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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 days, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Is just unbelievable how I give all my effort for nothing. Nothing. People who don’t deserve it and take advantage of me. I just apreciate the fact I still have my books around and my […] View

    Get away from people like that as soon as you notice their true intentions Mariko. There’s always people who take the easy ways and try to get everything from others without making any kind of effort. You don’t deserve that kind of treatment. You’ll find people who care and love you Mariko, don’t give up!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 days, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Why do I attract such unauthentic, obsessive weirdos? View

    Reading this comes to my mind a quote that states: the world has strategically placed annoying people so you always run into one of them every day. But on the bright side, we also run into nice and truly good hearted people. You are one of them Cecelia, and you’ll find people like you. Keep looking for them, don’t give up!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 days, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Flashbacks hitting again hurray. View

    And they usually come unexpectedly and in the worst at the times… However, the same way they appeared, they’ll disappear. Try an enjoyable activity for you and focus as much as you can into it Mariko, so you can get through these flashbacks easily.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 days, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I should get drunk or talk medication to make me obnoxiously open and go tell a therapist EVERYTHING because I am honestly so sick of this and I want to do know WHY I am THIS bad. View

    Going to therapy can be very helpful and enlightening. But don’t let your thoughts make you believe you are bad or wrong Cecelia. We go through hard times that make us feel terribly bad, but do not make us a bad/made wrong person at all. So if you have the chance, open up to anyone you trust (either family, friends, therapist…) and tell about…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Aloof View

    I hope everything is ok Cecelia, and that nothing wrong happened to make you feel that way. Take good care of yourself. Sending you good vibes and a big hug <3

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Trevor posted an update Nights like tonight I really just want to die. ”Luckily” I’m far too full of rage to point that devastation inward right now. I wish I could just choke the life out of someone right now. […] View

    I’m sorry to hear you are in such situation Trevor. I don’t know what material or personal resources do you have right now (if you can move with family, or to another city, communicate by phone with family/friends, etc.), and for what you said, speaking with your partner about how you’ve been feeling doesn’t look like an potion. Situations…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update After so many years struggling, it was suggested to me I might suffer from body dysmorphia. I decided to read about it and nothing made so much sense before. View

    When you’re reading about something, and it just feels like every single detail that is exposed is describing yourself, it’s heavily enlightening. Use that information to help yourself feel better and improve. And never stop fighting Mariko, you are strong!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Made some new friends, one great friend. Hopefully it will be good. View

    That’s wonderful Cecelia, I’m so happy for you!! I hope everything turns out well and that this new friendships turn out as meaningful, trustworthy and that bring to you happiness and a lot of special memories. You really deserved it!!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I would like to solve and fix things, just do not know how to keep it secret and get through it View

    I don’t know if the reason you want to keep it secret it’s because it’s the best for you or because you don’t feel comforable with it. Just think carefully about it and if you need help to solve something, ask for it Cecelia. Your loved ones will be more than glad to help you. You don’t have to go through it alone.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: LoneWolf posted an update Sometimes I get that feeling of just wanting to have a chat with someone. Maybe I really am a boring person. View

    Everyone of us has something to tell, and so do you LoneWolf. You are a wonderful and unique person, don’t let these bad thoughts make you believe otherwise. You have stories, passions, fears, dreams and funny things to share with whoever you chose to, you are not a boring person. Believe in yourself and stay strong!!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update What do I do with so many feelings? :| View

    One approach would be trying to identify all of those feelings one by one. If they are negative, work with one at a time so they finally dissipate or become a positive one. Don’t rush things and give yourself all the time you need Mariko, you are a strong fighter. Believe in yourself!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update SO disappointed in myself for not doing things View

    It’s a terrible feeling, to be disappointed at yourself. And the worst part is that we are SO harsh at ourselves, we make it even worse. Try to let it go Cecelia, we are not infallible machines that work 24/7. Some days we are not able to get things done, and that’s completely okay. You’ll get it eventually done, you can be sure of that. Give…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Samantha posted an update Got a new boyfriend. I wonder how it will go with this one. View

    That’s great Samantha! I hope your new relationship brings you a lot of happiness and wonderful moments :)

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update ”AM I actually unattractive or is it just my mind messing with me??” is the questionI swear my insecurities of myself physical & emotional is ruining my life! View

    Your mind it’s going to play tricks on you and will try to make you believe things that are not true. So do not ever doubt about it; you ARE beautiful, inside and outside Cecelia. Love every single part of you, because you are a wonderful, kind and strong human being, never forget it! <3

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Since 2 weeks ago, I’ve been having deep episodes of sadness, despair and emptiness. I usually live with them, but lately those feelings are stronger than I am. I know this is not a […] View

    Thank you so much Cecelia, you are always so supportive and kind ♥. I’m hanging in there. Still struggling, but feeling a bit better already. I wish you a nice day full of happiness @invincible! :)

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Kendra =) posted an update Being mentally abused for 5 years before i got into a better relationship ( its starting to go down hill and its happening again ) what do i do help please View

    If your current relationship it’s starting to take a path that doesn’t make you feel very comfortable and it’s starting to concern you, talk about it with your partner Kendra @keleiaa211. Make clear which are your worries, the things that make you feel bad and what the both of you can do to improve the relationship. You deserve to be in a…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Terrible genes View

    Some of them might seem terrible, but every single one of them are unique and wonderful just as you are @invincible. Never forget about it <3

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Since 2 weeks ago, I’ve been having deep episodes of sadness, despair and emptiness. I usually live with them, but lately those feelings are stronger than I am. I know this is not a […] View

    Thank you so much Oli, you are a true angel full of kindness <3. I'll keep fighting and moving fordward, holding my head up very high. Sometimes it's difficult to find the strenght, but I know that hard times are not forever and bright days will eventually come. Your words mean so much to me @oliver, thank you for always cheering me up. Remember…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Since 2 weeks ago, I’ve been having deep episodes of sadness, despair and emptiness. I usually live with them, but lately those feelings are stronger than I am. I know this is not a […] View

    You are right Tinted:Bubble @damagedcoconut, when we find ourselves struggling and during tough times, we think that we are not able to go through that closed door, but eventually we find other ways to go out. Thank you so much for your kind words, they really cheer me up and let me see a little bit of light. I hope you are having a nice and…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Tinted:Bubble posted an update Hi Blahtherapy, I wanted to report someone who keeps hacking into the chat system and posting this message: just now i seeking a guy, ready to talk on any subject, my nickname […] View

    It’s frustrating when a chat which purpose is to let people help and be helped, it’s hacked and plagued by trols. Thanks for being part of the solution @damagedcoconut, and I hope that situation can be fixed !!

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