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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Ember posted an update How can I help those who are depressed when they don’t listen to my suggestions? I want to be a good listener but it’s hard when those I care about don’t seem to think that I do. What can I […] View

    Ideally, you could be a listener and never suggest anything, it’s worth exploring how could you do that, as we can’t always fix it.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Idkwtd posted an update I need outside opinions… I game, nearly everyday. It helps to keep me grounded and out of my head. I spend maybe $200 a year? My partner has recently gotten into model aircrafts… He spends […] View

    @she-feels-trapped/ maybe it’s time you two go back to live separately if you can’t share expenses; but mostly he should have his ass left if he calls you like that.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update I haven’t eaten in forty one hours.It’s not that I have anorexia or anything (not that there’s anything wrong with having anorexia, but I just don’t have it). I just haven’t felt […] View

    :(

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    rinseandrep answered question “I would love to do homeschooling to become more independant. Is this a good decision?2 months, 3 weeks ago

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Ember posted an update As a listener, does anybody get venters who ask personal questions about their life? What do I do in those situations without appearing like you’re blowing the venter off? View

    @ember1000 (assuming we are not talking about people trying to guess if you are the woman they are looking to flirt with, or creeps in general who want to talk about sex for their own excitement) maybe try to answer honestly, keeping it as vague as you feel comfortable with. If you have some specific example it can be easier to answer you.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update So, my ex went and fucked me up again.Here’s the story: He texted me yesterday like ”Hey, want to get back together?” Of course, I said yes. After a couple minutes of processing what […] View

    @985921sqh hope you’ll block him everywhere 4ever

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jeen posted an update A shy question: why do people love sex dolls?Some people shy away from the word ”sex doll” and even hate to bring it up. Items like ”sex dolls” have been around for a long time, and some […] View

    @members/jeen/ It just looks like a pain to clean

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    rinseandrep posted an update 4 months ago

    Well there goes open registration again

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      Hope the spam gets deleted so this site can be used for truly helping others @rinseandrep, we have to find a way to keep spammers, bots and trolls out of BT, try to keep registration open so more loving people join this wonderful community, I hope the moderators come back or someone new takes over moderation of BT, hope you are having a good day,…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Dera posted an update I don’t feel anything sexually for my boyfriend. And he is my first boyfriend. Is it normal? Or maybe I don’t love him View

    @chidera It’s early to tell, maybe you can try actively putting you two in situations where you create an atmosphere/context you know works for you, and see if it improves things.

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    rinseandrep joined the group Group logoIdk lets just talk about life. 5 months, 1 week ago

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Do you have any such experiences? in the group Group logoIdk lets just talk about life. 5 months, 1 week ago

    Is this spam?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update Last night I texted him to remain friendly (per a suggestion from @oliver). It went something like this.5:00 PM Me: Hey Him: Hey Me: Do you actually want to be texting me right now? […] View

    @985921sqh Some people suggest to not even bother talking about friendship with exes before 6-12 months have passed, maybe it would be better to look at his words within that kind of timeline (months), not hours/days, keep busy in the meantime!

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Thundross posted an update So I recently came into information that the girl I slept with two months ago cheated on her bf again… I would normally ignore this and go about my biz but the guy she slept with is […] View

    @thundross I can’t see a good way to do this where you don’t own it up and tell her to her face, as her friend. If negative consequences come from it, it’s the price to do the good thing, as a good friend, even if it kills the friendship. That, or saying nothing.

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    rinseandrep answered question “I’m I bisexual or is it just my hormones ?5 months, 2 weeks ago

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I came back today in particular, though, not just because I was curious about how everyone is doing and how the site is holding up. I came here also to vent about some stuff. My workplace, […] View

    @devilndisguise as long as you keep doing your job like a model worker from now on, you’ll probably be fine, but do write down whatever inappropriate behavior you experience, with time and dates, maybe emailing it to yourself. Your new coworker has mostly a previous history which won’t help you to get management intervention, but if you keep…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: belbroad posted an update I think Im being ghosted by by crush and I have nonidea why. We were completely fine the day before yesterday and then out of nowhere he stopped texting me. I sent him a little snap […] View

    I say give him space, he’ll get over it and come back if he’s interested, in the meantime stay busy @belbroad

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update Every time I start to get over my ex (who broke up with me about a week ago), something happens to interrupt it and throws me back down. Last time, it was a dream. This time, it was […] View

    I liked Getting Past Your Breakup by Susan J. Elliott @985921sqh

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    rinseandrep answered question “My boyfriend is really worrying me… what should I do?6 months ago

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 months ago

    In reply to: Stephanie ang posted an update Does guys always have the rights to lay hands on their love ones View

    @hateher what do you mean?

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    rinseandrep posted an update 8 months ago

    I wonder if there has been any alt-right recruitment around here, after reading the experience of this troubled young man:

    https://twitter.com/MsHappyDieHappy/status/967027082537721856?s=09

    [Trigger warning: suicidal tendencies]

    Mood : Sick
    • Oli replied 8 months ago

      It’s totally wrong to bully and demean those who are struggling @rinseandrep, we should all treat each other with kindness, love and compassion in real life and online, I wish the world was more like BT, where members come together to support each other, hope you are having a great day, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything,…[Read more]

    • That’s how most frauds and scams work. A greedy person/company wants to make the most benefit at any cost, and the fastest way to do it it’s taking advantage from people who are at a difficult stage of their lives. In this situation we are willing to believe anything, because we are in desperate need for a solution to our suffering. This kind of…[Read more]

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