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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 3 months ago

    I can feel it slowly ending and there’s absolutely nothing I can do. Why does this keep happening to me?

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    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Please don’t let sadness and pain get you down @somelameperson, what’s on your mind?, I want to see you truly happy in life, surround yourself with things that bring positivity, hope and brightness into your life, remember you are such a fantastic person who deserves all the best, stay upbeat and keep going forward, you can do it, believe in…[Read more]

    • Unfortunately, that’s something we have to accept about life: a lot of things end, and there’s nothing we can do about it. It’s painful, frustrating, maddening, and sad. And despite all of this, we’ll manage to accept the fact that the thing has come to an end, and we’ll move forward in life.
      In don’t know what you’re going through, but I…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 3 months ago

    I cant believe I log back on to see that I can still relate to my previous post about my relationship. I’m not feeling great. I feel stuck. I don’t think I can fix this but I also don’t want to give up. Yet at the same time I don’t think I feel anything anymore. I feel so fucking bad about it but I don’t know what I’m feeling. I just wish…[Read more]

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    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Please don’t feel sad @somelameperson, you are such a fantastic person who truly deserves happiness in life and a relationship where you feel supported, loved and taken care of by your partner, things will be OK, hold your head up high and keep going, I want to see you shine and making each day as wonderful as you can, smile, believe in yourself…[Read more]

    • I’ve read some of your previous posts. According to how you described it, it looks like you are in a relationship where things are not balanced, and you don’t have a voice in. Are you happy with your partner? Do you feel comfortable with them? Do the both of you respect and care for each other? Do the both of you have the will to fix what’s not…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year ago

    getting pretty fed up with situations that keep coming up in my relationship. I dont even know if this is all worth it but I’m lucky she even likes me so I’ll just listen to whatever she says. She has all the control in the relationship because she knows I’ll never break up with her but she probably has no problem breaking up with me. I never…[Read more]

    Mood : Gloomy
    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      You are a wonderful person who deserves a relationship where you feel supported, loved and cared for @somelameperson, I want to see you being treated with respect and kindness by your partner, try to talk to her about things and see what happens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @somelameperson It doesn’t sound good, I hope you get to a place where you don’t have to stay because you think there’s nothing better for you out there, and from there you can look back at how this was bad for you, and you would be better off.

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    Feeling pretty worthless to be honest. Hoping I can qualify for SSI since I can’t ever seem to hold a job for more than a few months.

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    • make sure to get a lawyer

    • Please don’t feel down or upset @somelameperson, I would try to find a lawyer or apply for disability and see what happens, try your best to find a job that you enjoy and makes you happy, something wonderful will come your way, please know your future will be so bright and amazing, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    My mental health is increasingly getting worse. I think about suicide constantly and very recently had to go to the hospital because of it. I don’t see myself living past 30.

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    • Please don’t harm yourself or let dark thoughts get you down @somelameperson, you are such a wonderful, special and fantastic person who will win all your battles, focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally, physically and mentally, everything will be OK, you will overcome and so many more brighter days will be ahead, believe in…[Read more]

    • @somelameperson what methods do you use to cope with these thoughts? Do you frequently have appointments to get help? If not, do you go out frequently to at least get some air? Do you exercise? Eat healthy? Sorry for all these questions, but these are some crucial things that really help your mental health. Might look super trivial but your body…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    hahaha money problems

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    • Don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for help @somelameperson, look for organisations in your area that can help you with budgeting, hopefully you will be able to sort your money issues so you can support yourself in a good way, keep going and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    I’m stressing out about college so much right now. If I don’t have enough financial aid then I’ll have to drop out and give up. If that happens I won’t be too surprised I suppose, everything has been seeming to go way too smoothly recently. I know I’m destined to be a failure anyways.

    Mood : Anxious
    • Please don’t feel down about yourself @somelameperson, your future will be filled with so many bright moments and amazing opportunities, hopefully you will be able to financially support yourself for college, look around for options and see what comes up, you will do great and be successful, stay upbeat and never give up, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

    • What about getting a part time job to help? Usually universities (or college as you call it) offer jobs within the campus or even in the surroundings ^^
      Also you could attempt to apply for a scholarship or try to get help?

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    So, I just realized I’ve been having panic attacks daily. I didn’t know thats what they were at first, but now I’m certain of it. It pisses me off. There is no reason whatsoever to be having them and it seems like I can’t even control my thoughts or body when it happens, it just happens. And I don’t know when the next one will be either. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Take deep breathes and relax @somelameperson, find ways to calm yourself so you feel positive and at ease, look after yourself and keep going forward with happiness as best you can, you will be OK because you are full of strength and brightness, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    SomeLamePerson posted a new activity comment 1 year, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Ca Noo posted an update Hard to believe July is half over. Don’t let time pass you by. Get out and accomplish what you want to accomplish. Today is the day, not tomorrow. Go for it. View

    Before we know it, we are all gonna be dead.

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    SomeLamePerson posted a new activity comment 1 year, 7 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I don’t know what to do with my life, for a while now I’ve been feeling like I might be transgender. I don’t know if I have it in me to commit to the change, plus I probably […] View

    Thank you for the reassurance, I really appreciate it. I think I do want to do it, but I’m just worried what the people in my life would think about that.

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    SomeLamePerson posted a new activity comment 1 year, 7 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I don’t know what to do with my life, for a while now I’ve been feeling like I might be transgender. I don’t know if I have it in me to commit to the change, plus I probably […] View

    @SetiDrow I don’t mind if it’s on here

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 7 months ago

    I don’t know what to do with my life, for a while now I’ve been feeling like I might be transgender. I don’t know if I have it in me to commit to the change, plus I probably wouldn’t even be able to afford it. I’ve come out to my dad before but all he said about it is that it would be expensive and he’s right. I also got the feeling that he…[Read more]

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    • hey i dont know if your still around but ill inbox you some advice.. something like this is better discussed in private and nt on a public forum where everyone can see. unless you want me to. thats up to you. ill await your reply or your message.

    • @SetiDrow I don’t mind if it’s on here

    • Well ignoring your feelings and not confronting them head on is not a good thing, nor is it healthy. It is quite normal to be curious about the other sex and bi, im bi-curious myself and have been questioning my own sexuality for a long time now. So i can relate to the feeling of discontent and fear that it brings you… but you should know you…[Read more]

    • Thank you for the reassurance, I really appreciate it. I think I do want to do it, but I’m just worried what the people in my life would think about that.

    • Be kind to yourself and proud of who you are @somelameperson, I’m sure you will work out your thoughts and feelings regarding your sexuality, remember you are a wonderful human-being inside and out, smile and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • just know we are here for you :) — im glad that i was able to help in some way.

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    SomeLamePerson posted a new activity comment 1 year, 7 months ago

    In reply to: David the ear posted an update Be positive !!! View

    I wish it was that easy.

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 7 months ago

    Well, I’m going through another pregnancy scare again. I haven’t had one of these for years. This almost makes me want to stop having sex completely or just get a vasectomy. I hate this feeling. On the plus side, I’m actually in a job I enjoy for the most part. It may be only part-time but I’m fine with that. I just thought I’d include…[Read more]

    Mood : Afraid
    • I would try to talk to a doctor and see if they can help you through this @somelameperson, talk to your partner as well about what you want out of the relationship, hopefully everything will be OK and things will work out in a way that benefits you, I’m sure your job will continue going well, stay fantastic and keep going, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 9 months ago

    I can’t stand the thought of working at the same job for years, just wasting my life away for some stupid company. Is this really what life just is? It makes me want to just blow my brains out thinking about it. I wish work wasn’t mandatory but I don’t want to be homeless either. I hate this life.

    Mood : Depressed
    • @somelameperson having a stable job is really good actually. But if you’re having trouble try to make your life exciting with the new stuff. When you’re not working try to go out with friends, go to coffee shops, new hobbies, etc. And within the company have you tried asking to try a different part? Like a different section? that way you could…[Read more]

    • was in the same boat for a little while, stayed in a shitty job that i didn’t enjoy, i quit and started work elsewhere… best decision i’ve made in a long time.

    • Try to find a new job or career @somelameperson, look for something that excites and interests you, I agree with @marikofujimoto too, find new hobbies or things to do that will keep you motivated and upbeat, I’m sure the right opportunity will come your way, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to…[Read more]

    • I think if you’re unhappy, leave your job. It’s so many opportunities that both you and I will probably never experience but isn’t happiness and contentment the ultimate goal for all of us? Good luck with everything.

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 9 months ago

    I have no idea what to do with my life right now.

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    • Create something. Use words, music, popsicle sticks, stones, coloured pencils, mud, sand – anything that is available. Create something that is you.

    • I’m sure you will do amazing things @somelameperson, hold your head up high and know so much brightness lies ahead for you, you are a wonderful person who will make all your dreams come true, everything will work out and things will be OK, don’t let anything stand in your way, go forward and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 9 months ago

    I can’t seem to do anything right. I might’ve just lost yet another job. Why can’t I keep a job? I always lose motivation and I just can’t get out of bed anymore. I’ve called in sick way too much already, and I always do this. I can’t seem to stop. I need money and all but I can’t take working so often. I don’t know how I’m going to…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Please don’t give up on finding a job @somelameperson, keep looking until you find something that works for you, a good career opportunity will come your way, try to be positive and know your future is bright, believe in yourself and keep going forward with a sense of confidence and clarity, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

    • @somelameperson from experience I can say for you to not rely on motivation. motivation is only in the moment, what you need is to discipline yourself. Make a list of good things that your job gives you for example (like money that you need). You can’t use lack of motivation as an excuse :/ this life isn’t for that. Besides I know you can do it!…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 11 months ago

    I can’t takeit anymore, i Have to leave where I live ASAP. My mom and stepdad only giveme emotional abuse. I’m trying so hard not to just end my life right now. I hate myself.

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 1 year, 12 months ago

    I’ve been thinking about suicide a lot recently, tonight I just can’t get it out of my mind. I feel like my life is going nowhere and I feel like suicide is the only answer. I’ve already called the suicide hotline but I’m not even sure if it helped much. I still feel the same.

    Mood : Melancholy
    • You never know where your life is going until you get there. “If you’re going through hell just keep going” – Winston Churchill. Two years ago I was planning on taking my life. I had it all planned out. But here I am today. With the Guy of my dreams and accepted to the school of my dreams. If you ever feel like you’re not doing well message me…[Read more]

    • Please don’t think like that @somelameperson, you are a wonderful person who has so much to see and do in life, things will be OK and everything will work out for you, hold your head up high and know your future will be filled with so much brightness, great things will happen to you, believe in yourself and make all your dreams come true, you can…[Read more]

    • @somelameperson The thing about life is that is always changing. I’m really sorry you’re having alot of pain but is momentaneous, there is still SO much you have to live, so much happiness that is coming towards you. If you end your life you’ll miss out so many wonderfull things. Please rely on this website and rely on things that give you up,…[Read more]

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