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    Hayden posted an update 9 months, 4 weeks ago

    It’s been nearly 3 years, guys! Holy hell!

    My last post hit me like a wall of bricks when I went to see what I’d last vented about. My father had been caught cheating on my mother. That was a year of utter HELL.

    Some life updates. My father, who I had a pretty strained relationship with, passed away almost 2 years ago due to a massive stroke. I’ve had a lot of guilt that I’ve been trying to work through since then. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through in life. My grandfather passed away two months after him, and then I lost both of my grandmothers this year; one I was no contact with. We also learned that our dog, who we’ve had since I was 14, is in congestive heart failure, so that’s been something we’ve been dealing with as well.

    My entire life for these past few years have basically just been about taking it one day at a time.

    It’s been a wild fucking ride!
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      Oli replied 9 months, 4 weeks ago

      It’s great to see you back on BT, my awesome friend @devilndisguise, I’m so sorry about the various losses that have happened in the past few years to you Hayden, even if you didn’t have a good relationship with some of your family members, try to remember all the good and happy moments you spent with them if you can, I do hope you are in a more upbeat place and mind-set now Hayden and your family are doing OK despite all the struggles and losses, remember you will overcome all the tough moments and come out stronger, always be kind to yourself, my fantastic friend Hayden, I’ll always be here for you Hayden, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)