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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update wisdom teeth come out tomorrow View

    thanks Oli, it means a lot. I have been tired, but healing fast <3

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update Reasons why I can’t tell my bf i’m possibly asexual : I don’t pull out topics from random and he knows it. There are several things I have yet to tell him. I’m probably gonna […] View

    However you decide to tell him, do find a way to. Through a game, through a straight-up random conversation, anyway and anything to get it out ♥

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update in the group Asexuality Did some research on asexuality after someone mentioned to me what it really was. After some time on such topic, i’ve concluded i’m asexual.The ’'type’’ i […] View

    I would research some more and apply it to your life and you should tell your boyfriend. You are who you are and you are perfect just as is and it’s important to be open and honest with yourself and those you are close to, especially your boyfriend. Give him time to process it, as to many in our society asexuality can be rather different, or…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks ago

    i am always there for so many of my friends and family members and when it comes to me, they couldn’t care less. when it comes down to it, only a few are my true friends and family. i just wish they wouldn’t hang around assholes wh otreat me like shit or anyone else

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      I want to see you being surrounded by compassionate, loving and supportive people @invincible, everyone deserves good friends and family around them sweetie, you do too beautiful angel Cecelia, please know so many people care about you Cecelia, you truly deserve to feel appreciated and looked after sweetheart, get rid of toxic people Cecelia and…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: $teve posted an update Before I say anything in regards to what I went through during the last weeks of summer, I need all your guys’ trust that ya’ll don’t speak of this to anyone else and that it’ll stay in this […] View

    Sorry this happened. You can trust us here at Blah and thank you for sharing this story

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: depressedgurl posted an update no one seems to here me when i scream, days are getting hazey View

    I know how you feel. We are here for you here on Blahtherapy! You can always talk to us and look to us for help. Wishing you the best.

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    wisdom teeth come out tomorrow

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Everything will be OK @invincible, look after your health sweetie and take care of yourself, remember to always be the beautiful and lovely angel that you are Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • thanks Oli, it means a lot. I have been tired, but healing fast <3

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update yesterday i inspired yet another friend (its been four people now) to speak up about their story of abuse (she has an abusive mom). she came crying to me at lunch and then cried on my […] View

    That is such a great thing FadingEcho. I wish I could’ve helped a girl in high school but I was too afraid her dad would kill her and I’d be the cause of her death. So I stayed silent and tried to be good friend. I can only hope she made it out fine.

    Good for your friend, she is indeed so incredibly brave and you should be so proud of…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update Gotta go talk to the new doctor (forgot what kind of doctor he is, like a therapist type doctor but not), gotta leave at 2:15. Fun part, it snowed today. Got two inches. It’s not […] View

    that is good, and i am glad art is a cure you should definitely work on art as often as you feel you need to or can escape.

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    i feel so out of control and weak, and i feel like i want to tell people but i feel too ashamed for what is happening. everything has just spiraled and it’s just easier to give up my control into something that is damaging.

    • Please talk to someone about how you are feeling @invincible, don’t bottle things up beautiful angel Cecelia, you are such a lovely, kind and amazing angel who truly deserves to feel happy and on top of the world sweetheart, everything will be OK Cecelia, do reach out to someone you trust or any of us here on BT, we all love and care about you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    for ONCE i wish i could attract someone who I too am also attracted to. Jesus.

    • You will meet your soulmate @invincible, someone amazing is out there for you beautiful angel Cecelia, one day a loving and supportive partner will make you so happy sweetie, you will meet someone who is similar to you, someone you can bond with and create fantastic memories with, please know you are so deserving of love and romance in your life…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    People think I want ’attention’ like what am I, 5? No. I want and NEED something much more vital than petty attention. I just want people to CARE and LOVE and HELP/SUPPORT me emotionally through hard times.

    • I know how you feel @invincible, I have been in the same situation with certain family members too beautiful angel Cecelia, they think I want ‘attention’ when all I want is someone to talk too and reach out too, we all deserve to be loved and cared for sweetheart, to have compassionate people around us especially during difficult times, I want…[Read more]

    • @invincible, the entire BT community loves you, and we are all here for you. You are NEVER, EVER alone! Inbox me if you need ANYTHING at all, because I’m here for you.

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    I want to and try to be open and vulnerable with what is going on and what is affecting me and in what ways but all i get is ignored and uninterested in. I am really trying and it would be a lot more helpful if my family & friends would help & support me. Or you know, like, CARE.

    • Anyone who ignores you when you are feeling upset isn’t worth it @invincible, you deserve to feel comforted, supported, taken care of and looked after beautiful angel Cecelia, remember to always surround yourself with as much compassion, empathy, love and kindness as you can sweetie, please know I’ll always be here for you if you ever need to…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    It’s like nothing can ever be wrong with me, I have to be perfect and emotionless. Well I am tired of this – it only makes me feel like I should turn cold & mean. But that is not me! I just wish my family member would care and see what the situations going on rn are doing to me.
    I need to get USED to the fact that no one cares and that only I…[Read more]

    • Your family should treat you with love and care @invincible, they should be supportive towards you beautiful angel Cecelia and help you when you feel upset sweetheart, I don’t want to see you sad sweetie but it is OK to let down your walls when you feel overwhelmed, everyone deserves compassionate people around them hun, you do too, please…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    need to vent without someone feeling annoyed or judgemental

    • Talk to me @invincible, I’ll always be here for you beautiful angel Cecelia, I want to see you feeling happy, positive and upbeat sweetheart, tell me what’s on your mind hun, I will never judge you Cecelia, I want the best for you angel, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent sweetie, stay strong, you are never alone :)[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    did a walk with my grandmother for Alzheimer’s to end it. Walked 3 miles and had a good time. We wore purple and there were lots of booths with fun things and items to get before/after the walk. I enjoyed spending time with her and talking!

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      That’s so lovely and inspiring @invincible, you are such a beautiful soul sweetheart who is truly helping others overcome struggles in their lives, remember to take care of yourself too wonderful angel Cecelia, keep spending time with your grandma and always be there for her, glad you had a fantastic day sweetie, remember to keep smiling and…[Read more]

    • Those walks are very encouraging as well as heartwarming. I’ve done a few for multiple sclerosis (my mother has it, my sister has it, and a couple of people from my mom’s side of the family has it), and those days were some of the best. Haven’t done any walks in awhile, but walking for a cause brings a good feeling.

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: viv posted an update you are so amazing. keep going! View

    ♥♥♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    totally stressed, ate a bunch of the halloween candy because i was craving something sweet and bad for my body and then i threw most of it up because i dont want that shit in my body. I walked for over an hour today and felt good. I need to tell my gradmother to hide the sweets and bad food for me so i don’t get so stressed and depressed and give…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t feel stressed and overwhelmed @invincible, do relax as best you can and take care of yourself beautiful angel Cecelia, remember to stay positive, healthy and happy, try to eat food that will make you feel great in mind and body Cecelia, it’s good to see that you are blocking yourself from negative things in life, stay focused on…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    this is making me fucking ill all this drama shit so tense i can’t concentrate on work i should
    ve done already. no one seems to understand or give one shit. excpet one person which i am grateful for. everyone else is making this just mpore hurtful & harder to cope.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t let drama make you upset @invincible, try to relax as best you can sweetie and focus on making yourself feel wonderful, you are such a beautiful angel Cecelia who truly deserves happiness and love in her life, surround yourself with all the things that bring you joy and keep going forward with optimism and positivity, you will make…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Mystic Unicorn posted an update Hey everyone. Wow. It has been a long time since I’ve been here. Everything is going pretty well. I have figured out my sexuality. I have an amazing soon-to-be girlfriend right now […] View

    Aw that is such good news to hear!

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