I’m so sorry for your loss and for his loss too @invincible, I would be there to support your colleague and co-worker as much as you can beautiful angel Cecelia, let him know you are there to help him as a caring friend, let him share memories of his wife with you if he is able and comfortable enough too, I’m sure your co-worker will be glad that you are here for him during this difficult time, let your co-worker know it’s OK to take time to grieve the loss of his wife as well Cecelia, hope everything works out for your co-worker Cecelia, please know I’m always here for you too sweetie, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone <3 (hugs)