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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update My ex. Almost forgotten.Then a close friend (who also happens to be his ex) told me that one of her friends was playing truth or dare with a group of popular kids. Long story short, […] View

    With those facts, whatever the truth is, it doesn’t sound like your ex was somebody you’d want to be around anyways. I’d say it’s not worth the time and effort to think about or find out who he’s spending time with. You’re very likely better off without him and it’s best to keep him in the past- not the present. Right?

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Cherrydoll posted an update I am going shopping again today, I have a small school field trip tomorrow and everything is going fine with my gf; except for my mother, I don’t think I could ask for a better life […] View

    I like that kind of positivity. It’s nice that you can have that for yourself regardless of your mother. Enjoy it!

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update So… I’ve lost six pounds in about, what, a week and a half, probably due to my fast metabolism and already slight frame. Everyone around me seems to move, speak, and react faster. I […] View

    All in all, that sounds positive. I hope you like those results as much as I would… It sounds great!

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: ventilation posted an update just vented and had to go. the listener felt me real good but he/she never got to finish and i regret having to go because i really wanted some advice. it also took a long time to […] View

    It’s a long shot, but if the person who was your Listener has a BlahTherapy account, you could try to find him/her through the Missed Connections Group.

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    Go to this ”user’s” profile and click ”Flag this user as inappropriate” to get rid of this spam.

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    Go to this ”user’s” profile and click ”Flag this user as inappropriate” to get rid of this spam.

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: SookieMarie posted an update Sometimes the answer to your questions is found in giving someone the answers to theirsCrystal McQueeney View

    (I may sound totally crazy for bringing this up, but…) Have you ever seen an episode of House MD? The main character, Doctor Gregory House, usually finds the solutions to his problems like that. In most episodes, he gets stuck trying to figure out how to save a dying patient, helps a totally different patient with a totally different problem,…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Ember posted an update How can I help those who are depressed when they don’t listen to my suggestions? I want to be a good listener but it’s hard when those I care about don’t seem to think that I do. What can I […] View

    I could be biased and in the wrong, but I think the issue truly is the Venter on these kinds of things. Please believe me when I say I sincerely understand the difficulty that comes with clinical depression. I know how hard it is to do even simple tasks and nobody truly knows how one with depression feels. Even so, I MUST say it’s a waste of time…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Ember posted an update As a listener, does anybody get venters who ask personal questions about their life? What do I do in those situations without appearing like you’re blowing the venter off? View

    I mean no offense to Oli, but I very frequently have this problem as a Listener. I personally don’t share any detail about myself unless it’s relevant to the Venter’s problem. If they want to know my name because they need to know my name (in an ANONYMOUS chat), I simply say, “I’d rather not say,” and accept the possibility of them…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted a new activity comment 4 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Ghost posted an update As a Listener, does anybody else get a lot of Venters who take things personally? On more than one occasion, I’ve had a Venter specifically ask for help on a problem, dislike my suggestion, […] View

    Yeah, I try to forget about that as soon as possible. No reason for one Venter to get in the way of helping any others, right? At least I have some kind of acknowledgement that I’m not the problem. One wouldn’t insult their therapist for almost any reason, so why do the same to a stranger trying to help? Right? Thanks for the kind words, too.

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    Ghost posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    As a Listener, does anybody else get a lot of Venters who take things personally? On more than one occasion, I’ve had a Venter specifically ask for help on a problem, dislike my suggestion, and turn to insulting me. I don’t feel the least bit hurt by them, but I have to wonder why so many people think that “bad advice” is a personal attack and…[Read more]

    Mood : Bewildered
    • Venters really should treat any advice that is given with kindness and respect @the-ghost-of-nobody, after all they are here on BT getting help from kind listeners who are willing to help and support them Ghost, don’t let anyone be horrible to you on the chat, no one has to right to insult you especially when you are trying to help and give them…[Read more]

    • Yeah, I try to forget about that as soon as possible. No reason for one Venter to get in the way of helping any others, right? At least I have some kind of acknowledgement that I’m not the problem. One wouldn’t insult their therapist for almost any reason, so why do the same to a stranger trying to help? Right? Thanks for the kind words, too.

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    Ghost answered question “I would love to do homeschooling to become more independant. Is this a good decision?4 years, 11 months ago

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    Ghost posted an update 4 years, 12 months ago

    Tonight ended up so much worse than I had planned. Yet again, a community I was a part of has decidedly rejected me and left me wondering if I should even bother trying to make friends anymore. (It’s a different community than the last time.) I literally thought about dying more than anything else tonight. I also briefly considered if tonight was…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • You don’t deserve to be treated like that @the-ghost-of-nobody, any community that abandons you isn’t worth your time Ghost, you deserve to be accepted, valued and appreciated by others Ghost, please don’t feel depressed or sad, you will meet wonderful people who will stick by you and love you unconditionally Ghost, please know the BT community…[Read more]

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    Ghost posted an update 5 years ago

    I feel kind of disappointed. I was welcomed to a new community I thought would work out for me just to be rejected the very same day. What little I knew about the people in this group convinced me the people there were- if nothing else- inviting, considerate, and open. I guess I was wrong… and now I’ve been hurt emotionally because of it. Good…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
    • Whoa, whoa! Hold it, who was mean to you, @the-ghost-of-nobody, and where can I find them? I owe them a piece of my mind.

      I’d like for you to give BT a second try. It’s not an obligation, but rather a suggestion; we are a very accepting community, but maybe with the exception of a few jerks. I hope they didn’t hurt you too badly, Ghost. If…[Read more]

    • Don’t let anyone be horrible to you on BT @the-ghost-of-nobody, I’m so sorry that happened to you Ghost, this is supposed to be a compassionate, supportive and loving community where we all help each other Ghost, do report whoever is being horrible to you Ghost, that sort of behaviour on here is completely unacceptable, there are so many more…[Read more]

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    Ghost answered question “how can i get over a loved one?5 years ago

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    Ghost posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    I’m probably just feeling this way because I’ve dropped off my antidepressants, but I kind of think I would have the right to feel this way even if my moods were in control.

    A friend of mine who I probably talk to the most and would dare say is my best friend has recently fucked up. I’ve been trying to get together with her like we used to do…[Read more]

    Mood : Moody
    • I would talk to her @the-ghost-of-nobody, let her know you care about her and you want the best for her, let her know that you want your friendship to be strong and loving, tell her that you will always be there to support her whenever she needs someone to talk too, be as honest and open with each other about how you see things and where you want…[Read more]

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    Ghost became a registered member 5 years, 5 months ago