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    Oli posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    I’m so alone, depressed, sad and lonely, I always will be that way no matter what I do or how hard I try, It’s so hopeless because I will NEVER be able to find true happiness in life :(

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    • You of all people deserve happiness. Look at all the time you spend lifting others up! Be kind to yourself and remember you deserve love

    • Just as blackdog said to you, you deserve true happiness Oli. You uplift everyone’s mood when they need it, and believe in everybody’s strength. Believe in yourself too <3. You are full of virtues, and you deserve to appreciate them, as well as we do :) .

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update He really got me listening to taylor swift at work LOL It’s been 12 years since I used to listen to her HAHAHA View

    Awww, that’s so sweet @invincible, keep listening to music that makes you feel happy, loved and brings a smile to your face beautiful angel Cecelia, glad to see you are doing well sweetie, remember you are truly awesome, incredible and fantastic, stay upbeat Cecelia, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: CaughtBetween posted an update Finally taking control of my physical and mental health a little more. It feels great not waking up with a hangover every morning, not missing massive periods of time to blackouts, […] View

    Do stay positive and determined to better yourself @superduperdave, you are truly a wonderful person who deserves happiness so you can lead a fulfilling and upbeat life, don’t let the tough and difficult moments of life break you down, remember you are so brave and courageous, surround yourself with compassion and know you are loved by so many…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Jessica posted an update woohooooo, I am BACK! :) View

    It’s so great to see you back on BT @certifiably-crazy, hope you are doing OK and things are going well in your life Jessica, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need someone to talk too and if you ever need a friend, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Unpleasant mood changes. My lows are quite low, and my highs are quite high. Almost no inbetween. I’m trying to find a balance between keeping myself busy with activities I enjoy, and […] View

    You are such a brave, lovely and kind angel who deserves to feel positive @m1s1m3, don’t let your changes in mood break you down, focus on putting yourself in an upbeat mindset Marta and fill your days with activities that bring you happiness, remember to be good to yourself and work on making yourself feel better mentally, emotionally and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Doing a lot. Taking up and building numerous hobbies, thriving in work, school, relationships… optimism and love seems to be overpowering any kind of fear and insecurity.. View

    Glad to see that things are going well for you @invincible, remember to stay positive and I know you’ll continue to thrive in all parts of your life beautiful angel Cecelia, keep being upbeat sweetie and always smile confidently and brightly, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I could cry with how proud I am over the simple perspective in the most miniscule way… just four years ago I was mesmerized with the story of Anna Karenina and I completely glamourized […] View

    You truly do deserve a loving, fulfilling and positive relationship with someone special @invincible, remember to always be kind to yourself sweetie and please know that any relationship you are in will continue going from strength to strength, be with someone who loves you and who will stick by you through anything, don’t focus on those who…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: CaughtBetween posted an update Trying to organise anything to distract myself, found out I had an account on this from 7 years ago. It’s sad to think I’ve been struggling with my mental health for 7 years. But I’m […] View

    It’s great to see you back on BT @superduperdave, hope you are doing OK, remember to be kind to yourself and don’t let the darkness of mental health break you down, be as positive as you can and fill each day with positivity, brightness and hope, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Arctic Wolf posted an update I’ve been an anxious mess for weeks. View

    You are such a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves to feel positive, upbeat and happy @wolborg, remember to smile brightly and don’t let anxiety break you down, focus on making each day as brilliant and amazing as you can, hold your head up high and be hopeful, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, you can do it,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hello everybody! I hope you all are having a fantastic week so far. Remember to take care, to love yourselves, and to enjoy the little things <3 View

    Hope you are doing OK as well @m1s1m3, I’m surviving beautiful angel Marta, just trying to take one day at a time and focus on being as positive as I can, remember to take care of yourself too sweetheart because you are truly so wonderful, incredible and amazing in every way Marta, keep smiling angel and always be the fantastic person that you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Feeling a little disappointed and hurt. It just seems that I will try my hardest to dedicate myself and my time to the one I love but they can’t do that for me. My stomach was hurting […] View

    They should do the same for you @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and wonderful person Cecelia who deserves to love and be loved, any person who you are in a relationship with should treat you with the support, care, love, compassion and kindness that you show to them, it’s great to truly love someone but they should always return…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: blackdog posted an update Just had a consult with a new therapist. He seems to understand what I told him and what he said about his approach resonates with me. Got an appointment for next week and I think this […] View

    That’s great to hear @blackdog, I hope this new therapist truly helps and supports you in a way that is beneficial and helpful to you, I’m sure that in speaking to your new therapist, you will work through your struggles, find positive solutions and come out feeling so much more stronger, everything will go well and so many more brighter moments…[Read more]

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    Oli replied to the forum topic A ship without captain in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    I second both of you on this @blackdog and @m1s1m3, this site has been abandoned for so long, it’s so sad compared to what BT used to be a few years ago, I would put myself forward to be moderator if that is what […]

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    Oli joined the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 2 months, 2 weeks ago

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Moritz posted an update in the group Missed Connections I was Pleased Plane, you were Persistent Judge, going by the name Morgan. I know you have to sign up here to comment, but I didn’t want to leave you hanging, […] View

    Hope you manage to re-connect with this person @arthorius, please know I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Whenever I feel normal at work, a coworker will raise their voice or yell at me and then I dissociate and get triggered lmaoo View

    That’s not right at all @invincible, your colleagues and co-workers should treat you with kindness, respect and compassion, I understand you all have jobs to do and you are a team but they should treat you positively so you can work better together, I would talk to your colleagues and let them know how you feel Cecelia, remember you deserve…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: SunnyDelove posted an update The vent/listener chat is not working View

    What’s on your mind @dhampirgirlsd, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, hope the chat gets fixed soon, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: crybaby posted an update Feel lonely lol View

    Please don’t feel lonely @aprxl, what’s on your mind, you are a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves to be surrounded by happiness, positivity and brightness, don’t let loneliness break you down, find great things to do and make each day as incredible as possible, you can do it, smile and keep going forward with optimism and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update Wow… I really needed to talk to someone and the people in the chat just disconnect me. That’s helpful and not hurtful at all. Tells me how much people care. Thanks View

    That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, those on the chat should be there to help and support you, they have no right to be rude and disrespectful to you Rain, please know that I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Rain, you deserve to feel positive and happy Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: blackdog posted an update I decided to see a therapist since I currently have good insurance. I went through the entire intake including hours of paperwork and a very vulnerable session only to have the […] View

    That’s good to hear @blackdog, hope this new therapist truly helps you feel happier and more positive within yourself, remember to keep going BlackDog and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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