I don’t think a lot of young men understand how frustrating it is to be aroused but cannot do anything about it because you are so insecure or your insecurity botches the encounter u have with ur partner.

You will be OK @invincible, do focus on getting your home completed and on being successful in your new job sweetie, I’m sure you will get everything sorted in a positive way sweetheart, remember to relax when you need too and take time to make yourself feel calm and positive mentally, physically and emotionally by doing your favourite hobbies and interests, please be kind to yourself angel, remember you are beautiful and amazing inside and out Cecelia, don’t let doubts and insecurities break you down Cecelia, when you look in the mirror, always smile at the lovely person you see staring back at you sweetheart, you truly are perfect, fantastic and awesome in every way Cecelia, hold your head up high and never give up sweetie, you can do it beautiful Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone <3 (hugs)

Thank you for sharing @invincible. It’s never easy going through a lot of changes. It’s going to take some time to adjust. I’m glad that you are happier at your new job. I can relate on the hardship of accepting our bodies for how they are sometimes. I hope that you come to love and accept your self in every way possible. You got this!

thank you so much!