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My life holds absolutely no meaning and no purpose, I’m 32, no friends, no social life, no romantic relationship, no goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations, no hobbies or interests, nothing in my depressing life, I’m so shy, awkward, introverted, lonely and alone, I wish I knew how to communicate with people, how to talk, socialise and build […] View

  • Marta on May 18, 2022:

    There’s not enough words to describe how much Oli has done for every single one of us for so many years. The first day I logged in BT I didn’t know exactly what to expect. I just knew that I was not okay, and that I was in need of a place where I could express how I felt and with people willing to listen. To my surprise, I found way more than that. Since the first day in BT, Oli’s been here offering a helping hand and words filled with kindness and compassion. He does not leave a single update unanswered, so you can certainly know that if you need someone to listen, Oli will be here for you. He’s always checking on how I’m doing, helping me when I’m feeling sad, and offering me words of positivity and wisdom. You’ve been such a fantastic friend along the years, and you still are. I love and care so much about you my dear friend! Thank you so much for everything you do <3

  • plus_sizedbarbie on July 16, 2017:

    Every time I log in and post an update, whether it is interesting or not- Oli is there to comment something inspirational.
    I do not know how he has the time to go through all his friends on blahtherapy and show them some love everyday, but he does.
    His heart is beautiful and filled with love and compassion for anyone who may need his kind words.
    Thank you personally for all the kind words you have said to me.
    Stay blessed :)

  • Cerabbit on July 27, 2016:

    Never in my life have I ever seen a man as selfless as Oli is. Every single time I’ve seen him on this site, he’s offering wonderful words of encouragement, wisdom and all around general joy to all needing it – whether they feel they do or not.

    For every post I have made on these forums – whether they be really upbeat posts or more saddening ones from me asking for some help – Oli has been there as a constant – writing his own personal messages directed towards me which wrap me in his positive mindset and enthusiastic, infectious can-do attitude. After finishing his personal message, he always never fails to deliver on writing what appears to be his signature sign-off – “I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)” Which further gives me more hope and makes me realise how wonderful Oli really is.

    Oli has invested so much time into BlahTherapy and into helping others which is more than anyone could have asked of him. The least I can do for him here is give him his 10th testimony of which I am honoured to write for such a great, selfless man. Oli – you have really improved the ‘BlahTherapy experience’ for myself and many, many others on this forum – and I’d like to remind you that you’ll be forever remembered by myself and the countless others that have been touched by your kind heart and infinite love for others. Do know you can message me any time you want if you want to talk with me on issues – it’s one of the few things I’d be able to do to ‘pay back’ such a kind man like yourself who honestly deserves so much more.

  • on November 5, 2015:

    Oli is selfless and seems to comment on everyone’s posts, doing his best to cheer them up. I see his comments of encouragement everywhere and it assures me that there are wonderful people in the world.

  • Hayden on September 7, 2015:

    Everyone knows who Oli is, and if they don’t, they need to, because Oli, you’re amazing, inside and out. I’m lucky to be one of the many lucky members of the BlahTherapy community to have had the chance to know you and to speak to you.

    Though dealing with your own struggles, you continue on helping others in need. Your simple, yet reassuring words in every single post you leave, make me smile every time, and it never fails to comfort me. I see how many people you make smile and cheer up; how many people you help.

    You inspire me to keep helping others, and to be optimistic when things are looking down for myself. I was gone for awhile; distant from BlahTherapy as I dealt with things in my life. But then I came back one day and you gave me the hope that I needed, and I don’t plan on disappearing again, all thanks to your help.

    Oli, things just wouldn’t be the same here on BlahTherapy without you. I hope you know how appreciated you are here, and how wonderful and special you are. On behalf of myself and the rest of the community, thank you, for everything you’ve done for us and continue to do.

    Always stay strong, Oli, and keep being your amazing self! *hugs*

    ~ Hayden