leave my son at home but it has been going surprisingly well. I miss him of course but since I’m busy all day, it goes by very fast so I feel like I’m not gone for too long. Also, I actually returned to counseling/therapy.…[Read more]

    • Keep working as hard as you can but remember it’s OK to take breaks to relax and rest when you need too @llunknownll, please know you are a wonderful, caring and awesome parent who is doing their absolute best to support their child, it’s so brave and courageous that you have returned to therapy and counselling, I’m sure it will help so you can…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate you.

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    Right now its a rough patch but I feel like I’m about to go over the hill of happiness and success soon. Just right now I am overwhelmed and stressed, I moved in with BF and our place is a mess right now and cluttered and blegh, I have to bring my cat over to adjust the next next weekend that’ll be stressful.. I started a new job (soooo much…[Read more]

    • I don’t think a lot of young men understand how frustrating it is to be aroused but cannot do anything about it because you are so insecure or your insecurity botches the encounter u have with ur partner.

    • You will be OK @invincible, do focus on getting your home completed and on being successful in your new job sweetie, I’m sure you will get everything sorted in a positive way sweetheart, remember to relax when you need too and take time to make yourself feel calm and positive mentally, physically and emotionally by doing your favourite hobbies…[Read more]

    • Thank you for sharing @invincible. It’s never easy going through a lot of changes. It’s going to take some time to adjust. I’m glad that you are happier at your new job. I can relate on the hardship of accepting our bodies for how they are sometimes. I hope that you come to love and accept your self in every way possible. You got this!

    • thank you so much!

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    Happy New Year to anyone reading this. I hope this year gives you more happiness, self-love, and progress than 2023. This year I want to travel somewhere new, strengthen my boundaries, increase my self-love and reach out more to others around me. I tend to isolate. Anywho, I hope all is well this year. I’m feeling optimistic.

    • Hope you have a good 2024 @llunknownll, keep spreading as much love, kindness and compassion as you can, remember to always do what makes you happy, I’m sure you will do all the great things you want to do and more, stay upbeat, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • Thank you!! I will always try my best as long as I can. I appreciate you.

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    life evolution and changes can b very scary esp when ur traumatized from ur whole childhood n early adulthood

    but i want it more than i want to stay comfortable and miserable.

    i’ll be comfortable and happy after i run thru this storm

    just cannot lose myself and my willpower, my humor and my creativity

    Mood : Anxious
    • Trauma and life changes, evolutions and challenges can make us feel anxious and wary of what lies ahead @invincible, but remember to never let those hurdles break you down sweetie, you are so brave, strong and courageous because you have overcome so much beautiful Cecelia, look ahead towards the bright, amazing and wonderful future that will be…[Read more]

    • That’s awesome that you want to get out of your comfort zone so to say. It really is scary and I commend you for going through the hardships to reach beyond.

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