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    Oli posted a new activity comment 16 hours, 28 minutes ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update So last night, I cut off someone from my life. Just blocked them on Insta with my bff and we ran away from him. I feel so evil and wrong for doing that. I don’t know why. I may have snapped […] View

    Do cut toxic people out of your life @caramel4, this person should really try to find the right help and support so they can lead a happier and more positive life, they have no right making you or your friend upset, anyone who uses the threat of suicide to keep you in a relationship with them is being emotionally abusive and manipulative, don’t…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 15 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I watched you attack my mother when I was seven years old. You tore her clothes and bloodied her. She still has the scars. I watched you throw temper tantrums when you didn’t get your way. […] View

    I would cut this person out of your life forever @devilndisguise, you don’t need abusive, horrible people in your life, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by loving, compassionate and kind people who will treat you right, don’t let this awful person and their disgusting actions and words have any power over…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 14 hours ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s a beautiful day outside and all I want to do is enjoy it. But I’m just very upset this afternoon now, which hinders my ability to.I just love being the half-sibling. :( I love my […] View

    Please don’t feel sad or upset @devilndisguise, everyone deserves a loving family, you do too, my special friend Hayden, try to be as close as you can with your siblings Hayden, please don’t feel left out of your family Hayden, you truly deserve to feel loved, accepted and appreciated by them Hayden, I would talk to them about how you feel, let…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jeen posted an update A shy question: why do people love sex dolls?Some people shy away from the word ”sex doll” and even hate to bring it up. Items like ”sex dolls” have been around for a long time, and some […] View

    I guess some people have certain kinks and quirks around their love and sex lives @jeen, which is OK, as long as everything is safe, legal and consensual, but I agree with @devilndisguise, relationships where one partner is controlling should never happen, truly loving and strong relationships should be based on always being there for each other…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update On a lighter note, my birthday was excellent, and so has been my mini-vacation. Today is my last day before I’ll be returning to work, so I’m going to make the best and most of […] View

    Glad you had a wonderful birthday and your mini-vacation was good @devilndisguise, do drink responsibly and take care of yourself when around alcohol Hayden, I don’t drink myself so I have no idea what it is like but please be careful, my awesome friend Hayden, I don’t want anything bad to happen to you, do have a fabulous day and keep being the…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’ll never quite understand why some people have the nerve to take advantage of the trust of another. For me, personally, trust is such an important thing. The ability to put trust in […] View

    Anyone who uses you or betrays your trust isn’t worth it @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely and sweet person who deserves compassionate, honest, truthful and sincere people around you Hayden, remember to surround yourself with people who will always remain loyal to you and always know that the BT community will support you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’ve got the most wonderful girlfriend ever. She spoils me endlessly. For my birthday today, she is treating me to dinner and to new books. <3I love her so much. I couldn’t ask for a […] View

    Awww that’s so sweet, lovely, cute and adorable @devilndisguise, it’s so wonderful to see such a kind human-being like yourself truly in love Hayden, do have a fantastic birthday, my awesome friend, it’s also nice to see that you got a special treat for your birthday Hayden, hope your relationship with your girlfriend continues going strong, keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update My direct manager is such an asshole. He’s a jerk to me, but goes and plays victim to our higher managers before I can talk to them. Luckily for me, at least one of them believes me because […] View

    Your manager has absolutely no right to treat you badly @devilndisguise, he should treat all employees with dignity, kindness and respect, do reach out to the upper manager of your company or someone in a senior position in your workplace to see if anything can be done to stop his rude behaviour towards you Hayden, I want to see my brilliant…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I can see right through you. View

    What’s on your mind @devilndisguise, I don’t want to see anyone treating you badly, my special friend Hayden, you truly deserve to feel loved, appreciated and cared for, surround yourself with kind people who will bring you compassion Hayden, please know the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, remember you are amazing,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update A spammer (I assume is a bot) that was active four years ago is active again? How is this an account that was never deleted?We need moderation! View

    It is so annoying and frustrating @devilndisguise, you are right Hayden, we do need moderation on BT, someone needs to take over moderation on here and delete all spammers, bots and trolls so this wonderful community can be used to truly help others, hope you are having a good day, my awesome friend Hayden, always be the kind, sweet and lovely…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I feel like I’m on the verge of regaining an eating disorder. I’ve always struggled with binge-eating, usually when I’m feeling down. But lately, I’ve been wishing that I could just start […] View

    Please stay healthy and look after yourself @devilndisguise, I want to see my special friend Hayden happy, healthy and loving himself, do eat and drink well Hayden, always be kind to yourself, love and embrace every part of yourself because you are truly incredible, perfect and beautiful in every way, when you look in the mirror, remember to smile…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update … Is it over? View

    I’m truly hoping that the spam will be gone soon @devilndisguise, the moderators should come back and remove it from BT or someone new should take over moderation of BT, we should find a way to make sure that this wonderful community is secure from spammers, bots and trolls, I want this community to always be a supportive, caring and loving…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update where is the moderation of this website and why are they not taking care of this spam!? View

    Indeed the spam is so annoying and frustrating @invincible, we should all try to keep contacting the moderators until something is done about this spam problem, unless someone new takes over moderation of BT and tries to solve this, I hope something gets done about this spam and this site gets back to being a place where we support and help each…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Although this will inevitably be buried within a bunch of nonsense (spam posts), I must say that I continue to have high hopes for this site. With memories of the bustling community we once […] View

    I agree with you @devilndisguise, I hope this loving and supportive community continues to grow with more kind and sweet people joining BT, I’m OK, my awesome friend Hayden, just trying to take one day at a time, hope things are well with you Hayden, always be the special, incredible and lovely person that you are Hayden, I’ll always be here for…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: DinoRaptor101 posted an update I see more and more people join this haven :3 this is truly a magical place. I hope to see more active people.. I’m surprised I got a few more friendship requests… who knows me! :D View

    It’s great to see that more compassionate and kind people are joining this supportive community @dinoraptor101, I agree with @devilndisguise, I hope the spam doesn’t put any new members off from joining BT, something really has to be done about the spam so this site gets back to it’s original purpose, being there to help others, hope you are OK…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Not liking the look of all of this spam. Brings back bad memories about this site. The community has suffered great spam in the past; it’s actually what decreased the activity around here, […] View

    Same @devilndisguise, something really needs to be done about the spam on here, I love this community, I want BT to continue to grow and thrive, to have more compassionate and loving members joining this community, the spam is so annoying, hope something gets done about it so it can be stopped, as @invincible says there should be better moderation…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Poetry is such a relaxing outlet for me. Writing in general has always been, but I never used to be a huge poetry fan.Now, it just does wonders for me. There’s something relaxing about […] View

    Keep using poetry to get your thoughts, emotions and feelings out @devilndisguise, the poetry you create will be so insightful because it truly comes from your beautiful heart, my wonderful friend Hayden, you will overcome your struggles by using the art of poetry to make things better and positive, you are using poetry as a good way to express…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update I really hate this guy in my class. He’s so perverted and makes me uncomfortable. I wish he could just leave me alone. I’m too scared to tell any of the teachers in fear that he’ll get angry […] View

    I agree with @m1s1m3 and @devilndisguise, do stand up for yourself because this horrible, evil and disgusting guy has absolutely no right to treat you like that @caramel4, do shout, scream and physically defend yourself if he comes near you Mel, please tell someone about this situation Mel, the BT community will always be here to support you Mel,…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    Wow. I didn’t expect so many people to respond to my last update. Thank you to @oliver, @devilndisguise, @jsawg, @anxietyattack66, and @invincible. Your words meant a lot to me.

    Because so many people commented, I figured you might want a follow up update. Here’s how stuff turned out:

    I’m doing a lot better now. I’m breathing well,…[Read more]

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    • Were all glad your ok. make sure you take this day lightly, don’t overdue yourself.

    • Glad to see you are feeling better @985921sqh, do take care of yourself and remember to reach out to your neighbour doctor if you starting feeling unwell Echo, stay healthy sweetie and please know we will always be here to support, care for and love you Echo, we all want the best for you Echo, stay positive and have a great day Echo, always smile…[Read more]

    • So glad you’re doing okay after that experience, Echo! Being unable to breath it’s one of the most terryfing things we can experience. Every second of that feels like an eternity. On the other hand, it’s relieving to know that your neighbour it’s a doctor, so you can reach to them if needed. Do take care of yourself and try take things easy! And…[Read more]

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      Very happy to see that you’re in a better state. :) Definitely reassuring. I don’t want anything bad happening to you!

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Deadandnowayback posted an update Stop it guys I had a cop sent to y house to check on me y. Y I’m fine stop View

    Please don’t harm yourself @whyamialive, @devilndisguise is right, no-one in this community has access to your address or personal information, do stay safe and take care of yourself, glad this counsellor sent someone to check up on you, I don’t want to see you hurting at all, please don’t harm yourself, your counsellor wants the best for you…[Read more]

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