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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago

    To everyone who is celebrating the holiday today, make sure that your loved ones know that you love them, you support them, and you will be there for them. Even if you aren’t celebrating today, let your loved ones know that you care about them. Let’s strive to be nicer to one another.

    Today is not the same for me, and I know that there are…[Read more]

    Mood : Mellow
    • Hope you have a wonderful Christmas and new year @qveenyoshii, I want to see you feeling happy and wonderful La’Kia, keep being the compassionate, kind and sweet person that you are, look ahead as each day will be fabulous and your future will be amazing, believe in yourself, keep going and never give up, you can do it La’Kia, inbox me anytime…[Read more]

    • I hope you have a merry christmas, and you are so right. It is important to let people you love KNOW they are loved, especially during times like these.

    • That’s a beautiful advice, @qveenyoshii. We should let our loved ones know how much we love them, even if they already know. Smetimes it’s necessary to remember them how much we care aout them, and that they are a very important part in our lifes. I hope you had a lovely Christmas, and that everything is going great for you <3

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    It’s like no matter what I do today, I am getting into arguments with everyone that I care about, which leaves me alienated. Every time I open my mouth, I ruin good things and I don’t know what to do anymore

    Mood : Aggravated
    • Please don’t feel alienated and alone @qveenyoshii, you don’t deserve to be getting into arguments with people you care about La’Kia, those people you are close to should show you all the love, support and care in the world, I would talk to them in a calm way and try to resolve any issues peacefully, remember you are such a beautiful person who…[Read more]

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie posted an update Eight months without an update?? Let’s dive right in, then.So, for a couple of days now, I have been feeling moody/generally upset. For no reason. Is it PMS? I have no clue, but […] View

    Thank you for always responding to these posts of mine, I truly appreciate seeing the situation from another point of view. I see now that it was an honest mistake to do that to him and to make myself feel so bad about it. We had a conversation so I could address my feelings and he completely understood where I was coming from and forgave me for…[Read more]

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie posted an update Eight months without an update?? Let’s dive right in, then.So, for a couple of days now, I have been feeling moody/generally upset. For no reason. Is it PMS? I have no clue, but […] View

    This is our second miscommunication (me being upset with him over something small and then turning into something that it never was) and I honestly feel like if I do not get to the bottom of it, he’s gonna leave me. What should I do?

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    Eight months without an update?? Let’s dive right in, then.

    So, for a couple of days now, I have been feeling moody/generally upset. For no reason.
    Is it PMS? I have no clue, but I feel like I am taking it all out on my boyfriend.
    Today, I got upset with him because he told me that he wanted to cut his hair short, and because of that, I gave him…[Read more]

    Mood : Moody
    • This is our second miscommunication (me being upset with him over something small and then turning into something that it never was) and I honestly feel like if I do not get to the bottom of it, he’s gonna leave me. What should I do?

    • Please don’t feel bad or angry with yourself @qveenyoshii, try to stay calm, positive and upbeat, I would talk to your boyfriend, I would apologise to him, let him know that you love and care about him, talk to him about your feelings if you can, don’t bottle things up La’Kia, get your thoughts and emotions out in a good way so you can unburden…[Read more]

    • Thank you for always responding to these posts of mine, I truly appreciate seeing the situation from another point of view. I see now that it was an honest mistake to do that to him and to make myself feel so bad about it. We had a conversation so I could address my feelings and he completely understood where I was coming from and forgave me for…[Read more]

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie and mariko are now friends View

    @marikofujimoto no problem hun :)

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 4 years, 10 months ago

    i decided not to stress myself out over things i cannot control.
    people gonna shame you for almost everything, so you might as well do what you please anyway.
    there is no need for sit here and cry anymore.

    at the end of the day, i’m just gonna pray on it and keep doing what i have to do.

    Mood : Content
    • @qveenyoshii this is such a lovely perspective :) I completly agree
      You can fight through this, don’t let people get to you. People have the tendency to critize everyone for any little thing. You deserve to smile and live your life exactly how you want to!

    • I agree with @marikofujimoto, don’t let mean people get you down or let hard times stress you out @qveenyoshii, stay positive, smile and surround yourself with all the things that bring you hope La’Kia, remember you are special, incredible and fabulous in every single way, hold your head up high and continue going forward with confidence, you…[Read more]

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    plus_sizedbarbie and Profile picture of marikomariko are now friends 4 years, 10 months ago

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie posted an update wow; my last update was two weeks ago? it feels soooo much longer than that. i really need to put that reminder on my phone to put more updates on here.anyways- there has been […] View

    not sure if BT is down or anything but i cannot seem to post updates.

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie posted an update wow; my last update was two weeks ago? it feels soooo much longer than that. i really need to put that reminder on my phone to put more updates on here.anyways- there has been […] View

    speak of the devil- i just sent you a message!

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 4 years, 10 months ago

    wow; my last update was two weeks ago?
    it feels soooo much longer than that. i really need to put that reminder on my phone to put more updates on here.

    anyways- there has been new developments in my life and i’m happy to say that they are positive for the most part.

    stay safe, everyone :)

    Mood : Happy
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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    hello everyone ☺️

    everything is okay and i am doing well.

    Mood : Calm
    • It’s great to see you feeling happy, calm and positive @qveenyoshii, hope you are having a fabulous day, always be the amazing human-being that you are and smile brightly, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    hello everyone :)

    there aren’t any new updates in my world right now, so i’m just updating to say that i wish everyone on this platform well. stay safe :)

    Mood : Pleased
    • You are so sweet, kind and lovely @qveenyoshii, keep being there for everyone on this community, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie posted an update Hi everyone!I start my second year of college in six weeks, and I am very excited. The thing is, I don’t want to make the same mistakes I made my first year. If you have any […] View

    thank you so much for your great advice :)

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    thank you to everyone who has shared their great advice regarding my latest post. i appreciate each and every comment, as well as you. be well :)

    (i would tag everyone in their own personalized message but i’m on my phone, so i can’t :( )

    Mood : Happy
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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie posted an update Hi everyone!I start my second year of college in six weeks, and I am very excited. The thing is, I don’t want to make the same mistakes I made my first year. If you have any […] View

    thank you so much for the tips! my friends and i wanted to try the weekly study sessions out this semester, so it’s in the plans. this is great advice, thanks again! :)

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    Hi everyone!

    I start my second year of college in six weeks, and I am very excited.
    The thing is, I don’t want to make the same mistakes I made my first year.
    If you have any tips, tricks or suggestions, PLEASE leave them in the comment section.
    The girl could use them. Thanks!

    Mood : Accomplished
    • Hope your second year of college goes well @qveenyoshii, I’m sure you will be successful no matter what happens, be positive and follow your dreams, you will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I think the best thing is to set yourself a realistic schedule! I have weekly study sessions with my friends, and even if an assignment isn’t due soon I always try work towards it and get little bits of it done so when it’s time to start it I’m not stressed! Also if you have a calendar hang it up and use it! Seeing things like deadlines…[Read more]

    • thank you so much for the tips! my friends and i wanted to try the weekly study sessions out this semester, so it’s in the plans. this is great advice, thanks again! :)

    • @qveenyoshii I’m not sure if college there is the same as university here. Either way my advice is go to every class if you can. Always take a bunch of notes, even the tiniest thing. At home re-read them and use a highlighter. That will be your guardian angel to study for tests. Same with photocopies if your teachers prove you with them. For…[Read more]

    • thank you so much for your great advice :)

    • Study group, organization (digital or paper), and a will to not procrastinate (study first, then party). Those are the foundations of success. Good luck. Oh, and chocolate. Keep chocolate and peanut butter, jam and a loaf of bread handy.

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: plus_sizedbarbie posted an update Hey, what’s happening?The chat is acting weird (boo, I know) but if you wanted to talk to anybody my inbox is open :) View

    I’m doing pretty well; and it’s great to see you around :)
    and the same goes for you-if you need a listening ear you can always reach out to me

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    Hey, what’s happening?

    The chat is acting weird (boo, I know) but if you wanted to talk to anybody
    my inbox is open :)

    Mood : Thankful
    • I’m surviving @qveenyoshii, hope you are doing amazingly, keep being the compassionate and lovely human-being that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I’m doing pretty well; and it’s great to see you around :)
      and the same goes for you-if you need a listening ear you can always reach out to me

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    plus_sizedbarbie posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I want an opinion, out of curiosity: what do you guys think of petite and short girls? I’m asking due to the fact where I live is seen as childish and not womanly at all (even if you have […] View

    i’m a short curvy girl, and all shapes and sizes are welcome here. sometimes there is the unfortunate body shamers, but other than that, the US thinks a bunch of body types are cute

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