I don’t want to see you feeling stressed or upset @fancifranci, you are a fabulous, special and amazing person who deserves to be truly happy and lead a successful life, focus on all the things that bring you hope and surround yourself with positivity, you will make it through this Franci because you are so courageous and brave, believe in…[Read more]

You’ll always have a place here in BT, Franci. Whenever you need help, advice, or someone to listen to your worries. I hope whatever made you come back here it’s out of your life as soon as possible. Meanwhile, you’ll have all our support. Feel free to send me a DM if you need it. Stay strong! You can do it!

@fancifranci I think it’s fine to pay the debt in another way, maybe not now but in the future you’ll have another chance to make it up to her about the free childcare. Maybe you’ll move there in a few years. If you take the sense of owing her out of the situation, what do you want to do? What’s in Texas for your career and your child, and…[Read more]

First, I’m really glad that you got away from that bad relationship and happy you found someone (: I think you have a lot of stuff you’re going through and I want to say that if you’re happy with the person you’re seeing then you should do what you want to do and not what she wants you to do. In the end we only have the time we have on this…[Read more]

I’m supposed to pay her $6K for the childcare. I’m starting a job this upcoming week and am going to pay her $150 a month until I’ve paid it. Even with this though she still wants me to come to Texas. I really have no desire to live there. I have an abusive father that lives there and 2 brothers. One of them I do not have a relationship with…[Read more]

I would do what makes you, your son and your family happy in life @fancifranci, hopefully you can talk to your mother and come to an agreement about living arrangements, move to an area that will benefit you, make your child feel good and your relationship stronger, I’m sure you will make the right choices going forward, hope everything works out…[Read more]

Alright, so dont take this the wrong way, but if you say your mother is your “enabler,” then that is a serious issue you and you shouldnt be around it. But, first of all, congratulations on everything that you have overcome, and congratulations on your accomplishments and on meeting someone who you feel is good for you. Every single relationship…[Read more]

@fancifranci you hang on to people who care about you and to all of those little victories or small happy moments from your life

You are worth it and you do matter @fancifranci, please be kind to yourself Franci, remember to focus on all the things that bring hope and happiness into your life, you are a lovely person who deserves all the best that life has to offer, you will find your purpose and passion, keep going forward, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do…[Read more]

everyone has a purpose in life, just a matter of finding it or deciding for yourself