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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    I’m tired of everything. I feel almost like I can’t even sleep at the moment. My mind feels like it’s going on 1 million thoughts per second… I feel like I can’t genuinely connect with people anymore… because I’ve experienced a lot so I kind of don’t feel like anything is interesting anymore and anything I do find interesting seems like it…[Read more]

    • Please don’t give up @spectrolite7, you will find ways to connect with people and you will find true happiness and love in your life, one day you will meet your soulmate, your knight in shining armour, I know how you feel, I’m shy and it takes me a long time to feel a connection with others too, remember to always be kind to yourself and be as…[Read more]

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    BlackRabbit posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    We have 8 weeks before baby is here and I’ve no idea what to put in hospital bag for baby. I have 3 bottles, newborn pacifiers, 3 outfits, diapers and wipes even though it’s suggested not to bring any.. breast pump idk what else. I’m clueless lol

    Mood : Bewildered
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    Oli posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    IT’S ALMOST HERE!!!!!!!!!!! SO SUPER EXCITED EVERYONE!!!!!!!! :D (yes I’m a HUGE James Bond fan), hope everyone on BT is doing great, remember I will always be here for each and every member of this beautiful community, the BT community means so much to me :) <3 (hugs and love to you all)

    Mood : Excited
    • awesome Oli I am so glad you are excited & happy about this!! it makes me happy! we are always here for you too <3

    • Awww thank you so much @invincible, I am so very excited for the new Bond film coming out in April 2020, hope you are OK sweetie, please know I will always be here for you beautiful angel Cecelia, I want to see you feeling truly happy because you are absolutely so kind, incredible and amazing, please know you can always talk to me about anything…[Read more]

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    DinoRaptor101 answered question “Self confidence & esteem.1 month, 3 weeks ago

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    DinoRaptor101 posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    If you meet a troll listener, please do your due diligence and report them to keep the community safe!

    • Thank you for keeping this beautiful community safe @dinoraptor101, you are such a kind, lovely and sweet person, hope you are OK and things are going awesomely in your life, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 2 months ago

    I wrote something long about a situation that I found myself in but I don’t feel like rewriting everything, my phone turned off since the battery was drained and everything I wrote was gone after that so… to make it short, I just feel like this thing called life can feel tricky at times because I’ve done my best to get to a point where I can…[Read more]

    Mood : Disappointed
    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Please don’t let life’s struggles get you down @spectrolite7, stay positive and focus on your wellbeing, health and happiness, you are such a wonderful person who deserves all the best out of life, everything will be OK, remember to hold your head up high, stay relaxed and keep going forward with optimism, things will work out for you and you…[Read more]

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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    I wish that I didn’t feel like this anymore.. I’m just a step closer to doing things that I probably wouldn’t even do because I can’t act on anything.. I’m stuck physically. My body doesn’t move in accordance with my mind.. and that’s the problem. I think that’s the problem of my life. And I feel so sick of the fact that I think so much about…[Read more]

    Mood : Melancholy
    • Please don’t hurt or harm yourself @spectrolite7, try to stay positive, relaxed and find ways to calm yourself, I want to see you smiling and feeling wonderful, everything will be OK, remember to hold your head up high and surround yourself with all the things that bring you a sense of optimism, hope and brightness, make each day as awesome as…[Read more]

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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    Really feeling the waves, doing my best to block it. I may seem like a bad person to some people because I think I don’t engage with them as much, I feel like my ability to interact has been stifled because of an experience that affected me.it caused me to feel like no joy from communicating. I guess maybe that person or those people weren’t ok so…[Read more]

    Mood : Melancholy
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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    I feel like doing something for my community. Instead of worrying about things I can’t control, actually do things for my community to help as many people as possible. I would like to make an impact on the world in a good way.

    Mood : Not Specified
    • I’m sure you will do amazing, inspirational and great things for yourself and your community @spectrolite7, go out into the world and spread your wings, you will impact so many people positively and brightly, remember to always help others and take care of yourself too, I wish you all the best going forward, feel free to inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    BlackRabbit posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    It’s been a while since I have been on here. Pregnancy is going well, 24 weeks currently. I have no attachment to the baby though. Doctor says its normal considering the previous miscarriage.

    How is everyone though?

    Mood : Blah
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      I’m sure everything will be OK @blackrabbit, do stay positive and know you will have a loving and nurturing bond with your little bundle of joy, you will be a wonderful mother to your child, you are such an amazing person who deserves all the best out of life, remember to look forward with optimism as this will be a fantastic time for you and…[Read more]

    • That’s totally okay @blackrabbit. Just you wait and see: the moment you see that baby after it’s born, you’ll love it so much your heart will feel like it’ll burst! Best wishes to you, and PM me if you need anything or just want to talk. I’m here, and you’re not alone!

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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    I just feel like I’ve been overthinking… I gotta stop but because of being on the spectrum.. I’m kind of unable to relax.. if I do try, it shows up as me laying in bed, unable to move or do anything or care for myself. I would like to relax and be out and about but I feel stressed when I do that. I know that I can live my life and be easy about…[Read more]

    Mood : Exhausted
    • I don’t want to see you feeling overwhelmed, stressed and upset @spectrolite7, stay upbeat and focus on making yourself feel positive, relaxed and happy, please don’t hurt yourself, make each day as bright as you can and remember to always smile, everything will be OK and things will get better, always be kind to and believe in yourself, you can…[Read more]

    • Thanks @oliver I’m doing my best. I feel tired and depressed, I don’t want to do anything. I think I can probably wither away in my own home.. I hope that doesn’t happen. I’m just going to take it easy.

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    Alvana posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    Life has been kind to me in recent times. I feel like when feelings become overwhelming, it’s usually just the universe telling me ”be brave, but don’t worry if you mess up!”

    Mood : Optimistic
    • It’s great to see that life is treating you well @alram, you are such a fantastic person who deserves all the happiness, positivity, hope and brightness in the world Alvana, do stay upbeat and remember to smile because you are awesome, keep going forward and hold your head up high, always be optimistic and never give up, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

    • Aw this is so optimistic and true ♥ Glad life has been kind to you!!! You deserve happiness

    • we all do :) Thank you kindly for the lovely thought anyway. :)

    • thank you Oli, very sweet :)

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    Oli posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    So frustrated and annoyed with the spam here on BT, it is ruining this beautiful community, seriously there has to be a way to make it stop, I’m going to put an idea out for all members on BT to consider, I would be willing to become moderator or admin on BT if needed because the moderators and admins seem to have deserted this place, so just…[Read more]

    Mood : Frustrated
    • I can relate to your frustration, Oli.
      I believe the moderators are doing the best they can to solve problems quickly. I think it’s probably hard to manage the site with so many visitors. I was just thinking that Blahtherapy is such a big support system for me that whenever the chat is down I feel a higher level of anxiety. However I am trying to…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your reply @lelslessing, I just want BT to always be a place of kindness, love and compassion where we all support each other, I hope something gets done about all the spam, it has to be removed so this beautiful community can always be a place where we support and help each other, hope you are having a wonderful day, keep being the…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli, always good to hear from you! Be well!

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    Jadie.OThree posted an update 5 months ago

    All is know is that I know nothing

    Mood : Thankful
    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Please be kind to yourself and always be the beautiful, incredible and special person that you are @jadie-othree, remember you are amazing Jadie and you truly deserve all the best out of life, remember to always do what makes you feel upbeat, happy and positive, smile brightly and know you are truly perfect and fantastic in every way Jadie, keep…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 5 months ago

    It isn’t always popping pills, downing whiskey, or slicing veins. Sometimes it’s crossing the street without looking; sometimes it isn’t wearing your seatbelt. Sometimes it’s as simple as staying up all night, because you don’t want tomorrow to come.

    Mood : Awake
    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, things may seem difficult but they will get better, you will do amazing things and make all your dreams come true, I don’t want to see you hurt yourself, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to always be the incredible, special and fantastic person that you are, keep…[Read more]

    • Thanks . I just felt like posting something . not necessarily is it how im feeling . ive got my down days but ive got things to look forward to . Ill be ok thanks for checking in

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