Hi my name is Zavie and I’m 17 years old.I been having these new feeling of a month and a half and it’s like all I think think about is having sex with a female (which cause me to be horny half of the time)and usual I’m more into guys so why I’m I now having these feelings and how can I get over them?
@nadxyzavie, I completely understand your predicament; it was mine three months ago. (Just in case you were curious, I'm panromantic demisexual.) I think you're bisexual. If you're having feelings for guys, then that's bisexual (or pansexual). To my knowledge, the only way hormones could affect it is if they haven't "kicked in" yet, but you said you were having sexual urges, so I doubt that that's the case. I don't think it's something you can necessarily "get over." That's like asking how you can become gay or straight when you're not. You can't change your sexuality, but you can use self control and not let it show. I'm here for you. Inbox me if you have any questions/concerns, or if you just need a friend to talk with. Stay strong!
I’ve been in this situation and it’s a complete shot to the head. The most important thing is time. It takes time to think about it accept it. Granted there is experimention involved but it’s should always happen at a slow pace. Message me if you need anything
I say, only time will tell. There's a difference between a fantasy and a real desire, and until you don't meet a person whom, when in front of, you are ready to enact your fantasy with, it's just fantasy. You'll know when you know it. So for now, don't stress about it.