Get away from people like that as soon as you notice their true intentions Mariko. There’s always people who take the easy ways and try to get everything from others without making any kind of effort. You don’t deserve that kind of treatment. You’ll find people who care and love you Mariko, don’t give up!

Reading this comes to my mind a quote that states: the world has strategically placed annoying people so you always run into one of them every day. But on the bright side, we also run into nice and truly good hearted people. You are one of them Cecelia, and you’ll find people like you. Keep looking for them, don’t give up!

And they usually come unexpectedly and in the worst at the times… However, the same way they appeared, they’ll disappear. Try an enjoyable activity for you and focus as much as you can into it Mariko, so you can get through these flashbacks easily.

Going to therapy can be very helpful and enlightening. But don’t let your thoughts make you believe you are bad or wrong Cecelia. We go through hard times that make us feel terribly bad, but do not make us a bad/made wrong person at all. So if you have the chance, open up to anyone you trust (either family, friends, therapist…) and tell about…[Read more]

I hope everything is ok Cecelia, and that nothing wrong happened to make you feel that way. Take good care of yourself. Sending you good vibes and a big hug <3

I’m sorry to hear you are in such situation Trevor. I don’t know what material or personal resources do you have right now (if you can move with family, or to another city, communicate by phone with family/friends, etc.), and for what you said, speaking with your partner about how you’ve been feeling doesn’t look like an potion. Situations…[Read more]

When you’re reading about something, and it just feels like every single detail that is exposed is describing yourself, it’s heavily enlightening. Use that information to help yourself feel better and improve. And never stop fighting Mariko, you are strong!

That’s wonderful Cecelia, I’m so happy for you!! I hope everything turns out well and that this new friendships turn out as meaningful, trustworthy and that bring to you happiness and a lot of special memories. You really deserved it!!

I don’t know if the reason you want to keep it secret it’s because it’s the best for you or because you don’t feel comforable with it. Just think carefully about it and if you need help to solve something, ask for it Cecelia. Your loved ones will be more than glad to help you. You don’t have to go through it alone.

Everyone of us has something to tell, and so do you LoneWolf. You are a wonderful and unique person, don’t let these bad thoughts make you believe otherwise. You have stories, passions, fears, dreams and funny things to share with whoever you chose to, you are not a boring person. Believe in yourself and stay strong!!

One approach would be trying to identify all of those feelings one by one. If they are negative, work with one at a time so they finally dissipate or become a positive one. Don’t rush things and give yourself all the time you need Mariko, you are a strong fighter. Believe in yourself!

It’s a terrible feeling, to be disappointed at yourself. And the worst part is that we are SO harsh at ourselves, we make it even worse. Try to let it go Cecelia, we are not infallible machines that work 24/7. Some days we are not able to get things done, and that’s completely okay. You’ll get it eventually done, you can be sure of that. Give…[Read more]

That’s great Samantha! I hope your new relationship brings you a lot of happiness and wonderful moments

Your mind it’s going to play tricks on you and will try to make you believe things that are not true. So do not ever doubt about it; you ARE beautiful, inside and outside Cecelia. Love every single part of you, because you are a wonderful, kind and strong human being, never forget it! <3

Thank you so much Cecelia, you are always so supportive and kind ♥. I’m hanging in there. Still struggling, but feeling a bit better already. I wish you a nice day full of happiness @invincible!

If your current relationship it’s starting to take a path that doesn’t make you feel very comfortable and it’s starting to concern you, talk about it with your partner Kendra @keleiaa211. Make clear which are your worries, the things that make you feel bad and what the both of you can do to improve the relationship. You deserve to be in a…[Read more]

Some of them might seem terrible, but every single one of them are unique and wonderful just as you are @invincible. Never forget about it <3

Thank you so much Oli, you are a true angel full of kindness <3. I'll keep fighting and moving fordward, holding my head up very high. Sometimes it's difficult to find the strenght, but I know that hard times are not forever and bright days will eventually come. Your words mean so much to me @oliver, thank you for always cheering me up. Remember…[Read more]

You are right Tinted:Bubble @damagedcoconut, when we find ourselves struggling and during tough times, we think that we are not able to go through that closed door, but eventually we find other ways to go out. Thank you so much for your kind words, they really cheer me up and let me see a little bit of light. I hope you are having a nice and…[Read more]

It’s frustrating when a chat which purpose is to let people help and be helped, it’s hacked and plagued by trols. Thanks for being part of the solution @damagedcoconut, and I hope that situation can be fixed !!