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    Flameaura posted an update 35 minutes ago

    I am not obligated to tell you any of my secrets anymore.

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    Hayden posted an update 1 hour, 11 minutes ago

    Has anyone received any suspicious messages recently?

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    Fading Echo posted an update 14 hours, 30 minutes ago

    I wear a mask that says that I’m okay. It smiles for me, laughs at the right times, tells jokes, makes faces. Pretends to be fine. I’ve worn it for so long that I forget how to take it off. I don’t know what I wold find if I did. A shattered girl, a lost girl a girl whose heart and spirit have broken too many times to mend correctly, a girl…[Read more]

    Mood : Listless
    • Do get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out in a good way @985921sqh, it’s OK to let down your mask Echo, so many people will be here to support, love and care about you, I will and so will the BT community, we all want the best for you Echo, you are such a special person who deserves true happiness and love in life, surround yourself with…[Read more]

    • @985921sqh/

      It’s a difficult process to retrain your brain to allow you to show your own true emotions to yourself. It can take a long time, but as long as you keep working toward that goal, you’ll succeed.
      I know it gets confusing, but don’t give up trying. :) The negative that’s buried below is not you, it’s just a part of you that you need…[Read more]

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    Robert Miranda posted an update 20 hours, 12 minutes ago

    “Happiness is a warm puppy.”
    ― Charles M. Schulz

    • We all deserve true happiness in our lives @gorchanstruck, you do too, and puppies are so cute hehe, hope you are having a wonderful day, keep inspiring this community with quotes that truly help others see brightness and hope, always be the sweet and kind person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 1 day ago

    Struggling with alot of back pain. My parents believe it’s either a problem in my spine or kidneys. Tomorrow going to the doctor.
    So scared :(

    • Doctor check ups can be terrifying, especially because of the uncertainty of the diagnose. Try to do some relaxing activities before your appointment, Mariko: listening to music, take a stroll, drink something warm… And remember that they are there to make you feel comfortable, ease your pain, and help you as much as they can. I’m sure your…[Read more]

    • I don’t want to see you feeling unwell or in pain @marikofujimoto, you will make it through this, beautiful angel Mariko, please don’t be scared or afraid, you are so strong, brave and courageous, remember to always stay healthy physically, mentally and emotionally, take care of yourself sweetie, you will be OK Mariko, please know that I’ll…[Read more]

    • Good luck Mariko, I hope everything is OK and its nothing serious. Hoping the pain will go away too. Don’t be too scared, I’m sure it’ll be alright and it’ll be solved if there is a minor issue. ♥♥

    • @marikofujimoto

      I know it’s been about a day since you posted this, but I hope the visit goes/went well. :( Hopefully you’ll be relieved of your pain and it isn’t too serious.

      Best of luck.

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    Robert Miranda posted an update 1 day, 19 hours ago

    ”Isn’t it funny we think nothing we do will have any lasting impact, but whenever we entertain the idea of traveling back in time we stress that even the smallest action would have grand consequences?” -Unknown

    • We should all try to leave a positive impact and good impression when we can @gorchanstruck, if we make others smile through our actions, words and deeds than we can have something lovely to look back on and smile as we did our best to better the world, always be the kind, compassion and sweet person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

    • You made a fantastic point just there. We usually think our actions won’t have an impact on others, because they are so small or meaningless. But even a simple smile can brighten a stranger’s day when they’re feeling sad. A simple “hello” can make someone feel less alone. A simple “you look beautiful” can boost someone’s self esteem. No…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 1 day, 22 hours ago

    “What’s a girl to do when she’s not strong
    When everyone that holds my hand
    Gets cut from all the thorns
    I used to put my ear against the wall
    To hear the screams, to hear the fall
    More reasons to escape it all
    And it’s not the answer but I can’t carry on
    I give my best smile, my last dime
    But I’m always getting wrong
    It’s not ’cause I’m…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Wow, that’s powerful in my mind. Don’t ever think about giving up, you literally try to help your friends when they are in a bad position. Stay strong, don’t think your weak, and don’t think that escaping is the answer, since that’s never the answer. I know that those aren’t your word, but you chose those words because that’s how you relate…[Read more]

    • You are so strong, brave, courageous and incredible @985921sqh, please don’t let your struggles get you down Echo, you overcome all the dark moments and so many more brighter days will be ahead, remember to hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives up, stay upbeat, always believe in yourself and keep smiling, you will…[Read more]

    • You might feel like you can’t keep going on, Echo. But when these times come, when you feel like the struggle it’s taking the best of you, you can count on us to help you. You’ve done so much for everyone on BT, helping, listening and giving advice. You will make it through, and we’ll be here with you to help. You can do it, believe in yourself!

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    Creeker posted an update 2 days, 16 hours ago

    I feel like I need a moment of silence in all this chaos

    • It’s OK to be silent, reflective and quiet especially when life can get so hectic, busy and stressful @creeker, do take some time to relax, rest and get away from all the stresses of daily life Creeker, find activities to do that will calm your mind and put you at ease, remember to surround yourself with all the things that make you feel good and…[Read more]

    • Silence is capable of bringing peace and stillness when we most need them. Do take time for yourself, @creeker. And remember that we are here for you, you are not alone. If you need to talk about anything or vent, my inbox is open.

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    Robert Miranda posted an update 2 days, 21 hours ago

    “Regard yourself as a cloud. Clouds never make mistakes. Did you ever see a cloud that was misshapen? Did you ever see a badly designed wave? No, they always do the right thing. And if you will treat yourself for a while as a cloud or wave, you’ll realize that you can’t make a mistake whatever you do. Because even if you do something that…[Read more]

    • Thank you for sharing such an insightful quote about we are doing our own thing in the right way or in the way that makes us comfortable @gorchanstruck, even if we do make mistakes, we learn from them and strive to make them correct, you are so sweet, compassionate, loving and kind, always be the inspirational person that you are, inbox me anytime…[Read more]

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    Hayden answered question “How do I get over people abandoning me in depression.3 days, 11 hours ago

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    Robert Miranda posted an update 3 days, 14 hours ago

    “I’ve spent most of my life and most of my friendships holding my breath and hoping that when people get close enough they won’t leave, and fearing that it’s a matter of time before they figure me out and go.”
    ― Shauna Niequist

    • Everyone deserves good friends around them who will always stick by them @gorchanstruck, anyone who leaves or abandons someone isn’t a true friend, do surround yourself with loving friends who will always support you, you are such a kind and wonderful soul who inspires so many people with your quotes and wise advice, please know you are amongst…[Read more]

    • Wow…

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    Fading Echo posted an update 4 days ago

    The people in my life feel like I’m not trying hard enough to fix my depression. They get mad at me, say I need to do more, tell me things I know already. I’m just… stuck. Anyone with depression will get this. It’s not as easy as “just think positive,” the way my dad says. My family is sick of hearing my thoughts, my friends are telling me…[Read more]

    Mood : Rejected
    • I will always forgive you, no matter what. My dad always gets mad at me whenever I mention the word depression, but it’s something I go through everyday. I feel that he has depression also, but doesn’t want to reveal it since he doesn’t want his family to get sad and worried.

    • Please don’t feel rejected @985921sqh, your family and friends should support and be there for you Echo, they should offer themselves as people you can go to when you just need to talk or need a shoulder to cry on, I want to see you being supported and valued Echo, please know that the BT community will always be here to listen and support you…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much, @anxietyattack66 and @oliver.

    • People who has not dealt before with depression often does not now how to help. “Just think positive”, “just smile”, “there’s no reason to be sad”. I like to make a comparisson with a person who is drowning. You would never tell them “Hey, just breath, it’s easy!”. It’s the same with depression. Your family should support you, specially…[Read more]

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    Marta answered question “been feeling very depressed last few days – help?4 days ago

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    mariko posted an update 4 days, 3 hours ago

    Going to therapy today. Quite scared. Is from my university, so assuming will be a good therapist. But never easy to put ourselves in a vulnerable place.

    • @marikofujimoto

      That is true. I hope you get through it well and you find that it works for you.
      Best of luck.

    • So true @marikofujimoto, it’s very brave to take that step. I hope the session goes really well, Mariko!!

    • It’s good to see you reaching out for help and support through therapy @marikofujimoto, I’m sure your therapist will be good as you talk through your thoughts, feelings and emotions sweetie, I’m so proud of you beautiful angel Mariko, everything will be OK hun, please know the BT community will always be here for you too and so will I, keep…[Read more]

    • So courageous, Mariko! I hope it goes well, good luck! You should be proud.

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    Trevor posted an update 4 days, 7 hours ago

    The past two years in an abusive relationship are over with now. But I was beaten half to death and ended up going to jail. Most of my memories are coming back now, but they’re all terrible. I already miss waking up in jail with my head split open and not knowing who I was.

    I have a plan to get my affairs in order over the next couple of months…[Read more]

    Mood : Crushed
    • @nightwake

      This is just horrible. I’m so sorry to hear that this happened to you.

      I am glad, though, that you’re out of an abusive relationships. I know all too well what it’s like being in one of those.

      I hope you manage to set your plan to action, and I have no doubt that you’ll be able to. Also, hopefully you’ll start to feel better…[Read more]

    • It’s horrible that you had to suffer for so long, and that you’ve ended up losing memories, Trevor. You are very brave for taking that step; the first one for a big change in your life. I know you’ll get everything in order and create some wonderful media. Here for you @nightwake, you can do it.

    • I’m so sorry that happened to you @nightwake, no-one deserves to be abused or hurt, it’s good that you have left that abusive relationship, do take time to work on finding yourself and being the person you want to be, don’t let the abuse hold you back from achieving your dreams Trevor, please know that you are so strong, courageous and brave, I…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 4 days, 21 hours ago

    This website is a place where I can be myself. I don’t have to pretend to get better, I don’t have to worry about you guys abandoning me because I’m not improving, I don’t have to be a broken record stuck on the “I’m fine” bit. Here, I can just be myself: depressed and trying unsuccessfully to fix it. No one here cares that I’m not getting…[Read more]

    Mood : Accepted
    • The BT community will always be here to help, support, love and comfort you @985921sqh, we all care about you Echo and want the best for you, I’m so proud of you because you are here despite the struggles you go through each day, it shows how truly brave, strong and courageous you are Echo, please know no matter what life throws at you, you will…[Read more]

    • It’s fantastic that you feel that way about BT, Echo! Finding people who make you feel accepted and loved it’s one of the best things this life has. Thank you for being here for us, for accepting us, listening to our struggles, and helping with wise words. You deserve to be happy and feel accepted ❤

    • @985921sqh

      That’s one of the many amazing qualities that I’ve always loved Blahtherapy for. Everyone cares about what you’re going through and they’ll always have the patience to help you through it.
      And no one complains that you may still not be in a great place in the near-future.

      Life’s struggles is something we all seem to have in…[Read more]

    • I know this is a late reply, but I just want to say your welcome. I want to help the best I can with people who are suffering like us, and I need to take care of myself more also, because I usually help others more than I help myself. Everyone who’s a friend of yours online and in person will always be by your side trying to support you in any…[Read more]

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