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    Gleb posted an update 2 days, 22 hours ago

    Why does the chat disconnect so often? Ugh

    • Hope the chat has managed to re-connect for you @gleb, please know I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Gleb, I want the best for you Gleb so feel free to open up to me about anything that is on your mind, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Thanks, @Oli :)

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 days, 2 hours ago

    I’m not uncomfortable, but I feel so uncomfortable

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pG2VPXPITg

    • Please don’t feel uncomfortable @invincible, remember to stay positive, smile brightly and always be kind to yourself beautiful angel Cecelia, you deserve to feel comfortable, upbeat and wonderful sweetie, you will make it through the difficult moments and come out stronger as you are a brave survivor sweetheart, keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    Gleb posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    I am afraid to go to work tomorrow. I started a course on Thursday this week. And as long as I remember, at every new place I’ve had terrible panic attacks. I use calming techniques and even bring some herb based calming pills with me but they all stop working at some point. And it’s overwhelming .

    • I would try to find other ways to relax, calm and put your mind at ease @gleb, take deep breathes, listen to calm sounds or music, meditate and use mindfulness, try to stay focused on all the positives of being on the course and starting a new job Gleb, remember to always believe in yourself and know you will achieve all your goals, dreams and…[Read more]

    • Gleb replied 1 week ago

      Thanks a lot, @Oli. :) It means a lot. In the end I got the sack, so it’s back to the old job hunt, I guess. For now my private lessons should suffice, at least for the time being. How are you doing, @Oli?

    • Oli replied 5 days ago

      I do hope your job search and lessons go well @gleb, remember to stay positive and keep smiling Gleb, I’m sure you will find the correct job and career path for yourself, I’m surviving Gleb, just taking one day at a time, keep being awesome and wonderful Gleb because you deserve all the happiness that life has to offer, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

    • -hugs- thanks, @Oli. :) I suppose one day at a time is the best way to go.

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    Marta posted an update 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    Hi everyone! It’s been a long time since the last update. Not much to mention. I had good days and bad days. I’m managing my emotions with the resources I have, and trying to stay grounded. I hope you are all feeling okay and having a nice week so far. Remember to eat and drink, do something you love, and to treat yourself with kindness. You deserve it ❤

    • Hope you are OK @m1s1m3, remember to stay positive beautiful angel Marta, be kind to yourself sweetie and surround yourself with brightness, hope and goodness, fill each day with activities that make you smile sweetie and feel upbeat Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you angelic Marta, I love and care about you sweetheart and I want the…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    A day for staying busy and blasting music … woke up exhausted and snapped at by my toxic boss as well as my sick bf over the phone so… :-) thank god i have reasons to stay busy otherwise i’d break down just about now.

    • add my period on top of it… starting lol.

    • Please take care of yourself @invincible, remember to stay positive and surround yourself with happiness, hope and empathy beautiful angel Cecelia, your boss really should treat you with respect and not be toxic, as I’m sure you are a great employee who works hard, I would talk to your boyfriend about any issues in the relationship, always keep…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Beyond stressed. I feel both my parent and partner tugging at me and I am losing myself in the process.. it’s very triggering because it’s reminiscent of my childhood. Emotionally gaslit by my parent and her having control over everything and i just feel paralyzed from the trauma and loss of control. All the pressure and stress from my intense…[Read more]

    • Your parents and your partner should treat you with love and always be there to support you @invincible, you are such a lovely, wonderful and amazing angel who deserves happiness in your life sweetheart, don’t let them gaslight or bully you Cecelia, you have been through so much sweetie and come out as a brave, strong survivor Cecelia, please…[Read more]

    • That last line just hit right in the spot… You are not a priority to yourself. It did hit a soft spot to me too, because I’m the same way. It’s very difficult to change that if it’s something you’ve been doing for a long time. Even so, you have to treat yourself with the same kindness and love that you would treat a loved one. This won’t…[Read more]

    • I view life as a mathematical consequence game, and sometimes one problem leads to another, and you may feel that everything wrong had to happen simultaneously. My solution to this was practising discipline about how I react to situations and turn those hardships into lessons to be learned or challenges to be won.

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    Marta posted an update 2 months ago

    Hello everybody! I just want to wish y’all a fantastic start of the week. Remember to stay hydrated, to eat something nutritious, to rest your body and mind, to do some activity that brings you joy, and to spend time with a loved one. You are important and loved ❤

    Mood : Peaceful
    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Thank you for always being so kind, loving and sweet @m1s1m3, you always give out so much compassion, empathy and love to all of us here on BT beautiful angel Marta, hope you are doing OK wonderful angel and you have a fantastic week as well Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you sweetheart, I love and care about you so much and you mean…[Read more]

    • thank you for this reminder, I need to really put this as a priority, you’re such a positive influence on this site. I appreciate you and Oli beyond belief! ♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months ago

    Not me having a spicy dream w/ my boyfriend whom i am super passionate about in every single way, and then in the dream suddenly my ex (big regret disgust) and BOSS (abusive) show up… totally ruined my mood this morning LOL. having anxious dreams lately. :(

    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      You truly deserve to have dreams about and spend time with people who bring you happiness, love and support @invincible, don’t let anxiety and horrible people get you down beautiful Cecelia, remember to focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger and letting each day guide you with positivity, hope and brightness sweetie, smile…[Read more]

    • *facpalm* Absolutely ruined the dream xD. The worst part it’s that you wake up with negative feelings that are hard to shake off during the day. Try to do relaxing routines before bed time, so the chances to have bad dreams decrease.

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months ago

    My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and saving in order…

    • and i can’t start to do credit because apparently you hagve to have a histor yof it but I never have??? frustrating. real world sucks. but i love it because i can be INDEPENDENT. all i crave.

    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

    • thank you so much Oli, I need to just remember to and apply budgeting to my life, especially since I have to look after myself first, my cat, and now my life with my new love who i think is the one. it’s big responsibilites but i want it more than anything.

    • It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

    • Look up secure credit cards, you can start an account with a deposit and build your credit that way even with zero history. hope that helps!

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. And I am not afraid of living. If an outsider is, well, focus on yourself boo.

    • Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

    • Moving fast does not equal moving towards the wrong direction @invincible. Just to give a little example, my partner asked me to live with him when we were just one month into our relationship as a couple (we were friends from a year ago). We finally moved in together when we were 10 months into the relationship. We are currently into our 2 year…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, it’s hopeless for me :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli you are a fantastic friend, who is caring, generous, helpful, warm hearted and sincere. It’s very difficult to deal with these feelings, even more during this cold season. Remember that I’m here for you if you need it my friend. You’ve done, and are still doing, so much for every member of the BT community, and you can count on us too to help…[Read more]

    • I second this!

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, socially & sexually. i can’t shake it and need someone to talk to. might consider speaking with my old therapist on a day off. i really care about him and he is…[Read more]

    • I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

    • You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your…[Read more]

    • thank you @m1s1m3 and @oliver, your sweet and helpful words mean so much to me, you don’t even know. I appreciate you both so much and am hoping you guys are well, I am here for you as you are here for me, and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. Trying to set up a therapy appt now, and am going to talk to my boyfriend about my concerns as well…[Read more]

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    Leotale posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    hello
    I found a program that helps to maintain a good condition during the day, who will be useful, I will leave it below:

    https://telegra.ph/SMILE-01-09-11

    Mood : Crazy
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