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    BlackRabbit posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    I just want to be good enough for someone.

    Mood : Crushed
    • You matter to me @blackrabbit, you are worth it and you are good enough BlackRabbit, I love and care about you sweetie and want the best for you BlackRabbit, please be kind to yourself as you are absolutely beautiful, perfect and special in every way BlackRabbit, smile and don’t let bad thoughts get you down, shine brightly, hold your head up high…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 1 month ago

    “There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable love.”– Washington Irving

    Mood : Drained
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      I don’t want to see you feeling drained, sad and upset @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a wonderful, lovely and awesome person who deserves to feel happy, positive and upbeat, remember to smile and surround yourself with love, compassion and optimism, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    It’s official: my mother knows about the Bump.

    Mood : Stressed
    • I’m so sorry @kinkymomo, your mother really should support and be there for you, she has to support, listen and protect you from anyone who tries to hurt you Kinkymomo, please take care of yourself and stay safe, what happened to you was so wrong and you deserve to have good people on your side who will fight for you and always be here to help…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    Words to accurately describe me:
    Pathetic, reclusive, failure, sad, depressed, lost, lonely, stupid, hopeless, alone :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    Will you be my friend? :(

    Mood : Lonely
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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    “Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” “We were together even when we were apart.” “If you listen to the wind very carefully, you’ll be able to hear me whisper my love for you.” “Missing someone is a part of loving them “Missing someone is a part of loving them. If you’re never apart, you’ll never really know how strong your love is.”

    Mood : Sad
    • I’m so sorry you are missing someone who is special to you @helplessandhelpful1996, try to remember all the happy and wonderful times you spent with this person, all the good moments and memories you laughed, smiled and had fun together, I’m 100% sure that this person is missing you too, be strong, you will make it through this, try to keep…[Read more]

    • thanks my husband and I just got married this past December but hes american and I am Canadian and our borders are closed I miss him so much. I also miss my job and my friends

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    jporwave posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    funny how 8 or so years back i was doing it just because thats what all the emo kids were supposed to do, grew out of it really quick because i just hate pain n i didnt want to have to explain it if i got caught

    guess i picked the habit up again just because its what i did last time i felt this depressed and hopeless

    but

    it actually makes me…[Read more]

    • Please don’t harm yourself @shadrakor, you are such a fantastic, brilliant and amazing person who deserves to feel happy, positive and upbeat, we have all done bad or things we regret in life, don’t let the guilt haunt you, try to seek forgiveness and redemption where you can because you are truly a good human-being, remember to focus on making…[Read more]

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    jporwave posted an update 4 months ago

    found out today how bad my social anxiety has gotten again, had a conversation on twitter and it felt so awkward and stale and i had a breakdown about it- well im still having a breakdown about it but whatever

    barely even noticed it, since like august ive felt a lot more outgoing and confident, and it helped having a small circle of people i was…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      Please be kind to yourself @shadrakor, I know how you feel, I’m a shy person and find it difficult to approach, talk to and socialise with others, take time to build up your confidence and self esteem and know you will be able to have great friendships and relationships in your life, keep talking with your boyfriend and try reaching out to your…[Read more]

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    jporwave posted an update 4 months ago

    history repeats itself, it really does

    i remember what my ex said.. she told me to stop complimenting her and saying i loved her all the time because it ‘cheapened’ the phrase
    i meant it the same amount every time i said it but i guess she didnt feel that way

    my bf just asked me to stop complimenting him too…

    when i love someone i cant help…[Read more]

    Mood : Blah
    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an affectionate and loving person @shadrakor, your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend should both realize how lucky they are and were to have someone as sweet and kind as you in their lives, please don’t hate yourself, always be the wonderful and compassionate person that you are, keep spreading love and care…[Read more]

    • Listen hun, different people have their own love languages. It is possible these two people you were with are too insecure or just didn’t click with your form of affection. It’s fine. It has happened with me, where I was on both ends! This is not the end and someone someday will really appreciate and reciprocate the feelings and actions you take in love.

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 4 months ago

    Waiting for quarantine to end so i can see a doctor about the baby bump.

    Mood : Anxious
    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      Please do go and see a doctor when you can @kinkymomo, please try to tell them what happened to you Kinkymomo, I want you to be safe, protected and looked after Kinkymomo, please take care of yourself and know I’ll always be here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Kinkymomo, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Go as soon as you can, if you are going to go during this pandemic, please wear a mask and gloves in public! ♥

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 months ago

    My boyfriend works at a small grocery store. It’s one of those “small town” type of stores where everytime we go on there he’s greeted by pretty much everyone there.

    I’ve been in the store quite a few times, and my boyfriend has mentioned me and the fact that we have 2 kids together. So people KNOW of me.

    Well…everytime we go in there…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • I’m so sorry hun, that is tough. you have every right to feel the way you do. Hopefully by distracting yourself with music, hobbies & relaxation it can fade and you can feel comfortable. If it keeps bothering you though, confide in someone like a friend, relative or your boyfriend, they really should be considerate and acknowledge your valid feelings.

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      That’s not right at all @xxbaybayxx, they really should acknowledge you when you are together with your boyfriend, you are part of this relationship and you deserve to be treated with respect, I would talk to your boyfriend openly and honestly about everything, also let him know how uncomfortable you are when bumping into ex’s, your boyfriend…[Read more]

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    jporwave posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    still here
    not even sure ill ever have the guts to try…

    was gonna try to just starve myself ha ha but didnt even make the full 24 hours before it hurt too much
    maybe being stuck in this miserable limbo is my karma

    Mood : Afraid
    • Please don’t be afraid @shadrakor, you are such a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves to be here, please eat and take care of yourself, stay positive and be healthy, I want to see you doing well emotionally, mentally and physically, remember to hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives up, always believe…[Read more]

    • If you need to talk, I am here hun

    • you dont know anything about me really… if Im so amazing why do I lose everyone I care about? they dont just magically make the choice, and its happened too much for it to just be some freak accident- I *push* them away because Im not a good person

      Im nice at best but even an asshole can be nice if it gets him what he wants

      Ive never…[Read more]

    • I appreciate that, both of you, but I know I probably wont take advantage of the offers

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    The bump is definitely showing now…

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Please don’t feel ashamed @kinkymomo, what happened to you is so wrong and you shouldn’t feel at fault Kinkymomo, your abuser is the one who is guilty, not you, I know having a baby after the traumatic events that happened is difficult, but I’m sure you will make the correct decisions and choices going forward, remember you are so brave,…[Read more]

    • Here for you hun. You can confide in me all you want, never hesitate to message me. You are strong and worthy of love.

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    The Listener posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Hey guys, I’m on!

    Mood : Calm
    • It’s great to see you here on BT @aidenbok, thank you for helping others and being the kind person that you are, hope you are OK and things are going great for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, the pain will never end for me, I just want to die, everything is so hopeless :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Alex posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Hey guys. As of 2020, there is still a group chat about Blah Therapy on Kik. Search up #blahtherapy on Kik or hmu @yeahhitsalexx

    • Thank you for letting the BT community know about the group chat @alexxx, hope you are OK and things are going well in your life, remember to smile and keep being awesome Alex, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    marleyman009 posted an update 5 months ago

    Well as it turns out, you can spend your entire career helping others and still feel like ”calling it a day”. I just left my career of 10 years due to a new diagnosis of severe anxiety/panic attacks/PTSD…my employer fired me…COVID has been my demise…love you all

    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Please don’t give up @marleyman009, you are such a strong, wonderful and amazing person who will make it through this difficult time, don’t let the virus, sadness or anything bad get you down, your employer had no right to fire you, they should have supported you and helped you, stay focused on your happiness and making each day as fantastic as…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 5 months ago

    Guess who had a baby last friday? Me. Guess who has postpartum depression? Also me.
    Can’t catch a break it seems.

    • I’ve worked with many clients that suffered with this…just try to start each day counting what is positive in your life, including your precious baby! Life is a gift. Stay strong.

    • I’ve worked with many clients that suffered with this…just try to start each day counting what is positive in your life, including your precious baby! Life is a gift. Stay strong.

    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful bundle of joy @xxbaybayxx, please don’t give up, remember to reach out for help and support when you need it Oliver, you will overcome postpartum depression and things will get better, stay focused on making each day bright and loving your child, you are a survivor Oliver, keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    Super Woman posted an update in the group Group logoMusic 5 months ago

    What music is everyone here listening to nowadays?
    I’ve been listening to a lot of K-pop lately.

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 5 months ago

    Quarantine has been extended through May 22…

    Mood : Grumpy
    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      We are still under quarantine here too in the UK @kinkymomo, I know it is frustrating, boring and lonely, but try to stay positive and fill with time with happiness and positivity, you are such a wonderful person who is so brave, courageous and strong, please take care of yourself and stay safe Kinkymomo, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need…[Read more]

    • @kinkymomo Stay safe! What are you doing to cope?

    • I don’t want to discuss much in public…

    • @kinkymomo That’s alright. We may chat privately if that’s what you prefer. Feel free to message me anytime.

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