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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 17 hours, 18 minutes ago

    In reply to: Fortunately here posted an update Hi View

    @yash05

    Hi there. :) Welcome to BlahTherapy!

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 17 hours, 18 minutes ago

    In reply to: zarah posted an update Heellooo View

    @Zarah

    Welcome to the community, Zarah! :)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 17 hours, 19 minutes ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update ”Oli, for a man of 28 years old, you are wasting your life” I was told this today by my father, I’m so pathetic and stupid honestly, I’m a failure of a human-being and a worthless son who is […] View

    @Oliver

    I’m so sorry that happened, Oli. That’s a horrible thing that your father said to you.
    I know you’ve been going through this for such a long time, and for an amazing person such as yourself, you deserve so much better. This life is completely unfair to you.

    But it will never be worth giving up. I don’t ever want to see you take the…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 17 hours, 25 minutes ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update So last night, I cut off someone from my life. Just blocked them on Insta with my bff and we ran away from him. I feel so evil and wrong for doing that. I don’t know why. I may have snapped […] View

    @caramel4

    This year will mark four years since I did this same exact thing to someone. Someone I once loved very dearly, someone I had planned to drop everything for just to spend the rest of my life with. Even though this someone destroyed every aspect of my life, whether it be how to socialize, how to be my own person, how to be in stable…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 3 days, 16 hours ago

    I watched you attack my mother when I was seven years old. You tore her clothes and bloodied her. She still has the scars.
    I watched you throw temper tantrums when you didn’t get your way. You threw things at people, whether it be pots or pans or drink or hot food.
    I watched you disown me time and time again for not turning out to be the image…[Read more]

    Mood : Drained
    • I would cut this person out of your life forever @devilndisguise, you don’t need abusive, horrible people in your life, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by loving, compassionate and kind people who will treat you right, don’t let this awful person and their disgusting actions and words have any power over…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 4 days, 17 hours ago

    In reply to: Robert Miranda posted an update Been awhile since I’ve come here, life has gotten better. Cut come toxic things out of my life and finally found a girl who makes me feel like I really matter, we went dancing and […] View

    @gorchanstruck

    There’s nothing wrong with taking some time away for yourself. I’m glad to hear it sounds like things are turning around for you, for the better.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 4 days, 17 hours ago

    In reply to: Kira posted an update in the group blahtherapy adults (21+) Hey, am I the only one who wants to go on trips with friends but when they ask me I say no? View

    @kira19

    You are definitely not alone in this. I’m an introvert, so this is one of my life’s biggest struggles.
    I love my friends and love to do things with them, but making plans just leaves me anxious.

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    Hayden posted an update 6 days, 14 hours ago

    It’s a beautiful day outside and all I want to do is enjoy it. But I’m just very upset this afternoon now, which hinders my ability to.

    I just love being the half-sibling. :( I love my family, but I can’t help but feel so estranged sometimes.

    Mood : Dark
    • Please don’t feel sad or upset @devilndisguise, everyone deserves a loving family, you do too, my special friend Hayden, try to be as close as you can with your siblings Hayden, please don’t feel left out of your family Hayden, you truly deserve to feel loved, accepted and appreciated by them Hayden, I would talk to them about how you feel, let…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 6 days, 15 hours ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update Sorry if I haven’t been active a lot. I’ve been stressing out about some things. How are all of you? View

    @caramel4

    Never apologize for being inactive! That’s what’s great about this site. We’re here when you need us to be. You can come every day or you can come when you need. No obligations either way. :)

    I am ok. I hope the things that you’re stressing out about resolve themselves soon enough.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: APaigeGSparkles posted an update I’m so glad I found this site! I’ve never tried anything like this before and really needed to vent to someone but I didn’t want to put it on my friends’ plates. View

    @apaigeglittersparkles

    Welcome to the site. :) It is a very helpful place to rely on when you need someone to listen.
    The BlahTherapy community is truly a welcoming and open place.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Ms.Helpful101 posted an update Everyone should be treated equally no matter their sexuality, ethnicity, different cultures, gender etc View

    @cardalia-smart

    Completely agree. I wish there were more people in the world who thought like this. Certainly we as humans have come such a long way, but there’s still an even longer way to go.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Ms.Helpful101 posted an update This site is so awesome as it trains me for my future job lol Ps… It’s a Psychologist View

    @cardalia-smart

    That’s really cool. I used to want to be a psychologist or psychiatrist. I found that I just didn’t have the patience, though. But I do love helping people, so this site is wonderful.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jeen posted an update A shy question: why do people love sex dolls?Some people shy away from the word ”sex doll” and even hate to bring it up. Items like ”sex dolls” have been around for a long time, and some […] View

    @jeen

    I will never be one to judge. I’m not awkward or shy about these things, and I definitely don’t kink-shame.
    I’d never be interested in something like this, personally; I have a girlfriend for that.

    My only curiosity arisen out of this is the wonder, “Why?” Is there really a need to endorse a man wanting to be controlling?
    In any kind…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cherrydoll posted an update okay. I am okay, just slightly upset. View

    @cherrydoll

    I’m wishing for the best in your situation. Whatever it is you may be going through, I hope it passes with ease or at least has mercy on you. I do hope you feel better soon enough, but even so, if you need anything, I am here.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: $teve posted an update I have something to tell you guys. It’s really fucked up, but I have no choice.This court case thing was all fake, and i’m really sorry for anyone who was really worried or concerned for […] View

    @anxietyattack66

    Admitting your wrong-doings is the first step. Unfortunately, not a lot of people even do that. I’m glad that you opened up and expressed this to us, and I hope you’ve done the same with your family.

    I know the need for people to care about you and to love you. We as humans crave such affection, sometimes delving to very…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update So, my ex went and fucked me up again.Here’s the story: He texted me yesterday like ”Hey, want to get back together?” Of course, I said yes. After a couple minutes of processing what […] View

    @985921sqh

    Now, I’m going to be blunt, but only because I’ve been in your situation before.
    Drop him and leave him like that.

    I know and understand with all of my entire heart that love is a very powerful feeling. It can thrill you, lift you up in the air, but it can also rip you, break you apart, and leave you shattered to pieces on the…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    On a lighter note, my birthday was excellent, and so has been my mini-vacation. Today is my last day before I’ll be returning to work, so I’m going to make the best and most of it.

    Although, there is one downfall of mine, which seems oh-so-very minor at this time. It’s the fact that I’ve had a taste of intoxication. Enough for me to crave more. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Indifferent
    • Glad you had a wonderful birthday and your mini-vacation was good @devilndisguise, do drink responsibly and take care of yourself when around alcohol Hayden, I don’t drink myself so I have no idea what it is like but please be careful, my awesome friend Hayden, I don’t want anything bad to happen to you, do have a fabulous day and keep being the…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    I’ll never quite understand why some people have the nerve to take advantage of the trust of another. For me, personally, trust is such an important thing. The ability to put trust in someone else is very intense, to the point it truly makes you vulnerable.
    With how many times my trust has been broken, I’ve learned to ease into it slowly. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Indifferent
    • Anyone who uses you or betrays your trust isn’t worth it @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely and sweet person who deserves compassionate, honest, truthful and sincere people around you Hayden, remember to surround yourself with people who will always remain loyal to you and always know that the BT community will support you…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: zero posted an update I need help. I feel like killing myself most days, and last night I was seriously considering it. I have some new scars on my wrists now. I’m sorry for telling you guys all this, but I needed […] View

    @zerohappythoughts

    It’s always good to express these things. Let it all out if you have to. That’s what we’re here for. If you ever need a shoulder to lean on, I’m just a message away, as the rest of us. I do hope you feel better soon. I know, a phrase that’s spoken often, but I do mean it. I may not know you, but your struggles matter and…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: JSWAG posted an update hey im back View

    @jsawg

    Welcome back. I hope everything is going well with you. :)

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