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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Up and down. With the draining, exhausted anxiety comes some exciting anxiety (good) and hope. View

    Don’t let anxiety break you down @invincible, remember to stay positive beautiful angel Cecelia and focus on all the moments that bring a wonderful smile to you and on the things that give you a sense of hope, optimism and brightness, always be kind to yourself because you do matter and you are worth it sweetheart, please know I’ll always be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Panic attacks every night this week. Now utter anxiety. Car trouble and feeling emotionally neglected. View

    Please try to find ways to put yourself at ease, relax and calm yourself mentally, emotionally and physically @invincible, don’t let anxiety break you down sweetie, take deep breathes, listen to the sounds of calmness and focus on putting yourself in a state of peace, happiness and positivity beautiful Cecelia, I hope you manage to get your car…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Now that I have some creative and productive blocks opening up, and work is going OK rather than horridly — I am contemplating some aspects in my relationship. I could put my self down as […] View

    You will overcome all the blocks and everything will work out amazingly for you @invincible, remember to stay positive and know you will make fantastic things happen beautiful angel Cecelia, keep working as hard as you can in your job but know your happiness and whether you are comfortable in the job should always come first sweetie, I would talk…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My toxic boss got fired! So happy and relieved beyond belief! There is still toxicity deep within the company, so I will still be looking to leave – but I can do so without feeling like […] View

    That’s good to hear, you should be able to go to work feeling positive and ready to do your job to the best of your ability @invincible, I would find a job in a company where the culture is caring and where you feel truly happy and comfortable beautiful Cecelia, don’t let your former toxic boss sour you on finding a great job sweetie, I’m sure…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update overwhelmed and not happy right now. :/ View

    I don’t want to see you feeling overwhelmed and unhappy @invincible, you are such a special, lovely and beautiful angel who deserves true happiness, positivity and brightness in your life sweetie, what’s on your mind Cecelia?, don’t let the sad and difficult times get you down sweetheart, focus on all the things in life that make you smile and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update HOW can someone expect resepct when they never give it to me. I’ve been set up to fail so of course I’m gonna do all I can to get a taste of individuality and respectable freedom. Jesus. […] View

    They should respect, support and always be there to help you @invincible, anyone who disrespects you or stands in the way of your happiness, goals and dreams doesn’t deserve someone as amazing as you in their lives beautiful Cecelia, remember to be independent, be your own person sweetie, focus on your bright future that lies ahead and don’t let…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Oh great now I am mega in the red for the week and it’s only monday heh. View

    Hope you are able to manage and make it through the week @invincible, don’t be afraid to reach out for support, help and assistance beautiful Cecelia, is there anyone or any organisations you can reach out to in your area sweetie?, try to stay positive, hold your head up high and keep going forward with optimism Cecelia, I wish I could help you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I feel utterly distressed and overwhelmed… I cannot take it anymore where I am treated so insignificantly and like an incapable child by my parent. And I am so over their lack of […] View

    You deserve so much better @invincible, your parents should treat you with love and always support you in what you want to do in life, I would talk to them openly and honestly sweetie, let them know how you feel, because you do deserve independence and to live a fulfilling life that is happy and where you can make your own choices and decisions…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Panic attack and annoyance View

    Focus on putting your mind at ease, relax and find positive ways to calm yourself @invincible, don’t let anxiety break you down sweetie, I want to see you feeling wonderful physically, mentally and emotionally beautiful angel Cecelia, take deep breathes, meditate, listen to calm sounds or music, everything will be OK sweetie, hold your head up…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update How can work go from being great to being an absolute hell… it’s getting worse and worse each day, which is hard to believe but I am living it! LOOKINg for a job but feeling pressure from […] View

    I know how you feel, my job is stressful as I work for the emergency services in the UK but I try to cope with it as best I can @invincible, you deserve to be in a job that makes you feel positive and gives you a sense of fulfilment, remember that your happiness should always come first sweetie, I would try to find a job or career for yourself…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I’m not uncomfortable, but I feel so uncomfortable https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pG2VPXPITg View

    Please don’t feel uncomfortable @invincible, remember to stay positive, smile brightly and always be kind to yourself beautiful angel Cecelia, you deserve to feel comfortable, upbeat and wonderful sweetie, you will make it through the difficult moments and come out stronger as you are a brave survivor sweetheart, keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update A day for staying busy and blasting music … woke up exhausted and snapped at by my toxic boss as well as my sick bf over the phone so… :-) thank god i have reasons to stay busy otherwise i’d […] View

    Please take care of yourself @invincible, remember to stay positive and surround yourself with happiness, hope and empathy beautiful angel Cecelia, your boss really should treat you with respect and not be toxic, as I’m sure you are a great employee who works hard, I would talk to your boyfriend about any issues in the relationship, always keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Beyond stressed. I feel both my parent and partner tugging at me and I am losing myself in the process.. it’s very triggering because it’s reminiscent of my childhood. Emotionally gaslit […] View

    Your parents and your partner should treat you with love and always be there to support you @invincible, you are such a lovely, wonderful and amazing angel who deserves happiness in your life sweetheart, don’t let them gaslight or bully you Cecelia, you have been through so much sweetie and come out as a brave, strong survivor Cecelia, please…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and […] View

    It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Not me having a spicy dream w/ my boyfriend whom i am super passionate about in every single way, and then in the dream suddenly my ex (big regret disgust) and BOSS (abusive) show up… […] View

    You truly deserve to have dreams about and spend time with people who bring you happiness, love and support @invincible, don’t let anxiety and horrible people get you down beautiful Cecelia, remember to focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger and letting each day guide you with positivity, hope and brightness sweetie, smile…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and […] View

    Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. […] View

    Moving fast does not equal moving towards the wrong direction @invincible. Just to give a little example, my partner asked me to live with him when we were just one month into our relationship as a couple (we were friends from a year ago). We finally moved in together when we were 10 months into the relationship. We are currently into our 2 year…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. […] View

    Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, […] View

    You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, […] View

    I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

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