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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    It is with a heavy heart that I announce the passing of our beloved cat Neferpitou, also known as Pitou. He was the shining light in my life, even during the times when he caused chaos and tested my patience. I wouldn’t exchange him for anything in this world. Although I feel like I lost him too soon, there is never sufficient time with the…[Read more]

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy moments you spent with your beloved cat, all the times you played together and took care of him, focus on all the times and moments he brought joy, laughter and fun to you, be strong and remember him with love and positivity, you can do it, please know I’m always here…[Read more]

    • My condolences to you. I know that he was so loved. I hope that you can find solace in knowing that he was the happiest with you and that you gave him the best life.

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    I appear content, but I can’t help but imagine how foreign a smile would feel on my own face. It’s been ages since I genuinely smiled. This facade is slowly falling apart.

    Mood : Numb
    • Please don’t feel hopeless and numb @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a brilliant, awesome and lovely person who truly deserves all the happiness in the world, don’t let yourself fall apart, always be kind to yourself and surround yourself with love, positivity, compassion and hope, everything will be OK, hold your head up high because you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    sometimes he makes me feel empty
    but sometimes he makes me feel so alive

    • if he wants me to demonstrate confidence he needs to bring me an assured sense of being wanted

    • Your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness @invincible, he should make you feel beautiful, happy, wanted, loved and appreciated sweetheart, don’t ever let him be rude to you, make you feel empty or down, he should make you feel that you are important to him and that the relationship matters to him, I would talk to him…[Read more]

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    blackdog posted an update 2 months ago

    Life is actually pretty good even though I’m severely underemployed, but as I get older my unshakable feeling that I will never find love and die alone becomes more and more of a rational prediction

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Try to stay positive and upbeat @blackdog, I’m sure you will find the right career path and job that you will enjoy and will be beneficial for you and your bright future, you will make all your goals, hopes, dreams and aspirations come true, don’t give up on love, it may take time but I’m sure you will find the one for you, you will meet your…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    thank you so much for your kind words on my latest posts… I appreciate it and it feels good to know you you believe in me & are rooting for me. @llunknownll

    • Of course I am rooting for you! I hope things have gotten better for you and that you’re happier.

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    day has gotten better… but the random intervals of people showing off what their SOs did for Vday is kind of annoying. esp getting texts from toxic or abusive relationships showing off what they got and how blah blah. meanwhile, i haven’t gotten what i want andneed. an apology from this morning. i dont want, expect or care much for the…[Read more]

    • I would talk to him about how he is treating you @invincible, be open and honest with him beautiful angel Cecelia, it’s up to him to listen and change his ways so you can strengthen your relationship together, I want to see you feeling truly happy sweetie and being treated right angel Cecelia, hope everything works out positively sweetheart,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    too stunned rn because my valentine’s morning consisted of my bf angrily snapping at me over the phone so i’m feeling real great rn.

    • That’s not OK @invincible, your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness every day but especially on this day, he should apologise to you sweetie and try to make things right because you deserve so much better angel Cecelia, remember you deserve to feel loved, looked after and taken care of by your partner, do your best to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel

    • Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

    • thanks im trying my best its still super fresh wound and it hurts alot loosing someone i cared so much for

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    Right now its a rough patch but I feel like I’m about to go over the hill of happiness and success soon. Just right now I am overwhelmed and stressed, I moved in with BF and our place is a mess right now and cluttered and blegh, I have to bring my cat over to adjust the next next weekend that’ll be stressful.. I started a new job (soooo much…[Read more]

    • I don’t think a lot of young men understand how frustrating it is to be aroused but cannot do anything about it because you are so insecure or your insecurity botches the encounter u have with ur partner.

    • You will be OK @invincible, do focus on getting your home completed and on being successful in your new job sweetie, I’m sure you will get everything sorted in a positive way sweetheart, remember to relax when you need too and take time to make yourself feel calm and positive mentally, physically and emotionally by doing your favourite hobbies…[Read more]

    • Thank you for sharing @invincible. It’s never easy going through a lot of changes. It’s going to take some time to adjust. I’m glad that you are happier at your new job. I can relate on the hardship of accepting our bodies for how they are sometimes. I hope that you come to love and accept your self in every way possible. You got this!

    • thank you so much!

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    life evolution and changes can b very scary esp when ur traumatized from ur whole childhood n early adulthood

    but i want it more than i want to stay comfortable and miserable.

    i’ll be comfortable and happy after i run thru this storm

    just cannot lose myself and my willpower, my humor and my creativity

    Mood : Anxious
    • Trauma and life changes, evolutions and challenges can make us feel anxious and wary of what lies ahead @invincible, but remember to never let those hurdles break you down sweetie, you are so brave, strong and courageous because you have overcome so much beautiful Cecelia, look ahead towards the bright, amazing and wonderful future that will be…[Read more]

    • That’s awesome that you want to get out of your comfort zone so to say. It really is scary and I commend you for going through the hardships to reach beyond.

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    “The weird, weird thing about devastating loss is that life actually goes on. When you’re faced with a tragedy, a loss so huge that you have no idea how you can live through it, somehow, the world keeps turning, the seconds keep ticking.”

    • It can feel strange that life does go on when you have suffered a tremendous loss but remember to always focus on the happier, positive and upbeat moments you had with the person you lost, keep them in your heart and in your memories @helplessandhelpful1996, know that you will make it through this loss and come out feeling stronger and ready to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    “So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    “Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    “Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.”

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    Flameaura posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Not all in this world will be loved.

    Mood : Discontent
    • Please don’t think like that @flameaura, you deserve to be loved, we all do Flameaura, please know you are a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves happiness and to feel appreciated, remember you do matter, don’t let negative thoughts get you down, surround yourself with hope, positivity and brightness, be kind to yourself and…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    so grateful for my bf this year
    the holidays won’t be so lonely and dark.

    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Hope you and your boyfriend have a wonderful holiday season together @invincible, I’m sure spending the holidays with someone special, someone you love, will truly help you feel loved, supported and taken care of, remember to stay positive, continue to grow your relationship with your boyfriend and make each day as fantastic as you can beautiful…[Read more]

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    Angel posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    Still aliiiiiive ~ (^3^)

    • I’m so glad you are still here @dizzydaydreamer333, it’s been pretty quiet here on BT, hope you are doing well Angel and everything is going OK in your life, remember to stay positive, be happy and focus on making each day as fantastic as you can and making all your goals come true, please know I’m always here for you, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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