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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Been a few weeks from hell. I don’t know how much longer I can take all of this. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling upset, depressed or sad @devilndisguise, my beautiful friend Hayden deserves to feel truly happy and positive because he is so special, lovely and amazing to me and all of us here on BT, I want to see you smiling Hayden, your friendship and support means so much to me Hayden, you will win all your battles because…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update @oliverThank you so much for the beautiful testimonial, Oli. You are truly a great friend. It left me feeling very appreciated. I’m happy to be there when needed, and will continue to try […] View

    You truly deserved that testimonial @devilndisguise, because you are so kind, sweet and lovely to me and everyone on BT, this community is so lucky to have such a special person like yourself here Hayden, you make me and everyone else feel so cared for especially during dark times, thank you for all you do and will continue to do on BT Hayden,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Idkwtd posted an update I need outside opinions… I game, nearly everyday. It helps to keep me grounded and out of my head. I spend maybe $200 a year? My partner has recently gotten into model aircrafts… He spends […] View

    He really shouldn’t be wasting money on things that are not needed @she-feels-trapped, in a relationship, both partners should share the responsibility of finances, maintaining a property, paying the bills, food shopping and all the rest of the things that need to be paid for, you shouldn’t be left alone to deal with all of these things, I can…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update That moment when you get asked to hook up… most people would be happy… but not me.I’m panromantic, which means I’m basically gender-blind (but the panromantic part is irrelevant to […] View

    @oliver and @devilndisguise, I made up with him, explained how I felt, and we’re really close again. He’s one of three people I trust right now, and I’m glad to have him. Thanks so much for your advice!

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update That moment when you get asked to hook up… most people would be happy… but not me.I’m panromantic, which means I’m basically gender-blind (but the panromantic part is irrelevant to […] View

    I agree with @devilndisguise, it is totally your choice if you want to date, go out with or hook-up with someone @985921sqh, you said no and that person should respect your decision, remember to always be the unique and awesome person that you are Echo, one day you will meet your soulmate, your knight in shining armour, true love will happen to…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update That moment when you get asked to hook up… most people would be happy… but not me.I’m panromantic, which means I’m basically gender-blind (but the panromantic part is irrelevant to […] View

    I never thought about it that way, @devilndisguise. Thank you so much.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’ve been in a good mood all day. I even had a good day. I just wish my self-esteem wasn’t so lacking all the time. Moments like this are what oftentimes brings me down. View

    Glad to see that you have had a wonderful day @devilndisguise, hope you continue to have a good day filled with happiness and joy, my fantastic friend Hayden, focus on getting your confidence and self esteem up, I want to see you feeling wonderful Hayden and truly loving every part of yourself, remember the BT community will always care about you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Life surrounds me with a bunch of fakes. As usual in this life of mine, others are fooled into blindness. But I can see the truth. View

    Don’t let anyone who is fake into your life @devilndisguise, do surround yourself with people who are honest, truthful, real and loyal to you Hayden, I want to see my special friend Hayden always being around good people, remember you are such a fantastic soul who deserves all the best out of life, everything will be OK Hayden, stay upbeat and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update So last night, I cut off someone from my life. Just blocked them on Insta with my bff and we ran away from him. I feel so evil and wrong for doing that. I don’t know why. I may have snapped […] View

    Do cut toxic people out of your life @caramel4, this person should really try to find the right help and support so they can lead a happier and more positive life, they have no right making you or your friend upset, anyone who uses the threat of suicide to keep you in a relationship with them is being emotionally abusive and manipulative, don’t…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I watched you attack my mother when I was seven years old. You tore her clothes and bloodied her. She still has the scars. I watched you throw temper tantrums when you didn’t get your way. […] View

    I would cut this person out of your life forever @devilndisguise, you don’t need abusive, horrible people in your life, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by loving, compassionate and kind people who will treat you right, don’t let this awful person and their disgusting actions and words have any power over…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s a beautiful day outside and all I want to do is enjoy it. But I’m just very upset this afternoon now, which hinders my ability to.I just love being the half-sibling. :( I love my […] View

    Please don’t feel sad or upset @devilndisguise, everyone deserves a loving family, you do too, my special friend Hayden, try to be as close as you can with your siblings Hayden, please don’t feel left out of your family Hayden, you truly deserve to feel loved, accepted and appreciated by them Hayden, I would talk to them about how you feel, let…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jeen posted an update A shy question: why do people love sex dolls?Some people shy away from the word ”sex doll” and even hate to bring it up. Items like ”sex dolls” have been around for a long time, and some […] View

    I guess some people have certain kinks and quirks around their love and sex lives @jeen, which is OK, as long as everything is safe, legal and consensual, but I agree with @devilndisguise, relationships where one partner is controlling should never happen, truly loving and strong relationships should be based on always being there for each other…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update On a lighter note, my birthday was excellent, and so has been my mini-vacation. Today is my last day before I’ll be returning to work, so I’m going to make the best and most of […] View

    Glad you had a wonderful birthday and your mini-vacation was good @devilndisguise, do drink responsibly and take care of yourself when around alcohol Hayden, I don’t drink myself so I have no idea what it is like but please be careful, my awesome friend Hayden, I don’t want anything bad to happen to you, do have a fabulous day and keep being the…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’ll never quite understand why some people have the nerve to take advantage of the trust of another. For me, personally, trust is such an important thing. The ability to put trust in […] View

    Anyone who uses you or betrays your trust isn’t worth it @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely and sweet person who deserves compassionate, honest, truthful and sincere people around you Hayden, remember to surround yourself with people who will always remain loyal to you and always know that the BT community will support you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’ve got the most wonderful girlfriend ever. She spoils me endlessly. For my birthday today, she is treating me to dinner and to new books. <3I love her so much. I couldn’t ask for a […] View

    Awww that’s so sweet, lovely, cute and adorable @devilndisguise, it’s so wonderful to see such a kind human-being like yourself truly in love Hayden, do have a fantastic birthday, my awesome friend, it’s also nice to see that you got a special treat for your birthday Hayden, hope your relationship with your girlfriend continues going strong, keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update My direct manager is such an asshole. He’s a jerk to me, but goes and plays victim to our higher managers before I can talk to them. Luckily for me, at least one of them believes me because […] View

    Your manager has absolutely no right to treat you badly @devilndisguise, he should treat all employees with dignity, kindness and respect, do reach out to the upper manager of your company or someone in a senior position in your workplace to see if anything can be done to stop his rude behaviour towards you Hayden, I want to see my brilliant…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I can see right through you. View

    What’s on your mind @devilndisguise, I don’t want to see anyone treating you badly, my special friend Hayden, you truly deserve to feel loved, appreciated and cared for, surround yourself with kind people who will bring you compassion Hayden, please know the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, remember you are amazing,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update A spammer (I assume is a bot) that was active four years ago is active again? How is this an account that was never deleted?We need moderation! View

    It is so annoying and frustrating @devilndisguise, you are right Hayden, we do need moderation on BT, someone needs to take over moderation on here and delete all spammers, bots and trolls so this wonderful community can be used to truly help others, hope you are having a good day, my awesome friend Hayden, always be the kind, sweet and lovely…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I feel like I’m on the verge of regaining an eating disorder. I’ve always struggled with binge-eating, usually when I’m feeling down. But lately, I’ve been wishing that I could just start […] View

    Please stay healthy and look after yourself @devilndisguise, I want to see my special friend Hayden happy, healthy and loving himself, do eat and drink well Hayden, always be kind to yourself, love and embrace every part of yourself because you are truly incredible, perfect and beautiful in every way, when you look in the mirror, remember to smile…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update … Is it over? View

    I’m truly hoping that the spam will be gone soon @devilndisguise, the moderators should come back and remove it from BT or someone new should take over moderation of BT, we should find a way to make sure that this wonderful community is secure from spammers, bots and trolls, I want this community to always be a supportive, caring and loving…[Read more]

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