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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update I have been dating this guy, Charles for 4 months. So far, it’s been great, i am falling in love with him and I do care about him.. There is a 20 year age difference, I am 23 and he […] View

    @paperkites21 Sounds like a handful, I hope it doesn’t become a pattern where when you discuss some problem it turns into a shame spiral. Maybe you can consider taking a stand and making it clear that you will cancel your plans together if he shows up in such a state to your times together.
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update I have been dating this guy, Charles for 4 months. So far, it’s been great, i am falling in love with him and I do care about him.. There is a 20 year age difference, I am 23 and he […] View

    I would be there for him and try to help as much as you can @paperkites21, hopefully with your support and love, he will overcome his struggles and the relationship will become stronger, things will work out for both of you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 6 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have […] View

    @paperkites21 I’ve said this before but I’ll repeat it: if you’re not happy with someone, break up with him. If you already tried dozens of times to work things out, and it still didn’t work, break up. Why keep living a lie? Lying to yourself that you’re “happy” with him? You have your whole life in front of you and you’re blocking…[Read more]
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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have […] View

    @paperkites21 Some people would offer to help him with his rent for a few months just to buy themselves out of a remorse which would prevent them to break free, it’s an option if that’s one of the few things keeping you there.
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have […] View

    You deserve a relationship that is strong and loving @paperkites21, I would try to talk to your boyfriend about being close and intimate, hopefully he will listen and try to make changes, I’m sure things will work out, do what you feel is best for you going forward, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update As some of you may know, i have some complications in my life, some it is on me. i know how to fix it, but sometimes i don’t know what’s best for me or anyone, anymore.. I will say […] View

    I would do what you feel is right for you @paperkites21, hopefully you will meet his parents at some point and you will make a decision about where your feelings are regarding your current boyfriend, personally I would focus on the person that makes you the most happiest, everything will work out, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 12 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Hey! I have not been on this site for over 2 years now. I forgot about it, then realized i needed it again. If someone could help me figure how to ask Questions on the Q&A that would […] View

    It’s great to have you back on Blah @paperkites21, hope you are doing well, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)