Seeing your comment, I worry you’re taking the wrong approach to this. Even if a therapist recommended you try antidepressants, you shouldn’t take any medication not prescribed to you. The numbness could be from taking an antidepressant that’s not good for you, which a prescribing doctor would be able to help you with. If you haven’t already,…[Read more]

The way we’re SUPPOSED to get rid of spam is to report all the spambot profiles as inappropriate, but since the moderators are likely to be totally inactive (and probably only, like, five people use this site frequently enough), we may have to take matters into our own hands. We could potentially create a BlahTherapy Group for actual updates or…[Read more]

It’s nice to know I’m not the only one frustrated by this. This spambot has been bugging Listeners longer than the ones posting links all over the What’s New page. I bet you hate them as much as I do, but the moderators of BlahTherapy are strangely silent. Just keep track of the name they use each day and disconnect the moment you see the name…[Read more]

I’m glad I’m not the only person who finds that creepy. I mean… isn’t the whole point of BlahTherapy that you DON’T know who you’re talking to? I’d like to think that unbiased advice is better.

Personally, I’d say it goes just a bit deeper than that: It’s about what you find attractive about it. Some straight people watch transgender men have sex with cisgendered women because it’s just a little more woman than straight porn. At the same time, some lesbians will go through mental gymnastics to justify watching some man-on-woman porn…[Read more]

There are quite a lot of people like that. It truly is difficult to find somebody who isn’t at least one of those things, but you won’t be able to find the person you’re looking for it you don’t look. Good luck, dude!

Leave an open ear for him/her and ask them what’s up at least once. If he/she ever decides to tell you what’s bothering him/her, he/she will feel like he/she can trust you more and may open up more often. If he/she never opens up, you can’t be blamed for it and shouldn’t be upset by it. That’s what I think.

I think almost everybody can agree that the meaning of life is to figure it out for yourself. Either you understand what the meaning of life is to you or accept there is no meaning to life and make one yourself. Either way, you’re very much able to give yourself purpose if you try. Good luck, dude.

If we’re talking purely about looks, what’s most attractive to me personally is long red hair, blue eyes, and soft skin. I’ll avoid what could be TMI in my answer…

There are many reasons why one could be ”angry all the time”. See if you can either talk with her about it or figure out the patterns to it. Then you can determine what you should do about it.

It’s nice to know things are going great for you. I hope the rest of us can have that kind of happiness as well soon enough.

Your choices are yours to make, but I would strongly advise venting at least when it really starts to bother you. I think many of us have had a habit of bottling up emotions and problems, but I don’t think it has worked out for any of us. At least consider that.

I’m hating it too. First it’s the unchecked spambots, now it’s the server being down for more than a day. At least it can only get better from here… Right?

That definitely sounds like a server issue. When the servers are down and you can’t connect to them, there’s no “X Venters on hold” or “X Listeners on hold” at the top, there’s a red dot with “error” at the bottom-left, and sometimes the report page shows up even when you’ve JUST opened the chat. Until the moderators get the servers up…[Read more]