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    Cecelia posted an update 5 days, 9 hours ago

    Beyond stressed. I feel both my parent and partner tugging at me and I am losing myself in the process.. it’s very triggering because it’s reminiscent of my childhood. Emotionally gaslit by my parent and her having control over everything and i just feel paralyzed from the trauma and loss of control. All the pressure and stress from my intense…[Read more]

    • Your parents and your partner should treat you with love and always be there to support you @invincible, you are such a lovely, wonderful and amazing angel who deserves happiness in your life sweetheart, don’t let them gaslight or bully you Cecelia, you have been through so much sweetie and come out as a brave, strong survivor Cecelia, please…[Read more]

    • That last line just hit right in the spot… You are not a priority to yourself. It did hit a soft spot to me too, because I’m the same way. It’s very difficult to change that if it’s something you’ve been doing for a long time. Even so, you have to treat yourself with the same kindness and love that you would treat a loved one. This won’t…[Read more]

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    Marta posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Hello everybody! I just want to wish y’all a fantastic start of the week. Remember to stay hydrated, to eat something nutritious, to rest your body and mind, to do some activity that brings you joy, and to spend time with a loved one. You are important and loved ❤

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    • Thank you for always being so kind, loving and sweet @m1s1m3, you always give out so much compassion, empathy and love to all of us here on BT beautiful angel Marta, hope you are doing OK wonderful angel and you have a fantastic week as well Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you sweetheart, I love and care about you so much and you mean…[Read more]

    • thank you for this reminder, I need to really put this as a priority, you’re such a positive influence on this site. I appreciate you and Oli beyond belief! ♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    Not me having a spicy dream w/ my boyfriend whom i am super passionate about in every single way, and then in the dream suddenly my ex (big regret disgust) and BOSS (abusive) show up… totally ruined my mood this morning LOL. having anxious dreams lately. :(

    • You truly deserve to have dreams about and spend time with people who bring you happiness, love and support @invincible, don’t let anxiety and horrible people get you down beautiful Cecelia, remember to focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger and letting each day guide you with positivity, hope and brightness sweetie, smile…[Read more]

    • *facpalm* Absolutely ruined the dream xD. The worst part it’s that you wake up with negative feelings that are hard to shake off during the day. Try to do relaxing routines before bed time, so the chances to have bad dreams decrease.

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks ago

    My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and saving in order…

    • and i can’t start to do credit because apparently you hagve to have a histor yof it but I never have??? frustrating. real world sucks. but i love it because i can be INDEPENDENT. all i crave.

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

    • thank you so much Oli, I need to just remember to and apply budgeting to my life, especially since I have to look after myself first, my cat, and now my life with my new love who i think is the one. it’s big responsibilites but i want it more than anything.

    • It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. And I am not afraid of living. If an outsider is, well, focus on yourself boo.

    • Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

    • Moving fast does not equal moving towards the wrong direction @invincible. Just to give a little example, my partner asked me to live with him when we were just one month into our relationship as a couple (we were friends from a year ago). We finally moved in together when we were 10 months into the relationship. We are currently into our 2 year…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, socially & sexually. i can’t shake it and need someone to talk to. might consider speaking with my old therapist on a day off. i really care about him and he is…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

    • You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your…[Read more]

    • thank you @m1s1m3 and @oliver, your sweet and helpful words mean so much to me, you don’t even know. I appreciate you both so much and am hoping you guys are well, I am here for you as you are here for me, and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. Trying to set up a therapy appt now, and am going to talk to my boyfriend about my concerns as well…[Read more]

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    Marta posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Hello everybody! I hope y’all are feeling good and taking care of yourselves. Remember that you matter, that you are loved, and that you deserve good things ^_^. Stay strong, and keep going on ❤

    • Thank you for always being so kind, inspirational and lovely @m1s1m3, hope you are doing OK beautiful angel Marta, remember to smile brightly and always be good to yourself sweetheart, I love and care about you so much angel, hope you have a wonderful Christmas and new year sweetie, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent…[Read more]

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    Marta posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    Hello everybody! I wish y’all a happy weekend, full of peace and joy (^_^). Remember that you are fantastic, and deserve to be happy ❤

    • Hope you have a fantastic weekend filled with happiness and bright moments @m1s1m3, remember to keep smiling and always be the lovely. awesome and wonderful angel that you are beautiful angel Marta, I love and care about you so much sweetheart, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Thank you so much Oli :) . I hope you had a fantastic weekend! Remember that you are truly awesome, gentle, helpful, and wonderful. Keep being the incredible friend and human being that you are :) . I love and care about you, I’m here for you whenever you need it. Stay strong! ❤

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    Marta replied to the forum topic Cats to brighten your day in the group Group logoCat Lovers 2 months, 1 week ago

    Two tiny kittens rescued by a girl who takes care of them ^_^ ❤

    https://youtu.be/zgC4QGox98E

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    Marta replied to the forum topic Cats to brighten your day in the group Group logoCat Lovers 2 months, 1 week ago

    The story of a very tinny kitten who helps her foster mom do the impossible ❤

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