I would ignore her and focus on doing the shifts that suit you @little-angel-2, always work hard Rain and don’t let anyone distract you from doing what is right for you, hope your colleague doesn’t bother you going forward Rain, everything will be OK, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
”No, I’ve never agreed to switch shifts with you. If you’ve wanted one, you should have asked in the first place ”. She does not deserve a different answer than that. Her attitude it’s despicable, she’s making you feel guilty and gaslighting you.
That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, they should accommodate and support you Rain, I hope you manage to find the right therapy that truly helps you, please know that I will always be here for you Rain and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Rain, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
And to whom exactly are they offer therapy then? To the ones whose mental health is okay and, by definition, do not need therapy? It’s deplorable that a center dedicated to look after people’s health has that kind of protocols. I hope you can find a good therapist as soon as possible @little-angel-2
- Mood : Lonely
felt that, are you doing alright?
I’m okay, just lonely sometimes.
We all deserve to feel loved and cared for so we feel less alone and lonely @teamtennantgirl and @little-angel-2, I’m a reclusive, shy, awkward introvert so I know how lonely and depressing life can get, especially when if like me, you have absolutely no social life and you stay in your bedroom all day, remember you are both amazing and you both…[Read more]
Sometimes it’s nice being alone, we even need it every now and then. But feeling lonely it’s a hard thing, especially if you live far away from your loved ones. If you need to talk, my DM’s are open @little-angel-2
I know how you feel @little-angel-2, being in an adult has been so depressing for me, especially lately, my situation is sadness, unemployment, loneliness, depression and stress Rain, but try to remember about all the good times and happier moments in your life Rain, focus on the brightness that lies ahead and knowing that all your dreams will…[Read more]
I’ve been feeling the same for a long time. We work endlessly to earn enough money just to pay for basic things we need to live (such as water, food, electricity, rent…), and if you have something left, it’s gone in contingencies as a broken car, something in the house to fix… I try to enjoy the little things to keep these thoughts at bay…[Read more]
Omg always get another cat. Always.
While animals are cute and adorable, I would only get another pet if you feel you can handle the responsibility of caring for a new animal @little-angel-2, have many pets do you have Rain?, I have 1 cat, I’m sure you will do what you feel is right and comfortable for yourself and any new lovely animal you bring into your home, feel free to inbox…[Read more]
@aprxl you’re right
Another cat equals to more happiness. So yes,if you can take care of them, adopt another cat ^^
- Mood : Frustrated
I would talk to your boss and let him know how you are feeling @little-angel-2, I know work commitments are important but they really should give you enough time and notice so you can attend and prepare, do speak with your boss and see if they can make alternate arrangements for you Rain, hope things work out positively for you, feel free to inbox…[Read more]
I completely understand you Rain. I feel the same about last minute changes when I already have my week organized, so I can do everything I want to do with the less stress possible. It’s understandable that you are worried about not being there, but if you cannot include that activity in your schedule, that’s it. Your boss should have told you a…[Read more]
Yes, exactly. It’s so stressful and I can’t just drop everything else to make room for something I didn’t know about until the last minute. I ended up not going. I hope they don’t see this as a bad thing at work. It’s their responsibility to notify me in advance.
I would keep working hard but remember it’s OK to take breaks, to rest and relax when needed @little-angel-2, don’t be afraid to reach out for help and support when you need too, I’m sure you will find the right therapist for you, someone who will listen to you non-judgementally and who will offer solutions to overcome struggles, please know the…[Read more]
I’m not afraid to reach out for help. I literally don’t have access to a therapist.
I’m so sorry to hear you cannot acces to a therapist when you most need it Rain. Mental health should be a priority inside the healthcare system (even more during these times), but as usually, we are left on our own.
- Mood : Lonely
Please don’t think like that @little-angel-2, I care about you Rain and so does the BT community, please don’t fee lonely, you are loved by so many Rain, I don’t want to see you disappear Rain because I would miss you Rain, you are on this earth to do great things and make all your dreams come true Rain, you are such a brilliant, awesome and…[Read more]
Sometimes it feels like that. That we could just vanish into thin air, and not a single soul would notice our absence. Sometimes these feelings and thoughts cannot be avoided. But somebody always does care, even if it’s just a single human being. You have people that care about you Rain <3
- Mood : Melancholy
Please don’t give up @little-angel-2, you worked hard on your internship Rain and I’m sure you can use those skills that you learnt to find the right career path for yourself sweetie, remember to stay positive Rain and focus on making all your dreams, hopes, goals and aspirations come true, do look online and around your local area for job…[Read more]
I’m so sorry to hear that, @little-angel-2. It’s hard to leave something that makes you happy. Take some time for yourself, and then keep searching for a new job. Despite the difficulties you might find, don’t feel discouraged and don’t give up. Use the skills you learned during your internship. You can do it Rain <3.
- Mood : Exhausted
Try to get as much done as you can but do get some rest and relaxation @little-angel-2, remember to look after and always be kind to yourself Rain, you are a good person and a hard worker who truly deserves all the best out of life Rain, keep smiling because you are awesome Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]
It does feel so, right? There are so many things to do, and never enough time to accomplish everything. Try to do as much as you can and want with the less stress possible, @little-angel-2. If we can’t get everything done today, we have tomorrow to do it. Take care, and have a great day <3. My inbox is open if you need to talk
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That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, those on the chat should be there to help and support you, they have no right to be rude and disrespectful to you Rain, please know that I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Rain, you deserve to feel positive and happy Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]
If they disconnected on you on purpose, it’s definitely not right to leave someone hanging when they are venting and in need of a person that’s willing to listen to them. I’m sorry this happened to you Rain. If you need to talk or vent, my DMs are open <3 @little-angel-2