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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update So frustrated and annoyed with the spam here on BT, it is ruining this beautiful community, seriously there has to be a way to make it stop, I’m going to put an idea out for all members on BT […] View

    Thank you for your reply @lelslessing, I just want BT to always be a place of kindness, love and compassion where we all support each other, I hope something gets done about all the spam, it has to be removed so this beautiful community can always be a place where we support and help each other, hope you are having a wonderful day, keep being the…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Heartbreak feels like someone is squeezing my heart with a metal hand. I can’t believe the amount of physical pain it can cause. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling heartbroken @lelslessing, you are such a beautiful, fabulous and special person who truly deserves to feel loved, cared for and supported, I want to see you being respected and appreciated, try to stay positive Lels and focus on your wellbeing and happiness, remember to always take care of yourself, hold your head…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update I often read something like ”trying to avoid hurting another person in a relationship is an impossible task” or ”accept that in relationships you will get hurt and you will eventually hurt […] View

    No one deserves to be in pain either by themselves or while in a relationship @lelslessing, we all truly deserve to feel positive, happy and wonderful so we can better ourselves and support each other every day, I want to see you feeling fantastic Lels and being the best person you can be, remember to smile brightly and know you are awesome,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update The more I learn about myself, the less I believe that I am capable of building an emotionally and physically intimate relationship with another person. I manage to maintain peace with […] View

    We all deserve strong, intimate and loving relationships with other human-beings @lelslessing, you do too Lels, don’t let loneliness break you Lels, do your best to stay upbeat and surround yourself with compassion and positivity, true happiness and love will happen to you Lels, one day you will meet your soulmate Lels, someone amazing is out…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update I often feel good when I am busy with tasks or projects that I love. But when the project is over and I come home I often feel extremely lonely. I think it’s the contrast between a busy time […] View

    Please don’t feel lonely @lelslessing, do stay busy with projects and things that keep you occupied Lels, but do surround yourself with compassionate people and things that bring a wonderful smile to your face, we all deserve wonderful relationships with another human-beings, you do too Lels, I want to see you happy and living a life that is…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Today was challenging. I took a Mental Health First Aid training which I wanted to do, and I guess I learned a lot and in general it was a good training, but it triggered a lot of my own […] View

    It’s great that you took Mental Health training @lelslessing, do use your knowledge to help others and take care of yourself, I’m so sorry that the training made you feel upset and sad, I would try to relax and calm yourself as best you can sweetie, focus on your own happiness and making yourself feel positive and upbeat, everything will be OK…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Blahtherapy is awesome and has helped me so many times. Idk what I would do without you guys! Thank you so much to everyone who is venting, listening, securing the work of the website, and to […] View

    Glad to see that BT has helped you so much @lelslessing, we are all so blessed to have you here as a member, please know the BT community will always be for you and so will I, you are awesome Lels, always be the fantastic person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Chatted with a venter who made my day. I just want to say that I wish we were all more accepting of ourselves and each other. I hope there will be a day when we allow ourselves to express […] View

    That’s amazing @lelslessing, I’m sure you managed to help this venter with your kindness and compassion, BT truly is a wonderful site, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update maan. this is the best meditation ever! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92i5m3tV5XY View

    Keep using meditation to help relax and calm yourself @lelslessing, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update I’m so thankful for this website and for this community of wonderful people. It helped me so many times, and I’m hoping that I myself helped to those who were venting to me. Thanks everyone! View

    Indeed @lelslessing, we are all grateful for this loving and supportive community of wonderful and sweet people, hope you continue to be on Blah in the months and years ahead, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Lels posted an update Love you people! View

    Aw that’s so sweet @lelslessing, keep helping, supporting and loving others, you are truly wonderful, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)