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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel

    • Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months ago

    “The weird, weird thing about devastating loss is that life actually goes on. When you’re faced with a tragedy, a loss so huge that you have no idea how you can live through it, somehow, the world keeps turning, the seconds keep ticking.”

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      It can feel strange that life does go on when you have suffered a tremendous loss but remember to always focus on the happier, positive and upbeat moments you had with the person you lost, keep them in your heart and in your memories @helplessandhelpful1996, know that you will make it through this loss and come out feeling stronger and ready to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months ago

    “So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months ago

    “Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months ago

    “Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted a new activity comment 8 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update Goodbyes are not forever, Goodbyes are not the end; It simply means I’ll miss you Until we meet again. View

    thanks alot … i have a huge support system on discord all his friends and family have gathered together to support each other im thankful for them and for friends like you

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 8 months, 1 week ago

    Goodbyes are not forever,
    Goodbyes are not the end;
    It simply means I’ll miss you
    Until we meet again.

    Mood : Sad
    • I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy, positive and upbeat moments you spent with the person you miss, all the times you laughed and had fun together, I’m sure that wherever they are now, that they miss you too, be strong and brave, you will make it through this, I’m always here if you need to talk, chat or…[Read more]

    • thanks alot … i have a huge support system on discord all his friends and family have gathered together to support each other im thankful for them and for friends like you

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago

    “There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable love.”– Washington Irving

    Mood : Drained
    • I don’t want to see you feeling drained, sad and upset @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a wonderful, lovely and awesome person who deserves to feel happy, positive and upbeat, remember to smile and surround yourself with love, compassion and optimism, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 8 months ago

    “The hour of departure has arrived, and we go our separate ways, I to die, and you to live. Which of these two is better only God knows.”
    ― Socrates

    Mood : Restless
    • Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, don’t kill yourself, you are such a wonderful, amazing and incredible person who deserves to be here, you were put on this earth to make all your dreams come true and to do fantastic things, everything will be OK, don’t let anything stand in the way of your happiness, hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 8 months ago

    Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.
    Lou Holtz

    Mood : Depressed
    • You will overcome any hurdles that life throws at you @helplessandhelpful1996, don’t let anything stand in the way of your happiness, you are a wonderful person who truly deserves to feel awesome, you will make it through the struggles of life and come out stronger, hold your head up high, smile brightly and keep going forward with purpose and…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update in the group Group logoJah Rastafari Movement 3 years, 8 months ago

    “You say you love rain, but you use an umbrella to walk under it. You say you love sun, but you seek shelter when it is shining. You say you love wind, but when it comes you close your windows. So that’s why I’m scared when you say you love me.”

    ― Bob Marely

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • Hope you are OK and doing well @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a lovely, awesome and wonderful person, keep inspiring the BT community with insightful and wise quotes, I will always be here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 8 months ago

    For without pain, there can be no pleasure. Without sadness, there can be no happiness. Without misery there can be no beauty. And without these, life is endless, hopeless, doomed and damned.

    Mood : Calm
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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 joined the group Group logoSocial Anxiety 3 years, 8 months ago

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted a new activity comment 3 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update Words to accurately describe me: Pathetic, reclusive, failure, sad, depressed, lost, lonely, stupid, hopeless, alone :( View

    are you okay ?I know I am hardly around but I am here

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update in the group Group logoJah Rastafari Movement 3 years, 8 months ago

    The Rastafari identity can serve as a radical challenge to oppression because it demands that reform begin with oneself.
    Charles Price

    Mood : Apathetic
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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted a new activity comment 3 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” “We were together even when we were apart.” “If you listen to the wind very carefully, you’ll be able to hear me whisper my […] View

    thanks my husband and I just got married this past December but hes american and I am Canadian and our borders are closed I miss him so much. I also miss my job and my friends

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 8 months ago

    “Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” “We were together even when we were apart.” “If you listen to the wind very carefully, you’ll be able to hear me whisper my love for you.” “Missing someone is a part of loving them “Missing someone is a part of loving them. If you’re never apart, you’ll never really know how strong your love is.”

    Mood : Sad
    • I’m so sorry you are missing someone who is special to you @helplessandhelpful1996, try to remember all the happy and wonderful times you spent with this person, all the good moments and memories you laughed, smiled and had fun together, I’m 100% sure that this person is missing you too, be strong, you will make it through this, try to keep…[Read more]

    • thanks my husband and I just got married this past December but hes american and I am Canadian and our borders are closed I miss him so much. I also miss my job and my friends

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago

    Especially during all of this isolation, things could get rough mentally for some! Depression, anxiety and PTSD are very real. I would like my friends to post this so I know who I can talk to if I ever need someone. I want others to know im here to
    I think I know who will.

    Mood : Optimistic
    • Please don’t let depression, anxiety and PTSD beat you @helplessandhelpful1996, things are difficult because of the isolation and loneliness many of us feel due to COVID-19, but know you are truly a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves all the happiness that the world has to offer, remember to smile brightly and make each day as…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update It isn’t always popping pills, downing whiskey, or slicing veins. Sometimes it’s crossing the street without looking; sometimes it isn’t wearing your seatbelt. Sometimes […] View

    Thanks . I just felt like posting something . not necessarily is it how im feeling . ive got my down days but ive got things to look forward to . Ill be ok thanks for checking in

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

    It isn’t always popping pills, downing whiskey, or slicing veins. Sometimes it’s crossing the street without looking; sometimes it isn’t wearing your seatbelt. Sometimes it’s as simple as staying up all night, because you don’t want tomorrow to come.

    Mood : Awake
    • Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, things may seem difficult but they will get better, you will do amazing things and make all your dreams come true, I don’t want to see you hurt yourself, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to always be the incredible, special and fantastic person that you are, keep…[Read more]

    • Thanks . I just felt like posting something . not necessarily is it how im feeling . ive got my down days but ive got things to look forward to . Ill be ok thanks for checking in

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