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    captain_rusty posted an update 14 hours, 13 minutes ago

    god it hurts to hope… :/ i hate human nature sometimes. i’ll give you this, stephen king was right when he said hope springs infernal

    Mood : Depressed
    • Please don’t let depression and sadness get you down @thecaptainrusticle, great things will happen to you and you will make all your dreams come true, you are such a fantastic person who truly deserves all the love, happiness and joy that life has to offer, focus on getting yourself to a good place mentally, emotionally and physically, hold your…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 17 hours, 5 minutes ago

    I’m back. After a VERY long break. Sorry about that; I was grounded (for reasons I mentioned in one of my recent updates). Anyway… I’ve returned. I’m not ungrounded, but I finally managed to hack my dad’s firewall, so here I am. Hello. It’s been very lonely without you guys here for me.

    What’s been happening basically is that my parents…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Your parents really should listen, help and be there for you @985921sqh, I would talk to them about your medication, if you feel the medication truly benefits and helps you, let your parents know that you want to continue using it, you will make it through all the difficult times and so many brighter days lie ahead for you awesome Echo, please…[Read more]

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    captain_rusty posted an update 1 day, 10 hours ago

    yooo today started pretty rough, left my pencil case on the damn bus, but my crush talked to me all. dayyyy!! we even walked between classes together for a little, it was amazingggg! we did kahoot in history, i still suck but yknow it’s fun lol. he kept playing with his hair and making it stand straight up and humming the dragon ball z supersaiyan music

    Mood : Ecstatic
    • Awww that’s so sweet, cute and adorable @thecaptainrusticle, keep building up a friendship and close bond with him and see where things go, hopefully he feels the same way about you, stay positive and keep going forward with positivity and a bright smile, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    $teve posted an update 2 days, 5 hours ago

    A week ago, I got my MacBook fortunately and the part that really relieved me was that everything on it was saved, nothing deleted and pretty much anything that I thought was deleted was still safe on my home screen (although, I may need to delete some stuff on my home screen since it looks clustered with so many things, Almost all of it coming…[Read more]

    Mood : Discontent
    • Please be kind to yourself @anxietyattack66, do love and embrace every part of yourself Steve, smile when you look in the mirror and see the reflection of the fantastic person you see staring back at you, hope you are able to continue going to the same school Steve, I would talk to your father about it and see what happens, it really should be…[Read more]

    • You seem to be looking at this in a relatively positive way. I’d think nothing of some of those things bothering you. Of course, in the wrong light, we’d all look unattractive to ourselves. (Usually, as they say, we’re not our own “type”.) Nobody’s perfect, yourself included, so understanding that is something everybody must do to accept…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 14 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Been a few weeks from hell. I don’t know how much longer I can take all of this. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling upset, depressed or sad @devilndisguise, my beautiful friend Hayden deserves to feel truly happy and positive because he is so special, lovely and amazing to me and all of us here on BT, I want to see you smiling Hayden, your friendship and support means so much to me Hayden, you will win all your battles because…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 3 days, 14 hours ago

    Been a few weeks from hell. I don’t know how much longer I can take all of this.

    Mood : Dark
    • I don’t want to see you feeling upset, depressed or sad @devilndisguise, my beautiful friend Hayden deserves to feel truly happy and positive because he is so special, lovely and amazing to me and all of us here on BT, I want to see you smiling Hayden, your friendship and support means so much to me Hayden, you will win all your battles because…[Read more]

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    Zero posted an update 3 days, 16 hours ago

    Today I’m wearing a binder because my dysphoria is really bad. My parents won’t let me cut my hair short so that doesn’t help. My mother saw all my scars from me cutting and she said ”If you really want to cut that bad, get over here and I’ll show you how to do it the right way” I don’t know what to do anymore.

    Mood : Apathetic
    • Your mother has no right to say what she said to you @zerohappythoughts, you deserve so much better Zero, please be kind to yourself and know you are truly beautiful, incredible and amazing inside and out, love and embrace every part of yourself, smile when you look in the mirror and see the reflection of the fabulous person staring back at you,…[Read more]

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    Labs4life posted an update 3 days, 16 hours ago

    I’m really struggling to be a good mum and wife. I feel my marriage is nearly at the end and I feel like a single mum.

    Mood : Anxious
    • There are many points before it gets that bad. If there were anything you were doing wrong, there’s still time to fix it. It’s not that bad.

    • Please don’t think like that @ffrenchies, you are a fantastic mother who loves her kids and is a great wife, please be kind to yourself, I would talk to your husband about your relationship, see how you can both make things stronger and more loving between the two of you, everything will be OK, you truly deserve to live a happy life with a…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli. I want to talk to him I just think it will lead to a fight and I just don’t want a fight.

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    Himanshi posted an update 4 days, 9 hours ago

    Hello people!!!
    “you smile but you want to cry,
    you talk but you want to be silent,
    you pretend to be happy but you are not. so what is left to do?”

    we DMV counselling and life coaching services provide a solution to many problems, which can include but not limited to:
    marriage/relationship,bipolar, anger management, depression, anxiety,…[Read more]

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    Serious person posted an update 5 days, 16 hours ago

    I feel alone. I dont understand anything anymore, it seems to me that life is meaningless.

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t feel alone and don’t let your struggles get you down @anonymous2222, you are such a wonderful, special and awesome person who truly deserves all the happiness, love and brightness in the world, focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally, mentally and physically, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and know you…[Read more]

    • I’m sorry you are going through this right now! Try to identify why life seems meaningless to you at the moment either to yourself, to a family member or close friend, or us here. You can get through this and we are here for you.

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    ArriatheDragon posted an update 6 days, 10 hours ago

    Yesterday I talked to a listener who helped me with my parent problem. I don’t know if they have an account or if they can even see this but I took their advice and talked to my parents and my life has gotten better because of it and thanks to them. If you are the person who helped me or think you are I’d like you to message me because I’d love…[Read more]

    • Awww that’s so sweet and lovely @arriathedragon, glad a compassionate and kind listener on the chat was able to help you and make you feel positive, whoever that listener was, they are doing what BT was set up for, to help others and make them smile, indeed you are right, most of the listeners on here are truly empathetic human-beings who want to…[Read more]

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    ArriatheDragon posted an update 1 week ago

    Finally over my cold! Getting back to doing things and trying to enjoy life! I got family over for the week and evebody s getting tattoos so that’s been fun. Been wanting to spend more time with my fam but no one likes what I like to do and being an anti-social butterfly ain’t helping to much. I don’t really like going outside and hiking and…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • It’s great to see you feeling better and determined to enjoy life @arriathedragon, please don’t feel alone, you are such a kind, lovely and incredible person who deserves to be surrounded by compassion, empathy and brightness, I would suggest activities you like to your family, I’m sure they will listen to you and try to do what you suggest, do…[Read more]

    • That is great to hear! I would look up ways to retrain your brain to adapt to social skills and practice small with family & friends

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    Ghost posted an update 1 week ago

    These ”totally real” users spamming the What’s New space are getting annoying now. Either not enough people are flagging these ”users” or the BlahTherapy moderators haven’t paid any attention to this.

    Mood : Discontent
    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Indeed it’s so annoying and frustrating @the-ghost-of-nobody, the moderators of BT have to find a way to sort it so spammers, trolls and bots don’t come here and get banned, this community needs a good security system put in place so it can always remain a compassionate, loving and supportive place, thank you for all the kindness and love you…[Read more]

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    Becca posted an update 1 week ago

    So what are the benefits of being a member? And how do you get testimonials if listening is still anonymous? Sorry to ask questions – I’m not good at technical things!

    Mood : Alone
    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      You get to help as many people as you can by answering wall posts @beccauk, leaving compassionate and kind advice/comments that truly help a member of BT smile and feel positive Becca, testimonials are so lovely, if a particular member of BT has impacted your life in a fantastic way, you can leave a personalised testimonial for them, telling them…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    So, I think I had a psychogenic blackout yesterday. I googled it, and google was all like, “oh by the way, these are like, seizures and stuff” so that scared me until I saw the other bit –

    Basically what happened was I took an AP test. In the middle, my anxiety spiked through the roof, and I don’t remember the second half of the test. Nor do…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • I’m so sorry that happened to you @985921sqh, try to relax and make each day as positive as you can Echo, I don’t want to see you suffering blackouts sweetie, find ways to calm and ease your mind so you feel upbeat and positive in mind, body and spirit, do look after yourself physically, mentally and emotionally Echo, hold your head up high and…[Read more]

    • I’d really recommend talking to your physician about this, for a referral to a good therapist (if you aren’t already seeing one.) A CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) approach is terrific for managing anxiety and helping provide you with coping skills when faced with situations that send you into “fight/flight/freeze” modes of anxiety. With…[Read more]

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    Asiazmama posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    I just joined and feel accomplished. I can’t wait to listen

    Mood : Happy
    • Nice!! Welcome!

    • Welcome to BT @asiazmama, it’s great to have you here on BT, you have joined a supportive, compassionate and loving community where we all help each other, feel free to reach out to any of our kind members or inbox me anytime if you ever want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Once I move and get out of the toxic situation I’m in living with my mother, I think I’m going to push to go to online schooling. My mom has mocked me for years over the fact that I never went to college and always tells me how much of my life I wasted. I want to prove I’m more than she sees, but I want to do it on my own accord. Not just…[Read more]

    • You will achieve your degree in zoology @xxbaybayxx, please know you will be successful Oliver and make all your dreams come true, don’t let your mothers horrible comments bring you down, she should encourage you in whatever you choose to do in life, everything will go your way Oliver and all your goals will become a wonderful reality, hold your…[Read more]

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    ArriatheDragon posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    I just wanted to thank all of the listeners here on Blahtherapy and for all the people who are there for the venters through hard times. As a listener it always makes me happy to see so many people wanting to help others out. I’d also lkie to thank Oli for always replying to people and always being available to talk to everyone. it’s been a hard…[Read more]

    Mood : Grateful
    • Awwww glad this community and myself can be here to support and help you @arriathedragon, you will overcome all your struggles because you are a survivor and so many happier moments lie ahead for you, remember to smile and always be the fabulous, awesome and special person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong,…[Read more]

    • Agreed, @arriathedragon! @oliver is such a helpful and sweet guy. I think I speak for the entire BT community when I say we’re all very glad to have him.

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    Esteban posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    I’ve never experienceed such level of dysphoria… Long story short: I’ve had my period 2 months ago, after loosing it for 3 years due to my eating disorder. But what would you expect? Yes I was eating, but I was eating “clean” and exercising a lot to compensate still, but then I got very sick… forcing me to stop exercising altogether, but…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • Please take care of yourself and stay healthy @heartsofc, I love and care about my special little brother so much, I want him to truly love himself and every part of his body, he’s an amazing man who deserves to stay true to himself and live as the wonderful man that he is, my little bro will get approval and he will get all the appointments with…[Read more]

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    Bipolar Sunshine posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Feeling ok today. Trying to stay grounded and maintain a healthy anxiety level.

    Mood : Determined
    • It’s great to see you determined to stay positive and happy @klbbpd13, always smile brightly and keep being the fantastic person that you are, remember you are awesome and wonderful, I would like to welcome you to BT, you have joined a compassionate, supportive and loving community where we all help each other, feel free to reach out to any of…[Read more]

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