You truly do deserve a loving, fulfilling and positive relationship with someone special @invincible, remember to always be kind to yourself sweetie and please know that any relationship you are in will continue going from strength to strength, be with someone who loves you and who will stick by you through anything, don’t focus on those who…[Read more]
It’s absolutely amazing to read this! I’m so happy for you Cecelia <3. You deserve to be loved and to be in a healthy relationship with a partner that makes you feel loved and secure, and that lets you keep growing and be your true self. I wish the best for you, you really deserve it @invincible
They should do the same for you @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and wonderful person Cecelia who deserves to love and be loved, any person who you are in a relationship with should treat you with the support, care, love, compassion and kindness that you show to them, it’s great to truly love someone but they should always return…[Read more]
Unfortunately, I know that feeling you describe Cecelia. Sometimes we try our best to be there for the ones we love, even when they do not reciprocate. If that’s the case, you should set boundaries, even if it hurts. Otherwise, they’ll keep benefiting from your kindness without worrying about you neither giving anything back. Something similar…[Read more]
- Mood : Hopeful
That’s great to hear @blackdog, I hope this new therapist truly helps and supports you in a way that is beneficial and helpful to you, I’m sure that in speaking to your new therapist, you will work through your struggles, find positive solutions and come out feeling so much more stronger, everything will go well and so many more brighter moments…[Read more]
I’m very happy for you @blackdog!! You really deserve a good therapist that cares about you, it’s helpful, professional and kind. I’m sure it’ll work out fantastically with him ^^
That’s not right at all @invincible, your colleagues and co-workers should treat you with kindness, respect and compassion, I understand you all have jobs to do and you are a team but they should treat you positively so you can work better together, I would talk to your colleagues and let them know how you feel Cecelia, remember you deserve…[Read more]
*sigh* I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for some people to be polite towards their coworkers. You are spending hours and hours in the same place with them, the bare minimum shall be to have some mutual respect and manners. I’m sorry you have to deal with that Cecelia. If you need to talk, my DMs are always open <3 @invincible
That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, those on the chat should be there to help and support you, they have no right to be rude and disrespectful to you Rain, please know that I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Rain, you deserve to feel positive and happy Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]
If they disconnected on you on purpose, it’s definitely not right to leave someone hanging when they are venting and in need of a person that’s willing to listen to them. I’m sorry this happened to you Rain. If you need to talk or vent, my DMs are open <3 @little-angel-2
- Mood : Frustrated
That’s not right at all @blackdog, it’s totally wrong, a therapist should be there to help and support you no matter what your history is, you deserve to be treated so much better Blackdog, please don’t give up on finding therapy, hopefully if you keep looking you will find the right therapy for you, you are a good person who truly deserves to…[Read more]
I don’t understand why a therapist would not want to see a patient because their health history. I mean… They are supposed to help improve your mental health, aren’t they? I’m so sorry this happened to you, @blackdog. Don’t give up, if your insurance allows you to see a different therapist, go for it. There are a lot of them who truly want…[Read more]
Got an appointment for two weeks from now. Here’s hoping…
Thats really good news! I hope you got a great therapist. Crossed fingers! @blackdog
That’s good to hear @blackdog, hope this new therapist truly helps you feel happier and more positive within yourself, remember to keep going BlackDog and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
I would ignore her and focus on doing the shifts that suit you @little-angel-2, always work hard Rain and don’t let anyone distract you from doing what is right for you, hope your colleague doesn’t bother you going forward Rain, everything will be OK, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
”No, I’ve never agreed to switch shifts with you. If you’ve wanted one, you should have asked in the first place ”. She does not deserve a different answer than that. Her attitude it’s despicable, she’s making you feel guilty and gaslighting you.
That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, they should accommodate and support you Rain, I hope you manage to find the right therapy that truly helps you, please know that I will always be here for you Rain and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Rain, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
And to whom exactly are they offer therapy then? To the ones whose mental health is okay and, by definition, do not need therapy? It’s deplorable that a center dedicated to look after people’s health has that kind of protocols. I hope you can find a good therapist as soon as possible @little-angel-2
Exactly as you said @invincible. Love is about accepting the person as a whole, with all their bad and all their good. Some people should remember that.
- Mood : Lonely
felt that, are you doing alright?
I’m okay, just lonely sometimes.
We all deserve to feel loved and cared for so we feel less alone and lonely @teamtennantgirl and @little-angel-2, I’m a reclusive, shy, awkward introvert so I know how lonely and depressing life can get, especially when if like me, you have absolutely no social life and you stay in your bedroom all day, remember you are both amazing and you both…[Read more]
Sometimes it’s nice being alone, we even need it every now and then. But feeling lonely it’s a hard thing, especially if you live far away from your loved ones. If you need to talk, my DM’s are open @little-angel-2
I know how you feel @little-angel-2, being in an adult has been so depressing for me, especially lately, my situation is sadness, unemployment, loneliness, depression and stress Rain, but try to remember about all the good times and happier moments in your life Rain, focus on the brightness that lies ahead and knowing that all your dreams will…[Read more]
I’ve been feeling the same for a long time. We work endlessly to earn enough money just to pay for basic things we need to live (such as water, food, electricity, rent…), and if you have something left, it’s gone in contingencies as a broken car, something in the house to fix… I try to enjoy the little things to keep these thoughts at bay…[Read more]
Omg always get another cat. Always.
While animals are cute and adorable, I would only get another pet if you feel you can handle the responsibility of caring for a new animal @little-angel-2, have many pets do you have Rain?, I have 1 cat, I’m sure you will do what you feel is right and comfortable for yourself and any new lovely animal you bring into your home, feel free to inbox…[Read more]
@aprxl you’re right
Another cat equals to more happiness. So yes,if you can take care of them, adopt another cat ^^
- Mood : Frustrated
I would talk to your boss and let him know how you are feeling @little-angel-2, I know work commitments are important but they really should give you enough time and notice so you can attend and prepare, do speak with your boss and see if they can make alternate arrangements for you Rain, hope things work out positively for you, feel free to inbox…[Read more]
I completely understand you Rain. I feel the same about last minute changes when I already have my week organized, so I can do everything I want to do with the less stress possible. It’s understandable that you are worried about not being there, but if you cannot include that activity in your schedule, that’s it. Your boss should have told you a…[Read more]
Yes, exactly. It’s so stressful and I can’t just drop everything else to make room for something I didn’t know about until the last minute. I ended up not going. I hope they don’t see this as a bad thing at work. It’s their responsibility to notify me in advance.
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