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    Fading Echo posted an update 14 hours, 33 minutes ago

    I wear a mask that says that I’m okay. It smiles for me, laughs at the right times, tells jokes, makes faces. Pretends to be fine. I’ve worn it for so long that I forget how to take it off. I don’t know what I wold find if I did. A shattered girl, a lost girl a girl whose heart and spirit have broken too many times to mend correctly, a girl…[Read more]

    Mood : Listless
    • Do get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out in a good way @985921sqh, it’s OK to let down your mask Echo, so many people will be here to support, love and care about you, I will and so will the BT community, we all want the best for you Echo, you are such a special person who deserves true happiness and love in life, surround yourself with…[Read more]

    • @985921sqh/

      It’s a difficult process to retrain your brain to allow you to show your own true emotions to yourself. It can take a long time, but as long as you keep working toward that goal, you’ll succeed.
      I know it gets confusing, but don’t give up trying. :) The negative that’s buried below is not you, it’s just a part of you that you need…[Read more]

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    $teve posted an update 14 hours, 53 minutes ago

    Death, something you have to acknowledge and deal with. You can’t reverse it, nor can you undo it. That’s why no matter what you are going through, you should never think about death since you can’t undue it (Unless there is a miracle, which isn’t the case for many people). Living life for all we know is hard as hell if we don’t do it the right…[Read more]

    Mood : Awake
    • It’s great to see you inspiring people with hope and telling others to focus on all the good things in life @anxietyattack66, we will always be here to support and care about you Steve, have a fantastic day and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @anxietyattack66

      We’ll always be here for you, Steve! :)

      I agree with your belief. We must never let go of the hope that things will be okay someday, no matter how difficult a situation we are in, in the meantime.
      That exact hope is a little light that I held onto for years, and even in the worst of times when death was nearly staring me…[Read more]

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    Robert Miranda posted an update 20 hours, 15 minutes ago

    “Happiness is a warm puppy.”
    ― Charles M. Schulz

    • We all deserve true happiness in our lives @gorchanstruck, you do too, and puppies are so cute hehe, hope you are having a wonderful day, keep inspiring this community with quotes that truly help others see brightness and hope, always be the sweet and kind person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Ashley posted an update 23 hours, 18 minutes ago

    I’m just not sure about some sort of stuff. I just wanna know if u have out grown ADHD or i just have the symptoms decreased and i still got the disorder

    Mood : Confused
    • I would talk to a professional about any diagnosis or symptoms of ADHD @kittycat99, the best thing to do is get yourself seen by a mental health doctor or education psychologist, hopefully they will have all the answers you are looking for Ashley, do have a great day and keep being awesome, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • I used to go to a psychiatrist but not anymore. I can’t go now or anytime sooner or later due to financial conditions. That’s the reason i have been searching at least for some online answers but i couldn’t find any. Thank you for your kindness and for your offer

    • I used to have ADD but as time went on I slowly outgrew it by just sitting down and reading a lot with my whole mind focused on letting my imagination do it’s thing. I still do have nervous ticks like tapping my leg, bit of anxiety like shaking, and just staring off into space thinking but yeah you don’t 100% get out of it @Ashley you just get…[Read more]

    • @Robert i understand and you’re correct. I still have habits but some of my symptoms has decreased

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    mariko posted an update 1 day ago

    Struggling with alot of back pain. My parents believe it’s either a problem in my spine or kidneys. Tomorrow going to the doctor.
    So scared :(

    • Doctor check ups can be terrifying, especially because of the uncertainty of the diagnose. Try to do some relaxing activities before your appointment, Mariko: listening to music, take a stroll, drink something warm… And remember that they are there to make you feel comfortable, ease your pain, and help you as much as they can. I’m sure your…[Read more]

    • I don’t want to see you feeling unwell or in pain @marikofujimoto, you will make it through this, beautiful angel Mariko, please don’t be scared or afraid, you are so strong, brave and courageous, remember to always stay healthy physically, mentally and emotionally, take care of yourself sweetie, you will be OK Mariko, please know that I’ll…[Read more]

    • Good luck Mariko, I hope everything is OK and its nothing serious. Hoping the pain will go away too. Don’t be too scared, I’m sure it’ll be alright and it’ll be solved if there is a minor issue. ♥♥

    • @marikofujimoto

      I know it’s been about a day since you posted this, but I hope the visit goes/went well. :( Hopefully you’ll be relieved of your pain and it isn’t too serious.

      Best of luck.

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    $teve posted an update 1 day, 2 hours ago

    https://youtu.be/4v5hXZdbUj8

    Mood : Rejuvenated
    • Oli replied 1 day ago

      It’s great to see you positive and rejuvenated @anxietyattack66, keep smiling, stay awesome and have a great day Steve, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Yeah, it’s great to be back. Thank you for being my friend and always being here for me. I needed that time off for family greetings, and for the things I love to do, but I missed being on here at the same time since I get to be connected with all of you guys.

    • So long since I’ve seen something JackSepticEye related! It’s so nice to see you are feeling good, Steve. I hope your week started great, and that you are enjoying the day. Stay strong, and remember that we are here for you :)

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    Jiminie posted an update 1 day, 7 hours ago

    Thing number 2 that is bothering me: My weight. I am a pretty small guy, 5’1 to be exact and I weigh about 165 lbs which I know isn’t a horrible weight, but on me it just looks awful, I have a friend who is a bit taller and weighs the same, but they are a twig, I am not, it is clear when you look at me, I look overweight. I hate it, genetics was…[Read more]

    Mood : Crappy
    • Please don’t feel bad about yourself @butterscotchchim, do love and embrace every part of yourself, be kind to yourself and your body, stay healthy, eat well and remember to smile when you look in the mirror and see the reflection of the amazing person you see staring back at you, we are all beautiful, perfect and amazing inside and out, you are…[Read more]

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    Robert Miranda posted an update 1 day, 19 hours ago

    ”Isn’t it funny we think nothing we do will have any lasting impact, but whenever we entertain the idea of traveling back in time we stress that even the smallest action would have grand consequences?” -Unknown

    • We should all try to leave a positive impact and good impression when we can @gorchanstruck, if we make others smile through our actions, words and deeds than we can have something lovely to look back on and smile as we did our best to better the world, always be the kind, compassion and sweet person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

    • You made a fantastic point just there. We usually think our actions won’t have an impact on others, because they are so small or meaningless. But even a simple smile can brighten a stranger’s day when they’re feeling sad. A simple “hello” can make someone feel less alone. A simple “you look beautiful” can boost someone’s self esteem. No…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 1 day, 22 hours ago

    “What’s a girl to do when she’s not strong
    When everyone that holds my hand
    Gets cut from all the thorns
    I used to put my ear against the wall
    To hear the screams, to hear the fall
    More reasons to escape it all
    And it’s not the answer but I can’t carry on
    I give my best smile, my last dime
    But I’m always getting wrong
    It’s not ’cause I’m…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Wow, that’s powerful in my mind. Don’t ever think about giving up, you literally try to help your friends when they are in a bad position. Stay strong, don’t think your weak, and don’t think that escaping is the answer, since that’s never the answer. I know that those aren’t your word, but you chose those words because that’s how you relate…[Read more]

    • You are so strong, brave, courageous and incredible @985921sqh, please don’t let your struggles get you down Echo, you overcome all the dark moments and so many more brighter days will be ahead, remember to hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives up, stay upbeat, always believe in yourself and keep smiling, you will…[Read more]

    • You might feel like you can’t keep going on, Echo. But when these times come, when you feel like the struggle it’s taking the best of you, you can count on us to help you. You’ve done so much for everyone on BT, helping, listening and giving advice. You will make it through, and we’ll be here with you to help. You can do it, believe in yourself!

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    Panda posted an update 2 days, 13 hours ago

    Does anyone else think about how you are 1 of 7 billion+ human beings… And you feel like nobody understands or gets you.

    Mood : Lonely
    • Please don’t feel lonely and alone @partypanda, please know you are amongst friends in the BT community, do surround yourself with things and people who are kind, compassionate and loving, everyone deserves to be understood, to have their thoughts, feelings and emotions heard, you do too, I may not know you personally but I’ll always be here to…[Read more]

    • @partypanda

      Firstly, welcome to Blahtherapy. :)

      Secondly, regarding your post, I can understand how you may feel alone, being one of so very many people in such a big world. But a different way to look at it is that with so many people, someone out there is bound to understand you. There’s someone out there for everyone.

      In the meantime,…[Read more]

    • all the the time but then i play some Rihanna and i feel like the only girl in the world

    • all the the time but then i play some Rihanna and i feel like the only girl in the world

    • all the the time but then i play some Rihanna and i feel like the only girl in the world

    • The feeling you described in your post it’s so relatable. Despite benig so many in this world of ours, we can feel very lonely and misunderstood. But then again, we are so many, and among these large number of people there would be at least one person who will understand you. We are all here for you @partypanda, to help you and listen to you when…[Read more]

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    Panda posted an update 2 days, 13 hours ago

    To be honest.. Everything and nothing.

    Mood : Alone
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    Creeker posted an update 2 days, 16 hours ago

    I feel like I need a moment of silence in all this chaos

    • It’s OK to be silent, reflective and quiet especially when life can get so hectic, busy and stressful @creeker, do take some time to relax, rest and get away from all the stresses of daily life Creeker, find activities to do that will calm your mind and put you at ease, remember to surround yourself with all the things that make you feel good and…[Read more]

    • Silence is capable of bringing peace and stillness when we most need them. Do take time for yourself, @creeker. And remember that we are here for you, you are not alone. If you need to talk about anything or vent, my inbox is open.

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    Mel posted an update 2 days, 19 hours ago

    I don’t hate them. I’m just jealous. I’m jealous of them. They stole my only will to live. I want them back. We barely talk. It hurts so much. I don’t want to feel this way anymore.

    Mood : Jealous
    • I would try to talk to them calmly, honestly and openly @caramel4, let them know that you want to get things back on the right track so you can be close again, hope everything works out, do surround yourself with good things, wonderful people and smiles, you can do it, everything will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    Myshiro posted an update 3 days ago

    To the 20 + listeners right now thanks so much you are doing gods work being there but ensure
    you are putting the listener first and letting them vent they should be doing most of the talking
    and u adding advice where asked, aside from this keep it up :D

    Mood : Amazed
    • You are so correct @myshiro, this community is filled with the most compassionate, kind and wonderful members who are here to help, support and be there for others, BT is truly a place where anyone can feel comfortable and have their thoughts, feelings and emotions heard in a supportive place, hope you are OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat…[Read more]

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    Hayden answered question “How do I get over people abandoning me in depression.3 days, 11 hours ago

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    Mel posted an update 3 days, 12 hours ago

    I feel like my friends are upset and I don’t know what to do. I want them to be happy but, all I can do is listen. I’m not good at comforting people and that makes me feel useless.

    Mood : Sad
    • Please don’t feel like that @caramel4, you are not useless Mel, always be the compassionate, sweet and kind friend that you are, offer your friends a shoulder to cry on, let them know that you will always be there for them, if your friends ever need someone to talk too, let them know that you are there to listen, support and give them advice, you…[Read more]

    • @caramel4

      Sometimes having someone there to listen is all a person needs. You don’t necessarily have to give each and every one of them advice on the matter.
      By simply being there, you’re already doing the best that you can do. You’re a good friend for at least offering them that much.

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    Robert Miranda posted an update 3 days, 14 hours ago

    “I’ve spent most of my life and most of my friendships holding my breath and hoping that when people get close enough they won’t leave, and fearing that it’s a matter of time before they figure me out and go.”
    ― Shauna Niequist

    • Everyone deserves good friends around them who will always stick by them @gorchanstruck, anyone who leaves or abandons someone isn’t a true friend, do surround yourself with loving friends who will always support you, you are such a kind and wonderful soul who inspires so many people with your quotes and wise advice, please know you are amongst…[Read more]

    • Wow…

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    BirdRed posted an update 4 days, 20 hours ago

    I tried talking online,
    I tried breaking my spine,
    I tried eating like a swine,
    I tried waiting for a sign,
    I just want you to be mine.

    I tried finding a girl,
    I tried jumping in life’s swirl,
    I jump further the more I sink,
    I feel scared but don’t even blink,
    I like milky skin, with accents of pink,
    I tried connecting but can’t find a…[Read more]

    • Everyone deserves to feel loved, appreciated, valued and supported, you do too @birdred, please know so many people care about you and want the best for you, the BT community will always be here for you and so am I, keep using poetry to express yourself and get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out, remember to always be the awesome person that…[Read more]

    • @birdred

      This is truly beautiful. There’s clearly a lot of passion in the words you’ve sewn together, spoken directly from the heart.

      Whether there is truth behind these words; this poem born from within your emotions, or if you just thought it up, it’s brilliant and I hope everything is alright with you.

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    Fading Echo posted an update 4 days, 21 hours ago

    This website is a place where I can be myself. I don’t have to pretend to get better, I don’t have to worry about you guys abandoning me because I’m not improving, I don’t have to be a broken record stuck on the “I’m fine” bit. Here, I can just be myself: depressed and trying unsuccessfully to fix it. No one here cares that I’m not getting…[Read more]

    Mood : Accepted
    • The BT community will always be here to help, support, love and comfort you @985921sqh, we all care about you Echo and want the best for you, I’m so proud of you because you are here despite the struggles you go through each day, it shows how truly brave, strong and courageous you are Echo, please know no matter what life throws at you, you will…[Read more]

    • It’s fantastic that you feel that way about BT, Echo! Finding people who make you feel accepted and loved it’s one of the best things this life has. Thank you for being here for us, for accepting us, listening to our struggles, and helping with wise words. You deserve to be happy and feel accepted ❤

    • @985921sqh

      That’s one of the many amazing qualities that I’ve always loved Blahtherapy for. Everyone cares about what you’re going through and they’ll always have the patience to help you through it.
      And no one complains that you may still not be in a great place in the near-future.

      Life’s struggles is something we all seem to have in…[Read more]

    • I know this is a late reply, but I just want to say your welcome. I want to help the best I can with people who are suffering like us, and I need to take care of myself more also, because I usually help others more than I help myself. Everyone who’s a friend of yours online and in person will always be by your side trying to support you in any…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update in the group Group logoVent It! 5 days, 9 hours ago

    Tonight has not been well.

    I wish I didn’t have such lousy self-esteem. :/

    Mood : Sad
    • Please don’t feel sad @devilndisguise, you are such a beautiful, lovely and kind person who deserves to feel confident, happy and wonderful, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you truly smiling, please see yourself as we all do on BT, as a compassionate, sweet and angelic person who makes the world a better place Hayden, hold your head up…[Read more]

    • @oliver

      I will forever appreciate your positive and reassuring responses to my posts. You always manage to bring a smile to my face, even if just a small, simple one. Thanks for being so awesome, Oli. You’re a great buddy.

    • I’m sorry to read you had a tough night, Hayden. You can get through what made you feel that way, you’re a brave fighter who does not give up and it’s always here for us. Believe in yourself, you can do it! If you need to talk about anything or vent, my inbox is open ♥

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