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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days ago

    In reply to: Dan posted an update Hey everyone! When I was 12, I started volunteering at Blahtherapy as a listener and I did that consistently from then till I was 17. Skipping to current day now I’m about to complete my Bsc […] View

    It’s great to see you have been helping and supporting people here on BT for such a long time @chrono-danny, thank you for being so kind and awesome Dan, continue working hard and making all your dreams come true Dan, you will become a compassionate therapist/psychologist and it’s wonderful to see that BT is helping you achieve that Dan,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update i know i posted not that long ago being real emo and shit but something really cool happened. on new year’s eve, it was one of my coworkers birthday and i was invited to a little get […] View

    Awwww that’s so cute, sweet and adorable @peiyopei, hope this relationship continues going strong for both of you Finnian, hopefully this will become a serious romantic relationship for you or a very close friendship, remember to always communicate, be open and honest with each other, I wish you all the best Finnian, feel free to inbox me anytime…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update Happy New Year! View

    Hope you have a fantastic new year filled with hope, love, happiness and positivity @flameaura, here’s to a great 2021 for you!, remember you are so awesome, wonderful and amazing FlameAura, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update May I and anyone reading this grow, learn, and succeed in 2021. ♥ Cheers and happy new year. stay safe. View

    Thank you for sharing an inspirational new years post here on BT @invincible, hope you have a wonderful 2021 beautiful angel Cecelia filled with happiness and positivity because you truly deserve to shine and feel incredible sweetheart, remember I’ll always be here if you ever need to talk, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I had no idea I was THIS fucking weak and pathetic. Wow. View

    Please don’t think like that @invincible, you are so kind, compassionate and beautiful Cecelia, don’t let anyone or anything bring you down sweetie, always be good to yourself Cecelia because you are truly incredible sweetheart, smile Cecelia and be as optimistic as you can sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Guess who has come back into my life.. the person that I was super close with and they just dumped me for several months leaving me in a state of confusion and depression. Hm. Now they are […] View

    They should not have dumped you @invincible, they should apologise to you and try to make things right, I would do what you feel is beneficial and positive emotionally and mentally for yourself sweetie, I don’t want to see you hurt at all beautiful angel Cecelia, honestly the best thing to do is to cut toxic people out of your life and surround…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update it’s been over a year since i checked in on here. weird. seeing how far i’ve come but also how far i haven’t. i’ve been having very strong urges for starting over. i want to cut relations […] View

    I agree with @flameaura, you should be so proud of how far you have come and how much you have accomplished @peiyopei, do stay positive and remember to focus on making all your dreams come true and finding happiness in life Finnian, you will find your path in life Finnian, you will meet new people who will show you compassion and love, your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update it’s really hard to get over someone when your subconscious constantly makes you dream about them…. makes my day and mood entirely tragic. Ugh. So hard, it’s embarassing! View

    Please don’t feel sad and embarrassed @invincible, if this person caused you pain and unhappiness, try to not think about them sweetie, do your best to stay focused on all the things that bring you happiness and positivity beautiful angel Cecelia, put your mind at ease and don’t let anything or anyone negative upset you Cecelia, everything will…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: fudge_cake posted an update stressed at school but the levels are changing and my tuition fee is at stake. I still feel the pressure. View

    Please don’t let stress get you down @fudgecake, do work as hard as you can but remember to relax and take time away from your studies when needed, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, you will be successful and make all your dreams come true, remember to stay upbeat and be as optimistic as you can, hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: ClareBear posted an update its insane how time passes. This page helped me so much for so long. View

    It’s great to see you back on BT @clara332, hope you are OK and things are going well in your life, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update My first breakup didn’t even hurt this much. I just need somebody to patiently and kindly help me see the good in life again. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling depressed and sad @flameaura, you are such a fantastic, awesome and wonderful person who deserves happiness and positivity in your life, remember to smile and always surround yourself with hope and compassion FlameAura, you will make it through difficult moments and come out feeling so much stronger, things will…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update ya’ll… my patience is being tested beyond limits right now… i don’t know how much more I can take of this before exploding View

    Try to be as calm and relaxed as you can @invincible, you are such a beautiful angel who truly deserves to lead a fulfilling and positive life sweetie, don’t let anyone stand in your way Cecelia, you deserve to be free to make your own choices and decisions in life, get rid of toxic people sweetheart and surround yourself with good influences,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I am 22, capable & responsible.And I want to be as well. And grow further with these skills and maturation.But it’s hard when she drags me down as expecting and treating me like I am […] View

    Your grandma should not treat you like that @invincible, we all deserve to be independent and to be able to lead our own lives as positively and happily as we can beautiful angel Cecelia, your grandma should care for you and be there to support you but she shouldn’t hold you back, remember to hold your head up high sweetheart, smile brightly…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update My father has been cheating on my mom. He admitted to it yesterday. The day before, she caught him texting a woman. He denied it, but she saw it…It isn’t just one. It’s several. He […] View

    I’m so sorry that is happening to you and your family @devilndisguise, your father has no right to do that to you or your mother, my awesome friend Hayden, he should try his best to make things work with your mother so you can remain a loving family, he shouldn’t be aggressive towards your dog, that’s not good at all Hayden, I would try to come…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: viv posted an update hey :) just a little update: im not stressed out by school. i got my grades up and I’m not in love anymore. i replaced those friends with new ones. my depression has been bad for a while and I […] View

    Do stay positive and remember to always surround yourself with love, empathy and kindness @youllbeokay, everything will be OK and so many more brighter days are ahead for you Viv, it’s nice to see that you have good friends in your life, we all deserve a close bond with special people in our lives, you do too Viv, don’t let depression beat you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: BlackRabbit posted an update There has been o e person on here who has always been here for me. I may not reply fast. Lots of times months apart but I always come back to a reply. I don’t know him very well and […] View

    Awwww, glad this person can help and always be there for you @blackrabbit, I think you are talking about me here, so if you are, I’m so touched and glad I can be here to support and help you BlackRabbit, I want to see you truly smiling and to be positive because you are so perfect, special, incredible and awesome in every way BlackRabbit, you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update my family they always ask each other about their lives but never me… not abt school, my writings, my hobbies, my life… they ask each other ”hows work” ”how is your latest project coming” … […] View

    Your family should treat you with love, kindness and care @invincible, they should ask you questions every-day like ”how was your day” or ”how are you feeling”, so you feel appreciated, cared for, accepted, valued and looked after sweetheart, you are such a beautiful angel who deserves to feel loved wonderful Cecelia, always remember that so many…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update i never thought that at such an obvious low in my life my ’family’ would continue to treat me like utter shit. idk how i even feel about it. shocked? not really… but hurt? always. i am […] View

    Your family have absolutely no right to treat you badly @invincible, you are such a beautiful, lovely and special person who deserves all the happiness and positivity that life has to offer sweetie, I want to see you smiling and being treated with compassion angel Cecelia, remember to always surround yourself with people who will show you love and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update It’s a waiting game now… it could happen any day. Meanwhile I have been ordered complete bed rest. View

    Please take care of yourself @kinkymomo, what matters is that you and the baby are both healthy and safe, I’m so sorry this happened to you Kinkymomo, I know things are really difficult for you but please don’t give up, you are so brave and courageous Kinkymomo, you will make it through this because you are a survivor Kinkymomo, please know…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: lovers00 posted an update i haven’t written on here in a over a year but heres an update on what you guys have missed. I was dating a guy for 10 months but was super toxic he broke up and left me multiple times […] View

    Great to see you back on BT @lovers00, it’s wonderful to see you feeling cheerful and positive, remember to surround yourself with hope and compassion, do get rid of toxic people from your life because you truly deserve to be treated with kindness and love, remember to keep smiling and always make each day as bright as you can, hold your head up…[Read more]

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