Please don’t let your struggles get you down @985921sqh, you are a fabulous, special and amazing person who deserves all the love, happiness and joy in the world, things will work out for you and everything will be OK, stay positive and know you will make all your dreams come true, you are a survivor, hold your head up high and keep going…[Read more]

I’ve just been super depressed recently.

I’m so sorry that is happening to you on the chat @bouquet-of-garnets, this is supposed to be a compassionate and supportive community where we all help other each, I would report any trolls, harassment and those who use the chat for sex, something has to be done to clean up parts of BT so this can once again become a place of love, respect and…[Read more]

You are not alone, I can not connect to the chat either.

Good to know. I hope this gets fixed because I have some stuff I really gotta get advice on.

Hope the chat gets fixed so we can all continue supporting and being there for others @985921sqh, please don’t feel alone Echo, everyone on BT is here for you, you truly deserve to feel happy and wonderful, things will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

Try to find ways to help yourself relax so you can get a good rest and sleep @hello187, listen to calm sounds, drink something like hot chocolate, hope those techniques help, look after yourself, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

It is important to try and get as much sleep as you can that is healthy. Hope you got some good rest and can spend your days being comfortable and awake.

Try to spend any free time you’ve got resting and sleeping. Sometimes our lifes are so busy that we can’t even meet our most basic needs, but we must try to keep ourselves healthy. I hope you can have some good rest soon, @hello187, you really deserve it!

You’re not being annoying at all. You’re doing your best efforts to help those who get into the chat to know before hand which users are trolls and which ones are seeking for help. Thank you so much for your hard work! Keep being such a kind and helpful person!

Thanks for warning the community about trolls who are causing issues on the chat @bouquet-of-garnets, this is supposed to be a compassionate and supportive place where we all help each other, glad you are here to keep the BT community safe, respectful and peaceful M, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

Everyone deserves to live in a place where they feel happy, safe and loved @smilegone, you do too, please stay positive and know you belong on here, the BT community is here for you, we are an online community where you can feel appreciated and valued, you are such an incredible, beautiful and wonderful person who truly deserves all the best out…[Read more]

Here if you need to vent. You deserve comfort and happiness. Wishing you a good rest of the week.

Not feeling safe in your own home it’s very distressing and draining. I hope that situation can be solved as soons as possible, you don’t deserve to feel like that. If you need to talk or vent, don’t doubt to DM me. Stay strong!

I don’t want to see you feeling stressed or upset @fancifranci, you are a fabulous, special and amazing person who deserves to be truly happy and lead a successful life, focus on all the things that bring you hope and surround yourself with positivity, you will make it through this Franci because you are so courageous and brave, believe in…[Read more]

You’ll always have a place here in BT, Franci. Whenever you need help, advice, or someone to listen to your worries. I hope whatever made you come back here it’s out of your life as soon as possible. Meanwhile, you’ll have all our support. Feel free to send me a DM if you need it. Stay strong! You can do it!

Their actual ID is Integrated Diner

I haven’t encountered anything like that on the chat yet @bouquet-of-garnets, I would either report it to the admin or try to get as much information from the venter as you can, try to work out if they are legitimate or just a troll, thanks for keeping the BT community safe, you are a star M, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

2017!? That’s quite a long time, for sure. As Oli said, if you are already ascertain that this person is a troll, try to report it to the admins. Thank you for keeping this a safe community, @bouquet-of-garnets!

Please don’t feel lonely @chplikescats, you are amongst friends in the BT community Christina, you have joined a compassionate, supportive and kind community where we all help and be there for each other, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything Christina, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

I’m sorry to read you’re feeling lonely, Christina. You’ll find a lot of amazing people here in BT, so don’t ever doubt to send a message if you need it! My inbox is open . I hope you had a nice day!

I would talk to your husband about how you feel @kidzo3, he really should appreciate that you arranged to have a nice dinner and hotel booked for his birthday, it is the thought and effort that truly counts on a special occasion like a birthday, explain to him how hurt you are and that you just want to do something lovely for him, hope everything…[Read more]

Thanks. I did talk to him, several times, he doesn’t get it. He didn’t want a ”real” gift, so I thought this would be nice.. It feels like he doesn’t want to spend time with me, and I told him so. He just thinks I’m crazy.

I’m sorry to hear that, @kidzo3. Despite he’s already tollen you what he thinks, try to explain him again. He might have done it without even noticing (f.e. he didn’t want anything at all, and his response to you ginving him a present anyway its rejecting it). Your feelings are valid, and he needs to know that he hurt them and that he has to…[Read more]

We all deserve to be around caring, loving, kind and supportive people @self-caring-grape, you do too, always surround yourself with those who bring you empathy and compassion, keep being the incredible, inspirational and awesome person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

I couldn’t agree more with you, @self-caring-grape! Our loved ones have the power to spark a bright light when we find ourselves into the darkness.

You are truly helping people by being there for them, being a good person who listens and offers wise, compassionate, inspiring and insightful guidance and advice @self-caring-grape, you are so loving, wonderful and amazing, keep spreading love and kindness as much as you can, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

When helping someone, it’s natural to worry about if we are really helping them or just making it worse. That means that we do care about that person, and we truly want them to be happy. I’m sure you’re doing your best efforts to help everybody, @self-caring-grape, so never doubt about yourself. You’re there for all of us, offering advice and…[Read more]