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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update Hello, I’m sure that life is what we make it, we get what we put in and we have a right to distance ourselves from what is not healthy for us, or at least find a solution to help […] View

    Thank you for sharing inspirational and insightful advice here on BT @spectrolite7, we all deserve to have lives filled with happiness and positivity, getting away from all the things that make us sad or that brings us darkness, always be the kind, lovely and awesome person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I’m tired of everything. I feel almost like I can’t even sleep at the moment. My mind feels like it’s going on 1 million thoughts per second… I feel like I can’t genuinely connect […] View

    Please don’t give up @spectrolite7, you will find ways to connect with people and you will find true happiness and love in your life, one day you will meet your soulmate, your knight in shining armour, I know how you feel, I’m shy and it takes me a long time to feel a connection with others too, remember to always be kind to yourself and be as…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I wrote something long about a situation that I found myself in but I don’t feel like rewriting everything, my phone turned off since the battery was drained and everything I wrote […] View

    Please don’t let life’s struggles get you down @spectrolite7, stay positive and focus on your wellbeing, health and happiness, you are such a wonderful person who deserves all the best out of life, everything will be OK, remember to hold your head up high, stay relaxed and keep going forward with optimism, things will work out for you and you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I wish that I didn’t feel like this anymore.. I’m just a step closer to doing things that I probably wouldn’t even do because I can’t act on anything.. I’m stuck physically. My body […] View

    Please don’t hurt or harm yourself @spectrolite7, try to stay positive, relaxed and find ways to calm yourself, I want to see you smiling and feeling wonderful, everything will be OK, remember to hold your head up high and surround yourself with all the things that bring you a sense of optimism, hope and brightness, make each day as awesome as…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I feel like doing something for my community. Instead of worrying about things I can’t control, actually do things for my community to help as many people as possible. I would like to […] View

    I’m sure you will do amazing, inspirational and great things for yourself and your community @spectrolite7, go out into the world and spread your wings, you will impact so many people positively and brightly, remember to always help others and take care of yourself too, I wish you all the best going forward, feel free to inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I just feel like I’ve been overthinking… I gotta stop but because of being on the spectrum.. I’m kind of unable to relax.. if I do try, it shows up as me laying in bed, unable to move […] View

    I don’t want to see you feeling overwhelmed, stressed and upset @spectrolite7, stay upbeat and focus on making yourself feel positive, relaxed and happy, please don’t hurt yourself, make each day as bright as you can and remember to always smile, everything will be OK and things will get better, always be kind to and believe in yourself, you can…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update what I went through recently, caused me to cry for hours nonstop because it wasn’t in my control but I got treated in a way that was rude and I was humiliated and kicked out of place […] View

    I’m so sorry that happened to you @spectrolite7, that horrible woman had no right taking advantage of you, I want to see you feeling truly happy and being around positivity, you are such a special, incredible and awesome person who deserves to feel wonderful and loved, please know that the BT community will always be here for you and so will I,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update Feeling sick… I know I that I’m strong enough to keep going but I feel so sick I can hurt myself… I’m tired, feel kind of depressed and I’m tempted to hurt myself because I know that […] View

    I want to see you feeling mentally, emotionally and physically well @spectrolite7, do take care of yourself and focus on all the things that bring you happiness, brightness and joy, remember to always be kind to yourself, hold your head up high, smile and never give up, everything will be OK and things will get better, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i almost feel like nothing matters… like even if I do my best to enjoy life, it still feels like something is missing. i don’t know what to do, whether to go outside or to stay […] View

    Please don’t feel like that @spectrolite7, you will find what is missing in your life and everything will be OK, try to go out and into the world if you can, expand your horizons and meet as many new people as you can, do talk about your feelings and emotions, get your thoughts out as much as you can, those who leave you because of your emotions…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I have my own place now but now I feel kind of disorganized or like I don’t know what to do… I’m taking driving lessons, so I’ve been watching a lot of videos about driving so that I […] View

    @Spectrolite7

    I’m a writer. I understand the failing feeling of not working on something each and every day. But like anything you want to turn into a job, you need to allow yourself to take breaks and have those days off.
    It’s alright to relax and do nothing every once in awhile. You aren’t a failure because of that. And being in your early…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I have my own place now but now I feel kind of disorganized or like I don’t know what to do… I’m taking driving lessons, so I’ve been watching a lot of videos about driving so that I […] View

    You will live a truly positive, successful and happy life @spectrolite7, things will go your way and you will make all your dreams come true, stay upbeat and know so much brightness lies ahead for you, your future will be so awesome, remember to always believe in yourself and go forward with a sense of purpose and confidence, you can do it, inbox…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I feel like i have to start a new life in another country because where i’m at in the moment feels like a torturous humiliating experience because i’m here doing my best to be […] View

    Please don’t feel bad about yourself @spectrolite7, you are such a wonderful, amazing and fabulous person who will fantastic things in life, you will make all your goals come true and you will be successful, focus on surrounding yourself with hope, light and positivity, make all your dreams a reality and know things will change for the better, be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i dont know why i feel confused… i wonder if this feeling will continue on… i hope things change and this feeling goes away.. i feel kind of scared… i feel like i failed myself or […] View

    Do what makes you truly happy in life @spectrolite7, you are such an amazing, wonderful and awesome person who will make all your dreams come true, things will be OK and everything will go your way, hold your head up high and focus on your bright future, you can do it, believe in yourself and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update my lips hurt from biting it when I was yelling… :( hope it heals quickly… View

    I don’t want to see you upset or sad @spectrolite7, hope your lips heal soon, stay positive, keep smiling and make each day bright and beautiful, remember you are a wonderful and special person who truly deserves all the best out of life, everything will be OK, go forward with your head up high and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I am so powerful and I am love…. I am love materialized into a body of light. That’s why my name is Spectrolite7, the spectrum of the rainbow is in me. I attract harmonious […] View

    It’s great to see you positive, upbeat and happy @spectrolite7, keep smiling and always be the fantastic human-being that you are, I’m sure everything will continue going amazingly for you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update My life is amazing, I live comfortably, I am wealthy, abundant and healthy. I have beautiful family and friends who support and love me. I love to explore and enjoy it very much every […] View

    It’s great to see you positive, upbeat and happy @spectrolite7, I’m sure everything will continue going amazingly for you, keep smiling and stay awesome, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update took a shower hoping it’ll help my body feel better. I probably could use an icepack for my head.. I think I just have a lot of inflammation because all the sugar I ate… and also […] View

    Do eat, drink well and take care of yourself @spectrolite7, I want to see you feeling healthy, positive and happy in mind, body and spirit, hold your head up high and have a wonderful day, you will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update The boyfriend I had, kept using me… every time I came over, he would make it seem like he would take part in the paying for something but I ended up mostly always having to pay the […] View

    You are a wonderful person who deserves to be treated with love, care and respect @spectrolite7, I want to see you with someone special who will stick by you no matter what, everyone deserves a wonderful partner in their lives, you do too, remember the BT community is always here for you and so am I, smile and keep going forward, you can do it,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update my psychiatrist is funny, he tried riding my skateboard today lol He always makes me smile! and he’s a great psychiatrist, doesn’t push the meds he takes good care of each patient… He […] View

    That’s so nice to hear @spectrolite7, it’s good that you have a psychiatrist that truly helps you and makes things better for you, I’m sure your treatment with them will continue going well, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update like energy attracts like energy… I tend to attract experiences when I match it, in my energy field and I’m ready for it. View

    You are a wonderful person who attracts others because of your bright outlook on life @spectrolite7, keep being upbeat and always spread positive energy around as much as you can, have a fabulous day and always smile, you can do it, never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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