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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Ms.Helpful101 posted an update Everyone should be treated equally no matter their sexuality, ethnicity, different cultures, gender etc View

    @cardalia-smart

    Completely agree. I wish there were more people in the world who thought like this. Certainly we as humans have come such a long way, but there’s still an even longer way to go.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Ms.Helpful101 posted an update This site is so awesome as it trains me for my future job lol Ps… It’s a Psychologist View

    @cardalia-smart

    That’s really cool. I used to want to be a psychologist or psychiatrist. I found that I just didn’t have the patience, though. But I do love helping people, so this site is wonderful.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jeen posted an update A shy question: why do people love sex dolls?Some people shy away from the word ”sex doll” and even hate to bring it up. Items like ”sex dolls” have been around for a long time, and some […] View

    @jeen

    I will never be one to judge. I’m not awkward or shy about these things, and I definitely don’t kink-shame.
    I’d never be interested in something like this, personally; I have a girlfriend for that.

    My only curiosity arisen out of this is the wonder, “Why?” Is there really a need to endorse a man wanting to be controlling?
    In any kind…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cherrydoll posted an update okay. I am okay, just slightly upset. View

    @cherrydoll

    I’m wishing for the best in your situation. Whatever it is you may be going through, I hope it passes with ease or at least has mercy on you. I do hope you feel better soon enough, but even so, if you need anything, I am here.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: $teve posted an update I have something to tell you guys. It’s really fucked up, but I have no choice.This court case thing was all fake, and i’m really sorry for anyone who was really worried or concerned for […] View

    @anxietyattack66

    Admitting your wrong-doings is the first step. Unfortunately, not a lot of people even do that. I’m glad that you opened up and expressed this to us, and I hope you’ve done the same with your family.

    I know the need for people to care about you and to love you. We as humans crave such affection, sometimes delving to very…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update So, my ex went and fucked me up again.Here’s the story: He texted me yesterday like ”Hey, want to get back together?” Of course, I said yes. After a couple minutes of processing what […] View

    @985921sqh

    Now, I’m going to be blunt, but only because I’ve been in your situation before.
    Drop him and leave him like that.

    I know and understand with all of my entire heart that love is a very powerful feeling. It can thrill you, lift you up in the air, but it can also rip you, break you apart, and leave you shattered to pieces on the…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    On a lighter note, my birthday was excellent, and so has been my mini-vacation. Today is my last day before I’ll be returning to work, so I’m going to make the best and most of it.

    Although, there is one downfall of mine, which seems oh-so-very minor at this time. It’s the fact that I’ve had a taste of intoxication. Enough for me to crave more. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Indifferent
    • Glad you had a wonderful birthday and your mini-vacation was good @devilndisguise, do drink responsibly and take care of yourself when around alcohol Hayden, I don’t drink myself so I have no idea what it is like but please be careful, my awesome friend Hayden, I don’t want anything bad to happen to you, do have a fabulous day and keep being the…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    I’ll never quite understand why some people have the nerve to take advantage of the trust of another. For me, personally, trust is such an important thing. The ability to put trust in someone else is very intense, to the point it truly makes you vulnerable.
    With how many times my trust has been broken, I’ve learned to ease into it slowly. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Indifferent
    • Anyone who uses you or betrays your trust isn’t worth it @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely and sweet person who deserves compassionate, honest, truthful and sincere people around you Hayden, remember to surround yourself with people who will always remain loyal to you and always know that the BT community will support you…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: zero posted an update I need help. I feel like killing myself most days, and last night I was seriously considering it. I have some new scars on my wrists now. I’m sorry for telling you guys all this, but I needed […] View

    @zerohappythoughts

    It’s always good to express these things. Let it all out if you have to. That’s what we’re here for. If you ever need a shoulder to lean on, I’m just a message away, as the rest of us. I do hope you feel better soon. I know, a phrase that’s spoken often, but I do mean it. I may not know you, but your struggles matter and…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: JSWAG posted an update hey im back View

    @jsawg

    Welcome back. I hope everything is going well with you. :)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Coccinelle posted an update Wow! After 3 years, I am back to BTh. I have been thru a lot, but always remembered the good times and people who helped me here. View

    @Lolu

    Welcome back to the community. :) A lot less active around here than it used to be, but everyone is still just as friendly and helpful.

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    Hayden joined the group Group logoblahtherapy adults (21+) 3 months, 1 week ago

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    Hayden posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    I’ve got the most wonderful girlfriend ever. She spoils me endlessly. For my birthday today, she is treating me to dinner and to new books. <3

    I love her so much. I couldn’t ask for a better birthday present than to have her in my life.

    Mood : Grateful
    • Awww that’s so sweet, lovely, cute and adorable @devilndisguise, it’s so wonderful to see such a kind human-being like yourself truly in love Hayden, do have a fantastic birthday, my awesome friend, it’s also nice to see that you got a special treat for your birthday Hayden, hope your relationship with your girlfriend continues going strong, keep…[Read more]

    • Aw that is so amazing! What a great birthday present! I am so happy for you!!

    • That’s awesome, she sounds like a wonderful person. Belated happy birthday to you!

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Lunar posted an update Lund – Low <3 View

    @lunarbirby

    Welcome to the BlahTherapy community, Lunar. :)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Lily Mariposa posted an update trying to figure this out View

    @lilymaripossa

    Welcome to BlahTherapy. :) If you ever need anything, the community will always be here!

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Missy Dowdy posted an update I dont even know where to begin with half the shit thats on my mind. I hate who Ive become. I hate what trauma has done to me. I hate living with my diagnosis. I hate what it has made […] View

    @mdowdy97

    I also struggled in a similar manner. For years, I didn’t recognize the person in the mirror. I didn’t really have my own personality. I was a stranger to myself.
    While difficult to overcome, and even more difficult to come to terms with, disorders, illness, all the lot; they do not define who you are as a person. Even if you’re not…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I’m so lonely, I’m just so tired of all the depression and loneliness, there has never been any happiness or brightness for Oli, just sadness and always being alone, I don’t have a friend in […] View

    @oliver

    I know that this life is hard. It comes with its fair share of struggles, and trust me, you know that I know how unfair and how brutal is really is. But we, as humans who have gone through so much, will always see the darkness before we can see the light. It won’t be this way forever.

    Please, don’t be afraid to ever reach out to me,…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I don’t know why my subconscious did this, but last night I had this very vivid dream and one of my family members ended up dying in my dream, it was horrible and vivid. I woke up […] View

    @Invincible

    I’m sorry. I hate dreams like that. They come often, I suppose, because it’s one of my biggest fears. Loss is truly a terrifying thing, an underlying worry that presents itself in the form of horrifying nightmares.

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update I’ve got a question for you guys.You remember how my ex screwed me over, right? (If not, here’s my last update on what happened. If you don’t want to read that, though, quick […] View

    @985921sqh

    Yes and no. If you were a danger to yourself in that moment, then perhaps yes. He was doing what he thought was right, but I do believe he went about it poorly. Screenshotting an entire conversation and sharing it is definitely a hit on privacy. It also doesn’t seem like he took into consideration how your parents may react, and from…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: posted an update It’s my birthday today and nobody cares. No messages or calls, nothing. I don’t have any friends or family. My family used to abuse me so I cut ties with them. I literally have nobody and know […] View

    @aprxl

    I’m sorry you’ve had to go through that. I do want to wish you a very Happy Birthday, though, regardless of the situation you’re in.

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