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    Oliver posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update my anxiety is making me eat too much lol View

    I understand the feeling, I used to get McDonald fries every single time I felt down or anxious, to say the least….very unhealthy. So what I did was I found a food I love- Cucumbers, and I started stocking up on them, now I go to those for comfort food X3. You should try it. Take care.

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    Lief posted an update 7 years, 1 month ago

    I cannot ask him to stop being sad. But the fact that he always is hurts me. I have a hard time speaking to him because I feel that no matter what everything is negative. Say if I were to get a new book, one that I would have been wanting for a while, and I share this happy new with him, I would only get a ‘that’s nice, but no one would ever…[Read more]

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    • I would try to stick by him as best you can @terreno, hopefully he will open up to you Oliver and your relationship will become stronger, be honest with each other and see how things go, everything will work out for both of you, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @terreno I think it would be good to look, on the side, for people/group-activities where you can be excited about things, and happy, around; and in general, to do nice things and take care of yourself. That will help you to reach a better position, one from where deciding what to do and how to act around this person, will be easier.

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    Lief posted an update 8 years, 3 months ago

    I’m afraid to sleep. Just a few days ago a friend of mine, one of the only people who know me and always listen to my problems and help me through them just as i do for them tried to kill themselves. I was asleep at the time in the afternoon because i was already loseing sleep as it was and i felt calm enough to find the time to pass out and try…[Read more]

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    • @terreno No, if your friend didn’t try to commit suicide none of this would have happened, it’s not your fault or responsibility, it’s not your job like it is for a professional. If it makes you feel better, you can tell your friend who else they can call if you are unavailable, be it a local mental health professional or a suicide line, who…[Read more]

    • Hope your friend is OK @terreno, be there to support them as much as you can, tell your friend how much you care and that you want them to feel happier and positive, let them know that they will never be alone, do keep being the compassionate and kind person that you are towards them, I’m sure things will work out, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

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    Lief posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Lief posted an update I can’t remember the last compliment my mother gave me. But i can remember every insult, every shove, the wall on my back, the sting on my cheek or the pressure on my neck….and that was so […] View

    please do not worry, I am simply being sentimental, I have no intent to die at the moment, and even if i did i find it impossible to act on the thoughts. Thank you though.

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    Lief posted an update 8 years, 5 months ago

    I can’t remember the last compliment my mother gave me. But i can remember every insult, every shove, the wall on my back, the sting on my cheek or the pressure on my neck….and that was so long ago….

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    • please do not worry, I am simply being sentimental, I have no intent to die at the moment, and even if i did i find it impossible to act on the thoughts. Thank you though.

    • You deserve to be treated with love by your mother @terreno, she has no right to be abusive towards you at all Lief, don’t let her bring you down, focus on the things that put a smile on your face and that make you feel wonderful, I want to see you feeling on top of the world, everything will work out, hold your head up high and keep going,…[Read more]

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    Oliver posted an update 8 years, 5 months ago

    what is the best way to share how you feel? share your thoughts, or your opinions on something? I find it impossible to share how I feel with people, mostly because rather I feel what I am about to say is stupid or who i am speaking to will think it is stupid or judge me for it. I also have no idea how to share my emotions with others, there is…[Read more]

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    • Do find a way to openly and confidently express how you are feeling @terreno, I’m sure you will find a good way to release all your emotions, try writing down how you are feeling, maybe it will help, I want the best for you and I want to see you smiling, you can do it, hold your head up high and don’t give up, you will make it and come out so…[Read more]

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    Oliver posted an update 8 years, 9 months ago

    Sometimes I wish that people would notice me in my every day life. I am naturally a quite and shy person, but sometimes I feel forgotten. I could be with some of my friends for 20 minutes before they even realized i am there. Do i really have to be loud to be noticed? Or is just that nobody cares to notice? No one ever asks what I think, or what…[Read more]

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    Oliver joined the group Group logoVent It! 8 years, 10 months ago

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    Oliver posted an update 8 years, 10 months ago

    Today i approached my mother about being Trans and stuff, she already knew and stuff. Although i wish i could have been the one to tell her, it happened to be a big surprise. She is finally excepting it. Now if only she could stop being disappointed in me

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    • Your mother should fully love and support you @terreno, I do hope that things do well for you, always be proud of who you are Oliver, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oliver asked “Can’t sleep, is there a cause? is there a way to go to sleep?9 years, 1 month ago

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    Terreno posted an update 9 years, 1 month ago

    Recently I had told my parents about me being a transgender FTM, one of my parents were verry approving but the other not so much. So I dropped it, and I continued to be her princess…Later I decided to go and get some bandages for binding (yes, I know, they are bad for me) and today my mother noticed. She has asked my other parent about why…[Read more]

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    Terreno posted a new activity comment 9 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Terreno posted an update …Man, I really do hate sharing how I feel sometimes, But I need to right now, because I need to get it off my mind…I hate myself, I hate myself so much, it’s like I am another person […] View

    Heh, thanks, I was bit down the other day. This message gives me some support and I am thankful for that. This website is the one place where I can say what is hurting me, and I have those who will help me like you. I will definitely message you if I need to talk. Thank you, again. (hugs)

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    Terreno posted an update 9 years, 4 months ago

    …Man, I really do hate sharing how I feel sometimes, But I need to right now, because I need to get it off my mind…I hate myself, I hate myself so much, it’s like I am another person looking at the person I am now, and all I see is a worthless pile of junk, I always hug other people, and it’s not because I like the hugs, it is because I…[Read more]

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    • Please don’t feel bad about yourself @terreno, you are such an awesome and amazing person who deserves so much happiness, love and joy, hold your head up high and keep fighting, you are a survivor and warrior, things will work out for you and everything will go right, so many more brighter and better days are ahead, never give up, be positive and…[Read more]

    • Heh, thanks, I was bit down the other day. This message gives me some support and I am thankful for that. This website is the one place where I can say what is hurting me, and I have those who will help me like you. I will definitely message you if I need to talk. Thank you, again. (hugs)

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    Terreno joined the group Group logoDepression 9 years, 4 months ago

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    Terreno started the forum topic constant shaky hands in the group Group logoSocial Anxiety 9 years, 5 months ago

    So, no matter where i am, my hands are always shaking for some reason, they won’t stop, and i have no reason that they should be shaking, i mean i am around family and friends constantly and i am not scared or […]

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    Terreno started the forum topic Does this count as Self-harm? in the group Group logoPickers/Self Harm 9 years, 5 months ago

    So, for a while now i have been more stressed and sad, whenever i feel overwhelmed I will take a mechanical pencil and using the tip scratch my wrists and arms to try and forget what ever is in my mind. What i was […]

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