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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Am I in a toxic friendship or am I the wrong one? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    @jeles wow, he’s really not putting effort in your friendship, what would you do if you didn’t have a crush on him, about a friend who just doesn’t show up for things? You will say, well, I like him so I will […]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic My Boyfriend Has a Girl Bestfriend! in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    @hollyblondy It will be a little different but still a challenge, to effectivly suspend your relationship for 2 months. If he never comes home on the weekends, then it will be good to get inspiration from what […]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic My Boyfriend Has a Girl Bestfriend! in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    @hollyblondy let’s take out the female friend part of it, how would you act if he was doing it with a guy? I get a feeling that one of the main problems here is that you are not spending enough time together, so […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update please help…. how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired View

    @aireens I was reading this the other day, if you take away the ”it’s too much for me” element, there are still some good tips and links to other posts and resources you can use: https://captainawkward.com/2018/06/20/1116-helping-someone-who-doesnt-seem-to-want-help-group-chat-edition/

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: equestrian27 posted an update It’s been almost 3 months since my boyfriend and I broke up. Hands down he was and still is my best friend. It was a mutual breakup and everything went down well. I know that it’s for […] View

    @equestrian27 But if it was perfect, why did it end? I think to move on, it’s important to admit that something wasn’t working, and include a fix for that in you model. If you get what you had with him again, you would get another breakup.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Can this be related to anxiety? in the group Group logoSocial Anxiety 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    @jeles good thinking on channeling that energy in something non threathening, breaking stuff when frustrated can be scary for the people around you, they don’t know that they won’t be hit next.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update I have just figured out that I’m in a relationship with a narcissist – and it’s the scariest thing I have ever experienced. I’m currently being ghosted by him because I caught him […] View

    You’ll get at him with child support

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hey guys i had a question and just wanted your views on it if a girl goes to visit her boyfriend in a hotel room as he is staying over in her city is that bad? At this point she is […] View

    If she’s an adult, why not; if the parents don’t know because she’s a minor, I guess there’s a bunch of complications to be discussed regarding adults who secretly have sex with minors in hotels. It’s anyways always good to let a trusted friend know where she is/will go/will be.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Sarah posted an update Trigger warning: sexual abuse I was in my first and only relationship at 16 years old. He was 18. I should have known it was a problem from the start; he grabbed me and started making out […] View

    @bornxlivedxdied follows you literally or metaphorically? :O

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: rinseandrep posted an update Great, now there’s two spammers~ View

    In the chat

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    rinseandrep posted an update 5 months ago

    Great, now there’s two spammers~

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hello, all you lovely people,I just wanted your advice on a situation, for those who have known me on here, my parents have always had an issue with my boyfriend.So yday whilst i […] View

    You can look at it as your parents are big adults, they are more familiar with the subject, and they’ll surely manage to find a way to deal with this, which is not your problem. @positivity-vibes

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Robyn97 posted an update My boyfriend is a bipolar, compulsive liar and I need to know how I can convince him to seriously get help. He’s the controlling type that always needs to have his way. He listens to no […] View

    @robgibb1997 if you stay, you have to check on your on codependency, so that you make the best choices for both of you.

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    rinseandrep posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    This frida spammer thing has been going on for a while

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update getting pretty fed up with situations that keep coming up in my relationship. I dont even know if this is all worth it but I’m lucky she even likes me so I’ll just listen to […] View

    @somelameperson It doesn’t sound good, I hope you get to a place where you don’t have to stay because you think there’s nothing better for you out there, and from there you can look back at how this was bad for you, and you would be better off.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: BlackRabbit posted an update Serious question… So the fiance and I have been together off and on for 2 years. He’s always told me he would NEVER hang out with another female by himself. Even if I gave him […] View

    @blackrabbit If it sucks, you don’t need a foolproof reason to leave, all those behaviors can be right or wrong but you don’t need to figure it out to have a good reason to give each of you two a chance to find something which works, including possibily a partner who can be in presence of other women without pre-labeling it as a huge temptation…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update Happy birthday to me~ View

    Happy birthday!

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: cdc2011 posted an update I believe I am in a relationship with severe narcissist. I thought he was getting better, but it doesn’t seem that way anymore. I have no clue how to handle it. View

    @sec2011 People speask very well of the book The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists, hope it can give you some insight!

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    rinseandrep posted an update 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    Strategies to help you deal with toxic conversations about eating:

    http://www.bulimiahelp.org/articles/toxic-conversations-vs-recovery

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: Sierra posted an update My best friend left her pro-anorexia blog open on my computer and everything in me wants to delete but that feels like crossing a line…not sure what to do…this stuff is so dangerous View

    @sierrastabler Yeah don’t try to fix this by force, I think it’s important to first ask her to keep that toxic stuff away from your computer, and then you can see how to be supportive as a friend while firmly denying that it’s anything good.

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