Don’t let anyone play with your feelings or emotions @mzconfused, you are such a wonderful, special and amazing person who deserves a partner that will treat you right, anyone who makes you feel bad isn’t worth your time, surround yourself with love, compassion and happiness and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

I think it is in part because it masks our own insecurities well. It is also because we have crappy examples of what it means to be a man these days. Some of us are just jerks, unwilling to grow up so we act like 2 year olds. Others are clueless, we really don’t get emotions and hormones and things outside of our own experience. Others, though do…[Read more]

It’s said that ‘those who give out advice are incapable of taking it themselves’ which is so true, especially in my case, I can help others on here but can’t seem to help myself @mzconfused, it’s so difficult to be able to take your own advice and use it in a positive way, but you have to try to stay upbeat and do just that, help others with…[Read more]

I would only let him back into your life if you feel comfortable with him @mzconfused, you deserve a strong bond with someone special, a relationship where you feel loved, appreciated and supported will happen to you, I want to see you truly happy and being taken care of by your partner, stay positive and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox…[Read more]

@mzconfused remember this: it’s an ex for a reason.
Don’t ever go back to an ex. The relationship ended for a reason. You have to love yourself enough to not let an ex emotionally manipulate you and make you live in a lie.
Focous on healing and loving yourself. A genuinly nice guy will come along, don’t worry.

Don’t. It’s so hard when this happen, so so hard. But don’t go back to them. Keep moving forward. It’ll be alright, just do yourself a huge favor and only look forward. Listen to some music and take some time to enjoy yourself.

Don’t let your thoughts get you down @mzconfused, you are such a wonderful, special and amazing person who deserves happiness, I don’t want to see you feeling alone, surround yourself with love, positivity and brightness, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and focus on all the things that bring hope and purpose into your life, you can…[Read more]

You can always find support and a shoulder to lean on here on BT . I hope you feel better @mzconfused. This might be difficult times for you, but keep fighting and believing in yourself. You are stronger than you think! <3

Glad the BT community can be here to help and support you @mzconfused, you are such a beautiful person who deserves true love and happiness, you will make it through hard times and come out so much stronger, remember everyone on BT will always be there for you and so will I, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

You are not the sick one at all. When we find ourselves among difficult times and hard circumstances, and when our strength is almost gone, we cling onto what we have in our lifes. And that thing can be the one that saves and destroys us at the same time.
So don’t think your feelings are wrong @mzconfused, all of them are valid. By what you said,…[Read more]

It is odd how we can become so attached to that which is so destructive for and in us. The ability to see your relationship from the outside means you are almost there, almost at the point where you can act on the decision you have already made. Time to move on. Forgive yourself for letting the crap go on so long, and start anew, being wiser and…[Read more]

This guy had absolutely no right to treat you badly @mzconfused, you are such a beautiful person who deserves to be treated with love, dignity, care and respect, you will find true happiness with someone wonderful, do take time to process your feelings but try to move on as best you can, focus on the bright future that is ahead for you, believe in…[Read more]