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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 12 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Happy Valentine’s Day.For those with a love, I hope it’s spectacular and be sure to cherish one another. For those without and are spending the day single, remember that isn’t a bad […] View

    It’s great to see you in love @devilndisguise, hope you are spending this day in happiness with your partner Hayden, you are such a wonderful, kind and sweet person who truly deserves someone special in your life, thanks for also spreading compassion, love and empathy here on BT too, keep being fabulous and special Hayden, you are truly awesome,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days, 13 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update “Gave more than I took back, oh well. I get it, no, I get it. Can’t help those who don’t wanna be helped.” View

    Do help as many people as you can @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, compassionate and sweet person who will support others and make lots of people smile with your wise advice, I’m sure those you help will heed your advice and better themselves, keep spreading love in the world Hayden and here on BT, you are so special and awesome, my…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 11 hours ago

    In reply to: Space Bunny posted an update Faith in humanity restored. So good to meet good people, even if it’s just online! View

    The internet can have both it’s good and bad sides @space-bunny and @devilndisguise, but I’m so grateful that therapy sites like BlahTherapy are here, this community is honestly one of the only good things in my life and the people on here are so kind, compassionate, loving and sweet, I hope that I have managed to help others too because if I…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 11 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Still recovering from the fight the other night. I think I’m suffering from anxiety pains too, but I’m getting through. Enjoying my time home alone until I have to go into work. Did a […] View

    Do take care of yourself @devilndisguise, I want to see you optimistic, upbeat and happy, my awesome friend Hayden, you truly deserve to feel relaxed, calm and at ease Hayden, surround yourself with brightness, find activities to do that bring a smile to your face and keep going forward Hayden, everything will be OK, remember you are brilliant and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 days, 20 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update As usual, the issue between my parents and I has been brushed under the rug. At my mother’s request to simply “put it behind us”, I’m sure we’ll go into tomorrow as though nothing ever […] View

    Your parents really shouldn’t argue with you @devilndisguise, they should treat you with love, care, dignity and respect, my awesome friend Hayden, I would talk to them about how this makes you feel, let them know that you don’t want them to pile on more stress because you have a lot going on in your life, hope everything works out, inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Had a fight with my parents at 4 in the fucking morning.I do everything they ask of me. They’ve needed extra help since my dad had heart surgery back in December. I’ve been glad to help, […] View

    It’s great that you are helping your parents, especially when one of them is ill and has health issues @devilndisguise, always be the loving, supportive and caring son that you are, my special friend Hayden, your parents should realise that you work so hard for them and you have other things going on in your life, they should cut you some slack…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Had a rough night’s sleep. Hoping the day itself will be alright, though. View

    Do get a good night of sleep and take care of yourself physically, mentally and emotionally @devilndisguise, I want to see you feeling truly fantastic, happy and making each day wonderful, my special friend Hayden, keep going and never give up, you can do it Hayden, I’ll always be here for you, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Been a successful writing day! May work on the book a little more as I settle into bed, but I’m leaving the deep-work on a good note with a little over 66,000 words, about 140 pages, and 20 chapters. View

    It’s great to see you proud of all the hard work, effort and energy you have put in to writing your book @devilndisguise, I’m sure your book will be amazing to read when you have completed writing, do stay upbeat, my lovely friend Hayden and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Good morning, world. Well. It’s noon on this part of the planet now. But regardless! It’s a chilly day, everything is covered in ice, and I plan on working on my book for the rest of […] View

    It’s great to see you content and upbeat @devilndisguise, my awesome friend Hayden, keep smiling and always be the incredible person that you are, I’m surviving Hayden, just trying to get by one day at a time, I’m sure your book will be amazing Hayden because the writing came straight from your wonderful heart, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I took a trip down memory lane, stalking my own profile and its past. I’ve changed a lot, figured a lot out about myself and the identity I struggled with for so long. The me from four […] View

    It’s wonderful to see how far you have come @devilndisguise, keep going forward and always better yourself, my special friend Hayden, you are a survivor who has been through so much, your story shows how truly brave, courageous and inspirational you are, please know your future will be so bright and filled with happiness, love and joy, believe in…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I came back today in particular, though, not just because I was curious about how everyone is doing and how the site is holding up. I came here also to vent about some stuff. My workplace, […] View

    @devilndisguise as long as you keep doing your job like a model worker from now on, you’ll probably be fine, but do write down whatever inappropriate behavior you experience, with time and dates, maybe emailing it to yourself. Your new coworker has mostly a previous history which won’t help you to get management intervention, but if you keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I came back today in particular, though, not just because I was curious about how everyone is doing and how the site is holding up. I came here also to vent about some stuff. My workplace, […] View

    This guy is dangerous @devilndisguise, I would keep reporting him Hayden, let your managers and other officials in your workplace know that his behaviour makes you all feel scared and uncomfortable, he has absolutely no right sexually harassing people, hopefully he will be fired from your company as his behaviour is so wrong in every way, inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update When I first joined Blah Therapy nearly five years ago now, it was all because I felt alone and I was desperate to talk to someone. My then-girlfriend was barely a shoulder to lean on, and […] View

    It’s wonderful to see you content and positive @devilndisguise, do stay hopeful, optimistic and determined Hayden, you will do fantastic things in life and you will make all your dreams come true, remember to surround yourself with hope, love, happiness and brightness, please know I’ll always care about you and so will the BT community, hold…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I haven’t been around in awhile. Surprised to see the site is still somewhat active and it’s nice to see some familiar faces who have stuck around. How is everyone doing? Good to be back, […] View

    It’s great to see you back on BT @devilndisguise, I’ve missed seeing you on here Hayden, hope you are OK and things are going awesomely in your life, always be the lovely, sweet and fantastic person that you are Hayden, I’m always here for you, my fabulous friend, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s been a long time since I’ve felt this way, and looking back when I was so hopeless 2 years ago, just having come out of a very toxic 3-year-long relationship, I’m grateful to have made […] View

    That’s so sweet, cute and adorable @devilndisguise, hope this relationship continues going strong for both you and this girl Hayden, you are such a lovely person who deserves happiness with someone special, inbox me anytime if you ever want to chat or vent about anything, you are never alone Hayden :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s happened. I’ve met somebody truly amazing. And I really, really like her. I feel like I’ve been stabbed with Cupid’s arrow, and while I’m utterly terrified, I’m still also extremely […] View

    That’s so adorable, cute and sweet @devilndisguise, I’m sure this relationship will go amazing for you Hayden, do talk to and bond with this girl as much as you can, hope your love for each other continues going strong as each day passes, I wish you all the best Hayden, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Morning everyone. Had a rather rude awakening, but here’s to trying to make it a decent day. View

    Hope you are having a fabulous day @devilndisguise, I don’t want to see you feeling bad Hayden, smile because you are awesome, wonderful and brilliant in every single way, keep being special and fantastic Hayden, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Been a long time. I’ve really missed it around here, and the members too. Hope everyone is doing well.- Hayden View

    It’s great to have you back on BT @devilndisguise, we have all missed you Hayden, hope you are doing amazingly, keep being wonderful, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I can’t tell if I’m being taken advantage of or not, but it’s so damn hard for me to say no right now. View

    @devilndisguise just remember you have your own value as a human being and as an individual, you can say no. If you love yourself you’ll realise it isn’t fair being taken advantage off. I hope things can become a bit easier for you and you can overcome this. Wish you the best of luck and if you ever need help I’m here

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I can’t tell if I’m being taken advantage of or not, but it’s so damn hard for me to say no right now. View

    I don’t want to see you upset or being taken advantage of @devilndisguise, you are such a compassionate and lovely human-being Hayden who deserves to be loved and cared for, surround yourself with positivity, brightness and hope Hayden, know you are special and good things will happen to you, I’m always here if you need to talk Hayden, feel free…[Read more]

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