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    Silent Rain posted an update 1 day, 21 hours ago

    You’re a star in someone’s life, making it a bit brighter just by being it.

    • You are so correct @little-angel-2, we should all inspire others with compassion, kindness and love Rain, it’s great to be someone’s hero, keep spreading insightful and wise advice on BT, you are so wonderful Rain, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Silent Rain posted an update 3 days, 5 hours ago

    Something is off with the listeners in the chat. I don’t appreciate being told I can ”get new pussy.” It’s disrespectful and not even remotely helpful when going through a breakup.

    • That’s not OK @little-angel-2, listeners should offer support, compassion, kindness and good advice, you deserve so much better Rain, remember there are many more nice members of BT who are willing to help you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Silent Rain posted an update 3 days, 6 hours ago

    I thought I could have a future with her, something real and genuine. Until she told me, it wasn’t going anywhere, and she had feelings for someone else all along. Every relationship falls apart, which makes me wonder why I’m unlovable. The worst part is I knew, I saw it, noticed them flirting. I even asked if she had feelings for that other…[Read more]

    Mood : Hurt
    • I’m so sorry that happened to you @little-angel-2, you deserve a relationship where your partner will love you unconditionally and stick with you no matter what Rain, I would try to move on as best you can Rain, don’t give up on true love, a strong relationship with someone special will happen to you, stay positive and keep going Rain, inbox me…[Read more]

    • @little-angel-2 the problem wasn’t (or is) you being unlovable. Was your ex partner not being loyal (emotionally). When in a relationship people need to focous, respect each other, dedicate themselves and be loyal.
      You did absolutly NOTHING wrong. So don’t feel bad.

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    Silent Rain posted an update 7 months ago

    I got to know some good people on here. Two of them are still my friends, years later. It’s nice where random encounters can lead to, especially since I met one of them through the chat three years ago.

    Mood : Blissful
    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      It’s great that BT has helped you form friendships and relationships with people @little-angel-2, keep reaching out and being there for others on BT as much as you can, this is such a compassionate place and you are a much valued, appreciated and loved member of the community, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Writing is a good outlet. I can’t believe I’ve been clean for a little over seven months now. There have been ups and downs and there will always be darker times, but I’ll keep trying […] View

    @shiftmale Oh okay, poems are lovely. It sounds like you used to write a lot. Perhaps you want to try something else for a while, to see if something else can catch your interest. I’m not familiar with that book. My French is poor, so I probably wouldn’t be able to comprehend the words in that book. It’s good to try and find new ideas. Good…[Read more]

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Writing is a good outlet. I can’t believe I’ve been clean for a little over seven months now. There have been ups and downs and there will always be darker times, but I’ll keep trying […] View

    @oliver I’ll keep that in mind. :) *hugs*

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Writing is a good outlet. I can’t believe I’ve been clean for a little over seven months now. There have been ups and downs and there will always be darker times, but I’ll keep trying […] View

    @shiftmale Thank you. I’ll definitely keep writing, it’s a good distraction. Did you used to write anything in particular?

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    Silent Rain posted an update 2 years, 1 month ago

    Writing is a good outlet. I can’t believe I’ve been clean for a little over seven months now. There have been ups and downs and there will always be darker times, but I’ll keep trying not to relapse.

    Mood : Calm
    • @shiftmale Thank you. I’ll definitely keep writing, it’s a good distraction. Did you used to write anything in particular?

    • Keep writing and smiling @little-angel-2, I’m sure you are so talented Rain, always do what makes you happy, Ollie Bollie is here for you, message me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @oliver I’ll keep that in mind. :) *hugs*

    • @shiftmale Oh okay, poems are lovely. It sounds like you used to write a lot. Perhaps you want to try something else for a while, to see if something else can catch your interest. I’m not familiar with that book. My French is poor, so I probably wouldn’t be able to comprehend the words in that book. It’s good to try and find new ideas. Good…[Read more]

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update I never thought I would ever get hooked on a fandom, ever. Then Clexa happened. I’m so caught up in fanfictions that I have been writing them as well. It’s a good way to pass the time, […] View

    @oliver I’m not sure if it is wonderful, but I do enjoy writing, so that counts for something. Your enthusiasm is appreciated. :) *hugs*

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Recently I’ve been having contact with my mother again. She has a cute kitten and I’ll be at her place for a few days. I think it could be nice. View

    @oliver It has been a while since I’ve been active here. The kitten is adorable, only about eight weeks old, so it’s still like a baby. *hugs*

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    Silent Rain posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago

    I never thought I would ever get hooked on a fandom, ever. Then Clexa happened. I’m so caught up in fanfictions that I have been writing them as well. It’s a good way to pass the time, since I can create any world I want in those stories. Fiction can be much better than reality.

    Mood : Relaxed
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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Recently I’ve been having contact with my mother again. She has a cute kitten and I’ll be at her place for a few days. I think it could be nice. View

    @shiftmale I have the same timezone. It’s getting quite late for me as well. Well, I’ll be gone for a few days where I might not be able to be around, but I should be able to check up soon again. I’ll keep that in mind. :)

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Recently I’ve been having contact with my mother again. She has a cute kitten and I’ll be at her place for a few days. I think it could be nice. View

    @shiftmale I’m sorry to hear that. It’s good that you try to share positive words daily and venting is good as well. We should catch up sometime, if you’d like.

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I feeel like such a fail becuse of my depression and anxiety. it ruins my life! View

    Hello, it’s unfortunate that you feel that way. I assure you that you’re not a failure. Struggling with depression and anxiety is difficult, but it doesn’t make you any less. It can have quite the impact on your life, and I’m sorry to hear that to you it feels as if it ruins your life. You are doing the best you can. Try to acknowledge all the…[Read more]

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update Recently I’ve been having contact with my mother again. She has a cute kitten and I’ll be at her place for a few days. I think it could be nice. View

    @shiftmale Hey, I remember you. It’s been a long time. Things are okay. How are things for you? :)

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    Silent Rain posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago

    Recently I’ve been having contact with my mother again. She has a cute kitten and I’ll be at her place for a few days. I think it could be nice.

    Mood : Calm
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    Silent Rain replied to the forum topic Never have I ever in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 2 years, 5 months ago

    I have.

    Never have I ever been drunk.

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    Silent Rain replied to the forum topic Trying to quit but not feeling ready. in the group Group logoScars 2 years, 8 months ago

    It can be difficult to stop harming yourself, but it isn’t impossible. Although it is good that you want to stop, there are a few concerning things. You say you want to stop for her, not for yourself. When it […]

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    Silent Rain posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago

    I’m behind on the changes that took place. I just saw that the ”questions” section isn’t around anymore. I’m slow.

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    Silent Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: J.W posted an update Managed to get out of bed for the first time in 5 days, and showered and changed clothes View

    It’s good that you managed to do that. A shower and new clothes can feel so refreshing! :)

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