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    Cecelia posted an update 2 hours, 37 minutes ago

    Good morning. I was in a car accident. The cars were damaged but physically I am fine (as well as the other person). Emotionally … I could be doing better. I feel a bit in shock, a little sad and rather insecure. I kind of feel dumb and ashamed… though I am so grateful that my family have been so kind and supportive to me. These things happen,…[Read more]

    • Awww, I’m so sorry that happened to you @invincible, glad to see that you are OK and not hurt in any way, please don’t feel bad or upset Cecelia, like you said, traumatic life events do happen sweetie but you will overcome it because you are strong in mind and body, do stay positive Cecelia, rest, relax and take care of yourself hun, everything…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 4 days ago

    I genuinly hate people.
    Lately have been massive anxiety issues, which are tiggered by anger.
    Even people I care about have been infuriating me.
    Let me be me. Don’t try to change me, fuck off.

    Mood : Angry
    • Oli replied 4 days ago

      Don’t let mean people make you upset @marikofujimoto, you are such a beautiful, lovely and fantastic angel who deserves to be treated with love, care, compassion and respect by others, so many people appreciate and love you Mariko, I want the best for you sweetie and don’t want to see the meanness of horrible people break you, hold your head up…[Read more]

    • I suffer with the same frustrations. Even people who are very close to me, people I love. Such as a my mother, and siblings. It is important to at least attempt to see the glass as half full. While they may be ignorant in their ways, they are saying things that TO THEM are in your best interest.

      My best advice would be to take it with a grain…[Read more]

    • @celticcowboy669 thank you. I’m glad I’m not the only one in a situation like this.
      I’m just afraid my anger will take over me. Like I become a toxic person somehow..
      Has been extremly hard for me lately. But I’m trying to handle it.
      I’ll take your advice and hopefully things get better

    • @oliver thank you. You’re always a sweetheart with your words and constant support.
      Means the world to me

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    mariko posted an update 5 days, 20 hours ago

    Not having a good day. Anyone want to talk?

    • What’s on your mind @marikofujimoto, I don’t want to see you feeling down, upset or sad sweetie, you can always talk to me about absolutely anything Mariko, you are such a beautiful, amazing and incredible angel who deserves all the happiness in the world, please don’t let the bad times get you down, stay positive and always shine hun, you can…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 days, 21 hours ago

    How do I solve this

    • You will solve all your battles and come out so much stronger @invincible, don’t let anything bring you down or stand in your way Cecelia, you are a fabulous person who truly deserves to smile and feel beautiful, everything will be OK sweetie, hold your head up high, believe in yourself and never give up, remember you are a survivor Cecelia,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 days, 5 hours ago

    The fact that I am more afraid of the verbal taunts from my family than the reality of getting hurt speaks volumes and is sickening. I feel as if my fear and my life and almost all the suffering I feel is due to other people. How they treated me and now the fear of how they will treat me. How do I stop giving them so much control?!!

    • Your family have absolutely no right to be horrible towards you @invincible, don’t let fear and the meanness of others control you sweetie, focus on being around positivity, love and brightness, so many amazing people who will show you the kindness you truly deserve are out there, remember the BT community will always be here for you and so will…[Read more]

    • thanks Oli. Today has been good except for a minor issue that has happened, but I am trying not to let the harsh treatment from others get me down <3

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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 6 days, 23 hours ago

    I feel like i have to start a new life in another country because where i’m at in the moment feels like a torturous humiliating experience because i’m here doing my best to be successful but i feel like i’m stuck waiting for something that has taken a lot of my attention and when i do try to go outside and do something, i feel like a complete…[Read more]

    • Please don’t feel bad about yourself @spectrolite7, you are such a wonderful, amazing and fabulous person who will fantastic things in life, you will make all your goals come true and you will be successful, focus on surrounding yourself with hope, light and positivity, make all your dreams a reality and know things will change for the better, be…[Read more]

    • thanks @oliver i wish I was strong enough to make real change in my life… i’ve been doing the best i can but i really still feel like a failure… i feel like im dying from so much emotional pain… i feel like i might just waste away in my bed… i don’t know what else to do… :( i feel like i actually don’t exist…

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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 1 week ago

    i dont know why i feel confused… i wonder if this feeling will continue on… i hope things change and this feeling goes away.. i feel kind of scared… i feel like i failed myself or something but i know i’ve been doing the best i can in my life…i know every thing i did because i was following my heart… so should i regret my decisions or…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Do what makes you truly happy in life @spectrolite7, you are such an amazing, wonderful and awesome person who will make all your dreams come true, things will be OK and everything will go your way, hold your head up high and focus on your bright future, you can do it, believe in yourself and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Another thing I learned is be real to yourself. Is hard to not be ashamed of some stuff. I was always ashamed of liking music, and as 23 enjoying plushies and cutesy stuff. But I’m happy now, once I accepted myself.
    Be weird, be random, be original. Be you.

    • Always be yourself and don’t let anyone make you feel differently @marikofujimoto, be proud of being quirky, unique and original Mariko, as long as you are truly happy, that’s what matters sweetie, love and embrace every part of yourself and your bright personality, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Want a better life? get rid of toxic people. Seriously. Is better to be alone, in the best company ever (which is yourself) than to be with people that would stab you in the back in a second.
    While you don’t find loving and really caring people, just hang out with yourself.
    Fuck people who only look for you when they need to. Fuck people who…[Read more]

    • Do surround yourself with real, compassionate and kind people who will always stick by you no matter what @marikofujimoto, everyone deserves good friends around them, friends who will talk to them about both the good and bad things in life, you do too sweetie, I want to see you truly feeling amazing either with others or by yourself Mariko because…[Read more]

    • So true Mariko you are saying some REAL stuff that everyone should hear!

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    ALL I EVER DO IS BE THERE LIKE A TRUE, CARING FRIEND. Because I do care. AND I GET TREATED SO POORLY FOR IT.

    God, I hate hate hate this. I’ve been bred to be a dependent person who seems to be not allowed to feel for myself. I wish I didn’t, but I can’t help it when the ones I care about treat me like absolute garbage.

    • I don’t want to see you being treated badly by anyone @invincible, you are such a beautiful, caring and compassionate angel who deserves to be surrounded by people who will show you love, kindness, empathy and positivity, do get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out in a good way sweetie and don’t let anyone stop you expressing yourself…[Read more]

    • @invincible girl fuck that person. You always seem super caring, you know deep down you deserve better!
      Much love <3

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    Im_JusT_LikE_YoU_ posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    ive missed being up here. It’s been wayyy too long.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Feeling sick from the heat. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. I plan on standing up for myself a few times to change some irritating things going on.
    The highlight of my day has been liquid iris nail polish lol.

    • I know how you feel @invincible, it’s pretty hot here too in the UK, do look after yourself Cecelia and stay cool sweetie, do stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, smile and hold your head up high with confidence hun, things will change for the better and everything will be OK, always be the beautiful, incredible and special…[Read more]

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    mzmarie posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    I hate being alone with my thoughts when I’m alone that’s when they haunt me

    Mood : Sad
    • Don’t let your thoughts get you down @mzconfused, you are such a wonderful, special and amazing person who deserves happiness, I don’t want to see you feeling alone, surround yourself with love, positivity and brightness, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and focus on all the things that bring hope and purpose into your life, you can…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    On a more positive note, I’ve dived into my love for food and food photography by running and instagram page dedicated to all the food I eat. I’m pretty pleased with all the different stuff I’ve been having, and overall using this instagram account is almost therapeutic to me. It keeps my nerves in check.

    • That’s wonderful @xxbaybayxx, keep taking photos of inspiring things and things that put a smile on your face Oliver, food photos are so great and delicious hehe, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Awesome! I am so happy for you!!

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    I’m not sure what to do in this situation. I love my boyfriend, I love him more than anything….but I notice his friends are always so negative towards him. They mock him, constantly call him a woman, make demeaning memes using photos he’s posted of himself. And it’s honestly taking a toll on me mentally. Especially when their joking turns…[Read more]

    • You and your boyfriend deserve so much better @xxbaybayxx, your boyfriend’s friends should be so ashamed of themselves, they have absolutely no right to treat your boyfriend like that, I would tell your boyfriend to dump them and find friends who will treat him with kindness, love and compassion, hope everything works out for both of you Oliver,…[Read more]

    • @activity it can be two things:

      1) guys have a different notion of friendship and boundaries than women. Some guys see name calling and making fun of stuff, as a way to make their friendship strong. Might not make sense to you, but it does to them? – If it’s the case though, doesn’t mean you have to be confortable with it. You can tell his…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    I wish people would be more considerate about how I can only get things done when I am not distracted and I am SO easily distracted.

    • Try to stay focused on getting things done as best you can @invincible, you will do amazingly Cecelia, don’t let anything or anyone stand in your way sweetie, I want to see you feeling wonderful, please know you will be successful no matter what happens, everything will be OK Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Am I in a toxic friendship or am I the wrong one? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 2 weeks ago

    @jeles wow, he’s really not putting effort in your friendship, what would you do if you didn’t have a crush on him, about a friend who just doesn’t show up for things? You will say, well, I like him so I will […]

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    Red Sheep started the forum topic Am I in a toxic friendship or am I the wrong one? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    I would really appreciate honesty, so don’t be afraid to tell me what you think.. so here is the thing.

    I have a friend, a best friend actually. we know each other since two years now, and despite us being so […]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    Just wondering how do break off with a guy you been dating for so long that you no longer love because of the way he had been acting lately and lost interest to him

    Mood : Curious
    • I would be honest with him and tell him how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you feel the relationship isn’t working anymore because you just aren’t as close with him as you used to be, you are a wonderful person who deserves a partner who will show you unconditional love and support, hope everything works out, you will be OK, inbox me…[Read more]

    • Let your partner know how are you feeling about your relationship, and let them also express themselves too. If you think that you two can work things out, give the relationship an oportunity. But if it’s it’s something definitive, then put an end. You deserve to feel comfortable and happy, there’s no positive thing about force yourself to be…[Read more]

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