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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Katherine posted an update yo I remember making this account back when I was in middle school, and now I’m in college, time flies haha View

    @teamtennantgirl

    Crazy how time flies. I made my account in May of 2014, so over five years ago. I’d needed desperate help over what now seems like something so little in the midst of everything else. But it got me here, and I’ve met wonderful people because of it. :)

    Hope you’re doing well!

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Alexia posted an update Does anyone know the feeling of just anxiousness for no reason at all? That’s what I feel like right now View

    @amclean023

    The struggles of living with an anxiety disorder. I can totally relate.
    You can be doing anything or nothing at all, and boom, anxiety. Sitting on the couch, driving, reading, playing on your phone; even immediately after waking up in the morning.

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    Hayden posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Scrolled through 24 hours worth of posts and there’s a single update from a genuine human being.

    I am deeply sorry from the bottom of my heart to the new members that come around in hopes for what was once such a bright, lively, and caring community. Instead you are welcomed by the very few of us that are left, those who pass through…[Read more]

    • It’s so annoying and sad to see what the spam has done to this beautiful community @devilndisguise, I guess all we can hope for are that the moderators come back and sort this out or that someone else becomes moderator/admin on BT, I want the spam to be deleted permanently so BT can always be a place of compassion, love and kindness, hope you are…[Read more]

    • it’s completely heartbreaking. I love this community and so quickly its turned into this… just months ago it was booming with supportive people and now the spam has completely made it look awful. I’m absolutely angry about this and really hope it can get fixed up because I do not know what I would do without this website.

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    Hayden posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    I also see that the moderation regarding the spam hasn’t changed in the slightest since the three months I’ve been absent. It was certainly a big part in why I disappeared again in the first place

    • It’s honestly so frustrating and annoying @devilndisguise, the spam has to be removed so BT always remains a place of love, kindness and compassion Hayden, if needed I would put myself forward to be admin or moderator on BT because all the admins seem to have deserted this site, it’s so good to see you back on BT Hayden, I’m so sorry that…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Didn’t realize how long it had been since I’d last logged in.

    It’s been a rough while. Making it through as always. I have my good days, but I mostly have my bad days.

    Today’s a little bit of both.

    Mood : Depressed
    • I don’t want to see you feeling sad and upset @devilndisguise, you are such a lovely, kind and wonderful friend to me Hayden, I want to see you feeling truly happy, positive and fantastic, life may throw obstacles at you but you will overcome them and come out so much stronger Hayden, remember to focus on all the things that bring you hope and…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 5 months ago

    Been a few weeks from hell. I don’t know how much longer I can take all of this.

    Mood : Dark
    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      I don’t want to see you feeling upset, depressed or sad @devilndisguise, my beautiful friend Hayden deserves to feel truly happy and positive because he is so special, lovely and amazing to me and all of us here on BT, I want to see you smiling Hayden, your friendship and support means so much to me Hayden, you will win all your battles because…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    @oliver

    Thank you so much for the beautiful testimonial, Oli. You are truly a great friend. It left me feeling very appreciated. I’m happy to be there when needed, and will continue to try my hardest to help those in need.

    Thanks for being such an awesome friend. :) <3

    Mood : Grateful
    • You truly deserved that testimonial @devilndisguise, because you are so kind, sweet and lovely to me and everyone on BT, this community is so lucky to have such a special person like yourself here Hayden, you make me and everyone else feel so cared for especially during dark times, thank you for all you do and will continue to do on BT Hayden,…[Read more]

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    Hayden answered question “I would love to do homeschooling to become more independant. Is this a good decision?5 months, 3 weeks ago

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Sweet Banana posted an update Sup everyone! Im glad to be here :) View

    Welcome to the BlahTherapy community! :)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: JSWAG posted an update im back i had to take a break from everything View

    @jsawg

    How are things?

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Idkwtd posted an update I need outside opinions… I game, nearly everyday. It helps to keep me grounded and out of my head. I spend maybe $200 a year? My partner has recently gotten into model aircrafts… He spends […] View

    @she-feels-trapped

    What someone does with their own money shouldn’t be an issue, but in cases where it affects others around them, then it becomes one. Especially in a relationship where you both rely upon that income.
    If he’s making more, you shouldn’t be the one loaded with having to pay all of the bills, groceries, and house necessities.…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Zero posted an update I’ve been feeling less depressed lately, I’ve been able to sleep nearly a whole night. But its times like this that make me question whether I really am depressed or if I was just faking it. […] View

    @zerohappythoughts

    If you were faking it, I feel that you’d remember faking it. If you have to question whether or not you are, you probably aren’t.

    Depression is strange like that, in the way that it works. It’s different for everyone, yes, but sometimes it can lighten itself for certain amounts of time. It’s truly beyond our control in most cases.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update That moment when you get asked to hook up… most people would be happy… but not me.I’m panromantic, which means I’m basically gender-blind (but the panromantic part is irrelevant to […] View

    @985921sqh

    There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to hookup, just like there’s nothing wrong with wanting to.
    As long as they respected your decision not to, that’s what’s important.

    He may not have realized that it would hurt you, either. For a lot of people, hooking up with someone and messing around doesn’t have to be personal. Hell,…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 6 months ago

    I’ve been in a good mood all day. I even had a good day. I just wish my self-esteem wasn’t so lacking all the time. Moments like this are what oftentimes brings me down.

    Mood : Indifferent
    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      Glad to see that you have had a wonderful day @devilndisguise, hope you continue to have a good day filled with happiness and joy, my fantastic friend Hayden, focus on getting your confidence and self esteem up, I want to see you feeling wonderful Hayden and truly loving every part of yourself, remember the BT community will always care about you…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 6 months ago

    Life surrounds me with a bunch of fakes. As usual in this life of mine, others are fooled into blindness. But I can see the truth.

    Mood : Amused
    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      Don’t let anyone who is fake into your life @devilndisguise, do surround yourself with people who are honest, truthful, real and loyal to you Hayden, I want to see my special friend Hayden always being around good people, remember you are such a fantastic soul who deserves all the best out of life, everything will be OK Hayden, stay upbeat and…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Fortunately here posted an update Hi View

    @yash05

    Hi there. :) Welcome to BlahTherapy!

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: zarah posted an update Heellooo View

    @Zarah

    Welcome to the community, Zarah! :)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update ”Oli, for a man of 28 years old, you are wasting your life” I was told this today by my father, I’m so pathetic and stupid honestly, I’m a failure of a human-being and a worthless son who is […] View

    @Oliver

    I’m so sorry that happened, Oli. That’s a horrible thing that your father said to you.
    I know you’ve been going through this for such a long time, and for an amazing person such as yourself, you deserve so much better. This life is completely unfair to you.

    But it will never be worth giving up. I don’t ever want to see you take the…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update So last night, I cut off someone from my life. Just blocked them on Insta with my bff and we ran away from him. I feel so evil and wrong for doing that. I don’t know why. I may have snapped […] View

    @caramel4

    This year will mark four years since I did this same exact thing to someone. Someone I once loved very dearly, someone I had planned to drop everything for just to spend the rest of my life with. Even though this someone destroyed every aspect of my life, whether it be how to socialize, how to be my own person, how to be in stable…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 6 months, 1 week ago

    I watched you attack my mother when I was seven years old. You tore her clothes and bloodied her. She still has the scars.
    I watched you throw temper tantrums when you didn’t get your way. You threw things at people, whether it be pots or pans or drink or hot food.
    I watched you disown me time and time again for not turning out to be the image…[Read more]

    Mood : Drained
    • I would cut this person out of your life forever @devilndisguise, you don’t need abusive, horrible people in your life, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by loving, compassionate and kind people who will treat you right, don’t let this awful person and their disgusting actions and words have any power over…[Read more]

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