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    Rain posted a new activity comment 6 days, 7 hours ago

    In reply to: crybaby posted an update Feel lonely lol View

    If you ever want to have some virtual company, I wouldn’t mind talking about cats and other things

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    Rain posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    Wow… I really needed to talk to someone and the people in the chat just disconnect me. That’s helpful and not hurtful at all. Tells me how much people care. Thanks

    • That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, those on the chat should be there to help and support you, they have no right to be rude and disrespectful to you Rain, please know that I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Rain, you deserve to feel positive and happy Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

    • If they disconnected on you on purpose, it’s definitely not right to leave someone hanging when they are venting and in need of a person that’s willing to listen to them. I’m sorry this happened to you Rain. If you need to talk or vent, my DMs are open <3 @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted an update 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    Getting really tired of the colleague who says ”you were gonna switch shifts with me, right? Don’t forget to write it down.” when she didn’t even ask me! And when I react confused (obviously) she acts as if I knew and agreed. This isn’t the first time she pulled this, and with this kind of attitude, I don’t want to accommodate to her wishes at all.

    • I would ignore her and focus on doing the shifts that suit you @little-angel-2, always work hard Rain and don’t let anyone distract you from doing what is right for you, hope your colleague doesn’t bother you going forward Rain, everything will be OK, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • ”No, I’ve never agreed to switch shifts with you. If you’ve wanted one, you should have asked in the first place ;) ”. She does not deserve a different answer than that. Her attitude it’s despicable, she’s making you feel guilty and gaslighting you.

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    Rain posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    Imagine spending years working up the nerve to ask for a therapist and not getting one

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    Rain posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    It’s ridiculous that the only therapy my health insurance partially covers is at a center where they refuse to help me because I’m autistic. Not only do they discriminate, they’re also basically saying you can only get therapy if you’re not mentally ill. (I hate that term, by the way. I’m not ill. My brain is just wired differently.)

    • That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, they should accommodate and support you Rain, I hope you manage to find the right therapy that truly helps you, please know that I will always be here for you Rain and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Rain, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • And to whom exactly are they offer therapy then? To the ones whose mental health is okay and, by definition, do not need therapy? It’s deplorable that a center dedicated to look after people’s health has that kind of protocols. I hope you can find a good therapist as soon as possible @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update Even introverts need human interactions. View

    I’m okay, just lonely sometimes.

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    Rain posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    Even introverts need human interactions.

    Mood : Lonely
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    Rain posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    Being an adult is an endless cycle of paying bills and replacing things.

    • I know how you feel @little-angel-2, being in an adult has been so depressing for me, especially lately, my situation is sadness, unemployment, loneliness, depression and stress Rain, but try to remember about all the good times and happier moments in your life Rain, focus on the brightness that lies ahead and knowing that all your dreams will…[Read more]

    • I’ve been feeling the same for a long time. We work endlessly to earn enough money just to pay for basic things we need to live (such as water, food, electricity, rent…), and if you have something left, it’s gone in contingencies as a broken car, something in the house to fix… I try to enjoy the little things to keep these thoughts at bay…[Read more]

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Can the world just… Stop being hostile for a little while? View

    There’s a lot of violence happening and it’s sad how hateful some people are. I understand that it’s on your mind a lot because so many bad things are all over the news. And it’s not something you can just turn off by not watching the media. Personally, I watch ‘restore your faith in humanity’ videos when everything seems dark. It can be…[Read more]

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update I don’t need another cat, I don’t need another cat…but what’s one more? View

    @aprxl you’re right

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    Rain posted an update 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    I don’t need another cat, I don’t need another cat…but what’s one more?

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update My boss messaged me late today to let me know there’s some kind of info thing or whatever tomorrow morning and that it would be good for me to be there. This really frustrates me because it’s […] View

    Yes, exactly. It’s so stressful and I can’t just drop everything else to make room for something I didn’t know about until the last minute. I ended up not going. I hope they don’t see this as a bad thing at work. It’s their responsibility to notify me in advance.

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    Rain posted an update 3 months ago

    My boss messaged me late today to let me know there’s some kind of info thing or whatever tomorrow morning and that it would be good for me to be there. This really frustrates me because it’s so last minute and I already planned my week. If I had known a few days in advance, I would have included it in my schedule, but if I go now it’ll mess up…[Read more]

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    • I would talk to your boss and let him know how you are feeling @little-angel-2, I know work commitments are important but they really should give you enough time and notice so you can attend and prepare, do speak with your boss and see if they can make alternate arrangements for you Rain, hope things work out positively for you, feel free to inbox…[Read more]

    • I completely understand you Rain. I feel the same about last minute changes when I already have my week organized, so I can do everything I want to do with the less stress possible. It’s understandable that you are worried about not being there, but if you cannot include that activity in your schedule, that’s it. Your boss should have told you a…[Read more]

    • Yes, exactly. It’s so stressful and I can’t just drop everything else to make room for something I didn’t know about until the last minute. I ended up not going. I hope they don’t see this as a bad thing at work. It’s their responsibility to notify me in advance.

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Apes posted an update Mental stability ?? Never heard of it View

    Same here.

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Rain posted an update I’ve been working for the past two months and while it’s what I wanted, it’s taking a toll. I’m under a lot of stress and it’s exhausting to act as if I’m not drowning. And I’ve been asking […] View

    I’m not afraid to reach out for help. I literally don’t have access to a therapist.

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    Rain replied to the forum topic Name Game with Tv Shows in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 3 months ago

    All of us are dead

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    Rain posted an update 3 months ago

    I’ve been working for the past two months and while it’s what I wanted, it’s taking a toll. I’m under a lot of stress and it’s exhausting to act as if I’m not drowning. And I’ve been asking for a therapist for years, but I don’t have access to one.

    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      I would keep working hard but remember it’s OK to take breaks, to rest and relax when needed @little-angel-2, don’t be afraid to reach out for help and support when you need too, I’m sure you will find the right therapist for you, someone who will listen to you non-judgementally and who will offer solutions to overcome struggles, please know the…[Read more]

    • I’m not afraid to reach out for help. I literally don’t have access to a therapist.

    • I’m so sorry to hear you cannot acces to a therapist when you most need it Rain. Mental health should be a priority inside the healthcare system (even more during these times), but as usually, we are left on our own.

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    Rain posted an update 3 months ago

    Sometimes I feel like nobody cares and I could disappear without anyone noticing.

    Mood : Lonely
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Please don’t think like that @little-angel-2, I care about you Rain and so does the BT community, please don’t fee lonely, you are loved by so many Rain, I don’t want to see you disappear Rain because I would miss you Rain, you are on this earth to do great things and make all your dreams come true Rain, you are such a brilliant, awesome and…[Read more]

    • Sometimes it feels like that. That we could just vanish into thin air, and not a single soul would notice our absence. Sometimes these feelings and thoughts cannot be avoided. But somebody always does care, even if it’s just a single human being. You have people that care about you Rain <3

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    Rain posted an update 6 months ago

    I did an internship for six months. It ended a week ago and I really miss it. Now I’m at home with no prospects whatsoever and it sucks.

    Mood : Melancholy
    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      Please don’t give up @little-angel-2, you worked hard on your internship Rain and I’m sure you can use those skills that you learnt to find the right career path for yourself sweetie, remember to stay positive Rain and focus on making all your dreams, hopes, goals and aspirations come true, do look online and around your local area for job…[Read more]

    • I’m so sorry to hear that, @little-angel-2. It’s hard to leave something that makes you happy. Take some time for yourself, and then keep searching for a new job. Despite the difficulties you might find, don’t feel discouraged and don’t give up. Use the skills you learned during your internship. You can do it Rain <3.

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update i’m really noticing how much of a negative rain cloud she is. i will feel energetic, happy and proud and when she comes home, instantly i’m down. i got a letter from a publishing thing […] View

    It’s great someone wants to publish your poem. You should definitely be proud because you obviously have a talent. And if the negative Nelly in your space doesn’t see that, it’s their loss. Beauty comes in all shapes and forms, and taste differs. Don’t let anyone ruin your good mood. It’s disheartening you don’t seem to feel safe to vent to…[Read more]

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