• Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update did a walk with my grandmother for Alzheimer’s to end it. Walked 3 miles and had a good time. We wore purple and there were lots of booths with fun things and items to get before/after the […] View

    Those walks are very encouraging as well as heartwarming. I’ve done a few for multiple sclerosis (my mother has it, my sister has it, and a couple of people from my mom’s side of the family has it), and those days were some of the best. Haven’t done any walks in awhile, but walking for a cause brings a good feeling.

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    I wish it wasn’t such a common occurrence for me to want to just give up.

    Mood : Depressed
    • I don’t want to see you feeling sad and depressed @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely, sweet and compassionate friend to me, my awesome buddy Hayden, I want to see you truly smiling, happy and making each day as bright as you can, you will overcome all of life’s hurdles Hayden and everything will be OK, remember to hold your head up…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Mystic Unicorn posted an update Hey everyone. Wow. It has been a long time since I’ve been here. Everything is going pretty well. I have figured out my sexuality. I have an amazing soon-to-be girlfriend right now […] View

    @mystic-unicorn

    That’s great to hear. :) I’m very happy for you. I wish the best for you and your new girlfriend, and hope things continue to work in your favor.

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Zero posted an update Hey, guys, I haven’t been around much on here fora while but i’m back now. I recently came to terms with a few things such as my gender identity and my sexuality. I’m actually doing pretty […] View

    @zerohappythoughts

    It’s a rather freeing feeling when you finally are able to come to term with those things. I barely did so just a couple years ago.

    Being able to freely express yourself, though, that can be a different story. I can only hope you’re able to do so comfortably.

    I’m glad to hear that you’re doing better now, at least.…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update What the … *fuck* … is happening here? This place is just disgusting now. I’m so disappointed. Once a beautiful community, now a target for perverts and trolls who take advantage of those […] View

    @oliver

    Completely agree, Oli. I’d love to see you become an admin. I’ve been rooting for that to happen since I joined over 4 years ago!
    I guess we just have to keep hoping, somehow. I wish the owner still cared about this place, or another place like this would come around.

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: bumbletuna72 posted an update Megan, the pedophile, has been reported to blah. keep an eye out for Megan. anyone know how these conversations can be reported to local authorities? i don’t trust blah to do anything. View

    That’s just so disgusting. I’m not sure if there is a way, you’d probably have to reach out to them yourselves. But whether or not they choose to investigate would be up in the air. Given that it’s complete anonymity, I don’t know if they could track those people.

    The moderation around here used to be at last halfway decent, but this is a…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 2 weeks ago

    What the … *fuck* … is happening here? This place is just disgusting now. I’m so disappointed. Once a beautiful community, now a target for perverts and trolls who take advantage of those with already fragile state of minds.

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      t’s so frustrating, sad and annoying to see what has become of BT @devilndisguise, I always want this place to be a supportive, loving and compassionate community, but what has happened to BT now is just so disappointing, it’s become a site filled with trolls, bots, spammers and perverts, how did this place fall so far?, it shouldn’t be like this,…[Read more]

    • @oliver

      Completely agree, Oli. I’d love to see you become an admin. I’ve been rooting for that to happen since I joined over 4 years ago!
      I guess we just have to keep hoping, somehow. I wish the owner still cared about this place, or another place like this would come around.

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    There was a shooting last night, barely ten seconds down the road from where I work. My girlfriend was also working at the time, another place right down the road.

    Two people were killed. This world is so scary to live in sometimes.

    • I’m so sorry that happened @devilndisguise, that is really scary, do remember to take care of yourself and be mindful of your personal security when you are going about your business in your day to day activities, my awesome friend Hayden, make sure you and your girlfriend are safe and secure where you live Hayden, everything will be OK, hope…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: cocoaflaun posted an update ready for new beginnings. View

    @cocoaflaun

    Best of luck during your new beginnings. :) Keep positive and conquer on through your journey.

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 1 month ago

    I’m a little bit anxious today. I typically am on Saturdays, thanks to work. But I had a good day yesterday and then a really great night, so I’m going to do my best to keep a hopeful spirit up today.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t feel anxious @devilndisguise, do relax and focus on making each day as bright, positive and wonderful as you can, my fantastic friend Hayden, you deserve the best out of life Hayden, remember to always smile and keep going forward with optimism, you can do it Hayden, never give up, inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 1 month ago

    Did plenty of Autumn & Halloween shopping today with my girlfriend. Next will be gathering pumpkins and putting together the decorations.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Awww that’s so wonderful and nice @devilndisguise, do have a great Halloween and keep creating special moments with your girlfriend, hope you are OK, my awesome friend Hayden, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 1 month ago

    Feeling festive today! It might not officially be Autumn on the calendar yet, but the cooler weather has rolled in here and Halloween is right around the corner.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      It’s great to see you feeling festive, happy and upbeat @devilndisguise, the weather is pretty mild here in the UK, hope things are nice in your part of the world, my awesome friend Hayden, keep smiling and always be the fantastic person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 1 month ago

    For once in quite awhile, I can say with truth and ease that I am okay. Today was okay.

    Perhaps it’s just for today. Perhaps it’ll last. Who knows? All that matters to me right now is appreciating the content feeling while it lasts, as I know these occurrences do not come often for me.

    Mood : Content
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      It’s wonderful to see you feeling upbeat, content and positive @devilndisguise, keep smiling and remember to make each day as wonderful as you can, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you happy because you truly deserve all the best out of life Hayden, I’m so proud of you Hayden, keep going forward and always smile brightly, you can do it…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update my friends sure are betraying me deeper and deepr meanwhile my family are keeping up their drama and i feel totally hooked on wasting my money on online shopping and my writings have not […] View

    @Invincible

    I’m sorry they’re treating you this way. I’ve had my fair share of “friends”; I thought I needed them in my life because they were all I had. But I eventually learned that I’d rather be alone than to be treated poorly by so-called friends.
    I hope better people enter into your life, the family drama dies down, and some ease…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update went outside for a bit in the storm, now i am calm. <3 View

    @Invincible

    That sounds so pleasant. I always enjoy going outside during storms. It really is relaxing.

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Taryn posted an update Save me from these university lectures! View

    @tprince

    I can’t imagine the struggle. Hope you make it through those lectures alright!

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Fady posted an update I’m tired View

    @fady-faraj

    Physically or mentally? Either way, I hope that you’re alright. I am here if you need.

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update And!!! My girlfriend and I are coming up on 2 years together in October! <3 I cannot describe how absolutely thrilled that makes me, looking back at the post I made about us first getting […] View

    Thank you as always, my dear friend. :) @Oliver

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 1 month ago

    And!!! My girlfriend and I are coming up on 2 years together in October! <3 I cannot describe how absolutely thrilled that makes me, looking back at the post I made about us first getting together. (Gosh, I'm such a cheeseball.)

    How lucky am I, though? I am thankful every single day that we grow together, because there was once upon a time that…[Read more]

    Mood : In love
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Awwww that’s so adorable, sweet and cute @devilndisguise, I wish you and your girlfriend all the best Hayden, remember to always make your relationship loving and strong, be each others soulmates forever and never let the spark fade from your relationship, you are such a beautiful and kind human-being who deserves to be loved and have someone to…[Read more]

    • Thank you as always, my dear friend. :) @Oliver

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13117
    QA Reputation
    1202

    Hayden posted an update 1 month ago

    I did that thing that I tend to do every few months and decided to stalk my own profile. It’s a helpful pillar for me whenever I feel stuck and hopeless. My own page works as a motivator, to remind me of the past that I’ve overcome and show me how much higher I stand nowadays.

    While nothing is perfect for me, I am still much better than I was,…[Read more]

    Mood : Accomplished
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      It’s wonderful to see how much you have grown and how far you have come @devilndisguise, it’s nice to see you using your own page on BT to motivate yourself to stay happier and positive, I’m so proud of you, my amazing friend Hayden, you are truly brave, courageous and strong Hayden, you deserve all the happiness that life has to offer,…[Read more]

  • Load More