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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: lifeofmine posted an update its been a while since ive been here. things have been rocky. most days im crying my eyes out and other days I just try to get through the day. View

    Please don’t let sadness get you down @smilegone, you are such a lovely, special and amazing person who truly deserves all the happiness in the world, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, focus on getting yourself to a good place in life and make each day fantastic, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who will…[Read more]
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: lifeofmine posted an update finally had to see a doctor. i couldn’t control the shaking. diagnosed with severe depression and severe anxiety. wanted to put me on meds but I refused. concerned that my mental state […] View

    It’s okay to refuse meds, @smilegone. There are other kind of treatments to keep ou healthy, such as therapy. Just remember to take care of yourself and look after your health, those are the most important things. You have our full support, and if you ever need to talk about anything, my inbox is open. Stay strong, you can do this! ♥
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: lifeofmine posted an update finally had to see a doctor. i couldn’t control the shaking. diagnosed with severe depression and severe anxiety. wanted to put me on meds but I refused. concerned that my mental state […] View

    Please don’t be afraid @smilegone, do look after yourself mentally and emotionally, you are such a brave, fantastic and awesome person who truly deserves all the happiness in the world, focus on getting yourself to a good place in life and hold your head up high, believe in yourself and keep going forward with hope, you can do it, you are a…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: lifeofmine posted an update no longer feels like home…more like a battle field…fighting for air! View

    Everyone deserves to live in a place where they feel happy, safe and loved @smilegone, you do too, please stay positive and know you belong on here, the BT community is here for you, we are an online community where you can feel appreciated and valued, you are such an incredible, beautiful and wonderful person who truly deserves all the best out…[Read more]
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: lifeofmine posted an update Just had an awesome session with someone on chat as a listener. i was able to help and possibly save someone’s marriage! im happy!! View

    That’s amazing, @smilegone! Keep being such a supportive, helpful, and kind person. You’re making BT a better community! <3
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: lifeofmine posted an update had a really bad and awkward day today…just when i thought everything was getting back to normal…i get more things shoved in my face! View

    Please don’t let the bad days get you down @smilegone, you will make it through the hard moments because you have so much strength, bravery and courage inside and out, everything will be OK, stay upbeat and know things will get better, hold your head up high and remember you are a survivor who will overcome, go forward with hope and confidence,…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: lifeofmine posted an update Just had an awesome session with someone on chat as a listener. i was able to help and possibly save someone’s marriage! im happy!! View

    That’s so awesome and lovely @smilegone, you are truly living up to the purpose of this community, BT is a supportive place where we all help each other, keep being the compassionate and kind person who spreads wise advice, love and joy to those in need, you are amazing, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update christmas turned out great. View

    It’s fantastic that you enjoyed Christmas, @smilegone! I hope this new year brings a lot of beautiful things for you, and that it’s filled with great experiences and memories. Stay strong, and awesome! <3
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update christmas turned out great. View

    It’s great that you had a wonderful Christmas @smilegone, I’m sure you will have a fabulous new year as well, keep smiling and always be the beautiful human-being that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update feel like im having more bad days than good ones now. feeling down and have low self esteem almost zero confidence. nothing like before. i used to be vibrant. confident. love being in my […] View

    You said it yourself, @smilegone. You used to be confident, and love your own skin. That you don’t do it now like you used to, doesn’t mean that you’ll never love youself again. In our lifes, there’ll be times when we don’t feel too great in our own skins. But that will be over, and you’ll be able to look in the mirror, and see the wonderful…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update feel like im having more bad days than good ones now. feeling down and have low self esteem almost zero confidence. nothing like before. i used to be vibrant. confident. love being in my […] View

    Please don’t let sadness get you down @smilegone, you are such a wonderful, special and incredible person who deserves all the happiness and love in the world, everything will be OK, you will make it through all the bad times and come out so much stronger, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor, great things will happen to you and you…[Read more]
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update @m1s1m3 thank you so much for your kind words and positivity! ive been having one of those weeks where i just cant shake it off. its gotten bad this week. and im trying my best to keep […] View

    That’s just very sweet from you, @smilegone! You’re a brave fighter, and I know you’ll get through this hard times. You can do it! And remember that you can always count on me and everyone on BT to help you as much as we can. Both of you, @oliver and @smilegone, make this community a better place, and fill it with kindness, compassion, and…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update another bad week….the struggle with my mind can be so overwhelming… View

    Please don’t let the bad times get you down @smilegone, focus on making each day incredible, fabulous and amazing, everything will be OK, you are a good person who deserves all the love and happiness in the world, stay upbeat and know so much brightness lies ahead for you, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor, believe in yourself…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update @m1s1m3 thank you so much for your kind words and positivity! ive been having one of those weeks where i just cant shake it off. its gotten bad this week. and im trying my best to keep […] View

    @m1s1m3 is so sweet, kind and lovely, you are both fantastic angels Marta and @smilegone, keep making this community wonderful with your wisdom, warmth and kindness, both of you are truly awesome, I’m always here for both of you, inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update today was ok not as bad as the last few days thats why i havent been posting. i got too deep in my thoughts and ended up staying in bed with curtains closed and no sounds. View

    I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through some bad days @smilegone. Remember these bad times won’t last forever, and that you have everyone of us here in BT if you need to talk about your worries. Stay strong, you are a brave fighter and a wonderful human being <3
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update met a cool person while i was venting…i tried to give my username so we can connect here and got disconnected! intricate battle!! you are awesome kid! thank you for listening! View

    It’s so good you got to meet an awsome person @smilegone, and that you had a fantastic time talking with them! I hope you can find them! :)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update met a cool person while i was venting…i tried to give my username so we can connect here and got disconnected! intricate battle!! you are awesome kid! thank you for listening! View

    Awwww, that’s so nice @smilegone, hope you manage to re-connect with this person, try posting in the ’missed connections’ group and see what happens, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update today was ok not as bad as the last few days thats why i havent been posting. i got too deep in my thoughts and ended up staying in bed with curtains closed and no sounds. View

    Please don’t let bad thoughts get you down @smilegone, focus on making each day incredible, positive and wonderful, go out into the world and see amazing things, stay upbeat and keep smiling, you are such a fantastic person who deserves all the best, everything will be OK, believe in yourself, go forward with confidence and never give up, you can…[Read more]
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update last night was up and down…this morning wasnt great..i need a mental break View

    I’m sorry to hear you’ve been going through some bad days @smilegone. I hope today you had it better, and that you’re feeling great. And remember that if you need to vent, to talk about your worries, or have a chat, my inbox is open <3
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: smilegone posted an update whats the point in having a vent/listen option here when someone is just looking to hook up not vent and the listeners dont listen?? View

    It’s annoying to go into the chat to help/get help, and find that the person you are talking to it’s here for another reasons, as the one you mentioned. It’s annoying, but don’t let that get you down. If we give up when this happens, there’ll be nobody left in the chat where some of us had found a spark of light when we were lost. Stay strong…[Read more]
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