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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update It’s nice to not be real sometimes you know. Reality hates me more than i hate it but that’s okay with me. View

    Don’t let the stress of reality and life break you down @midnightsarrow, you are such a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves happiness and positivity, remember to always be kind to yourself and make each day as upbeat as you can, don’t let anything stand in your way, everything will work out and you will find hope, purpose and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: AverageGuy posted an update Something new. The site is now disconnecting on my side. For a long time, I would be in conversation, when the other party would show disconnected (randomly). Past two days, during […] View

    Hope the chat fixes and you are able to use it @manassasralph, keep being the kind, compassionate and wonderful person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 8 hours ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update I wish I could hug someone in person. View

    Please don’t feel alone @little-angel-2, I’m sure you will get to hug someone for real, do reach out to family and friends around you for hugs, love and support Rain, I am sending you virtual hugs from myself and the BT community, please know so many people care about you Rain, you are a wonderful and amazing person who is so loved, remember to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 days, 14 hours ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Quick thought of the day: you don’t need A reason to live. You can have a lot of different and small reasons. Like waiting for the next breakfast, the next snowfall or the neighbour cat. […] View

    We all have things to give us a reason to live and try to make each day positive @m1s1m3, it can be something small or something big, but we all have to keep going because there is always hope, we will all try to make our dreams, hopes, goals and aspirations come true, thank you for being so inspirational and wise with your advice here on BT…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update I’ve been a people pleaser since I can remember. I used to feel bad when somebody asked for something, and I said no… I felt such guilt and shame… I even thought it was not OK to refuse. […] View

    It’s OK to say no @m1s1m3, don’t be afraid to refuse things especially if they make you feel sad or uncomfortable, remember to always stand up for yourself and don’t let anything or anyone pressure you into things you don’t want, always do what you feel is right for you beautiful angel Marta and always be good to yourself, I’m always here if…[Read more]

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    Oli and Profile picture of m_decriminalizerm_decriminalizer are now friends 1 week, 1 day ago

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    Oli posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    I feel so hopeless, depressed, worried, lost, scared, uncertain, alone and isolated :( , I will always be this reclusive loner, the future looks so very bleak, there is no hope for Oli, none :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • I know it’s very difficult, my dear friend. But for sure there is hope for you. The same hope you’ve been giving to all of us during all these years. You have brightened our darkest days with your kindness and compassion. Whenever you feel overwhelmed with all of those feelings, please reach to any of us. We are here for you, in the same way you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update What’s with all the spam? Ugh. View

    Indeed @little-angel-2, the spam on BT is so annoying and frustrating Rain, unfortunately there are no moderators around nowadays on BT to get rid of it, I would put myself forward as a moderator only if that is what the BT community wanted, I love this community and want it to return to being a place of compassion, kindness and love, hopefully…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update I love the silence of the night. View

    Do relax and take care of yourself @little-angel-2, hope the silence is helping you clear your mind and taking the stress away, please know I’m always here if you need to talk Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Hi Blah! It’s been a really long time since the last time I’ve been here. I hope everyone of you are doing okay, and having a really nice day, I’m really glad to be back!!! View

    It’s so great to see you back on BT @m1s1m3, hope you are doing great beautiful angel Marta and everything is going well in your life sweetie, remember to always be the kind, lovely and incredible angel that you are Marta, I will always be here for you sweetheart, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Angel posted an update Also, hello Blah! Been a while ~ View

    It’s great to see you back on BT @dizzydaydreamer333, hope you are well Angel and things are going awesomely in your life, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update I remember the time when this site used to be active. I met some great souls here and after 7 years, two of them are still in my life. I’d love to connect with more people :-) View

    It’s so nice to see that you have made wonderful and long friendships with people you met here on BT @little-angel-2, I’m always here if you ever need a friend, need to connect Silent Rain or if you need to talk about anything, I hope this community has brought you happiness and positivity, I’m sure it will return to being super active one day,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Hi, it’s been a long time since I logged in. View

    It’s so great to see you back on BT @little-angel-2, hope you are OK Silent Rain and things are going well in your life, I’m still here on BT, trying to hopefully help and support as many people as I can, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update trying not to cry because no job is accepting my apps or calling me back ,and I am trying so hard!!!!! i STILL can’t find work from pandemic and i’ve gotten $0 from the government […] View

    The government really should give you relief money as you need it to get through each day and buy items for yourself @invincible, I know things can be difficult and frustrating beautiful angel Cecelia but keep applying for as many jobs as you can, hopefully something will come up for you soon sweetie, you will make it through hard times sweetie…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    Everything is so hopeless, why bother trying, I always end up failing no matter what I do :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update applying to places that i am ready totry for work but no one is getting back to me. and unemployment finds me ’unfit’ to get benefits… so great. I’m 100% broke and the government has […] View

    Please don’t give up @invincible, try to keep applying and looking for work beautiful angel Cecelia, I know it can be frustrating, when I have applied for jobs I get a lot of rejections and not hearing back from employers, but keep doing your best Cecelia and put your resume out there for lots of places to see, hopefully something you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: BlackRabbit posted an update Been going through the worst patch so far. We are Quarantined, My toddler has Covid. House hold is nothing but abuse and yet everything is my fault. I had to remove myself from class […] View

    Please don’t let this difficult period break you down @blackrabbit, I’m so sorry that your toddler has COVID BlackRabbit, please make sure to take care of him and monitor him for any symptoms BlackRabbit, you and your strong toddler will make it through this sweetie, he is a fighter and survivor just like his incredible, brave and amazing…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BAOTzmKoKts

    NEW FOOTAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOOOOOO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

    Mood : Excited
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update i am suffocating in this inescapable pain View

    I don’t want to see you in any sort of pain @invincible, you are such a beautiful angel who deserves to feel truly happy, positive and wonderful Cecelia, remember to always be kind to yourself sweetie and surround yourself with all the things that bring you love, joy and hope, you will make it through this angel Cecelia as you are so brave and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I feel like I am in such a fog constantly, it’s so odd, i can’t committ to a job search because of it and i’m hesistant to schedule a therapy appt, what the hell is wrong with me?? I feel […] View

    Don’t be afraid to reach out for help and support when you need too @invincible, I’m sure you will find the right therapist, remember we all deserve to have someone who will listen to and hear us, please know the BT community will always be here for you lovely Cecelia and so will I, you will find direction and purpose in life sweetheart and you…[Read more]

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