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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel

    • Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    So, since my last post I have begun working after some time off. I thought the transition would be harder because I have to leave my son at home but it has been going surprisingly well. I miss him of course but since I’m busy all day, it goes by very fast so I feel like I’m not gone for too long. Also, I actually returned to counseling/therapy.…[Read more]

    • Keep working as hard as you can but remember it’s OK to take breaks to relax and rest when you need too @llunknownll, please know you are a wonderful, caring and awesome parent who is doing their absolute best to support their child, it’s so brave and courageous that you have returned to therapy and counselling, I’m sure it will help so you can…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate you.

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Happy New Year to anyone reading this. I hope this year gives you more happiness, self-love, and progress than 2023. This year I want to travel somewhere new, strengthen my boundaries, increase my self-love and reach out more to others around me. I tend to isolate. Anywho, I hope all is well this year. I’m feeling optimistic.

    • Hope you have a good 2024 @llunknownll, keep spreading as much love, kindness and compassion as you can, remember to always do what makes you happy, I’m sure you will do all the great things you want to do and more, stay upbeat, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • Thank you!! I will always try my best as long as I can. I appreciate you.

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    “The weird, weird thing about devastating loss is that life actually goes on. When you’re faced with a tragedy, a loss so huge that you have no idea how you can live through it, somehow, the world keeps turning, the seconds keep ticking.”

    • It can feel strange that life does go on when you have suffered a tremendous loss but remember to always focus on the happier, positive and upbeat moments you had with the person you lost, keep them in your heart and in your memories @helplessandhelpful1996, know that you will make it through this loss and come out feeling stronger and ready to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    “So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    “Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    “Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.”

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    Christmas is approaching, I’ve never ever celebrated it but I’ve always wanted to go all out with the tree, the awesome lights, the presents, mostly spending that family time together. Growing up, I never had that familial environment. I hope to Gove that to my son. This year has been hard due to me not working so, I’m hoping since I’m…[Read more]

    • Try to have a good Christmas and New Year @llunknownll filled with happiness, love and joy, surrounded by those you care about, stay positive and always optimistic, I’m sure the year 2024 will be successful and amazing for you, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about…[Read more]

    • Thank you I hope this year bring you a lot of great things too!

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    Today’s my last day of therapy (by choice) I feel like I need more time with it but at the same time I feel strong enough to go on alone. I’m excited and look forward to this new year that’s coming up. I’m just grateful that I’m alive and well enough to be the best that I can.

    • I’m so proud of you @llunknownll, I hope that the therapy you had was beneficial and will truly help you feel happier and better within yourself, remember to stay positive and go out into the world with your head held high and a sense of optimism, confidence and happiness, always be kind to yourself, keep going forward with brightness and never…[Read more]

    • Thank you!! I still have a lot of work today but one day at a time is the best way to go about it.

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    It feels so empty logging on. Seems like no one is here. Regardless, I will try to make this my safe space and share a bit here and there. Today wasn’t the greatest of days but I have to say that I am grateful for my son ans his happiness. I’m grateful that I will have a job again soon. I’m grateful that I got to be a SAHM for a long time. I’m…[Read more]

    • It has been quiet here on BT recently @llunknownll, hopefully one day this site will return to being an active place filled with users who support and help each other, it’s nice to see that you are grateful for your job and family, remember to always spend time with those people who make you happy and do the activities that bring you joy, try to…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your positivity and friendliness. I appreciate it. Yes, hopefully one day it’ll come back.

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    Back after so many years. I have come a long way and I hope to keep improving every day. Life is tough but it’s also a learning experience. I have learned that I am in control of most of my life, i just have to find ways and be patient. I’ll continue to work myself and be KIND to myself above anyone else<3

    • It’s great to have you back on BT @llunknownll, hope you are well and everything is going fantastically in your life, stay positive and keep being kind to yourself, make each day as wonderful as you can, keep smiling and make all your dreams come true, don’t let anything stand in the way of achieving your goals, keep moving forward with optimism…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much! That means a lot to me. It’s hard finding positivity in this world full of negativity but I know it’s out there. I too am here if you ever want to vent. I’m trying to be more open for myself and for others. I hope all is well with you too.

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    Flameaura posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    Not all in this world will be loved.

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    • Please don’t think like that @flameaura, you deserve to be loved, we all do Flameaura, please know you are a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves happiness and to feel appreciated, remember you do matter, don’t let negative thoughts get you down, surround yourself with hope, positivity and brightness, be kind to yourself and…[Read more]

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    Angel posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    Still aliiiiiive ~ (^3^)

    • I’m so glad you are still here @dizzydaydreamer333, it’s been pretty quiet here on BT, hope you are doing well Angel and everything is going OK in your life, remember to stay positive, be happy and focus on making each day as fantastic as you can and making all your goals come true, please know I’m always here for you, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    I am still alive, surprisingly. But man… I look back at my old posts from years ago and still find myself in the same shit. I’m such a loser if this has been going on nearly 10 years. Glad this site is still up though.

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    • I’m so glad you are still here @somelameperson, please don’t ever think negatively about yourself, you are such a fantastic, awesome and amazing person who will do fantastic things and make all your dreams come true, hold your head up high, be upbeat and keep going forward with optimism and confidence, you can do it, always believe in yourself…[Read more]

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    Katherine posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    Hope everyone is doing alright <3

    • I’m surviving @teamtennantgirl, hope you are doing OK and everything is going well in your life Katherine, remember to stay wonderful and always be the amazing, fantastic and lovely person that you are, keep smiling and remember you are incredible, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    AverageGuy posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    What’s going on with the site? It has been, more or less down for a week. Keeps going online/offline.

    • It’s been pretty quiet here @manassasralph, it’s good to see you back on BT, hope you are well and everything is going amazingly in your life, keep smiling and always be the awesome person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Excellent Listener posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    It’s been four-ish years since ’ve logged in, looking to help and possibly make connections

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    Hayden posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    I had to say goodbye to my best friend today. Our dog who has been in congestive heart failure was euthanized in the comfort of his home today. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make and although I keep feeling the waves of guilt and regret, I know that it was time. He left this earth peacefully, and I am left distraught at the…[Read more]

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    • I’m so sorry for your loss @devilndisguise, do remember all the happy moments you were able to spend with your much loved pet, my awesome friend Hayden, all the times you played together, went on walks together and spent time cuddling with each other, focus on all the good times you had with him Hayden, be strong buddy, you will make it through…[Read more]

    • I’m so sorry for your loss, truly. I know what it’s like, especially with a pet who was your legit best friend and savior on so many levels. It’s so hard to be a caring pet owner because we have to let them go much sooner than we wish. Having a heart sucks sometimes, but I know there’s peace of mind knowing he’s at peace, not suffering, and…[Read more]

    • Such a loss is heartbreaking, I’m really sorry Hayden. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through. Know that he lived his best life by your side, being truly loved and cared. And also as important, you were by his side giving him comfort when he needed you most. I know there’s very little than I can say to ease your pain, but if you need…[Read more]

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