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Your mother has no right being horrible to you @fancifranci, she should support and care for you no matter what Franci, you are such a beautiful and special person who deserves to feel loved by those closest to you, I would talk to her and let her know how much this hurts you, be as honest and as open as you can, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]
UPDATE: so yeah my mom has been yelling at me more today about it. She calls me a “slut”, “cunt”, and “whore” in our arguments. If I tell her those words hurt me she just tells me “good, they need to hurt and are true.” She’said already threatened to kick me out of the house because of it and says that I put my bf over my child even…[Read more]
And she keeps saying I’m going to have AIDS because he is super skinny but I definitely know it’s not from that. He’s been like that his whole life and also has diabetes but my mom won’t believe what I tell her.
That practice is called “slut-shaming” and your mother has no business treating you in such a way. You have “bodily autonomy”, that is you have the first and ultimate say about what you do, or do not do with your body.
It is not wrong or “dirty” for women to enjoy sex, and this sexist belief that it…[Read more]
@Humanist Hope thanks it means a lot because my mother’s words always get to me. I have over 60 credits in college and have a 4.0 even with a 1 year old and she still calls me a failure because I have a kid. But she’s also against abortion so I didn’t get one. But no matter what I can never be on her good side. I’m always a damn failure in her eyes.
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This is most definitely not okay.
You need have a firm talk with her, or stage an intervention.
Your mother has no right being horrible to you @fancifranci, she should support and care for you no matter what Franci, you are such a beautiful and special person who deserves to feel loved by those closest to you, I would talk to her and let her know how much this hurts you, be as honest and as open as you can, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]
UPDATE: so yeah my mom has been yelling at me more today about it. She calls me a “slut”, “cunt”, and “whore” in our arguments. If I tell her those words hurt me she just tells me “good, they need to hurt and are true.” She’said already threatened to kick me out of the house because of it and says that I put my bf over my child even…[Read more]
And she keeps saying I’m going to have AIDS because he is super skinny but I definitely know it’s not from that. He’s been like that his whole life and also has diabetes but my mom won’t believe what I tell her.
I also don’t have any friends or anyone to stay with to rove myself from this situation so it’s really terrible. :/
@fancifranci
Hello, miss Franci.
That practice is called “slut-shaming” and your mother has no business treating you in such a way. You have “bodily autonomy”, that is you have the first and ultimate say about what you do, or do not do with your body.
It is not wrong or “dirty” for women to enjoy sex, and this sexist belief that it…[Read more]
@Humanist Hope thanks it means a lot because my mother’s words always get to me. I have over 60 credits in college and have a 4.0 even with a 1 year old and she still calls me a failure because I have a kid. But she’s also against abortion so I didn’t get one. But no matter what I can never be on her good side. I’m always a damn failure in her eyes.