I can relate to your frustration, Oli.
I believe the moderators are doing the best they can to solve problems quickly. I think it’s probably hard to manage the site with so many visitors. I was just thinking that Blahtherapy is such a big support system for me that whenever the chat is down I feel a higher level of anxiety. However I am trying to…[Read more]

Thank you for your reply @lelslessing, I just want BT to always be a place of kindness, love and compassion where we all support each other, I hope something gets done about all the spam, it has to be removed so this beautiful community can always be a place where we support and help each other, hope you are having a wonderful day, keep being the…[Read more]

Thank you Oli, always good to hear from you! Be well!

@Oliver

I’m so sorry that happened, Oli. That’s a horrible thing that your father said to you.
I know you’ve been going through this for such a long time, and for an amazing person such as yourself, you deserve so much better. This life is completely unfair to you.

But it will never be worth giving up. I don’t ever want to see you take the…[Read more]

YOU. ARE. NOT. A. FAILURE.

I’ve never taken you for a liar, @oliver. And yet you tell such lies. Never give up. You are not alone. Your father does not understand the struggles you go through, and that’s why he said that. He’s trying to motivate you.

Never feel unloved.

Oli, I may not know you too well, but I know you well enough to say that you are not a failer. You are on here helping people when they need help, and you are on here to talk to someone when they are down. Tbh, Oli, you have helped me when I was upset and I want to do that same for you. If you need to talk more about this or anything else, just Dm me.

Oli you are terrific honestly, I know those are harsh words from your father, and it is hard to ignore. But sometimes even in general, the family are toxic you should not pay attention to what they say and make yourself feel like this. You are a wonderful and kind human being and trust me in today’s time it’s extremely rare to find such caring…[Read more]

If you’re living your life according to opinion of other people then I’m sorry to say you will always find your self disappointed, Instead of thinking, Oh my parents don’t love me Instead think about this,.. If you father can shun you like that then what is stopping other people doing the same or worse…. Stop looking for validation – The only…[Read more]