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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 20 hours ago

    In reply to: Moritz posted an update in the group Missed Connections I was Pleased Plane, you were Persistent Judge, going by the name Morgan. I know you have to sign up here to comment, but I didn’t want to leave you hanging, […] View

    Hope you manage to re-connect with this person @arthorius, please know I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 days, 3 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Whenever I feel normal at work, a coworker will raise their voice or yell at me and then I dissociate and get triggered lmaoo View

    That’s not right at all @invincible, your colleagues and co-workers should treat you with kindness, respect and compassion, I understand you all have jobs to do and you are a team but they should treat you positively so you can work better together, I would talk to your colleagues and let them know how you feel Cecelia, remember you deserve…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 22 hours ago

    In reply to: SunnyDelove posted an update The vent/listener chat is not working View

    What’s on your mind @dhampirgirlsd, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, hope the chat gets fixed soon, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: crybaby posted an update Feel lonely lol View

    Please don’t feel lonely @aprxl, what’s on your mind, you are a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves to be surrounded by happiness, positivity and brightness, don’t let loneliness break you down, find great things to do and make each day as incredible as possible, you can do it, smile and keep going forward with optimism and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update Wow… I really needed to talk to someone and the people in the chat just disconnect me. That’s helpful and not hurtful at all. Tells me how much people care. Thanks View

    That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, those on the chat should be there to help and support you, they have no right to be rude and disrespectful to you Rain, please know that I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Rain, you deserve to feel positive and happy Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: blackdog posted an update I decided to see a therapist since I currently have good insurance. I went through the entire intake including hours of paperwork and a very vulnerable session only to have the […] View

    That’s good to hear @blackdog, hope this new therapist truly helps you feel happier and more positive within yourself, remember to keep going BlackDog and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: blackdog posted an update I decided to see a therapist since I currently have good insurance. I went through the entire intake including hours of paperwork and a very vulnerable session only to have the […] View

    That’s not right at all @blackdog, it’s totally wrong, a therapist should be there to help and support you no matter what your history is, you deserve to be treated so much better Blackdog, please don’t give up on finding therapy, hopefully if you keep looking you will find the right therapy for you, you are a good person who truly deserves to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Katherine posted an update hope everyone is doing good View

    Hope you are doing great too @teamtennantgirl, I’m surviving Katherine, just trying to take one day at a time, remember to smile Katherine and always be the awesome, special and wonderful person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Meows posted an update Its been a long time I just thought of this place again <3 View

    It’s great to see you back on BT @catgoesmeow, hope you are OK and everything is going well in your life, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update Getting really tired of the colleague who says ”you were gonna switch shifts with me, right? Don’t forget to write it down.” when she didn’t even ask me! And when I react confused (obviously) […] View

    I would ignore her and focus on doing the shifts that suit you @little-angel-2, always work hard Rain and don’t let anyone distract you from doing what is right for you, hope your colleague doesn’t bother you going forward Rain, everything will be OK, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update It’s ridiculous that the only therapy my health insurance partially covers is at a center where they refuse to help me because I’m autistic. Not only do they discriminate, they’re also […] View

    That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, they should accommodate and support you Rain, I hope you manage to find the right therapy that truly helps you, please know that I will always be here for you Rain and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Rain, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Trisha posted an update Well I so need to vent! Life is so frustrating these days. Sometimes I just don’t want to be here. Never any time with my daughter. Always stuck with kids. Even though she has a man who […] View

    I would talk to your daughter and her husband @trisha, he really should be in his kids lives as their father and spend time with them, let him know that you want him to step up as a father to the kids, let your daughter know that would like to spend some quality time with her away from your responsibilities as a grandmother, I’m sure your daughter…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Keylan G posted an update “The good you do today will often be forgotten; Do good anyway” View

    Indeed @keyg32, we should all try to do good, help others, spread love and kindness in the world Keylan, thank you for being so inspirational and sharing wise words on BT, remember to keep sharing insightful thoughts and always be the awesome person that you are Keylan, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update Even introverts need human interactions. View

    We all deserve to feel loved and cared for so we feel less alone and lonely @teamtennantgirl and @little-angel-2, I’m a reclusive, shy, awkward introvert so I know how lonely and depressing life can get, especially when if like me, you have absolutely no social life and you stay in your bedroom all day, remember you are both amazing and you both…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update Being an adult is an endless cycle of paying bills and replacing things. View

    I know how you feel @little-angel-2, being in an adult has been so depressing for me, especially lately, my situation is sadness, unemployment, loneliness, depression and stress Rain, but try to remember about all the good times and happier moments in your life Rain, focus on the brightness that lies ahead and knowing that all your dreams will…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Can the world just… Stop being hostile for a little while? View

    There’s so much bad happening in the world right now @m1s1m3, war and conflict doesn’t help anyone, @little-angel-2 is right, watch heart-warming and kind videos of people being good to each other beautiful Marta, try to focus on all the happy moments in the world if you can sweetie, don’t let the negativity and darkness get you down because…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: crybaby posted an update I love the cat activation noise. Brings me joy View

    Especially fluffy kittens @aprxl, they are so cute! :D

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update I don’t need another cat, I don’t need another cat…but what’s one more? View

    While animals are cute and adorable, I would only get another pet if you feel you can handle the responsibility of caring for a new animal @little-angel-2, have many pets do you have Rain?, I have 1 cat, I’m sure you will do what you feel is right and comfortable for yourself and any new lovely animal you bring into your home, feel free to inbox…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update My boss messaged me late today to let me know there’s some kind of info thing or whatever tomorrow morning and that it would be good for me to be there. This really frustrates me because it’s […] View

    I would talk to your boss and let him know how you are feeling @little-angel-2, I know work commitments are important but they really should give you enough time and notice so you can attend and prepare, do speak with your boss and see if they can make alternate arrangements for you Rain, hope things work out positively for you, feel free to inbox…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Apes posted an update Mental stability ?? Never heard of it View

    Do take care of yourself mentally, emotionally and physically @aprxl, remember to be kind to yourself and know you will overcome any struggles that life throws at you, hold your head up high and keep going forward as you are so brave, awesome and incredible, always believe in and be kind to yourself and never give up, you can do it, feel free to…[Read more]

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