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    Cecelia posted an update 3 months ago

    sometimes he makes me feel empty
    but sometimes he makes me feel so alive

    • if he wants me to demonstrate confidence he needs to bring me an assured sense of being wanted

    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness @invincible, he should make you feel beautiful, happy, wanted, loved and appreciated sweetheart, don’t ever let him be rude to you, make you feel empty or down, he should make you feel that you are important to him and that the relationship matters to him, I would talk to him…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 months ago

    thank you so much for your kind words on my latest posts… I appreciate it and it feels good to know you you believe in me & are rooting for me. @llunknownll

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 months ago

    day has gotten better… but the random intervals of people showing off what their SOs did for Vday is kind of annoying. esp getting texts from toxic or abusive relationships showing off what they got and how blah blah. meanwhile, i haven’t gotten what i want andneed. an apology from this morning. i dont want, expect or care much for the…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      I would talk to him about how he is treating you @invincible, be open and honest with him beautiful angel Cecelia, it’s up to him to listen and change his ways so you can strengthen your relationship together, I want to see you feeling truly happy sweetie and being treated right angel Cecelia, hope everything works out positively sweetheart,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 months ago

    too stunned rn because my valentine’s morning consisted of my bf angrily snapping at me over the phone so i’m feeling real great rn.

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      That’s not OK @invincible, your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness every day but especially on this day, he should apologise to you sweetie and try to make things right because you deserve so much better angel Cecelia, remember you deserve to feel loved, looked after and taken care of by your partner, do your best to…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Right now its a rough patch but I feel like I’m about to go over the hill of happiness and success soon. Just right now I am overwhelmed and stressed, I moved in with BF and our place is a mess right now and cluttered and blegh, I have to bring my cat over to adjust the next next weekend that’ll be stressful.. I started a new job (soooo much…[Read more]

    • I don’t think a lot of young men understand how frustrating it is to be aroused but cannot do anything about it because you are so insecure or your insecurity botches the encounter u have with ur partner.

    • You will be OK @invincible, do focus on getting your home completed and on being successful in your new job sweetie, I’m sure you will get everything sorted in a positive way sweetheart, remember to relax when you need too and take time to make yourself feel calm and positive mentally, physically and emotionally by doing your favourite hobbies…[Read more]

    • Thank you for sharing @invincible. It’s never easy going through a lot of changes. It’s going to take some time to adjust. I’m glad that you are happier at your new job. I can relate on the hardship of accepting our bodies for how they are sometimes. I hope that you come to love and accept your self in every way possible. You got this!

    • thank you so much!

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    life evolution and changes can b very scary esp when ur traumatized from ur whole childhood n early adulthood

    but i want it more than i want to stay comfortable and miserable.

    i’ll be comfortable and happy after i run thru this storm

    just cannot lose myself and my willpower, my humor and my creativity

    Mood : Anxious
    • Trauma and life changes, evolutions and challenges can make us feel anxious and wary of what lies ahead @invincible, but remember to never let those hurdles break you down sweetie, you are so brave, strong and courageous because you have overcome so much beautiful Cecelia, look ahead towards the bright, amazing and wonderful future that will be…[Read more]

    • That’s awesome that you want to get out of your comfort zone so to say. It really is scary and I commend you for going through the hardships to reach beyond.

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    so grateful for my bf this year
    the holidays won’t be so lonely and dark.

    • Hope you and your boyfriend have a wonderful holiday season together @invincible, I’m sure spending the holidays with someone special, someone you love, will truly help you feel loved, supported and taken care of, remember to stay positive, continue to grow your relationship with your boyfriend and make each day as fantastic as you can beautiful…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 7 months ago

    I am still alive, surprisingly. But man… I look back at my old posts from years ago and still find myself in the same shit. I’m such a loser if this has been going on nearly 10 years. Glad this site is still up though.

    Mood : Blank
    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      I’m so glad you are still here @somelameperson, please don’t ever think negatively about yourself, you are such a fantastic, awesome and amazing person who will do fantastic things and make all your dreams come true, hold your head up high, be upbeat and keep going forward with optimism and confidence, you can do it, always believe in yourself…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 8 months, 1 week ago

    my elderly coworker’s wife passed away. he loved her so much. did everything for her, loved her with his whole heart and life. i had a dream about him walking fast and looking upset. i always have dreams like that when someone dies before I find out. Weird. He is my best friend @ work, so wise and kind. My heart is breaking for him right now. and…[Read more]

    • I’m so sorry for your loss and for his loss too @invincible, I would be there to support your colleague and co-worker as much as you can beautiful angel Cecelia, let him know you are there to help him as a caring friend, let him share memories of his wife with you if he is able and comfortable enough too, I’m sure your co-worker will be glad…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    I put genuine time, effort and money into showing my appreciation and caringness for them and they can’t give me a second of human decency.

    • That’s not right at all @invincible, they should treat you with love, care, support and kindness sweetie especially when you are there to support them, don’t let them walk all over you or take advantage of your sweet nature Cecelia, they should respect and be there for you because being a loving person does work both ways sweetie, they should…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    very sorrowful today. letting my family win today, i think.
    ad ontop of that my bf doesnt seem to care.
    body is trying to shut down and sleep. but i’m only 1 hour into work.
    sigh!

    • Your boyfriend and your family should always be there to love, support and care about you @invincible, they have absolutely no right being mean and treating you horribly beautiful angel Cecelia, don’t let them bring you down sweetie, surround yourself with people and things that will give you compassion, positivity and hope, please know I love…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    manifesting a part time job
    so i can retake my class & pass it, so ican get my degree
    hopefully b4 i turn 26 so i can keep my insur til full time job. idk i might just have to do FT and do my side hustles and give up my degr

    • I’m sure you will find a good job that will enable you to take your classes and obtain your degree @invincible, work hard and know you will make all your dreams come true beautiful angel Cecelia, I’m so proud of you sweetie and I want the best for you sweetie, remember to always do what makes you happy and gives you purpose and optimism, you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    i hate it
    but something about the pain is so familiar and euphoric
    i know that’s on me
    but at least i can expect it and find comfort in it

    • I don’t want to see you in pain @invincible, you are such a lovely, kind and special person who deserves happiness, positivity and hope in her life beautiful angel Cecelia, please don’t let dark times get you down sweetie, focus on doing what makes you feel bright, happy and upbeat sweetheart, you will find comfort in all the things that bring…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    Not feeling very seen, appreciated or understood today. Not going to keep quiet though.

    • You are worth it and you do matter @invincible, always be good to yourself because you are so wonderful, awesome and special beautiful angel Cecelia, be upbeat, keep smiling and don’t let anything or anyone break you down sweetheart, don’t be scared to share your thoughts, feelings and emotions Cecelia, you truly deserve to feel heard Cecelia, I…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 9 months, 1 week ago

    Sometimes what he says and how it he says things really throws me off

    • He should always be kind to you and be there to support, love, take care of and encourage you positively @invincible, don’t let anyone be horrible towards you or harm you with mean words or actions, let him know you deserve to be shown compassion, empathy, respect and kindness beautiful angel Cecelia, remember you are truly amazing sweetheart, you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    I HAVE THE FORMAL IN PERSON INTERVIEW ON THURSDAY. i’m so so so so happy
    physically i feel like crap rn (uti healing, period disturbance cause i forgot my pills ln cause i got 12 hrs of sleep after getting 3 the previous day) buttttttttttt i’m sooo optimistc. yay.

    • I’m sure you will do great and ace this interview @invincible, remember to be yourself during the interview, do your research on the company and the job before the interview too sweetie, I’m truly wishing you all the best for this opportunity beautiful angel Cecelia, do relax and rest before the interview so you feel ready, you will be OK…[Read more]

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