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    Milo86 posted a new activity comment 3 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: TheMatter posted an update Well, after a lot of thought and a bit of googling definitions, I’ve added ’Abuse’ to my ’experienced with’ list. Nice. View

    I hope you can find peace. I have, and it’s wonderful. You can too.

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    Milo86 posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago

    Best advice I give, generically, to anyone. You own your happiness. It is for you to seek, find, and guard with your life. No one else has an obligation to make you happy nor are they allowed to make you feel like garbage. We have those exceptions in our life. Our parents, who judged us for decades. We have spouses, partners, work…[Read more]

    • Indeed @milo86, we should all try to make ourselves happy so that we can lead a fulfilling life that gives us all hope, keep inspiring others on Blah as much as you can, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Milo86 posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: TheMatter posted an update Well, after a lot of thought and a bit of googling definitions, I’ve added ’Abuse’ to my ’experienced with’ list. Nice. View

    You mean that it wasn’t just a ”strict” upbringing or ”motivated” spouse? Wow. ;) Seriously, it is quite the awakening when you discover you are an abuse victim, eh?

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    Milo86 posted a new activity comment 3 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Milo86 posted an update Finally made the decision that the father I have known for my 48 years really has no place in my life. We have tip-toed around his behaviors and demons, which is all well and good, but now […] View

    The brave decision was made decades ago. Keep the distance, entertain them a bit every now and then, and then leave it at that. But they got worse, I got better, and My daughter can’t be around it. So it is what it is.

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    Milo86 posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

    Finally made the decision that the father I have known for my 48 years really has no place in my life. We have tip-toed around his behaviors and demons, which is all well and good, but now I have a 10 year old daughter, abused, adopted out of foster care. She’s my world. I attempted to tell my father how to interact with her but he has gotten…[Read more]

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    • @milo86 that’s such a brave decision, you should be proud of yourself. I wish you strenght and the best of luck

    • Do your best to move forward with your life and focus on making things good for both yourself and your child @milo86, learn from your past and use it to strengthen yourself, you will be OK Milo, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you…[Read more]

    • The brave decision was made decades ago. Keep the distance, entertain them a bit every now and then, and then leave it at that. But they got worse, I got better, and My daughter can’t be around it. So it is what it is.

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    Milo86 posted an update 4 years, 3 months ago

    Hello all. I have been a long standing and very successful listener at the another therapeutic web site. I have heard good things about Blahtherapy and I wanted to give it a go. I don’t have time to listen until tonight (I am east coast USA but I plan on doing very well here, as I have at the other site. If you are from that site, let me know.…[Read more]

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    • It’s great to have you on Blah @milo86, hope you are well, I’m always here if you need to talk, feel free to message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Milo86 became a registered member 4 years, 3 months ago