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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update i miss having friends been so hard to be okay again glad my bf spoke up about something bothering him but whyd it have to *that*??? ex told me i was ’too nice’ guess she was […] View

    Everyone deserves good friends in their lives @shadrakor, you do too, please don’t let what your ex told you upset you, being a nice person truly shows how kind and sweet you are, it makes you a wonderful person, remember to always be awesome to yourself because you do matter and you are worth it, smile, hold your head up high and keep going…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days, 20 hours ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update found out today how bad my social anxiety has gotten again, had a conversation on twitter and it felt so awkward and stale and i had a breakdown about it- well im still having a breakdown […] View

    Please be kind to yourself @shadrakor, I know how you feel, I’m a shy person and find it difficult to approach, talk to and socialise with others, take time to build up your confidence and self esteem and know you will be able to have great friendships and relationships in your life, keep talking with your boyfriend and try reaching out to your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update been hard to feel okay againstarted thinking about the friend i had three years ago, she was a streamer on twitch and basically the first time id had a real interaction with a streamer, […] View

    Please don’t feel lonely @shadrakor, I know how you feel, I have had friendships in my life that have come and gone, you are a good person who deserves to have compassionate people around you who will stick by you through all the ups and downs, the bad and good times of any relationship, please don’t let hurtful memories of your past break you,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 17 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Spending my birthday relaxing and feeling gratitude. View

    Happy Birthday to a truly lovely, incredible, special and beautiful angel @invincible, it’s great to see that you are spending your birthday feeling wonderful Cecelia, this community is so thankful for having you as a member sweetheart, you have done so much for me and all of us here on BT sweetie, please know I will always be here for you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Waiting for quarantine to end so i can see a doctor about the baby bump. View

    Please do go and see a doctor when you can @kinkymomo, please try to tell them what happened to you Kinkymomo, I want you to be safe, protected and looked after Kinkymomo, please take care of yourself and know I’ll always be here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Kinkymomo, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update history repeats itself, it really doesi remember what my ex said.. she told me to stop complimenting her and saying i loved her all the time because it ’cheapened’ the phrase i meant it […] View

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an affectionate and loving person @shadrakor, your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend should both realize how lucky they are and were to have someone as sweet and kind as you in their lives, please don’t hate yourself, always be the wonderful and compassionate person that you are, keep spreading love and care…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 4 hours ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update Ive been doing a lot better lately, changed up my twitter profile and made it look pretty good imo- still MIA from my friends but thats okay, I cant really afford to give any attention to […] View

    It’s great to see you feeling hopeful @shadrakor, stay positive because you are awesome, it’s wonderful to see that you are surrounded by compassion and love, keep smiling and remember to always make each day as fantastic as you can, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 17 hours ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update was finally starting to do good again, had a thought the other day that even if I was thinking about the past it didnt hurt as much as it did before… but something happened that reminded […] View

    Please don’t let hurtful memories get you down @shadrakor, try to focus on all the things that bring you hope, happiness and positivity, surround yourself with compassion and love, remember so many people care about you and appreciate you, everything will be OK, you are amongst friends in this community, your future will be so awesome and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update even though every bit of my wants to open the flood gates and get all these thoughts off my head, Im not even sure how Id begin… I lose my train of thought the second I have to focus on […] View

    Do find good ways to get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out @shadrakor, remember we are all here to support and help you, do take time to process and work on how you are feeling so you can better understand yourself, always know that the BT community will always be here for you, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, feel…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update Im doing a bit better, my bf and I had a bit of a falling out for a second and he asked me if Id given up on us… I guess that shook me out of it and made me realize how much I didnt want […] View

    It’s good to see that you are feeling better @shadrakor, hope the relationship with your boyfriend keeps going strong, always be there for each other and make sure to communicate openly and honestly when you have any issues, I’m so sorry that your friends and family haven’t checked in on you, they really should treat you with love, care and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Mellow Mallow posted an update I’m surprised there isn’t a ’sweaty’ option in Mood View

    Hope you are OK and things are going well for you @mellow-mallow, it’s great to see you back on BT, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Life is just so hard right now, but I am so grateful for: my new cat (aka my soulmate daughter i love her so much), my best friend, blahtherapy & oli.my bday is coming up, hopefully I […] View

    Please don’t let the struggles of life break you @invincible, stay positive beautiful angel Cecelia and always surround yourself with the things that bring you happiness and hope, it’s so nice to see that you have a cute new animal in your life sweetie, do play with and create awesome memories with your special cat Cecelia, it’s good that your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Ya’ll, I had a breakdown in a GROCERY store it was so embarassing looooool. A family member just really made me hit my limit… she just is causing me way too much pain. I can’t bare it […] View

    Your family have no right being horrible to you beautiful angel @invincible, they should treat you with all the love, support and care in the world sweetie, please don’t feel embarrassed about having a breakdown sweetheart, do find ways to get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out Cecelia, hopefully this family member will apologize to you,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update My boyfriend works at a small grocery store. It’s one of those ”small town” type of stores where everytime we go on there he’s greeted by pretty much everyone there.I’ve been in the […] View

    That’s not right at all @xxbaybayxx, they really should acknowledge you when you are together with your boyfriend, you are part of this relationship and you deserve to be treated with respect, I would talk to your boyfriend openly and honestly about everything, also let him know how uncomfortable you are when bumping into ex’s, your boyfriend…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update still here not even sure ill ever have the guts to try…was gonna try to just starve myself ha ha but didnt even make the full 24 hours before it hurt too much maybe being stuck in this […] View

    Please don’t be afraid @shadrakor, you are such a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves to be here, please eat and take care of yourself, stay positive and be healthy, I want to see you doing well emotionally, mentally and physically, remember to hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives up, always believe…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update think this is finally it things arent improving… found an amazing guy, hes super sweet and kind, but my thoughts just… focus on her still either hate her or love her but still its her […] View

    Please don’t let the past and bad memories get you down @shadrakor, try to stay focused on making yourself feel happy, do learn from your past and try to learn lessons from it, hopefully she will get back to you and everything will be OK, focus on your current relationship with the guy you mentioned and make things stronger between the two of…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update The bump is definitely showing now… View

    Please don’t feel ashamed @kinkymomo, what happened to you is so wrong and you shouldn’t feel at fault Kinkymomo, your abuser is the one who is guilty, not you, I know having a baby after the traumatic events that happened is difficult, but I’m sure you will make the correct decisions and choices going forward, remember you are so brave,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: The Listener posted an update Hey guys, I’m on! View

    It’s great to see you here on BT @aidenbok, thank you for helping others and being the kind person that you are, hope you are OK and things are going great for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted an update 2 weeks ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, the pain will never end for me, I just want to die, everything is so hopeless :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update worst thing right now: in debt due to implusive buying and hustling to try and make the money up.best thing right now: in love :’)msg me if you ever need to talk! I am still here ♥ View

    Please don’t worry @invincible, I’m sure you will find good ways to make money and pay your debt beautiful angel Cecelia, your financial situation will become better sweetie, try to stay positive because you will be OK Cecelia, it’s so wonderful to see you in love, everyone deserves a special bond with someone incredible, you do too amazing…[Read more]

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