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    Oli posted a new activity comment 11 hours, 58 minutes ago

    In reply to: captain_rusty posted an update god it hurts to hope… :/ i hate human nature sometimes. i’ll give you this, stephen king was right when he said hope springs infernal View

    Please don’t let depression and sadness get you down @thecaptainrusticle, great things will happen to you and you will make all your dreams come true, you are such a fantastic person who truly deserves all the love, happiness and joy that life has to offer, focus on getting yourself to a good place mentally, emotionally and physically, hold your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 14 hours, 31 minutes ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update I’m back. After a VERY long break. Sorry about that; I was grounded (for reasons I mentioned in one of my recent updates). Anyway… I’ve returned. I’m not ungrounded, but I finally […] View

    Your parents really should listen, help and be there for you @985921sqh, I would talk to them about your medication, if you feel the medication truly benefits and helps you, let your parents know that you want to continue using it, you will make it through all the difficult times and so many brighter days lie ahead for you awesome Echo, please…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 23 hours, 1 minute ago

    In reply to: captain_rusty posted an update yooo today started pretty rough, left my pencil case on the damn bus, but my crush talked to me all. dayyyy!! we even walked between classes together for a little, it was amazingggg! […] View

    Awww that’s so sweet, cute and adorable @thecaptainrusticle, keep building up a friendship and close bond with him and see where things go, hopefully he feels the same way about you, stay positive and keep going forward with positivity and a bright smile, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: captain_rusty posted an update didn’t do my homeworkkkk… this is fine. o_o *internal screaming* anybody for any tips for how to destress over grades and social anxiety? View

    Please don’t let the stress of grades get you down @thecaptainrusticle, remember you are doing your best and you will be successful, everything will be OK and things will go amazingly for you, you will make all your dreams come true and your future will be so bright, find ways to work on your confidence and self esteem so you feel happier and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: $teve posted an update A week ago, I got my MacBook fortunately and the part that really relieved me was that everything on it was saved, nothing deleted and pretty much anything that I thought was deleted was […] View

    Please be kind to yourself @anxietyattack66, do love and embrace every part of yourself Steve, smile when you look in the mirror and see the reflection of the fantastic person you see staring back at you, hope you are able to continue going to the same school Steve, I would talk to your father about it and see what happens, it really should be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: captain_rusty posted an update just went on listen/vent as listener. a guy came to vent about how he was upset he wasn’t attractive enough to get a girl… i told him hon, girls dont care about your looks, and if […] View

    Hope you managed to help that listener with wise advice @thecaptainrusticle, always be the kind, compassionate and awesome person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: Evo posted an update in the group Suicide Help! Guys, if I’ve been passively suicidal for years and never seeked real help, but have recently experienced a drastic increase in depression (Possibly due to […] View

    Please don’t let depression and dark thoughts get you down @evolyn, I would talk to someone you trust, do reach out to a therapist or counsellor and see what happens, find a good way to get your emotions, thoughts and feelings out, I don’t want to see you feeling suicidal, you are such a fantastic person who deserves all the happiness in the…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Been a few weeks from hell. I don’t know how much longer I can take all of this. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling upset, depressed or sad @devilndisguise, my beautiful friend Hayden deserves to feel truly happy and positive because he is so special, lovely and amazing to me and all of us here on BT, I want to see you smiling Hayden, your friendship and support means so much to me Hayden, you will win all your battles because…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 13 hours ago

    In reply to: Labs4life posted an update I’m really struggling to be a good mum and wife. I feel my marriage is nearly at the end and I feel like a single mum. View

    Please don’t think like that @ffrenchies, you are a fantastic mother who loves her kids and is a great wife, please be kind to yourself, I would talk to your husband about your relationship, see how you can both make things stronger and more loving between the two of you, everything will be OK, you truly deserve to live a happy life with a…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 13 hours ago

    In reply to: Zero posted an update Today I’m wearing a binder because my dysphoria is really bad. My parents won’t let me cut my hair short so that doesn’t help. My mother saw all my scars from me cutting and she said ”If you […] View

    Your mother has no right to say what she said to you @zerohappythoughts, you deserve so much better Zero, please be kind to yourself and know you are truly beautiful, incredible and amazing inside and out, love and embrace every part of yourself, smile when you look in the mirror and see the reflection of the fabulous person staring back at you,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: munet posted an update https://youtu.be/zFUvTE7TK6s View

    Are you OK? @munet, I’m always here if you need to talk, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: Becca posted an update Hi everyone. Thanks for the welcome. Great to be part of the community. Happy to chat at any time or answer in private chats. View

    Glad the BT community can be here to help and support you @beccauk, always be the fantastic person that you are Becca and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I feel miserable I hope it’s nothing serious, I wonder if it is already from my new pills which I started a few days ago. Might call my doctor tomorrow to see if this is normal, hopefully […] View

    I would talk to your doctor @invincible, I’m sure they will provide you with the answers you are looking for beautiful angel Cecelia, please don’t feel upset sweetie, I want to see you upbeat and to always shine brightly hun, everything will be OK Cecelia, your family really should be there to support you Cecelia, please know the BT community will…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 days, 13 hours ago

    In reply to: Serious person posted an update I feel alone. I dont understand anything anymore, it seems to me that life is meaningless. View

    Please don’t feel alone and don’t let your struggles get you down @anonymous2222, you are such a wonderful, special and awesome person who truly deserves all the happiness, love and brightness in the world, focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally, mentally and physically, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and know you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 4 hours ago

    In reply to: ArriatheDragon posted an update Yesterday I talked to a listener who helped me with my parent problem. I don’t know if they have an account or if they can even see this but I took their advice and talked to my […] View

    Awww that’s so sweet and lovely @arriathedragon, glad a compassionate and kind listener on the chat was able to help you and make you feel positive, whoever that listener was, they are doing what BT was set up for, to help others and make them smile, indeed you are right, most of the listeners on here are truly empathetic human-beings who want to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: ArriatheDragon posted an update Finally over my cold! Getting back to doing things and trying to enjoy life! I got family over for the week and evebody s getting tattoos so that’s been fun. Been wanting to spend […] View

    It’s great to see you feeling better and determined to enjoy life @arriathedragon, please don’t feel alone, you are such a kind, lovely and incredible person who deserves to be surrounded by compassion, empathy and brightness, I would suggest activities you like to your family, I’m sure they will listen to you and try to do what you suggest, do…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I’m really anxious because I hope my doctor can help me out with medications for my mental health. View

    Please don’t feel anxious or worried @invincible, I would talk to your doctor beautiful angel Cecelia, I’m sure together you will work with them to find the right medication and support that will make you feel positive, upbeat and happy sweetie, please know you are so incredible, perfect and amazing in every single way Cecelia, smile brightly…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Ghost posted an update These ”totally real” users spamming the What’s New space are getting annoying now. Either not enough people are flagging these ”users” or the BlahTherapy moderators haven’t paid any […] View

    Indeed it’s so annoying and frustrating @the-ghost-of-nobody, the moderators of BT have to find a way to sort it so spammers, trolls and bots don’t come here and get banned, this community needs a good security system put in place so it can always remain a compassionate, loving and supportive place, thank you for all the kindness and love you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Becca posted an update So what are the benefits of being a member? And how do you get testimonials if listening is still anonymous? Sorry to ask questions – I’m not good at technical things! View

    You get to help as many people as you can by answering wall posts @beccauk, leaving compassionate and kind advice/comments that truly help a member of BT smile and feel positive Becca, testimonials are so lovely, if a particular member of BT has impacted your life in a fantastic way, you can leave a personalised testimonial for them, telling them…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Cool. Spam again. View

    It’s so annoying and frustrating @invincible, BT has to find a way to keep spammers, bots and trolls out of this community, this community is a supportive and loving place, it’s really sad to see spammers come here again and again, I hope this gets properly taken care of, thank you for all the compassion, love and kindness you spread on BT…[Read more]

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