Sozjustme said 7 years, 6 months ago:

I recently sort of came out to my friendship group… but my bestfriend keeps bringing it up and mentioning to people i dont really know or didnt really feel tell… what do i do?

rinseandrep said 7 years, 6 months ago:

One way could be to take them aside, tell them “Hey you know when you X, that makes me really uncomfortable, because that’s something that I want to talk about only with the people I choose to do so with, I really need you to stop bringing it up with people, can you do that for me?”.

You could send it to them as a message or a letter so they experience the discomfort of being called out in private and it could be less awkward.

I hope you don’t have to deal with the ‘I told them to stop but they still do it’, but if you do, you can ask about that too.

Sozjustme said 7 years, 6 months ago:

Thank you… I wasnt sure how to word it or what to say… and the message idea might be the way to go…