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    Oli posted an update 5 days, 2 hours ago

    So frustrated and annoyed with the spam here on BT, it is ruining this beautiful community, seriously there has to be a way to make it stop, I’m going to put an idea out for all members on BT to consider, I would be willing to become moderator or admin on BT if needed because the moderators and admins seem to have deserted this place, so just…[Read more]

    Mood : Frustrated
    • I can relate to your frustration, Oli.
      I believe the moderators are doing the best they can to solve problems quickly. I think it’s probably hard to manage the site with so many visitors. I was just thinking that Blahtherapy is such a big support system for me that whenever the chat is down I feel a higher level of anxiety. However I am trying to…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your reply @lelslessing, I just want BT to always be a place of kindness, love and compassion where we all support each other, I hope something gets done about all the spam, it has to be removed so this beautiful community can always be a place where we support and help each other, hope you are having a wonderful day, keep being the…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli, always good to hear from you! Be well!

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 days ago

    I feel like I’m getting hooked on online shopping an in-store shopping but usually i’ve always enjoyed window shopping, but online you can get so many things w/o seeing the consequences. & rn I feel such happiness when I get a package or am anticipating stuff… especially with what is going on in my life right now. idk i’m scared this can lead…[Read more]

    • If you feel that it is becoming overwhelming, I would talk to a counsellor or therapist @invincible, it seems that you are trying to fill in a part of your life that is missing by buying things, I know how you feel beautiful angel Cecelia, I have brought random things from shops too, mostly things I don’t need just because they are there and they…[Read more]

    • Wow Oli You are so right, honestly. Thank you so much for this, “it seems that you are trying to fill in a part of your life that is missing by buying things” is spot on and confrontational. I’m sorry you know how I feel and you have encountered this by buying random things to make you feel happy. I am grateful for this message, really and all…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week ago

    I can’t get over some things. Especially that concerning how I have a lack of love and caringness from my so-called ‘friends’ and ‘family’. Their actions tell me they do not give a shit and I am so tired of it. I don’t know how to get over it, though. It took a while to finally get over these feelings from my childhood. But now it’s…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Your family shouldn’t treat you like that @invincible, I want to see you feeling loved and cared for by those closest to you sweetie, you are such a beautiful, lovely, incredible and amazing angel who deserves to have compassionate friends and loving family around her, do reach out to as many kind people as you can Cecelia, do talk to a…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    what the hell is wrong with the admins. take care of your website for gods sake.

    • I know how you feel @invincible, there are no admins or moderators on BT nowadays and the spammers are totally out of control and ruining this beautiful community, I would be willing to become admin or a moderator on BT if needed, I seriously fear for the future of this site, something needs to be done so this community can return to being a place…[Read more]

    • You should totally be admin and or moderator. Hopefully this can be taken care of quickly. Blah is such a great place and with incredible people. Thank you for your response. I am doing well, I hope you are doing great Oli. I am here for you anytime as well, feel free to inbox.

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    had such a great weekend in las vegas with my grandfather ♥ a great break from life

    • Glad you had a fantastic weekend @invincible, keep smiling sweetie and always be the beautiful, special, perfect and amazing angel that you are Cecelia, everything will continue going well for you hun, stay upbeat Cecelia and keep going forward with optimism, brightness and confidence, you can do it Cecelia, I’m so proud of you sweetheart, feel…[Read more]

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    Flameaura posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    If you feel that someone isn’t treating you right, or you feel you deserve more, please downgrade them. You’re only hurting yourself if you still hang onto the ”hope” that you will be reciprocated when, in the first place, that someone can’t understand your needs & expectations.

    Mood : Disappointed
    • I want to see you being treated with love, kindness, care and respect @flameaura, anyone who is horrible to you isn’t worth your time Flameaura, you are so correct, do leave them and focus on your happiness because your wellbeing always comes first, remember to always surround yourself with empathy and compassion, everything will be OK Flameaura,…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 weeks ago

    It isn’t always popping pills, downing whiskey, or slicing veins. Sometimes it’s crossing the street without looking; sometimes it isn’t wearing your seatbelt. Sometimes it’s as simple as staying up all night, because you don’t want tomorrow to come.

    Mood : Awake
    • Oli replied 3 weeks ago

      Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, things may seem difficult but they will get better, you will do amazing things and make all your dreams come true, I don’t want to see you hurt yourself, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to always be the incredible, special and fantastic person that you are, keep…[Read more]

    • Thanks . I just felt like posting something . not necessarily is it how im feeling . ive got my down days but ive got things to look forward to . Ill be ok thanks for checking in

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    Fading Echo posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    You know what? I am so done with this spam. Everyone friend each other. That way we can filter the spam with the ”friend” filter. Anyone got any better ideas?

    Mood : Annoyed
    • The spam is so very annoying and frustrating @985921sqh, honestly there has to be a way to totally get rid of all of it because it brings down this community, I want BT to always be a place of compassion, love and kindness, I hate what the spam is doing to the beautiful BT community, hopefully something will be done to completely make the spam…[Read more]

    • It’s absolutely annoying, the moderators need to get rid of this irritating spam. Hope you are doing alright Fading Echo you have really made this community bright and inspiring.

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    Flameaura posted an update 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    Clearly you don’t have the time, energy, mentality, compassion, willingness to compromise, mutual respect, and everything else that matters in a committed relationship.

    Mood : Disappointed
    • I’m so sorry that your relationship isn’t going well @flameaura, your partner should always be there for you and treat you with unconditional love, care and support, you deserve so much better Flameaura, I would talk to your partner about how you feel, let your partner know that you want your relationship to be stronger and more loving, be as…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    Hey everyone I hope you are well. I am here for you whenever! I see the spam is still on the rise… Anyway. How is everyone doing?

    • I’m surviving @invincible, trying to take one day at a time beautiful angel Cecelia, indeed the spam is so very annoying and frustrating, it honestly brings down this community, BT should always be a place of love, compassion and kindness, thank you for always being the lovely person that you are sweetie, hope things are going well for you too…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 1 month ago

    first of all. I VOTE FOR OLI (@oliver) TO BE A MOD. i really feel like this site needs mods. or like something to keep the bots away.

    second. heres how my life is going. im feeling better overall.
    the issue with this is i dont know if its real. i cant make head or tail of this shit. we all know the mask, right? the mask is like where you…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      The mask will slip away and you will find true happiness, love and positivity @985921sqh, please know you are truly beautiful, special and incredible Echo, you are absolutely perfect and fantastic, remember to always surround yourself with brightness and be kind to yourself, everything will be OK Echo, believe in yourself, go forward with…[Read more]

    • First, I completely agree with you for @Oliver to be a mod, he’s literally on this site every time I sign in, and he’s always trying to give others advice, tell them what’s wrong, what others are saying that aren’t true if it’s a negative saying about themselves, it’s just great to have him here. To be fair though, if Oliver would to be a…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 1 month ago

    HOW DO WE KILL THE SPAM.

    ideas: we could create a forum or something for updates that only real members (not spammers) of BT could join. or we could like IDEK i want it gone!!!!!

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Indeed @985921sqh, we have to find a way to get rid of the annoying spam on BT, it honestly brings this community down, I want BT to always be a place of love, kindness and compassion, thank you for always keeping this community safe and coming up with useful ideas and suggestions to stop the spam, try to contact the moderators Echo, if they…[Read more]

    • The way we’re SUPPOSED to get rid of spam is to report all the spambot profiles as inappropriate, but since the moderators are likely to be totally inactive (and probably only, like, five people use this site frequently enough), we may have to take matters into our own hands. We could potentially create a BlahTherapy Group for actual updates or…[Read more]

    • Right, @the-ghost-of-nobody, that sounds GREAT, except not everyone has discord and also I have no idea how to create a group… What if we posted something in the ”questions” category where people could post their updates there instead?

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