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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I just read someone saying ”there’s stigma around rapist”. this person flat out said he rapped someone and that there’s stigma. That rappist shouldn’t be forgiven but neither punished. You […] View

    Anyone who commits such a horrible crime like rape or sexual assault should be punished severely, thrown in jail for a long time @marikofujimoto, survivors of sexual violence are so brave, courageous and strong, hope you are OK sweetie and having a fantastic day Mariko, I want to see you smiling hun and doing well, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

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    Oli and Profile picture of Leann Keogh are now friends 1 week, 3 days ago

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Travelling Girl posted an update I feel like I only come on here to vent and I HATE to sound like I am complaining….but I guess that’s what I’m doing. I feel such dread everyday when I wake up. I’m so alone. I’m […] View

    Please don’t let depression, pain and sadness get you down @simplegirl, you are such a fabulous, special and amazing person who truly deserves all the love, happiness and joy in the world, everything will be OK, focus on getting yourself to a good place mentally and emotionally, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I was diagnosed at my last counselling session with Complex PTSD. I’ve never experienced any trauma or abuse that I know of either. Idk how to feel. View

    I would continue to go to the counselling sessions and see how they can best help you, tell them about your thoughts, feelings and things that have happened in your life @kittymew, remember the BT community will always be here to support you Kayla and so will I, you are a wonderful person who truly deserves all the best, everything will be OK, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Naomi posted an update Everything is black and blue, I am afraid that I am through. How can I go on like this? How I miss, how I miss, how I miss, being able to see the clouds and the trees as I walk. There is a […] View

    Please don’t let sadness, pain and depression get you down @naomi223, you are such a beautiful, special and amazing person Naomi who deserves all the happiness and love in the world, you are a survivor who has been through so much, hold your head up high and keep going forward, everything will be OK and things will get better, I want to see you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: BlackRabbit posted an update I received my first order today on my online store!!!!!!! I am making home/hand made candles and herbal soaps if anyone is interested. http://www.inkysscentsandsuds.store We are very […] View

    That’s amazing @blackrabbit, hope your business selling candles and soaps thrives and keeps growing, I wish you all the best going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: HelloDarling02 posted an update it’s unfortunate that I had to report over 5 venters today. This isn’t a dating chat site and there are people on here who are disrespectful and rude as fuck. Be on the look out […] View

    Don’t let anyone on the chat be horrible to you @tiffanyrenee, keep being the helpful, compassionate and kind person that you are Tiffany, the BT community will always remain a supportive and respectful place, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Guys, I need your opinion. I teach a 12 year old English on Fridays (her native language is Hebrew). And her parents tell me she has high grades. Higher than before. Now as a small prize, I […] View

    That’s so wonderful @gleb, I’m sure you will be a wonderful teacher Gleb, do show her the Lord of the Rings or any other family friendly film, hope things go well Gleb, keep smiling and stay awesome, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Okay I don’t know if I posted about it but I exited the army (yay!) and I’m now doing alternative volunteering service of teaching people with disabilities to use a computer. I like it but […] View

    Glad to see you are doing something that helps others @gleb, remember to always do what makes you truly happy Gleb and keep being the fantastic person that you are, my wonderful friend, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Red Sheep posted an update I hate feeling like this! Like my feelings are put second place because the others are too full of themselves, so much that they don’t even see how hurt I am. Why the heck I should be […] View

    You are a wonderful person who deserves compassionate, loving and understanding friends around you @jeles, surround yourself with supportive people and know you truly are capable of happiness and positivity, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Robyn97 posted an update My boyfriend is a bipolar, compulsive liar and I need to know how I can convince him to seriously get help. He’s the controlling type that always needs to have his way. He listens to no […] View

    I would talk to him about how you feel @robgibb1997, let him know how his behaviour is affecting you Robyn, tell him that you love and care about him and just want the relationship to be stronger and for him to help himself so he can make positive changes in his life which will help both of you, be as honest and open with him as you can Robyn,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: silveRose143 posted an update Im trying but im tired. View

    Please don’t let sadness get you down @silverose143, you are such a beautiful, special and fantastic person who deserves all the happiness and hope in the world, everything will be OK, focus on making yourself positive, upbeat and joyful, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor, believe in yourself and keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update when people are so nice and friendly it really makes a change. it’s inspiring and refreshing to know that great service and friendliness exists, and it should be what we all strive for. View

    You are so correct @invincible, do surround yourself with people who bring you compassion, love and kindness, we should all treat each other with respect, have a fabulous day and always be the incredible angel that you are sweetie, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Oli and Profile picture of cdc2011cdc2011 are now friends 2 weeks, 1 day ago

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Alexander posted an update A quiet weekend planned on the laptop doing work. If anyone wants to chat, welcome to drop me a line. Alex. View

    Hope you have a wonderful weekend @agm24, always be the kind, compassionate and lovely person that you are Alexander, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: HelloDarling02 posted an update GOOD EVENING ALL! View

    Hope you are doing great and having a fabulous day @tiffanyrenee, keep being the lovely and brilliant person that you are Tiffany, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Angel posted an update I SURVIVED MY PERFORMANCE REVIEW!! GOLD STARS FOR ANGEL, WHOOO!! XD View

    That’s wonderful @dizzydaydreamer333, you should be so proud of yourself, hope things continue going amazingly for you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I am forever envious of people who don’t experience intense anxiety. :) Must be nice to be able to enjoy life. View

    Don’t let anxiety get you down @invincible, I want to see you truly happy and making each day as incredible as you can Cecelia, take deep breathes and focus on positivity, light and brightness sweetie, everything will be OK, believe in yourself, keep going forward and never give up, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Have spent yesterday and today feeling nothing but hurt. How could the people I love do this to me? Why? Why even try to work hard doing anything if it’s just going to end up like this. View

    Don’t let anyone be horrible to you or bring you down @invincible, I want to see you being loved, appreciated and cared for sweetie, remember so many people are here for you, I am and so is the BT community Cecelia, smile and surround yourself with positivity, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update getting pretty fed up with situations that keep coming up in my relationship. I dont even know if this is all worth it but I’m lucky she even likes me so I’ll just listen to […] View

    You are a wonderful person who deserves a relationship where you feel supported, loved and cared for @somelameperson, I want to see you being treated with respect and kindness by your partner, try to talk to her about things and see what happens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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