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    Hayden posted an update 6 months, 1 week ago

    I’ll never quite understand why some people have the nerve to take advantage of the trust of another. For me, personally, trust is such an important thing. The ability to put trust in someone else is very intense, to the point it truly makes you vulnerable.
    With how many times my trust has been broken, I’ve learned to ease into it slowly. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Indifferent
    • Anyone who uses you or betrays your trust isn’t worth it @devilndisguise, you are such a kind, lovely and sweet person who deserves compassionate, honest, truthful and sincere people around you Hayden, remember to surround yourself with people who will always remain loyal to you and always know that the BT community will support you…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    When I first joined Blah Therapy nearly five years ago now, it was all because I felt alone and I was desperate to talk to someone. My then-girlfriend was barely a shoulder to lean on, and because of her I was isolated and had lost all of my friends. I literally had nobody. But I still needed to open up to someone, and that’s how I found this…[Read more]

    • It’s wonderful to see you content and positive @devilndisguise, do stay hopeful, optimistic and determined Hayden, you will do fantastic things in life and you will make all your dreams come true, remember to surround yourself with hope, love, happiness and brightness, please know I’ll always care about you and so will the BT community, hold…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 1 year, 11 months ago

    It’s been a long time since I’ve felt this way, and looking back when I was so hopeless 2 years ago, just having come out of a very toxic 3-year-long relationship, I’m grateful to have made it here today. Although back then, I never thought I would get through. I didn’t even picture myself to be alive much longer.
    Today, I’m in a stable…[Read more]

    Mood : In love
    • That’s so sweet, cute and adorable @devilndisguise, hope this relationship continues going strong for both you and this girl Hayden, you are such a lovely person who deserves happiness with someone special, inbox me anytime if you ever want to chat or vent about anything, you are never alone Hayden :) (hugs)

    • That’s lovely to hear. I hope it gets going well and wish you the best

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    Hayden posted an update 2 years ago

    It’s happened. I’ve met somebody truly amazing. And I really, really like her. I feel like I’ve been stabbed with Cupid’s arrow, and while I’m utterly terrified, I’m still also extremely excited to see where this leads.

    Mood : Hopeful
    • Aww that is great, I am so happy for you!

    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      That’s so adorable, cute and sweet @devilndisguise, I’m sure this relationship will go amazing for you Hayden, do talk to and bond with this girl as much as you can, hope your love for each other continues going strong as each day passes, I wish you all the best Hayden, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Jonathan Sophrosyne posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago

    Keeping this going because it is a good idea: If you need to talk, log into https://chatstep.com/#BlahTherapy. Pass is 12345

    Thanks to @modestbutter.

    • Just a reminder, users who access it from mobile devices will be unable to scroll down when using browser, please download the chatstep app for best mobile experience

      also its a semi-public room, if you want one on one feel free to make your own room, there is no sign up required

      im not affiliated to chatstep in any way, its just from my own…[Read more]

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    Jonathan Sophrosyne posted an update 4 years ago

    There is a difference between nearly identical types of thinking. Reflection is the act of positively considering the past in order to learn from it and improve. Rumination is the act of negatively considering the past and is responsible for most emotional anchors that keep people rooted and mired in their negative past experiences.

    This is why…[Read more]

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    kwit posted an update 4 years ago

    ”If you feel your demons creeping into your brain, remember all of the angels that are in there too.” -kwit

    Mood : Weird
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    kkyyne posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    a successful person can build a foundation with the bricks thrown at them by others….

    Mood : In awe
    • Very true. :)

    • Keep inspiring others with your brightness and wise words @kkyyne, you are truly special and awesome, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    BlahModerator Jonathan posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    Notice to all BlahTherapy users who try to offer “Tough Love”: People do not come to BlahTherapy to be spoken down to and verbally abused or berated. BlahTherapy has a zero-tolerance policy for abuse.

    If you or someone you know is being harassed or abused on BlahTherapy outside of the anonymous chat service, send your screenshots to…[Read more]

    • Totally agree with you @blahmoderator1, hope you are doing awesomely Jonathon, keep being a great moderator, I’ll always be here if you need someone to talk too :) (hugs)

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    Hayden posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    It’s been 3 days since I ended that toxic relationship, and I’m already feeling happier and more optimistic than I have in a very long time. :)

    Mood : Good
    • Glad to see you are out of an abusive relationship and you are much happier @devilndisguise, you deserve the best in life Hayden, you also deserve a strong and loving relationship with someone who will treat you right Hayden, you will meet that special someone, be positive and keep smiling, I’m always here if you need to talk Hayden, message me…[Read more]

    • @Oliver
      Thanks, Oli! I’m glad to be out of it too. I’m looking forward to having a fresh start. :)
      (hugs)

    • Congratulations! I recently ended a toxic relationship as well and the feeling is great! I hope you have a great present and future ahead of you

    • @layla95
      It really is great. I hope you do too! :)

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    Hayden posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago

    ”A semicolon represents a sentence the author could have ended, but chose not to. The author is you, and the sentence is your life.”

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    juut posted an update 5 years, 5 months ago

    we’re just suicidal kids telling other suicidal kids that suicide isn’t the answer

    Mood : Serious