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    Idkwtd posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    He told me to go buy him some things for his model planes and I said no because I already have plans tomorrow and just started yelling at me and threw an empty can at my head and broke the bedroom door slamming it… the yelled “now look what you’ve done!”

    • Get out of this relationship sweetie now @she-feels-trapped, he is an abusive jerk and you don’t deserve to be hurt by him, what he is doing to you are classic signs of domestic abuse and it will only get worse, I’m sorry for being blunt, but you don’t deserve this sweetheart, please leave him hun, I want to see you feeling happy, safe, taken…[Read more]

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    Idkwtd posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    I know I should leave him.. but I can’t afford to leave. And I know he wouldn’t let me take my furniture if I tried because “he pays the rent” and I pay for everything else. I buy all the food, the power, he’s even trying to guilt me into paying for his motorcycle that he let get unregistered because he cba to pay the annual registration fee.

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    Mood : Tired
    • Please try to leave him @she-feels-trapped, you don’t deserve to be treated like this sweetie, he is being rude, abusive and horrible towards you and you deserve better, I don’t want to see him hurting you hun, you are such a beautiful person who deserves to be loved, cared for and appreciated, I hope your circumstances change so you can leave…[Read more]

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    Idkwtd posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    He just broke MY earphones, threw them at wall and when I pointed out that they were mine, he just yelled “I don’t F***ing care! They were junk anyway!” They weren’t junk.. I’d had them for 2 years and they were still in pristine condition…

    Mood : Crushed
    • I’m so sorry that happened, he should NOT have done that. I am here for you <3 if you ever need to talk. I hope you're okay

    • He had no right destroying your property @she-feels-trapped, that was so wrong of him to do that to you, honestly I would leave this relationship sweetie, he doesn’t deserve someone as amazing as you in his life, dump this guy and move forward with your life because you truly deserve so much better, you deserve a loving and strong relationship…[Read more]

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    Idkwtd posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    I need outside opinions… I game, nearly everyday. It helps to keep me grounded and out of my head. I spend maybe $200 a year? My partner has recently gotten into model aircrafts… He spends $200 minimum a WEEK on models and paints. A WEEK. When I ask why so much all I get is “it’s a hobby, it’s what you do”… um I’m pretty sure you’re not…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
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      What someone does with their own money shouldn’t be an issue, but in cases where it affects others around them, then it becomes one. Especially in a relationship where you both rely upon that income.
      If he’s making more, you shouldn’t be the one loaded with having to pay all of the bills, groceries, and house necessities.…[Read more]

    • He really shouldn’t be wasting money on things that are not needed @she-feels-trapped, in a relationship, both partners should share the responsibility of finances, maintaining a property, paying the bills, food shopping and all the rest of the things that need to be paid for, you shouldn’t be left alone to deal with all of these things, I can…[Read more]

    • @she-feels-trapped/ maybe it’s time you two go back to live separately if you can’t share expenses; but mostly he should have his ass left if he calls you like that.

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    Idkwtd posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    There needs to be a mood option for feeling trapped..

    • Please don’t feel trapped @she-feels-trapped, you are such a beautiful, incredible and lovely person who deserves all the joy and happiness that life has to offer, I read your about me profile, you have been through so much and are still here, it shows how truly brave, strong and courageous you are, I’m so sorry that your father left you, you…[Read more]

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