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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I had to say goodbye to my best friend today. Our dog who has been in congestive heart failure was euthanized in the comfort of his home today. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to […] View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @devilndisguise, do remember all the happy moments you were able to spend with your much loved pet, my awesome friend Hayden, all the times you played together, went on walks together and spent time cuddling with each other, focus on all the good times you had with him Hayden, be strong buddy, you will make it through…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Making an effort to be more active here. I will try to check in periodically. Although there aren’t many people around nowadays, I’m glad to see the spam isn’t around like it was years […] View

    Great to see you feeling peaceful and keeping yourself busy @devilndisguise, it’s sad to see the spam here on BT and how quiet this place has become, but hopefully one day, this site will return to being active and filled with kind people helping each other, I’m sure you will write something wonderful, inspiring and insightful, my awesome buddy…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update There have been some positives, though!My identity is something that I’ve always struggled with. I consider myself gender-fluid nowadays. Any and all pronouns welcome. I’m more […] View

    It’s good to see you are in a more comfortable and happier place mentally, emotionally and physically @devilndisguise, always be kind to yourself and focus on making each day as bright as possible, my awesome friend Hayden, be proud of who you are Hayden and keep smiling, it’s so sweet to see that you are engaged to your fiancée/wife, hope your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s been nearly 3 years, guys! Holy hell!My last post hit me like a wall of bricks when I went to see what I’d last vented about. My father had been caught cheating on my mother. That […] View

    It’s great to see you back on BT, my awesome friend @devilndisguise, I’m so sorry about the various losses that have happened in the past few years to you Hayden, even if you didn’t have a good relationship with some of your family members, try to remember all the good and happy moments you spent with them if you can, I do hope you are in a more…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Angel posted an update It looks like the tagging function is gone now?Well, I was just popping my head in here to check on things and wanted to say thank you to all of the people who have offered me […] View

    Hope you are doing OK @dizzydaydreamer333, you are correct Angel, the spam and bots need to go and BT needs to return to being a site filled with love, empathy and compassion, I’m still here on BT, Cecelia – @invincible, is still here too, but Hayden – @devilndisguise, Marta – @m1s1m3 and Mariko – @marikofujimoto all seem to have vanished from BT,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update My father has been cheating on my mom. He admitted to it yesterday. The day before, she caught him texting a woman. He denied it, but she saw it…It isn’t just one. It’s several. He […] View

    I’m so sorry that is happening to you and your family @devilndisguise, your father has no right to do that to you or your mother, my awesome friend Hayden, he should try his best to make things work with your mother so you can remain a loving family, he shouldn’t be aggressive towards your dog, that’s not good at all Hayden, I would try to come…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s been awhile, but I wanted to check in. Doesn’t seem that much has changed around here, which comes as a major disappointment, but not necessarily a shock.Anyway, I think I need to […] View

    Please don’t harm or kill yourself @devilndisguise, you are so lovely, amazing, incredible and special to me and the entire BT community Hayden, so many people care about and love you Hayden, you are a much valued and appreciated member of BT Hayden, things will get better for you, my brave and courageous friend Hayden, don’t let the dark…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Hi, all.Remember to love yourself today. View

    Thank you for always being the kind, compassionate and sweet person that you are @devilndisguise, my awesome friend Hayden, keep inspiring this community and know you are truly lovely Hayden, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent Hayden, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I wish it wasn’t such a common occurrence for me to want to just give up. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling sad and depressed @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely, sweet and compassionate friend to me, my awesome buddy Hayden, I want to see you truly smiling, happy and making each day as bright as you can, you will overcome all of life’s hurdles Hayden and everything will be OK, remember to hold your head up…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update What the … *fuck* … is happening here? This place is just disgusting now. I’m so disappointed. Once a beautiful community, now a target for perverts and trolls who take advantage of those […] View

    t’s so frustrating, sad and annoying to see what has become of BT @devilndisguise, I always want this place to be a supportive, loving and compassionate community, but what has happened to BT now is just so disappointing, it’s become a site filled with trolls, bots, spammers and perverts, how did this place fall so far?, it shouldn’t be like this,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update There was a shooting last night, barely ten seconds down the road from where I work. My girlfriend was also working at the time, another place right down the road.Two people were killed. […] View

    I’m so sorry that happened @devilndisguise, that is really scary, do remember to take care of yourself and be mindful of your personal security when you are going about your business in your day to day activities, my awesome friend Hayden, make sure you and your girlfriend are safe and secure where you live Hayden, everything will be OK, hope…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’m a little bit anxious today. I typically am on Saturdays, thanks to work. But I had a good day yesterday and then a really great night, so I’m going to do my best to keep a hopeful […] View

    Please don’t feel anxious @devilndisguise, do relax and focus on making each day as bright, positive and wonderful as you can, my fantastic friend Hayden, you deserve the best out of life Hayden, remember to always smile and keep going forward with optimism, you can do it Hayden, never give up, inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Did plenty of Autumn & Halloween shopping today with my girlfriend. Next will be gathering pumpkins and putting together the decorations. View

    Awww that’s so wonderful and nice @devilndisguise, do have a great Halloween and keep creating special moments with your girlfriend, hope you are OK, my awesome friend Hayden, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Feeling festive today! It might not officially be Autumn on the calendar yet, but the cooler weather has rolled in here and Halloween is right around the corner. View

    It’s great to see you feeling festive, happy and upbeat @devilndisguise, the weather is pretty mild here in the UK, hope things are nice in your part of the world, my awesome friend Hayden, keep smiling and always be the fantastic person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update For once in quite awhile, I can say with truth and ease that I am okay. Today was okay.Perhaps it’s just for today. Perhaps it’ll last. Who knows? All that matters to me right now is […] View

    It’s wonderful to see you feeling upbeat, content and positive @devilndisguise, keep smiling and remember to make each day as wonderful as you can, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you happy because you truly deserve all the best out of life Hayden, I’m so proud of you Hayden, keep going forward and always smile brightly, you can do it…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update my friends sure are betraying me deeper and deepr meanwhile my family are keeping up their drama and i feel totally hooked on wasting my money on online shopping and my writings have not […] View

    I don’t want to see you being treated badly @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and lovely angel who deserves to be loved and appreciated, as @devilndisguise says, better people will enter into your life sweetie, you are truly incredible Cecelia and you deserve to have good people around you, don’t let family drama upset you hun, I…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update And!!! My girlfriend and I are coming up on 2 years together in October! <3 I cannot describe how absolutely thrilled that makes me, looking back at the post I made about us first getting […] View

    Awwww that’s so adorable, sweet and cute @devilndisguise, I wish you and your girlfriend all the best Hayden, remember to always make your relationship loving and strong, be each others soulmates forever and never let the spark fade from your relationship, you are such a beautiful and kind human-being who deserves to be loved and have someone to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I did that thing that I tend to do every few months and decided to stalk my own profile. It’s a helpful pillar for me whenever I feel stuck and hopeless. My own page works as a motivator, […] View

    It’s wonderful to see how much you have grown and how far you have come @devilndisguise, it’s nice to see you using your own page on BT to motivate yourself to stay happier and positive, I’m so proud of you, my amazing friend Hayden, you are truly brave, courageous and strong Hayden, you deserve all the happiness that life has to offer,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Scrolled through 24 hours worth of posts and there’s a single update from a genuine human being.I am deeply sorry from the bottom of my heart to the new members that come around in hopes […] View

    It’s so annoying and sad to see what the spam has done to this beautiful community @devilndisguise, I guess all we can hope for are that the moderators come back and sort this out or that someone else becomes moderator/admin on BT, I want the spam to be deleted permanently so BT can always be a place of compassion, love and kindness, hope you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I also see that the moderation regarding the spam hasn’t changed in the slightest since the three months I’ve been absent. It was certainly a big part in why I disappeared again in the […] View

    It’s honestly so frustrating and annoying @devilndisguise, the spam has to be removed so BT always remains a place of love, kindness and compassion Hayden, if needed I would put myself forward to be admin or moderator on BT because all the admins seem to have deserted this site, it’s so good to see you back on BT Hayden, I’m so sorry that…[Read more]

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