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    jporwave posted an update 5 days, 8 hours ago

    found out today how bad my social anxiety has gotten again, had a conversation on twitter and it felt so awkward and stale and i had a breakdown about it- well im still having a breakdown about it but whatever

    barely even noticed it, since like august ive felt a lot more outgoing and confident, and it helped having a small circle of people i was…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • Please be kind to yourself @shadrakor, I know how you feel, I’m a shy person and find it difficult to approach, talk to and socialise with others, take time to build up your confidence and self esteem and know you will be able to have great friendships and relationships in your life, keep talking with your boyfriend and try reaching out to your…[Read more]

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    jporwave posted an update 1 week ago

    history repeats itself, it really does

    i remember what my ex said.. she told me to stop complimenting her and saying i loved her all the time because it ‘cheapened’ the phrase
    i meant it the same amount every time i said it but i guess she didnt feel that way

    my bf just asked me to stop complimenting him too…

    when i love someone i cant help…[Read more]

    Mood : Blah
    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an affectionate and loving person @shadrakor, your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend should both realize how lucky they are and were to have someone as sweet and kind as you in their lives, please don’t hate yourself, always be the wonderful and compassionate person that you are, keep spreading love and care…[Read more]

    • Listen hun, different people have their own love languages. It is possible these two people you were with are too insecure or just didn’t click with your form of affection. It’s fine. It has happened with me, where I was on both ends! This is not the end and someone someday will really appreciate and reciprocate the feelings and actions you take in love.

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 1 week ago

    Waiting for quarantine to end so i can see a doctor about the baby bump.

    Mood : Anxious
    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Please do go and see a doctor when you can @kinkymomo, please try to tell them what happened to you Kinkymomo, I want you to be safe, protected and looked after Kinkymomo, please take care of yourself and know I’ll always be here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Kinkymomo, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Go as soon as you can, if you are going to go during this pandemic, please wear a mask and gloves in public! ♥

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    My boyfriend works at a small grocery store. It’s one of those “small town” type of stores where everytime we go on there he’s greeted by pretty much everyone there.

    I’ve been in the store quite a few times, and my boyfriend has mentioned me and the fact that we have 2 kids together. So people KNOW of me.

    Well…everytime we go in there…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • I’m so sorry hun, that is tough. you have every right to feel the way you do. Hopefully by distracting yourself with music, hobbies & relaxation it can fade and you can feel comfortable. If it keeps bothering you though, confide in someone like a friend, relative or your boyfriend, they really should be considerate and acknowledge your valid feelings.

    • That’s not right at all @xxbaybayxx, they really should acknowledge you when you are together with your boyfriend, you are part of this relationship and you deserve to be treated with respect, I would talk to your boyfriend openly and honestly about everything, also let him know how uncomfortable you are when bumping into ex’s, your boyfriend…[Read more]

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    jporwave posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    still here
    not even sure ill ever have the guts to try…

    was gonna try to just starve myself ha ha but didnt even make the full 24 hours before it hurt too much
    maybe being stuck in this miserable limbo is my karma

    Mood : Afraid
    • Please don’t be afraid @shadrakor, you are such a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves to be here, please eat and take care of yourself, stay positive and be healthy, I want to see you doing well emotionally, mentally and physically, remember to hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives up, always believe…[Read more]

    • If you need to talk, I am here hun

    • you dont know anything about me really… if Im so amazing why do I lose everyone I care about? they dont just magically make the choice, and its happened too much for it to just be some freak accident- I *push* them away because Im not a good person

      Im nice at best but even an asshole can be nice if it gets him what he wants

      Ive never…[Read more]

    • I appreciate that, both of you, but I know I probably wont take advantage of the offers

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    The bump is definitely showing now…

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Please don’t feel ashamed @kinkymomo, what happened to you is so wrong and you shouldn’t feel at fault Kinkymomo, your abuser is the one who is guilty, not you, I know having a baby after the traumatic events that happened is difficult, but I’m sure you will make the correct decisions and choices going forward, remember you are so brave,…[Read more]

    • Here for you hun. You can confide in me all you want, never hesitate to message me. You are strong and worthy of love.

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    The Listener posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    Hey guys, I’m on!

    Mood : Calm
    • It’s great to see you here on BT @aidenbok, thank you for helping others and being the kind person that you are, hope you are OK and things are going great for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted an update 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, the pain will never end for me, I just want to die, everything is so hopeless :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Alex posted an update 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    Hey guys. As of 2020, there is still a group chat about Blah Therapy on Kik. Search up #blahtherapy on Kik or hmu @yeahhitsalexx

    • Thank you for letting the BT community know about the group chat @alexxx, hope you are OK and things are going well in your life, remember to smile and keep being awesome Alex, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    marleyman009 posted an update 1 month ago

    Well as it turns out, you can spend your entire career helping others and still feel like ”calling it a day”. I just left my career of 10 years due to a new diagnosis of severe anxiety/panic attacks/PTSD…my employer fired me…COVID has been my demise…love you all

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t give up @marleyman009, you are such a strong, wonderful and amazing person who will make it through this difficult time, don’t let the virus, sadness or anything bad get you down, your employer had no right to fire you, they should have supported you and helped you, stay focused on your happiness and making each day as fantastic as…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 month ago

    Guess who had a baby last friday? Me. Guess who has postpartum depression? Also me.
    Can’t catch a break it seems.

    • I’ve worked with many clients that suffered with this…just try to start each day counting what is positive in your life, including your precious baby! Life is a gift. Stay strong.

    • I’ve worked with many clients that suffered with this…just try to start each day counting what is positive in your life, including your precious baby! Life is a gift. Stay strong.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful bundle of joy @xxbaybayxx, please don’t give up, remember to reach out for help and support when you need it Oliver, you will overcome postpartum depression and things will get better, stay focused on making each day bright and loving your child, you are a survivor Oliver, keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    Super Woman posted an update in the group Group logoMusic 1 month, 1 week ago

    What music is everyone here listening to nowadays?
    I’ve been listening to a lot of K-pop lately.

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Quarantine has been extended through May 22…

    Mood : Grumpy
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    KinkyMomo posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    My mom gave me a black eye… it could have been worse.

    Mood : Exhausted
    • That’s not right at all @kinkymomo, your mother has absolutely no right to attack you, she should believe, support, love and be there for you Kinkymomo, you deserve so much better because what you have been through is not your fault, your mother should protect you from your abuser, not blame you Kinkymomo, please try to find a place where you…[Read more]

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    Krishna Pramod posted an update 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    Do not just slay your demons; dissect them and find what they’ve been feeding on.

    • We should all focus on not letting our demons and struggles break us @krishna-pramod, we should try to make each day positive and focus on overcoming dark moments so we can feel stronger and happier, thank you for always being the wise and insightful person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

    • So true Krishna.

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    KinkyMomo posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    How do I know if I got roofied?

    Mood : Worried
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    Hangry posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    blahtherapy is not the same as it was. the ppl in vent/listen chat r really fucked up ppl. i am a regular listener who really likes helping now all my chats r horny guys looking 4 sex chat and some really rude venters who come in here just 2 swear.even the listeners 2.one of the listeners called me a fucking RETARD. this was such a gr8 help…[Read more]

    Mood : Disappointed
    • I’m so sorry that happened to you @hangry, I know how you feel, BT used to be such a loving, kind and compassionate community, it still is but has now been taken over by bots, trolls, perverts and spammers, it’s so sad, annoying and frustrating to see, hopefully one day BT will return to being a place where people feel supported and listened too,…[Read more]

    • Hey hun, I am so sorry. That is beyond awful. Hopefully things can get better for this site. It’s getting bad, but I have hope because the members here are loving & ambitious towards keeping BT amazing. I am here for you if you ever need to talk, feel free to message me,

    • thnx Oli 4 ur support

    • thnx Cecelia

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    msvalentine0214 posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    Well it’s definitely been quite sometime since Ive posted on here!!
    Certainly not feeling myself today,, Im feeling so so overwhelmed it’s not even funny! I really feel like Im literally about to explode!!

    Mood : Anxious
    • I don’t want to see you feeling upset or overwhelmed @msvalentine0214, take deep breathes and try to relax as best you can, stay upbeat and focus on surrounding yourself with happiness, love and positivity, find ways to calm yourself and put your mind at ease, everything will be OK, remember to keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel…[Read more]

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    Bailee003 posted an update 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    My neighbour knocked on my door and caught me dancing to a heavy metal song

    Mood : Embarrassed
    • Please don’t be embarrassed @bailee003, it’s great to dance, it shows you are a free spirit, someone awesome with a sense of fun, happiness and positivity, keep doing it if it makes you feel wonderful, hope you are OK and things are going well in your life, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat about anything, stay strong, you…[Read more]

    • Hi Olly, thanks so much, I’m sure my neighbour had a good laugh

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    Hayden posted an update 3 months ago

    It’s been awhile, but I wanted to check in. Doesn’t seem that much has changed around here, which comes as a major disappointment, but not necessarily a shock.

    Anyway, I think I need to vent. It doesn’t really matter if anyone sees this or even reads it, I just need an outlet. BT has always been there for me, above all else and through all of…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Please don’t harm or kill yourself @devilndisguise, you are so lovely, amazing, incredible and special to me and the entire BT community Hayden, so many people care about and love you Hayden, you are a much valued and appreciated member of BT Hayden, things will get better for you, my brave and courageous friend Hayden, don’t let the dark…[Read more]

    • don’t ‘hope’ for it. make it happen. of course it’s a hell of a journey so i’m by no means downplaying the difficulty of it but quite simply – figure out where you are in life. your limitations, your strengths, etc. then figure out where you want to be. make a plan to go from where you are to where you want to be and follow it consistently.…[Read more]

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