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    Marta posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Excellent Listener posted an update It’s been four-ish years since ’ve logged in, looking to help and possibly make connections View

    Welcome back @excellentlistener! :)

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I got my midterm test extension approved, I am feeling like blocks are being opened, I couldn’t be more hopeful during a rocky time. Things can only look up for us now. But we have to work […] View

    As you said, a spark of light between all of the darkness. You really deserve it Cecelia, especially after all the difficult days you’ve been through. It’s really inspiring how you face the future with optimism and will. You should be very proud of how much you’ve work on yourself, how much you’ve grown, and of the marvelous person you are ❤

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I had to say goodbye to my best friend today. Our dog who has been in congestive heart failure was euthanized in the comfort of his home today. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to […] View

    Such a loss is heartbreaking, I’m really sorry Hayden. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through. Know that he lived his best life by your side, being truly loved and cared. And also as important, you were by his side giving him comfort when he needed you most. I know there’s very little than I can say to ease your pain, but if you need…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update My life holds absolutely no meaning and no purpose, I’m 32, no friends, no social life, no romantic relationship, no goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations, no hobbies or interests, nothing in my […] View

    Oli, I can tell you, without a trace of doubt, that you are not any of that things. You are generous, kind hearted, selfless, wise, positive, honest, respectful, righteous, empathetic… You have so many virtues. It’s difficult to see them when the mind makes all the efforts to let you see just the bad side. But me, and everyone in BT, are here…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Making an effort to be more active here. I will try to check in periodically. Although there aren’t many people around nowadays, I’m glad to see the spam isn’t around like it was years […] View

    It’s so nice to have you back Hayden! As you said, there’s no more spam nowasays, thanks to the site moderators. Glad to hear that you can enjoy some time off work doing things that make you happy! Hoping that you are having a great day too Hayden :)

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update So many red flags. Instead of suffering in my own emotional turmoil and confusion, I should take it out creatively and productively. View

    Such a smart and kind way to deal with the situation! That shows a lot of emotional intelligence from you Cecelia. Although we should allow ourselves to feel every emotion, it’s not good to drown in them and let them consume us.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I had such a happy weekend with my boyfriend. I can’t understand why coming from both ends comes drama and distress which just causes sadness and anger and pain when we are apart during […] View

    You really deserve to have a happy and healthy relationship Cecelia ❤. Hoping that you both can move in together as soon as possible!

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    Marta and Profile picture of HaydenHayden are now friends 11 months, 3 weeks ago

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 11 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Dreams of being lost in big, desert mountains while trying to hide. View

    Dreams can be extraordinarily odd, and have a misterious way of telling us what’s going on in our minds. I hope these dreams are not disturbing to you, and that they let you rest at night Cecelia ❤.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 year ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Overwhelmed. Feeling like I’m too much. View

    It’s one of the worst feelings to have. When you think you are too much, there’s nothing to convince you otherwise. Unfortunately, I know that feeling quite well. Cecelia, I just want you to know that you are enough. Never too less neither too much. Whenever you have that overwhelming feeling, try to remember that. You are an incredible fighter,…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 year ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Hello everyone! Long time no post! I’m doing alright, the past 2 or so weeks have been difficult with just so much loss recently. I’m just thankful that it’s summer time and I can […] View

    Welcome back Kayla :) . I’m sorry to read that you’ve suffered a recent loss, it’s something very difficult to go through. Although, it’s nice that you are looking forward the summer and to spend time outside! It’s does good for body and mind <3

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    Marta posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    Hi everyone! It’s been a long time since the last update. Not much to mention. I had good days and bad days. I’m managing my emotions with the resources I have, and trying to stay grounded. I hope you are all feeling okay and having a nice week so far. Remember to eat and drink, do something you love, and to treat yourself with kindness. You deserve it ❤

    • Hope you are OK @m1s1m3, remember to stay positive beautiful angel Marta, be kind to yourself sweetie and surround yourself with brightness, hope and goodness, fill each day with activities that make you smile sweetie and feel upbeat Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you angelic Marta, I love and care about you sweetheart and I want the…[Read more]

    • Thanks so much Marta. I’ve missed you and I’m glad to hear you’re doing well. Don’t forget that you deserve it too.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Beyond stressed. I feel both my parent and partner tugging at me and I am losing myself in the process.. it’s very triggering because it’s reminiscent of my childhood. Emotionally gaslit […] View

    That last line just hit right in the spot… You are not a priority to yourself. It did hit a soft spot to me too, because I’m the same way. It’s very difficult to change that if it’s something you’ve been doing for a long time. Even so, you have to treat yourself with the same kindness and love that you would treat a loved one. This won’t…[Read more]

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    Marta posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    Hello everybody! I just want to wish y’all a fantastic start of the week. Remember to stay hydrated, to eat something nutritious, to rest your body and mind, to do some activity that brings you joy, and to spend time with a loved one. You are important and loved ❤

    Mood : Peaceful
    • Thank you for always being so kind, loving and sweet @m1s1m3, you always give out so much compassion, empathy and love to all of us here on BT beautiful angel Marta, hope you are doing OK wonderful angel and you have a fantastic week as well Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you sweetheart, I love and care about you so much and you mean…[Read more]

    • thank you for this reminder, I need to really put this as a priority, you’re such a positive influence on this site. I appreciate you and Oli beyond belief! ♥

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Not me having a spicy dream w/ my boyfriend whom i am super passionate about in every single way, and then in the dream suddenly my ex (big regret disgust) and BOSS (abusive) show up… […] View

    *facpalm* Absolutely ruined the dream xD. The worst part it’s that you wake up with negative feelings that are hard to shake off during the day. Try to do relaxing routines before bed time, so the chances to have bad dreams decrease.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and […] View

    It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

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