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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Coccinelle posted an update Wow! After 3 years, I am back to BTh. I have been thru a lot, but always remembered the good times and people who helped me here. View

    @Lolu

    Welcome back to the community. :) A lot less active around here than it used to be, but everyone is still just as friendly and helpful.

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    Hayden joined the group Group logoblahtherapy adults (21+) 1 week, 3 days ago

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    Hayden posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    I’ve got the most wonderful girlfriend ever. She spoils me endlessly. For my birthday today, she is treating me to dinner and to new books. <3

    I love her so much. I couldn’t ask for a better birthday present than to have her in my life.

    Mood : Grateful
    • Awww that’s so sweet, lovely, cute and adorable @devilndisguise, it’s so wonderful to see such a kind human-being like yourself truly in love Hayden, do have a fantastic birthday, my awesome friend, it’s also nice to see that you got a special treat for your birthday Hayden, hope your relationship with your girlfriend continues going strong, keep…[Read more]

    • Aw that is so amazing! What a great birthday present! I am so happy for you!!

    • That’s awesome, she sounds like a wonderful person. Belated happy birthday to you!

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Lunar posted an update Lund – Low <3 View

    @lunarbirby

    Welcome to the BlahTherapy community, Lunar. :)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Lily Mariposa posted an update trying to figure this out View

    @lilymaripossa

    Welcome to BlahTherapy. :) If you ever need anything, the community will always be here!

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Missy Dowdy posted an update I dont even know where to begin with half the shit thats on my mind. I hate who Ive become. I hate what trauma has done to me. I hate living with my diagnosis. I hate what it has made […] View

    @mdowdy97

    I also struggled in a similar manner. For years, I didn’t recognize the person in the mirror. I didn’t really have my own personality. I was a stranger to myself.
    While difficult to overcome, and even more difficult to come to terms with, disorders, illness, all the lot; they do not define who you are as a person. Even if you’re not…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I’m so lonely, I’m just so tired of all the depression and loneliness, there has never been any happiness or brightness for Oli, just sadness and always being alone, I don’t have a friend in […] View

    @oliver

    I know that this life is hard. It comes with its fair share of struggles, and trust me, you know that I know how unfair and how brutal is really is. But we, as humans who have gone through so much, will always see the darkness before we can see the light. It won’t be this way forever.

    Please, don’t be afraid to ever reach out to me,…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I don’t know why my subconscious did this, but last night I had this very vivid dream and one of my family members ended up dying in my dream, it was horrible and vivid. I woke up […] View

    @Invincible

    I’m sorry. I hate dreams like that. They come often, I suppose, because it’s one of my biggest fears. Loss is truly a terrifying thing, an underlying worry that presents itself in the form of horrifying nightmares.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update I’ve got a question for you guys.You remember how my ex screwed me over, right? (If not, here’s my last update on what happened. If you don’t want to read that, though, quick […] View

    @985921sqh

    Yes and no. If you were a danger to yourself in that moment, then perhaps yes. He was doing what he thought was right, but I do believe he went about it poorly. Screenshotting an entire conversation and sharing it is definitely a hit on privacy. It also doesn’t seem like he took into consideration how your parents may react, and from…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: posted an update It’s my birthday today and nobody cares. No messages or calls, nothing. I don’t have any friends or family. My family used to abuse me so I cut ties with them. I literally have nobody and know […] View

    @aprxl

    I’m sorry you’ve had to go through that. I do want to wish you a very Happy Birthday, though, regardless of the situation you’re in.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Josh B posted an update Haven’t been on in a while! View

    Welcome back. :)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Mike Koritala posted an update Had my best friend commit suicide. View

    @deltadragon04

    I’m so sorry. I know I can’t offer words to make everything all better, but I do offer my condolences. I can’t begin to imagine the loss you’re suffering.

    If you need anything, we are all here.

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    Hayden posted an update 3 weeks ago

    My direct manager is such an asshole. He’s a jerk to me, but goes and plays victim to our higher managers before I can talk to them. Luckily for me, at least one of them believes me because they can see through the lies. But the other, which is the head, well- not so much.

    I just know that I’m fucking defeated. It’s so exhausting working through this.

    • Oli replied 3 weeks ago

      Your manager has absolutely no right to treat you badly @devilndisguise, he should treat all employees with dignity, kindness and respect, do reach out to the upper manager of your company or someone in a senior position in your workplace to see if anything can be done to stop his rude behaviour towards you Hayden, I want to see my brilliant…[Read more]

    • God, that is so frustrating, I’m so sorry you are going through this!!! If you ever need to talk, I am here. You definitely deserve better than what is happening to you right now.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Smitty posted an update Stress. Angry. View

    @smittynyc

    What exactly is it that’s making you angry, if you don’t mind me asking? If anything at all in particular is?

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Smitty posted an update Stress. Angry. View

    @smittynyc

    What’s the matter, Smitty? If you need anything, don’t hesitate to reach out.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update BAN.THE.SPAM. too much!!!! And new members pay for it! View

    @marikofujimoto

    Sad, but very true. :( The neglect of this place is so disheartening.

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    Hayden posted an update 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    I can see right through you.

    Mood : Tired
    • What’s on your mind @devilndisguise, I don’t want to see anyone treating you badly, my special friend Hayden, you truly deserve to feel loved, appreciated and cared for, surround yourself with kind people who will bring you compassion Hayden, please know the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, remember you are amazing,…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: $teve posted an update I have a question for you all. Would you rather have little friends, or many friends?For me personally, i’m kinda neutral on this. It’s good to have many friends so that you have more […] View

    @anxietyattack66

    I’m an introvert. I’d prefer to have fewer. I don’t mind having many ‘friends’ in general, but it’s the close friends that truly matter. I have about three, and that’s fine with me. If I have up with a couple more, that wouldn’t be a huge problem for me, as I’m more comfortable with those I’m closest to, so it isn’t as…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Angel posted an update Late to the party as usual but SPAM! SPAM AS FAR AS THR EYE CAN SEE!! View

    @dizzydaydreamer333

    Gotta love it…
    I’m so tired of the spam.

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    Hayden answered question “Does anybody else hate their job really badly?3 weeks, 3 days ago

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