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    The Ghost of Nobody posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    Any real people still out there in this sea of bullshit?

    Mood : Frustrated
    • Indeed @the-ghost-of-nobody, the spammers are so frustrating and annoying, I’m here but the spammers are bringing down this community, BT has to come up with a way of totally getting rid of them so this beautiful community can always be a place of love, compassion and kindness, try to not let the situation here on BT upset you, have a good day…[Read more]

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update Is it normal to feel numb starting anti-depressants?? And for that matter thoughtless, not that I cared for the thoughts I have but I can’t enjoy some of the stuff I used to without them View

    Seeing your comment, I worry you’re taking the wrong approach to this. Even if a therapist recommended you try antidepressants, you shouldn’t take any medication not prescribed to you. The numbness could be from taking an antidepressant that’s not good for you, which a prescribing doctor would be able to help you with. If you haven’t already,…[Read more]

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update HOW DO WE KILL THE SPAM.ideas: we could create a forum or something for updates that only real members (not spammers) of BT could join. or we could like IDEK i want it gone!!!!! View

    The way we’re SUPPOSED to get rid of spam is to report all the spambot profiles as inappropriate, but since the moderators are likely to be totally inactive (and probably only, like, five people use this site frequently enough), we may have to take matters into our own hands. We could potentially create a BlahTherapy Group for actual updates or…[Read more]

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: bumbletuna72 posted an update i seeking a guy, ready to talk on any subject, my nickname Jessica25 forward to my profile sexylady.icu i will answer allokay blah i have seen this woman post this like TEN THOUSAND […] View

    It’s nice to know I’m not the only one frustrated by this. This spambot has been bugging Listeners longer than the ones posting links all over the What’s New page. I bet you hate them as much as I do, but the moderators of BlahTherapy are strangely silent. Just keep track of the name they use each day and disconnect the moment you see the name…[Read more]

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: bumbletuna72 posted an update there are some creepy ppl on here asking for age/gender/location, i hope this site is protecting against pedophiles looking for prey…i will report View

    I’m glad I’m not the only person who finds that creepy. I mean… isn’t the whole point of BlahTherapy that you DON’T know who you’re talking to? I’d like to think that unbiased advice is better.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Eka posted an update in the group Sexuality Questions does any body have inclination to any sexual orientation by saying that he/she watches LGBT porn? View

    Personally, I’d say it goes just a bit deeper than that: It’s about what you find attractive about it. Some straight people watch transgender men have sex with cisgendered women because it’s just a little more woman than straight porn. At the same time, some lesbians will go through mental gymnastics to justify watching some man-on-woman porn…[Read more]

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted an update 3 months ago

    After a few days of self-care, I see now that the spambots seem to have died down significantly. I also see some people asking for help or talking about problems that I really feel like I could help with. I kind of feel like I missed it because I should’ve answered after they made the post. Still, I’ll be able to help the people who seem to want…[Read more]

    Mood : Energetic
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      I truly hope the spambots stay gone and don’t come back @the-ghost-of-nobody, thank you for always being the kind, compassionate and sweet person that you are Ghost, always help others and spread as much love as you can, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update it is incredibly hard (for me) to find someone who isn’t uncaring, disrespectful, toxic and boring. View

    There are quite a lot of people like that. It truly is difficult to find somebody who isn’t at least one of those things, but you won’t be able to find the person you’re looking for it you don’t look. Good luck, dude!

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: I am here posted an update in the group Listener’s Group What do I do with someone that keeps saying that no one understands them and dont seem to open up? View

    Leave an open ear for him/her and ask them what’s up at least once. If he/she ever decides to tell you what’s bothering him/her, he/she will feel like he/she can trust you more and may open up more often. If he/she never opens up, you can’t be blamed for it and shouldn’t be upset by it. That’s what I think.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Sal posted an update Why am I even here View

    I think almost everybody can agree that the meaning of life is to figure it out for yourself. Either you understand what the meaning of life is to you or accept there is no meaning to life and make one yourself. Either way, you’re very much able to give yourself purpose if you try. Good luck, dude.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: LookingforSomeone posted an update What do guys look for in a girl’s looks? View

    If we’re talking purely about looks, what’s most attractive to me personally is long red hair, blue eyes, and soft skin. I’ll avoid what could be TMI in my answer…

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: OBATOM19 posted an update How do I deal with a partner that gets angry most of the time, just went to see her to even try to say things that will make her smile and be happy. She doesn’t even act like she sees that. View

    There are many reasons why one could be ”angry all the time”. See if you can either talk with her about it or figure out the patterns to it. Then you can determine what you should do about it.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    The servers are running again and there hasn’t been a spam message for fifteen hours (as of this posting). My good day got better.

    Mood : Happy
    • Yay!!!!!

    • It’s great to see the chat back up and running @the-ghost-of-nobody, but something needs to be done about the spam here on BT, hopefully the moderators will work to get rid of it or someone new will take over as moderator and get things cleared up, I want this site to always remain a place of compassion, love and kindness, thank you for all the…[Read more]

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Soothing Sunshine posted an update Since the last time I posted here, I have found a new partner, and if I’m being completely honest, a new me. I’ve developed so much as a person, and I’m just so grateful to […] View

    It’s nice to know things are going great for you. I hope the rest of us can have that kind of happiness as well soon enough.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Mel posted an update I feel like i shouldnt vent anymore. This may be my last post for a while. I just feel like i should keep everything in me. View

    Your choices are yours to make, but I would strongly advise venting at least when it really starts to bother you. I think many of us have had a habit of bottling up emotions and problems, but I don’t think it has worked out for any of us. At least consider that.

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    The Ghost of Nobody posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Becca posted an update so fed up of not being able to get on to Blah Therapy. Feel sorry for those who need to vent!! View

    I’m hating it too. First it’s the unchecked spambots, now it’s the server being down for more than a day. At least it can only get better from here… Right?

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Destined To Be Lonely posted an update Is it just me or is this site messing up really bad lately? First I was constantly getting disconnected from my venters, then when I would start a new chat it would […] View

    That definitely sounds like a server issue. When the servers are down and you can’t connect to them, there’s no “X Venters on hold” or “X Listeners on hold” at the top, there’s a red dot with “error” at the bottom-left, and sometimes the report page shows up even when you’ve JUST opened the chat. Until the moderators get the servers up…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    So nice to see the What’s New page is full of people sharing their feelings and asking for advice. I appreciate the moderators of the site for caring enough to throw out spambots, scammers, and other things that would obviously make the community pages look stupid. This is what I signed up for…

    Mood : Sarcastic
    • Indeed @the-ghost-of-nobody, it’s good to see members of BT sharing their thoughts, feelings and emotions and compassionate responses, everyone trying to truly help each other, that’s what BT was made for, but it is so annoying to see the spammers here, the moderators really should get rid of all the spammers so this site can continue being a…[Read more]

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