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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 10 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update it’s just so disappointing when things don’t work out the way you had hoped. View

    Please don’t lose hope @invincible, things will work out for you beautiful angel Cecelia, everything will be OK sweetie and you will make all your dreams come true, stay positive and know so much happiness, brightness and positivity lies ahead for you, be as upbeat as you can, hold your head up high and remember to be optimistic, keep smiling and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 14 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update trying to earn some money now that i’ve spent tooooo much on splurging for several months. i think getting money again made me realize like wow i need to save this up again. View

    Do take care of yourself @invincible, remember to try and live within your means but also know your happiness matters beautiful angel Cecelia, I want to see you feeling truly positive and surrounding yourself with all the things that make you smile Cecelia, everything will work out and things will be OK, keep going forward with optimism and never…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 days, 4 hours ago

    I’m tired of these constant trust issues I have in my relationship. Ever since I found out a few months ago that he practically cheated on me I just haven’t been able to fully trust him. I’m constantly having dreams of him cheating and it makes me wake up feeling awful. I’m always wondering if he’s flirting with someone at work, or that…[Read more]

    • Your boyfriend has absolutely no right to cheat on you @xxbaybayxx, you are a lovely, fantastic and wonderful person who deserves a relationship that is strong and loving, I would talk to your boyfriend, be as honest and open with him as you can Oliver, let him know that you want him to dedicate himself to your relationship, hope everything works…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 days, 5 hours ago

    Within this past year, two people I knew had late term miscarriages with baby boys. I’ve been helping people grieve and giving the best advice I can…but it’s hard for me to post anything relating to my pregnancy because I’m also having a boy and I just feel disrespectful being excited. :/

    • You are such a compassionate, kind and sweet person @xxbaybayxx, do help others grieve and help them through this traumatic and hard time in their lives, but remember to also take care of yourself and look forward to your awesome future as you are surrounded by a loving partner, a wonderful daughter and soon your beautiful baby boy will be born,…[Read more]

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    bumbletuna72 posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Thank you Oli you are such a kind and good person, you really brighten peoples’ days, I wish the weirdos and perverts on this site would find some help!!!!

    • Awwww glad I can help and always be there to help you and everyone on BT @bumbleetuna72, I will always support this community, it is sad, frustrating and annoying to see how this beautiful community has been taken over by perverts, spammers, bots and trolls, BT needs new moderators and admin urgently, I truly hope things change on BT so this…[Read more]

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    Jenna posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Hey everyone, haven’t been on my account for what seems like forever but here I am. Can’t wait to chat with some of you lovely people!

    Mood : Excited
    • It’s great to see you back on BT @jenna13, hope you are OK Jenna and things are going well in your life, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Lyn posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    I havent forgiven someone I knew from grade school. She is sick right now, like really sick, but I dont seem to forget what she made me feel before. I just want to forget this. Why am i the one feeling guilty?

    Mood : Guilty
    • We can’t forget intense things that have hurt us. You shouldn’t forget. But try to forgive her. For your sake. She is sick and she deserves a right to be forgiven for causing you pain and massive discomfort. What she did was wrong and unforgettable – but in order for YOU to successfully move on and feel good about yourself, you should forgive…[Read more]

    • I agree with @invincible, you shouldn’t forget what she did to you, she had no right to hurt you or make you feel bad @stunnilyn, but try to forgive her as best you can, especially when she is in poor health, it shows that you are truly a brave and compassionate person, do reach out to her and see what happens, like Cecelia says do take time to…[Read more]

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    Trevor posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    I don’t want to be dramatic, just need to talk to someone tonight.

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Please don’t feel ashamed @nightwake, what’s on your mind Trevor, I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hope all is well @nightwake – you deserve to feel alright & comfortable!

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    jporwave posted an update 2 weeks ago

    ive been so depressed lately
    i miss my ex and i feel like a failure again

    Mood : Hurt
    • Please don’t feel sad @shadrakor, you are not a failure, you will do great things in life and you will make all your dreams come true, stay positive and focus on making each day as wonderful as you can, I would try to contact your ex if you can and see what happens, everything will work out and things will be OK, never give up, feel free to inbox…[Read more]

    • ha ha ha
      if i could i would
      but its not like there would be a reason

      she blocked me everywhere out of nowhere and kicked me and my friend out of her discord server, gave me a panic attack, still dont know why
      she said it was for both our sake

      i didnt handle it well and looked for literally any place i could still message her
      she sent…[Read more]

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    Lyn posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    I feel disgusting, but I’m staying motivated to get my shit together. Pray for me.

    Mood : Nervous
    • Please don’t let negative thoughts get you down and don’t feel bad about yourself @stunnilyn, you are such a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who will do great things in life and make all your dreams come true, remember to smile brightly Lyn, hold your head up high and keep going forward with optimism, you can do it Lyn, always believe in…[Read more]

    • I’m supposed to be a listener, and here I am venting. Thank you for your positivity. I hope get through the day with your positive outlook,

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    Zero posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    My best friend committed suicide this day last year, I feel really numb, I’m not sure if i can keep doing this. I wake up every morning and every day i wish i hadn’t woke up, I don’t know what to do.

    Mood : Depressed
    • I’m so sorry for your loss, I know how you feel @zerohappythoughts, a close friend of mine killed himself in 2017, you feel numbness, guilt and sadness, but try to remember all the good moments you spent with your best friend, think of all the fun and joyful moments you had together as friends, it can be difficult but try to remember how they…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I bought things on flash sale. This is the last of the shopping I will do. My closet is gonna be so full lol oops.Doing not much for news years 2020. but that is not important. what is […] View

    Do have a fantastic new year @invincible, 2020 will be a wonderful and amazing year for you beautiful angel Cecelia, remember to always smile sweetie and know so many awesome days lie ahead for you Cecelia, I will always be here for you Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Anirudh posted an update 3 weeks ago

    Its another decade in front of us now. The last 10 years were….something I cannot forget. This community helped me during some of my most difficult times and I do hope that everyone else has a fabulous year and are able to achieve loads of success and good health. Cheers, guys. Have a great one.

    Mood : Hopeful
    • Oli replied 3 weeks ago

      Glad this community has helped you a lot during hard times @itsanirudhagain, everyone on BT cares about you and wants the best for you, so do I, have a fantastic new year Anirudh and know 2020 will be a wonderful year for you, keep smiling and always be the awesome person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about…[Read more]

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    bumbletuna72 posted an update 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    It’s unfortunate that people when you say something to a listener merely say, “Oh”. And nothing else. Then, when you call them on it, go on a hate filled rampage, calling you a “faggot” and saying “suck my dick”. This site is not a place for hate but a place for love and there is too much darkness in the world today. For my own sins Jesus…[Read more]

    • I’m so sorry that is happening @bumbleetuna72, it’s so sad to see that the chat is being taken over by horrible listeners, listeners on BT are supposed to be kind and truly help support venters on the chat, please report them and hopefully they will get banned from BT, thank you for always keeping this beautiful community safe BumbleTuna72, you…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli, happy new year, you are a wonderful person with a huge heart, many hugs, peace and joy to you!!

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    Miasebs posted an update in the group Group logoIdk lets just talk about life. 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    My aunt has OCD. She lives with us, she is single. In the beginning, her disease wasn’t creating problems for anyone! Like she wanted the home always in order and she used to arrange all the cupboards and shelves of our home!
    Unfortunately, things began to change over the past two years! Her condition started to vary and it is getting severe day…[Read more]

    Mood : Stressed
    • I would be there to support your aunt as much as you can @miaseb, find ways to help her calm and relax so she can put her mind at ease, she will make it through this, you both will, she will beat her OCD and come out so much stronger, everything will be OK, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Kayla Christine posted an update 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    I’m so overwhelmed with my life.

    Mood : Depressed
    • What is going on? We are here for you on Blah. Just take deep breathes and relax. Find some things you like to do. Movies, music, drawing, etc. If it’s too overwhelming to think about – put it aside. Take a mental break and perhaps seek some advice from others about what to do.

    • Please don’t let the struggles of life get you down @kaylachristine, you are such a wonderful, special and awesome person Kayla who deserves to feel happy and on top of the world, try to stay positive and surround yourself with all the things that make you feel upbeat, as @invincible says, find activities that you enjoy and focus on them as much…[Read more]

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 4 weeks ago

    So for a present, my sister got me a black sweater that says ”1-800-did-i-ask” and i adore it

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 4 weeks ago

    Happy holidays everybody

    • happy holidays! hope you have an amazing and safe season!

    • Oli replied 4 weeks ago

      Happy holidays to you @midnightsarrow, have a fantastic Christmas and New Year, remember to smile and always be the awesome person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Same to you :D

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    bumbletuna72 posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas or whatever you celebrate! Wishing you peace, health, healing, and true happiness. Wishing you relief from mental illness and anxiety. Thanks to Oli for being so supportive and thanks be to the kind listeners I did find on here sometimes. Wishing you Light, hang tough and always find a reason to smile if you can…[Read more]

    Mood : Amazed
    • Awww, hope you have a wonderful Christmas and New Year too @bumbleetuna72, always be the inspirational, lovely and fantastic person that you are, thank you for always keeping this community safe, you are so awesome, remember to always go forward with optimism and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    Spaceport posted an update 1 month ago

    I just made it to 5 years on blah!

    Mood : Ecstatic
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      It’s great to see that you have been on BT for 5 years @legendary-rainstorm-2507, hope you will continue to be a wonderful member of this beautiful community for many years to come, stay upbeat, keep smiling and always believe in yourself, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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