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    Oli posted an update 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    My life holds absolutely no meaning and no purpose, I’m 32, no friends, no social life, no romantic relationship, no goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations, no hobbies or interests, nothing in my depressing life, I’m so shy, awkward, introverted, lonely and alone, I wish I knew how to communicate with people, how to talk, socialise and build meaningful relationships, I’m such a pathetic loner and recluse, I’m just a complete loser, I feel so disconnected from this world, everything in it and everyone in it, I’m better off disappearing and dead because there’s no hope for me, none. :(

    To everyone on BT – don’t ever become like me, a failure, a let-down and a disappointment :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli, I can tell you, without a trace of doubt, that you are not any of that things. You are generous, kind hearted, selfless, wise, positive, honest, respectful, righteous, empathetic… You have so many virtues. It’s difficult to see them when the mind makes all the efforts to let you see just the bad side. But me, and everyone in BT, are here to remind you how wonderful you are ❤

    • @Oliver – Your life holds no meaning? Oh, Oli! I don’t know much about what’s going on outside of here in your personal life, but I think I can speak for everyone when I say that we see none of these faults in you.

      Your life has so much meaning to it. You have dedicated at LEAST a decade of your life logging on here and offering your kind, supportive words to people. You’ve been here through all of the site’s ups-and-downs and still haven’t abandoned it or the people here.

      I don’t know if helping others would be considered a hobby or interest, but if it can be, you’re amazing at it. But it’s okay to have your down days! We are all here for you whenever you need a shoulder to lean on. It’s the least we could do to thank you.

      Always thinking of you, buddy <3 let me know if you need anything.

      ~ Hayden