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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 days, 3 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Beyond stressed. I feel both my parent and partner tugging at me and I am losing myself in the process.. it’s very triggering because it’s reminiscent of my childhood. Emotionally gaslit […] View

    Your parents and your partner should treat you with love and always be there to support you @invincible, you are such a lovely, wonderful and amazing angel who deserves happiness in your life sweetheart, don’t let them gaslight or bully you Cecelia, you have been through so much sweetie and come out as a brave, strong survivor Cecelia, please…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hello everybody! I just want to wish y’all a fantastic start of the week. Remember to stay hydrated, to eat something nutritious, to rest your body and mind, to do some activity that brings […] View

    Thank you for always being so kind, loving and sweet @m1s1m3, you always give out so much compassion, empathy and love to all of us here on BT beautiful angel Marta, hope you are doing OK wonderful angel and you have a fantastic week as well Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you sweetheart, I love and care about you so much and you mean…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Not me having a spicy dream w/ my boyfriend whom i am super passionate about in every single way, and then in the dream suddenly my ex (big regret disgust) and BOSS (abusive) show up… […] View

    You truly deserve to have dreams about and spend time with people who bring you happiness, love and support @invincible, don’t let anxiety and horrible people get you down beautiful Cecelia, remember to focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger and letting each day guide you with positivity, hope and brightness sweetie, smile…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and […] View

    Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. […] View

    Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, it’s hopeless for me :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli you are a fantastic friend, who is caring, generous, helpful, warm hearted and sincere. It’s very difficult to deal with these feelings, even more during this cold season. Remember that I’m here for you if you need it my friend. You’ve done, and are still doing, so much for every member of the BT community, and you can count on us too to help…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, […] View

    I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    I feel so lonely and alone :(

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    • Oli, you’re an amazing person. You have many friends and contacts here in BT. I don’t know about your personal life beyond the screen, but try to spend some time with your family and friends in your place of living.
      And please be gentle with yourself. It’s winter and with winter many people are prone towards sadness and depression. What works…[Read more]

    • Oli, you’re an amazing person. You have many friends and contacts here in BT. I don’t know about your personal life beyond the screen, but try to spend some time with your family and friends in your place of living.
      And please be gentle with yourself. It’s winter and with winter many people are prone towards sadness and depression. What works…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hello everybody! I hope y’all are feeling good and taking care of yourselves. Remember that you matter, that you are loved, and that you deserve good things ^_^. Stay strong, and keep going on ❤ View

    Thank you for always being so kind, inspirational and lovely @m1s1m3, hope you are doing OK beautiful angel Marta, remember to smile brightly and always be good to yourself sweetheart, I love and care about you so much angel, hope you have a wonderful Christmas and new year sweetie, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: crybaby posted an update 3 years, 11 months. Still miss you. View

    Missing someone can be so difficult @aprxl, remember to always think about the person you miss in a way that is positive and makes you smile, focus on all the happy moments you spent with them and how much they made you feel special, remember to always be kind to yourself and keep going forward with hope, purpose and optimism, you can do it, feel…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hello everybody! I wish y’all a happy weekend, full of peace and joy (^_^). Remember that you are fantastic, and deserve to be happy ❤ View

    Hope you have a fantastic weekend filled with happiness and bright moments @m1s1m3, remember to keep smiling and always be the lovely. awesome and wonderful angel that you are beautiful angel Marta, I love and care about you so much sweetheart, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hello everybody! I hope y’all had a good rest this past weekend, and the opportunity to enjoy some activity you like. Remember to stay hydrated, to eat, to spend some time with someone you […] View

    Thank you for always being so kind, helpful and sweet @m1s1m3, hope you are doing OK beautiful angel Marta and having a fantastic day sweetheart, remember to take care of yourself angel, surround yourself with positivity and make each day as bright and amazing as you can Marta, I’ll always be here for you sweetie, I love and care about you so…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hi everybody! I wish y’all are having a nice day so far :) . Remember to treat yourselves with kindness, to do some enjoyable activity, and to spend time with someone you love. You are all […] View

    Thank you for always being so kind, sweet and lovely @m1s1m3, hope you are doing well too and having a fantastic day beautiful angel Marta, remember to always be the special, wonderful and awesome angel that you are sweetheart, keep smiling and know you are truly amazing Marta, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Tjenare posted an update Enjoy the positives in life, even if they are few View

    Indeed you are correct @tjenare, we should all try to find the positive and good things in our lives that keep us going, no matter how big, small, many or few there are, it’s all about being upbeat and trying to find purpose, optimism and true happiness, thank you for being so wise, insightful and inspirational, hope you are doing OK and things…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update I’m invited to an interview in another city for the role of chief operations manager (COM). The company deals with organizing excursions and trips to children on the spectrum and their […] View

    I would talk to the company boss or whoever will be interviewing you @gleb, let them know that you don’t feel comfortable with certain aspects of the job and see if they can accommodate or make changes to the role, I’m sure no matter what happens, you will find a job that suits you, that benefits you and brings you a sense of purpose and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update These past days have been kinda rough. A lot of anxiety, over thinking and the occasional existential crisia. Fortunately I’m feeling better today, so I’ll try to go for a walk thia […] View

    Please don’t let anxiety get you down @m1s1m3, remember to always be kind to yourself beautiful angel Marta, stay focused on positivity, making each day as bright, hopeful and perfect as possible sweetheart, take deep breathes and know you are a survivor and fighter sweetie, I’m so proud of you Marta because I know you can overcome all struggles…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Hey guys, I’m back. It has been a long time since I logged in. Missed you all. Also graduated from uni with a B.A. in Hospitality and Tourism Management. View

    Don’t really know why there are no like or thumbs up buttons @gleb, I guess the moderators took them out but hopefully they will be back, hope you are OK Gleb, remember to keep smiling and always be the fantastic person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Hey guys, I’m back. It has been a long time since I logged in. Missed you all. Also graduated from uni with a B.A. in Hospitality and Tourism Management. View

    It’s so great to see you back on BT @gleb, hope you are OK Gleb and everything is going well in your life, I’m so proud of you Gleb, it’s wonderful to see that you graduated university, remember to stay positive, go forward with confidence, optimism and know you will make all your dreams, goals and aspirations come true Gleb, please know I’ll…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hello everybody! I wish y’all have the opportunity to enjoy Halloween if you like it /( •̀ ω •́ )/. Do remember to have fun, stay safe and do no harm. I would like to specially mention […] View

    Hope you are OK and having a wonderful Halloween @m1s1m3, it’s great to see you feeling calm beautiful angel Marta, remember to always be the lovely, special and amazing angel that you are sweetie, keep smiling and be upbeat sweetheart because you deserve positivity, happiness and hope in your life Marta, remember I’ll always be here for you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update @blahtherapy do they ever answer? Already sent them three private messages whenever I see they are logged in or are shortly logged off. I don’t know of any other site moderator, and it’s […] View

    I hope the moderators get back to you @m1s1m3 so this site can return to being what it once was, a place of compassion, kindness, support, care and love, hope you are doing well beautiful angel Marta, remember to keep smiling and always be the fantastic, wonderful and awesome person that you are sweetie, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever…[Read more]

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