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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I wish it wasn’t such a common occurrence for me to want to just give up. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling sad and depressed @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely, sweet and compassionate friend to me, my awesome buddy Hayden, I want to see you truly smiling, happy and making each day as bright as you can, you will overcome all of life’s hurdles Hayden and everything will be OK, remember to hold your head up…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update What the … *fuck* … is happening here? This place is just disgusting now. I’m so disappointed. Once a beautiful community, now a target for perverts and trolls who take advantage of those […] View

    t’s so frustrating, sad and annoying to see what has become of BT @devilndisguise, I always want this place to be a supportive, loving and compassionate community, but what has happened to BT now is just so disappointing, it’s become a site filled with trolls, bots, spammers and perverts, how did this place fall so far?, it shouldn’t be like this,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update There was a shooting last night, barely ten seconds down the road from where I work. My girlfriend was also working at the time, another place right down the road.Two people were killed. […] View

    I’m so sorry that happened @devilndisguise, that is really scary, do remember to take care of yourself and be mindful of your personal security when you are going about your business in your day to day activities, my awesome friend Hayden, make sure you and your girlfriend are safe and secure where you live Hayden, everything will be OK, hope…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’m a little bit anxious today. I typically am on Saturdays, thanks to work. But I had a good day yesterday and then a really great night, so I’m going to do my best to keep a hopeful […] View

    Please don’t feel anxious @devilndisguise, do relax and focus on making each day as bright, positive and wonderful as you can, my fantastic friend Hayden, you deserve the best out of life Hayden, remember to always smile and keep going forward with optimism, you can do it Hayden, never give up, inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Did plenty of Autumn & Halloween shopping today with my girlfriend. Next will be gathering pumpkins and putting together the decorations. View

    Awww that’s so wonderful and nice @devilndisguise, do have a great Halloween and keep creating special moments with your girlfriend, hope you are OK, my awesome friend Hayden, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Feeling festive today! It might not officially be Autumn on the calendar yet, but the cooler weather has rolled in here and Halloween is right around the corner. View

    It’s great to see you feeling festive, happy and upbeat @devilndisguise, the weather is pretty mild here in the UK, hope things are nice in your part of the world, my awesome friend Hayden, keep smiling and always be the fantastic person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update For once in quite awhile, I can say with truth and ease that I am okay. Today was okay.Perhaps it’s just for today. Perhaps it’ll last. Who knows? All that matters to me right now is […] View

    It’s wonderful to see you feeling upbeat, content and positive @devilndisguise, keep smiling and remember to make each day as wonderful as you can, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you happy because you truly deserve all the best out of life Hayden, I’m so proud of you Hayden, keep going forward and always smile brightly, you can do it…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update my friends sure are betraying me deeper and deepr meanwhile my family are keeping up their drama and i feel totally hooked on wasting my money on online shopping and my writings have not […] View

    I don’t want to see you being treated badly @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and lovely angel who deserves to be loved and appreciated, as @devilndisguise says, better people will enter into your life sweetie, you are truly incredible Cecelia and you deserve to have good people around you, don’t let family drama upset you hun, I…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update And!!! My girlfriend and I are coming up on 2 years together in October! <3 I cannot describe how absolutely thrilled that makes me, looking back at the post I made about us first getting […] View

    Awwww that’s so adorable, sweet and cute @devilndisguise, I wish you and your girlfriend all the best Hayden, remember to always make your relationship loving and strong, be each others soulmates forever and never let the spark fade from your relationship, you are such a beautiful and kind human-being who deserves to be loved and have someone to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I did that thing that I tend to do every few months and decided to stalk my own profile. It’s a helpful pillar for me whenever I feel stuck and hopeless. My own page works as a motivator, […] View

    It’s wonderful to see how much you have grown and how far you have come @devilndisguise, it’s nice to see you using your own page on BT to motivate yourself to stay happier and positive, I’m so proud of you, my amazing friend Hayden, you are truly brave, courageous and strong Hayden, you deserve all the happiness that life has to offer,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Scrolled through 24 hours worth of posts and there’s a single update from a genuine human being.I am deeply sorry from the bottom of my heart to the new members that come around in hopes […] View

    It’s so annoying and sad to see what the spam has done to this beautiful community @devilndisguise, I guess all we can hope for are that the moderators come back and sort this out or that someone else becomes moderator/admin on BT, I want the spam to be deleted permanently so BT can always be a place of compassion, love and kindness, hope you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I also see that the moderation regarding the spam hasn’t changed in the slightest since the three months I’ve been absent. It was certainly a big part in why I disappeared again in the […] View

    It’s honestly so frustrating and annoying @devilndisguise, the spam has to be removed so BT always remains a place of love, kindness and compassion Hayden, if needed I would put myself forward to be admin or moderator on BT because all the admins seem to have deserted this site, it’s so good to see you back on BT Hayden, I’m so sorry that…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Didn’t realize how long it had been since I’d last logged in.It’s been a rough while. Making it through as always. I have my good days, but I mostly have my bad days.Today’s a little […] View

    I don’t want to see you feeling sad and upset @devilndisguise, you are such a lovely, kind and wonderful friend to me Hayden, I want to see you feeling truly happy, positive and fantastic, life may throw obstacles at you but you will overcome them and come out so much stronger Hayden, remember to focus on all the things that bring you hope and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Been a few weeks from hell. I don’t know how much longer I can take all of this. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling upset, depressed or sad @devilndisguise, my beautiful friend Hayden deserves to feel truly happy and positive because he is so special, lovely and amazing to me and all of us here on BT, I want to see you smiling Hayden, your friendship and support means so much to me Hayden, you will win all your battles because…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update @oliverThank you so much for the beautiful testimonial, Oli. You are truly a great friend. It left me feeling very appreciated. I’m happy to be there when needed, and will continue to try […] View

    You truly deserved that testimonial @devilndisguise, because you are so kind, sweet and lovely to me and everyone on BT, this community is so lucky to have such a special person like yourself here Hayden, you make me and everyone else feel so cared for especially during dark times, thank you for all you do and will continue to do on BT Hayden,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Idkwtd posted an update I need outside opinions… I game, nearly everyday. It helps to keep me grounded and out of my head. I spend maybe $200 a year? My partner has recently gotten into model aircrafts… He spends […] View

    He really shouldn’t be wasting money on things that are not needed @she-feels-trapped, in a relationship, both partners should share the responsibility of finances, maintaining a property, paying the bills, food shopping and all the rest of the things that need to be paid for, you shouldn’t be left alone to deal with all of these things, I can…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update That moment when you get asked to hook up… most people would be happy… but not me.I’m panromantic, which means I’m basically gender-blind (but the panromantic part is irrelevant to […] View

    @oliver and @devilndisguise, I made up with him, explained how I felt, and we’re really close again. He’s one of three people I trust right now, and I’m glad to have him. Thanks so much for your advice!

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update That moment when you get asked to hook up… most people would be happy… but not me.I’m panromantic, which means I’m basically gender-blind (but the panromantic part is irrelevant to […] View

    I agree with @devilndisguise, it is totally your choice if you want to date, go out with or hook-up with someone @985921sqh, you said no and that person should respect your decision, remember to always be the unique and awesome person that you are Echo, one day you will meet your soulmate, your knight in shining armour, true love will happen to…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update That moment when you get asked to hook up… most people would be happy… but not me.I’m panromantic, which means I’m basically gender-blind (but the panromantic part is irrelevant to […] View

    I never thought about it that way, @devilndisguise. Thank you so much.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’ve been in a good mood all day. I even had a good day. I just wish my self-esteem wasn’t so lacking all the time. Moments like this are what oftentimes brings me down. View

    Glad to see that you have had a wonderful day @devilndisguise, hope you continue to have a good day filled with happiness and joy, my fantastic friend Hayden, focus on getting your confidence and self esteem up, I want to see you feeling wonderful Hayden and truly loving every part of yourself, remember the BT community will always care about you…[Read more]

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