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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i felt the love… and when I felt it, i remembered a part of myself. I felt it and a part of my soul integrated back into me. I feel like crying. I feel like releasing this hurt for […] View

    You are such a fabulous person who deserves good relationships with people @spectrolite7, anyone who abuses or hurts you isn’t worth it, surround yourself with compassion, brightness and love, remember the BT community cares about you and so do I, you will overcome your trauma because you are strong and a survivor, believe in yourself, go forward…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I felt lost, lost in a hole, a black hole, never to return home, I had to search even through the fall, the abyss down the floor, I saw kaleidoscope images, in my mind, through the […] View

    Please don’t feel lost, alone or sad @spectrolite7, you are such a fabulous, special and amazing person who deserves all the happiness and hope in the world, everything will be OK, focus on all the things that put a smile on your face and know so many great moments lie ahead for you, you are a survivor who will make it and never gives up, believe…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update feeling a bit sad today but it’s ok… I know my worth and how loved I am by so many and the universe. View

    Please don’t feel sad @spectrolite7, you are such a special, fabulous and incredible person who is so loved by the BT community and many others, smile and always be kind to yourself, stay upbeat and focus on spreading your wings as far as you can, go out into the world and shine, you can do it, believe in yourself and go forward with confidence,…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update sometimes i feel bad for being awkward and having autism but then I know how important it is to accept myself and know that I deserve the best no matter what. I have to continue to […] View

    Love, embrace and be proud of every part of yourself inside and out @spectrolite7, you are a unique and incredible human-being, everyone has their own quirks in a special way, you do too, spread your wings around and be accepting of yourself, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update sometimes i feel bad for being awkward and having autism but then I know how important it is to accept myself and know that I deserve the best no matter what. I have to continue to […] View

    @spectrolite7 people are “allergic” to different. Autism comes with awkwardness, yes, but is a special kind of awkardness. People like you usually have so much to say and share! So don’t feel bad. Accept who you are, love who you are. Just because most people don’t get it doesn’t mean you aren’t special, cause just like you said right here,…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update just came back home from my trip to California two days ago.. it feels awkward being back.. I felt some kind of negative energy and some energy from my past resurfacing… I’ve had […] View

    Hope you had a wonderful time in California @spectrolite7, do drink and eat well, look after yourself and stay healthy, always be the fantastic person that you are and keep going forward, I want to see you feeling good, smile and always believe in yourself, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i don’t like when it feels like people have ulterior motives… I like knowing what I’m doing before meeting someone. I like to feel respected and things to be out in the open. I like […] View

    Don’t use social media like Facebook, Instagram or Twitter if it is going to upset you @spectrolite7, you are a wonderful person who deserves to be part of a community that puts a smile on your face, I agree with @marikofujimoto, do things that make you feel wonderful, find awesome activities to do, spend time with the people, animals or things…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i don’t like when it feels like people have ulterior motives… I like knowing what I’m doing before meeting someone. I like to feel respected and things to be out in the open. I like […] View

    @spectrolite7 You said it yourself, you sshouldn’t use fb. Has been proved that people get incredibly depressed with social media, and facebook is the worst. You see everyone with these happy lifes, which is all a lie I can tell you that. People do this big scneario that everything is going wonderfull, that they have so many friends and…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I intend to travel every month and explore. View

    @spectrolite7 I never traveled so I don’t know much about other countries, so if you ever go abroad please share your experiences! ^^
    Also if you want to go to Europe I would recommend Italy for the delicious food and gorgeous architecture! And if you still want more good food and kind people, feel free to visit Portugal aswell. Either way I…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I feel strong, healthy and confident enough to start going to the gym again… Sometimes depression leaves you at such a low point that you have no motivation or know how to do stuff […] View

    It’s great to see you determined to exercise and stay healthy @spectrolite7, do look after yourself and keep smiling, hope you are having a fabulous day, always be the awesome person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I feel strong, healthy and confident enough to start going to the gym again… Sometimes depression leaves you at such a low point that you have no motivation or know how to do stuff […] View

    @spectrolite7 work it girl :) , exercise actually helps alot to enjoy that. Keep taking care of yourself, you’re in such a good path! Super lovely to see you this way
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I intend to travel every month and explore. View

    @spectrolite7 that’s a great idea! What places would you like to visit?
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I kind of feel like I limited myself but it’s mostly because I didn’t know I could do certain things… I learned recently that anything is possible, it’s a matter of your intention and […] View

    @spectrolite7 so wonderfull to see you so motivated and seeing the good in life! Is actually incredibly inspiring ^^
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I kind of feel like I limited myself but it’s mostly because I didn’t know I could do certain things… I learned recently that anything is possible, it’s a matter of your intention and […] View

    Do travel, explore and see the world @spectrolite7, I’m sure you will meet many amazing people along the way, broaden your horizons and do what makes you happy, believe in yourself and go forward with confidence, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update learning so much and reaching higher thoughts of consciousness. I’m finding solutions to every situation that can use a little spicing up! Life is good, amazing and so adventurous, I […] View

    It’s great to see you feeling positive and upbeat @spectrolite7, stay happy and always brighten up your day by thinking wonderful thoughts, smile, go forward with confidence and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update learning so much and reaching higher thoughts of consciousness. I’m finding solutions to every situation that can use a little spicing up! Life is good, amazing and so adventurous, I […] View

    @spectrolite7 this is so lovely to see :) Keep up with those good thoughts, you’ll see you’re able to do so much. Positivity is the key!
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update at the end of the day, i’m still me and very special… labels don’t have to rule my life or define me… i’m always growing and changing. View

    It’s great to see you feeling positive about yourself @spectrolite7, keep smiling and always be kind to yourself, smile and keep going forward with confidence, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel sad.. i feel like people are judging me but i know i shouldnt care… lot of people are ignorant… we’re all judgmental to some degree, i just have to feel like there’s nothing […] View

    Do what makes you happy and don’t let anyone judge you @spectrolite7, I’m sure you will find wonderful activities to do in an environment that makes you feel comfortable, stay positive, smile and always believe in yourself, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel like i give up… but dont even know how to give up. if that even makes sense… i feel sick of this.. i just dont give a fuck.. im done trying to clean and organize my room. I’m […] View

    I don’t want to see you feeling upset, stressed or sad @spectrolite7, you are such a wonderful, brilliant and amazing person who will do great things, find time to relax and do look after yourself, you will be OK, hold your head up high and remember to smile brightly, everything will work out for you, believe in yourself and never give up, you can…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i’m feeling like im tired…. i biked today and went to get something to eat.. now im tired after eating it. View

    Do relax and get some rest @spectrolite7, I want to see you feeling good because you are truly a wonderful person in every single way, smile and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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