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    The Ghost of Nobody posted an update 21 hours, 43 minutes ago

    After a few days of self-care, I see now that the spambots seem to have died down significantly. I also see some people asking for help or talking about problems that I really feel like I could help with. I kind of feel like I missed it because I should’ve answered after they made the post. Still, I’ll be able to help the people who seem to want…[Read more]

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    • I truly hope the spambots stay gone and don’t come back @the-ghost-of-nobody, thank you for always being the kind, compassionate and sweet person that you are Ghost, always help others and spread as much love as you can, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    The Ghost of Nobody answered question “When can you tell when things are over in a marriage?6 days, 21 hours ago

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update it is incredibly hard (for me) to find someone who isn’t uncaring, disrespectful, toxic and boring. View

    There are quite a lot of people like that. It truly is difficult to find somebody who isn’t at least one of those things, but you won’t be able to find the person you’re looking for it you don’t look. Good luck, dude!

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: I am here posted an update in the group Listener’s Group What do I do with someone that keeps saying that no one understands them and dont seem to open up? View

    Leave an open ear for him/her and ask them what’s up at least once. If he/she ever decides to tell you what’s bothering him/her, he/she will feel like he/she can trust you more and may open up more often. If he/she never opens up, you can’t be blamed for it and shouldn’t be upset by it. That’s what I think.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Sal posted an update Why am I even here View

    I think almost everybody can agree that the meaning of life is to figure it out for yourself. Either you understand what the meaning of life is to you or accept there is no meaning to life and make one yourself. Either way, you’re very much able to give yourself purpose if you try. Good luck, dude.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: LookingforSomeone posted an update What do guys look for in a girl’s looks? View

    If we’re talking purely about looks, what’s most attractive to me personally is long red hair, blue eyes, and soft skin. I’ll avoid what could be TMI in my answer…

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: OBATOM19 posted an update How do I deal with a partner that gets angry most of the time, just went to see her to even try to say things that will make her smile and be happy. She doesn’t even act like she sees that. View

    There are many reasons why one could be ”angry all the time”. See if you can either talk with her about it or figure out the patterns to it. Then you can determine what you should do about it.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: J posted an update Long distance relationship dont work. You may think your relationship is the exception but its not. Trust me View

    I’m getting hints that you’ve recently ended a long-distance relationship. If so, I’m sorry that happened to you and I hope you find somebody even better for you. Even if you don’t believe a long-distance relationship will ever work, it can work for other people. Trust me.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    The servers are running again and there hasn’t been a spam message for fifteen hours (as of this posting). My good day got better.

    Mood : Happy
    • Yay!!!!!

    • It’s great to see the chat back up and running @the-ghost-of-nobody, but something needs to be done about the spam here on BT, hopefully the moderators will work to get rid of it or someone new will take over as moderator and get things cleared up, I want this site to always remain a place of compassion, love and kindness, thank you for all the…[Read more]

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Soothing Sunshine posted an update Since the last time I posted here, I have found a new partner, and if I’m being completely honest, a new me. I’ve developed so much as a person, and I’m just so grateful to […] View

    It’s nice to know things are going great for you. I hope the rest of us can have that kind of happiness as well soon enough.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update I feel like i shouldnt vent anymore. This may be my last post for a while. I just feel like i should keep everything in me. View

    Your choices are yours to make, but I would strongly advise venting at least when it really starts to bother you. I think many of us have had a habit of bottling up emotions and problems, but I don’t think it has worked out for any of us. At least consider that.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Becca posted an update so fed up of not being able to get on to Blah Therapy. Feel sorry for those who need to vent!! View

    I’m hating it too. First it’s the unchecked spambots, now it’s the server being down for more than a day. At least it can only get better from here… Right?

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Destined To Be Lonely posted an update Is it just me or is this site messing up really bad lately? First I was constantly getting disconnected from my venters, then when I would start a new chat it would […] View

    That definitely sounds like a server issue. When the servers are down and you can’t connect to them, there’s no “X Venters on hold” or “X Listeners on hold” at the top, there’s a red dot with “error” at the bottom-left, and sometimes the report page shows up even when you’ve JUST opened the chat. Until the moderators get the servers up…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted an update 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    So nice to see the What’s New page is full of people sharing their feelings and asking for advice. I appreciate the moderators of the site for caring enough to throw out spambots, scammers, and other things that would obviously make the community pages look stupid. This is what I signed up for…

    Mood : Sarcastic
    • Indeed @the-ghost-of-nobody, it’s good to see members of BT sharing their thoughts, feelings and emotions and compassionate responses, everyone trying to truly help each other, that’s what BT was made for, but it is so annoying to see the spammers here, the moderators really should get rid of all the spammers so this site can continue being a…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    In reply to: BlackRabbit posted an update Does anyone know when BT is coming out with an app. I read last year that there was one in the making…!? That would be amazing!! View

    As you can probably see, BlahTherapy’s signed-in zone has a few problems.I’m sure the BlahTherapy moderators are either too busy to get into making apps or shouldn’t be getting into apps yet. But I don’t know exactly what’s going on in the background of this site, so who am I to say?

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    Ghost answered question “How do you manage your anger?3 weeks, 4 days ago

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Today was my birthday! I had an incredibly lovely day and celebration! I’m grateful for my family & thankful to my friends & strangers who have wished me a happy birthday and have made it […] View

    I’m glad you were able to enjoy your birthday. I hope you made the most of it.

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update Hey, guys.I’m under a lot of pressure right now.My friend called me yesterday morning, frantic and hysterical. She told me that her mother was abusive, and that she had called […] View

    That definitely sounds like a bad situation for your friend to be in. It’s very nice of you to offer whatever you can to help her. As for the last paragraph, don’t think of depression as a test of worthiness or a competition. Everyday happiness is more like pain tolerance or the ability to eat Marmite. Some people just don’t have it, some…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Eloise posted an update i need help with friends and boys View

    There are a couple of groups you can join on BlahTherapy to discuss those subjects. Or you could talk about it one-on-one with somebody. Either way, I hope you get whatever help you’re looking for.

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Eloise posted an update in the group Guy Talk + Girl Talk (United) i asked out my crush and he rejected me bc he has feelings for my best friend. I still really like him and i’ve been friend zoned, what should I do? View

    There’s not much you can do. Neither of you control whom you two have feelings for. I guess- if I were you- I would spend time being friends with him until either he falls in love with somebody else or you do. You could still get to know him as his friend and learn if you really like him or not.

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