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    Lels posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update So frustrated and annoyed with the spam here on BT, it is ruining this beautiful community, seriously there has to be a way to make it stop, I’m going to put an idea out for all members on BT […] View

    Thank you Oli, always good to hear from you! Be well!

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update So frustrated and annoyed with the spam here on BT, it is ruining this beautiful community, seriously there has to be a way to make it stop, I’m going to put an idea out for all members on BT […] View

    I can relate to your frustration, Oli.
    I believe the moderators are doing the best they can to solve problems quickly. I think it’s probably hard to manage the site with so many visitors. I was just thinking that Blahtherapy is such a big support system for me that whenever the chat is down I feel a higher level of anxiety. However I am trying to…[Read more]

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Heartbreak feels like someone is squeezing my heart with a metal hand. I can’t believe the amount of physical pain it can cause. View

    Thank you Dear Oli! Thanks so much for your support!

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Heartbreak feels like someone is squeezing my heart with a metal hand. I can’t believe the amount of physical pain it can cause. View

    Thank you Dear Oli! Thanks so much for your support!

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    Lels posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    Heartbreak feels like someone is squeezing my heart with a metal hand. I can’t believe the amount of physical pain it can cause.

    Mood : Crushed
    • I don’t want to see you feeling heartbroken @lelslessing, you are such a beautiful, fabulous and special person who truly deserves to feel loved, cared for and supported, I want to see you being respected and appreciated, try to stay positive Lels and focus on your wellbeing and happiness, remember to always take care of yourself, hold your head…[Read more]

    • Thank you Dear Oli! Thanks so much for your support!

    • Thank you Dear Oli! Thanks so much for your support!

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update I often read something like ”trying to avoid hurting another person in a relationship is an impossible task” or ”accept that in relationships you will get hurt and you will eventually hurt […] View

    Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update I often read something like ”trying to avoid hurting another person in a relationship is an impossible task” or ”accept that in relationships you will get hurt and you will eventually hurt […] View

    Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.

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    Lels posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    I often read something like “trying to avoid hurting another person in a relationship is an impossible task” or “accept that in relationships you will get hurt and you will eventually hurt another person” and that’s considered to be normal. People accept that pain is inevitable and join relationships despite the fear. However, if pain is…[Read more]

    • No one deserves to be in pain either by themselves or while in a relationship @lelslessing, we all truly deserve to feel positive, happy and wonderful so we can better ourselves and support each other every day, I want to see you feeling fantastic Lels and being the best person you can be, remember to smile brightly and know you are awesome,…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.

    • Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Tony posted an update is the website glitching for everyone or just me? View

    it’s not just you, I can’t use the chat as well

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    Lels posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    The more I learn about myself, the less I believe that I am capable of building an emotionally and physically intimate relationship with another person. I manage to maintain peace with myself, and even though I sometimes feel lonely, I accept that feeling as a part of the journey. I remind myself that it’s possible to feel lonely in a…[Read more]

    Mood : Numb
    • We all deserve strong, intimate and loving relationships with other human-beings @lelslessing, you do too Lels, don’t let loneliness break you Lels, do your best to stay upbeat and surround yourself with compassion and positivity, true happiness and love will happen to you Lels, one day you will meet your soulmate Lels, someone amazing is out…[Read more]

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update I often feel good when I am busy with tasks or projects that I love. But when the project is over and I come home I often feel extremely lonely. I think it’s the contrast between a busy time […] View

    @Oli thank you so much!!!

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update I often feel good when I am busy with tasks or projects that I love. But when the project is over and I come home I often feel extremely lonely. I think it’s the contrast between a busy time […] View

    Thank you so much for your kindness and support Oli! Please message me too if you want to chat! I appreciate you so much!

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    Lels posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    I often feel good when I am busy with tasks or projects that I love. But when the project is over and I come home I often feel extremely lonely. I think it’s the contrast between a busy time + being surrounded by people that makes the times right after that feel lonely. I do remind myself that I am consciously choosing not to pursue close…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t feel lonely @lelslessing, do stay busy with projects and things that keep you occupied Lels, but do surround yourself with compassionate people and things that bring a wonderful smile to your face, we all deserve wonderful relationships with another human-beings, you do too Lels, I want to see you happy and living a life that is…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much for your kindness and support Oli! Please message me too if you want to chat! I appreciate you so much!

    • @Oli thank you so much!!!

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 4 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Today was challenging. I took a Mental Health First Aid training which I wanted to do, and I guess I learned a lot and in general it was a good training, but it triggered a lot of my own […] View

    Thank you so much Oli! It’s so nice to hear your encouraging words! Thank you so much for being here and for the offer to message you to chat! Have a great day / week, and thank you so much for all your support!

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    Lels posted an update 5 months ago

    Today was challenging. I took a Mental Health First Aid training which I wanted to do, and I guess I learned a lot and in general it was a good training, but it triggered a lot of my own mental health needs. Listening about all of that for 7 hours was just too much for me today. I am reminding myself to take it one day at a time. I can probably…[Read more]

    Mood : Sad
    • It’s great that you took Mental Health training @lelslessing, do use your knowledge to help others and take care of yourself, I’m so sorry that the training made you feel upset and sad, I would try to relax and calm yourself as best you can sweetie, focus on your own happiness and making yourself feel positive and upbeat, everything will be OK…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much Oli! It’s so nice to hear your encouraging words! Thank you so much for being here and for the offer to message you to chat! Have a great day / week, and thank you so much for all your support!

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Blahtherapy is awesome and has helped me so many times. Idk what I would do without you guys! Thank you so much to everyone who is venting, listening, securing the work of the website, and to […] View

    Hi Oli, thank you so much as always for your kindness! (hugs back)

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Josette became a registered member View

    Welcome!

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    Lels posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Blahtherapy is awesome and has helped me so many times. Idk what I would do without you guys! Thank you so much to everyone who is venting, listening, securing the work of the website, and to […] View

    I think right now there is a temporary glitch in the chat, because I can’t seem to enter the chat as well. I recommend to try later :)

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    Lels posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    Blahtherapy is awesome and has helped me so many times. Idk what I would do without you guys! Thank you so much to everyone who is venting, listening, securing the work of the website, and to everyone who is a part of the community here. <3

    • I can’t figure out how to get to the venting to stranger

    • I think right now there is a temporary glitch in the chat, because I can’t seem to enter the chat as well. I recommend to try later :)

    • Glad to see that BT has helped you so much @lelslessing, we are all so blessed to have you here as a member, please know the BT community will always be for you and so will I, you are awesome Lels, always be the fantastic person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hi Oli, thank you so much as always for your kindness! (hugs back)

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    Lels posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    I’m saying we all who have an extra $1 could donate it to blahtherapy to help them secure the work of the chat servers :D is there a donate button here? :)

    Mood : Hopeful
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