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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: llUNKNOWNll posted an update This week has been full of so many downs, I’ve been going hard in therapy and I have been dealing with a lot of doubt. Doubting if I am giving too much or not enough to those I care […] View

    Please don’t doubt yourself @llunknownll, remember to stay positive and focused on making all your goals, dreams and aspirations come true, I’m sure you will do great things in life, you will have a fantastic career that makes you feel fulfilled and gives you a sense of purpose, hope and optimism, it can be nerve-racking to think of the future,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update It is with a heavy heart that I announce the passing of our beloved cat Neferpitou, also known as Pitou. He was the shining light in my life, even during the times when he […] View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy moments you spent with your beloved cat, all the times you played together and took care of him, focus on all the times and moments he brought joy, laughter and fun to you, be strong and remember him with love and positivity, you can do it, please know I’m always here…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update I appear content, but I can’t help but imagine how foreign a smile would feel on my own face. It’s been ages since I genuinely smiled. This facade is slowly falling apart. View

    Please don’t feel hopeless and numb @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a brilliant, awesome and lovely person who truly deserves all the happiness in the world, don’t let yourself fall apart, always be kind to yourself and surround yourself with love, positivity, compassion and hope, everything will be OK, hold your head up high because you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update sometimes he makes me feel empty but sometimes he makes me feel so alive View

    Your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness @invincible, he should make you feel beautiful, happy, wanted, loved and appreciated sweetheart, don’t ever let him be rude to you, make you feel empty or down, he should make you feel that you are important to him and that the relationship matters to him, I would talk to him…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Katherine posted an update daily reminder ~ you are loved <3 you are valued <3 you matter <3 View

    Thank you for always being so kind, sweet and lovely @teamtennantgirl, keep spreading love, compassion and goodness here on BT, hope you are doing well Katherine and things are going fantastically in your life, remember to always smile because you are beautiful, special and amazing, please know I’m always here for you Katherine, feel free to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: blackdog posted an update Life is actually pretty good even though I’m severely underemployed, but as I get older my unshakable feeling that I will never find love and die alone becomes more and more of a rational […] View

    Try to stay positive and upbeat @blackdog, I’m sure you will find the right career path and job that you will enjoy and will be beneficial for you and your bright future, you will make all your goals, hopes, dreams and aspirations come true, don’t give up on love, it may take time but I’m sure you will find the one for you, you will meet your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update day has gotten better… but the random intervals of people showing off what their SOs did for Vday is kind of annoying. esp getting texts from toxic or abusive relationships showing off […] View

    I would talk to him about how he is treating you @invincible, be open and honest with him beautiful angel Cecelia, it’s up to him to listen and change his ways so you can strengthen your relationship together, I want to see you feeling truly happy sweetie and being treated right angel Cecelia, hope everything works out positively sweetheart,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update too stunned rn because my valentine’s morning consisted of my bf angrily snapping at me over the phone so i’m feeling real great rn. View

    That’s not OK @invincible, your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness every day but especially on this day, he should apologise to you sweetie and try to make things right because you deserve so much better angel Cecelia, remember you deserve to feel loved, looked after and taken care of by your partner, do your best to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel View

    Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: llUNKNOWNll posted an update So, since my last post I have begun working after some time off. I thought the transition would be harder because I have to leave my son at home but it has been going surprisingly […] View

    Keep working as hard as you can but remember it’s OK to take breaks to relax and rest when you need too @llunknownll, please know you are a wonderful, caring and awesome parent who is doing their absolute best to support their child, it’s so brave and courageous that you have returned to therapy and counselling, I’m sure it will help so you can…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Right now its a rough patch but I feel like I’m about to go over the hill of happiness and success soon. Just right now I am overwhelmed and stressed, I moved in with BF and our place is a […] View

    You will be OK @invincible, do focus on getting your home completed and on being successful in your new job sweetie, I’m sure you will get everything sorted in a positive way sweetheart, remember to relax when you need too and take time to make yourself feel calm and positive mentally, physically and emotionally by doing your favourite hobbies…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: llUNKNOWNll posted an update Happy New Year to anyone reading this. I hope this year gives you more happiness, self-love, and progress than 2023. This year I want to travel somewhere new, strengthen my boundaries, […] View

    Hope you have a good 2024 @llunknownll, keep spreading as much love, kindness and compassion as you can, remember to always do what makes you happy, I’m sure you will do all the great things you want to do and more, stay upbeat, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    Oli and Profile picture of llUNKNOWNllllUNKNOWNll are now friends 4 months, 2 weeks ago

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update life evolution and changes can b very scary esp when ur traumatized from ur whole childhood n early adulthoodbut i want it more than i want to stay comfortable and miserable.i’ll be […] View

    Trauma and life changes, evolutions and challenges can make us feel anxious and wary of what lies ahead @invincible, but remember to never let those hurdles break you down sweetie, you are so brave, strong and courageous because you have overcome so much beautiful Cecelia, look ahead towards the bright, amazing and wonderful future that will be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Magicka Dude posted an update bit really worried but the site seemed to a lot more active i the past View

    What’s on your mind @magicka-dude, please know I’m always here if you ever need to talk, vent or chat about anything, it has been really quiet here on BT as of late, but hopefully one day this site will return to being an active place filled with kindness, compassion and love where we all help and support each other, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “The weird, weird thing about devastating loss is that life actually goes on. When you’re faced with a tragedy, a loss so huge that you have no idea how you can live through […] View

    It can feel strange that life does go on when you have suffered a tremendous loss but remember to always focus on the happier, positive and upbeat moments you had with the person you lost, keep them in your heart and in your memories @helplessandhelpful1996, know that you will make it through this loss and come out feeling stronger and ready to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: llUNKNOWNll posted an update Christmas is approaching, I’ve never ever celebrated it but I’ve always wanted to go all out with the tree, the awesome lights, the presents, mostly spending that family time together. […] View

    Try to have a good Christmas and New Year @llunknownll filled with happiness, love and joy, surrounded by those you care about, stay positive and always optimistic, I’m sure the year 2024 will be successful and amazing for you, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: llUNKNOWNll posted an update Today’s my last day of therapy (by choice) I feel like I need more time with it but at the same time I feel strong enough to go on alone. I’m excited and look forward to this new year […] View

    I’m so proud of you @llunknownll, I hope that the therapy you had was beneficial and will truly help you feel happier and better within yourself, remember to stay positive and go out into the world with your head held high and a sense of optimism, confidence and happiness, always be kind to yourself, keep going forward with brightness and never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: llUNKNOWNll posted an update It feels so empty logging on. Seems like no one is here. Regardless, I will try to make this my safe space and share a bit here and there. Today wasn’t the greatest of days but I have […] View

    It has been quiet here on BT recently @llunknownll, hopefully one day this site will return to being an active place filled with users who support and help each other, it’s nice to see that you are grateful for your job and family, remember to always spend time with those people who make you happy and do the activities that bring you joy, try to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Tjenare posted an update A tip: Write down the best thing that has happened each day, even if it’s minor things. Its nice to look back at it when in a bad mood. It’s easy to forget the good, little, things View

    It’s so nice to see you spreading positivity and brightness here on BT @tjenare, the best thing that happened to me today is helping people here on BT and attending work with kind colleagues, keep being the awesome, fantastic and special person that you are, remember to smile brightly and always be wonderful, feel free to inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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