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    Marta posted a new activity comment 3 days, 22 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and […] View

    It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 17 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Not me having a spicy dream w/ my boyfriend whom i am super passionate about in every single way, and then in the dream suddenly my ex (big regret disgust) and BOSS (abusive) show up… […] View

    You truly deserve to have dreams about and spend time with people who bring you happiness, love and support @invincible, don’t let anxiety and horrible people get you down beautiful Cecelia, remember to focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger and letting each day guide you with positivity, hope and brightness sweetie, smile…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 days, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and […] View

    Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. […] View

    Moving fast does not equal moving towards the wrong direction @invincible. Just to give a little example, my partner asked me to live with him when we were just one month into our relationship as a couple (we were friends from a year ago). We finally moved in together when we were 10 months into the relationship. We are currently into our 2 year…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. […] View

    Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, […] View

    You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, […] View

    I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update things are just really hard right now with a territory i’m unfamiliar with and i feel so alone, which i am, especially with dealing with this. View

    Please don’t feel alone @invincible, remember you are such a wonderful, awesome and lovely person Cecelia who deserves to be in a place where you feel safe, positive and happy sweetie, don’t let the dark and difficult moments break you down Cecelia, look forward as your future will be so bright and filled with optimism, I’m sure you will get to…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update things are just really hard right now with a territory i’m unfamiliar with and i feel so alone, which i am, especially with dealing with this. View

    That’s the worst part about dealing with difficult situations… Feeling alone in them. I’m sorry you are going throught that Cecelia. If I can be of any help, or if you need to talk, remember that I’m here for you ♥ @invincible

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I dont’ think I’ve felt awake this whole year. View

    That one’s quite a difficult feeling to manage. Also, the events of these past two-three years do not really help to feel awake. I hope you are doing better now @invincible. Remember to take one day at a time, and to take care of yourself. If you need to chat, you can DM me whenever <3

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I dont’ think I’ve felt awake this whole year. View

    What’s on your mind? @invincible, remember you are such a beautiful, special and awesome person who deserves all the happiness and positivity that life has to offer wonderful angel Cecelia, remember to stay focused on making yourself feel upbeat and surround yourself with brightness sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update He really got me listening to taylor swift at work LOL It’s been 12 years since I used to listen to her HAHAHA View

    Awww, that’s so sweet @invincible, keep listening to music that makes you feel happy, loved and brings a smile to your face beautiful angel Cecelia, glad to see you are doing well sweetie, remember you are truly awesome, incredible and fantastic, stay upbeat Cecelia, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I could cry with how proud I am over the simple perspective in the most miniscule way… just four years ago I was mesmerized with the story of Anna Karenina and I completely glamourized […] View

    It’s absolutely amazing to read this! I’m so happy for you Cecelia <3. You deserve to be loved and to be in a healthy relationship with a partner that makes you feel loved and secure, and that lets you keep growing and be your true self. I wish the best for you, you really deserve it @invincible

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Doing a lot. Taking up and building numerous hobbies, thriving in work, school, relationships… optimism and love seems to be overpowering any kind of fear and insecurity.. View

    Glad to see that things are going well for you @invincible, remember to stay positive and I know you’ll continue to thrive in all parts of your life beautiful angel Cecelia, keep being upbeat sweetie and always smile confidently and brightly, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I could cry with how proud I am over the simple perspective in the most miniscule way… just four years ago I was mesmerized with the story of Anna Karenina and I completely glamourized […] View

    You truly do deserve a loving, fulfilling and positive relationship with someone special @invincible, remember to always be kind to yourself sweetie and please know that any relationship you are in will continue going from strength to strength, be with someone who loves you and who will stick by you through anything, don’t focus on those who…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Feeling a little disappointed and hurt. It just seems that I will try my hardest to dedicate myself and my time to the one I love but they can’t do that for me. My stomach was hurting […] View

    Unfortunately, I know that feeling you describe Cecelia. Sometimes we try our best to be there for the ones we love, even when they do not reciprocate. If that’s the case, you should set boundaries, even if it hurts. Otherwise, they’ll keep benefiting from your kindness without worrying about you neither giving anything back. Something similar…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Feeling a little disappointed and hurt. It just seems that I will try my hardest to dedicate myself and my time to the one I love but they can’t do that for me. My stomach was hurting […] View

    They should do the same for you @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and wonderful person Cecelia who deserves to love and be loved, any person who you are in a relationship with should treat you with the support, care, love, compassion and kindness that you show to them, it’s great to truly love someone but they should always return…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Whenever I feel normal at work, a coworker will raise their voice or yell at me and then I dissociate and get triggered lmaoo View

    *sigh* I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for some people to be polite towards their coworkers. You are spending hours and hours in the same place with them, the bare minimum shall be to have some mutual respect and manners. I’m sorry you have to deal with that Cecelia. If you need to talk, my DMs are always open <3 @invincible

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Whenever I feel normal at work, a coworker will raise their voice or yell at me and then I dissociate and get triggered lmaoo View

    That’s not right at all @invincible, your colleagues and co-workers should treat you with kindness, respect and compassion, I understand you all have jobs to do and you are a team but they should treat you positively so you can work better together, I would talk to your colleagues and let them know how you feel Cecelia, remember you deserve…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 10 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Love is and should be about accepting and adoring the good, the bad, the easy, and the hard. Not just infatuation and idealism. View

    Exactly as you said @invincible. Love is about accepting the person as a whole, with all their bad and all their good. Some people should remember that.

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