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    TheMatter posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    How many people who see this have ME/CFS? I have some questions I’d like to ask

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    TheMatter replied to the forum topic Answer a question, ask a question. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 6 years, 3 months ago

    Nope, too young and not really interested so far.

    Have you ever thought someone else is just like you are?
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    TheMatter replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 6 years, 3 months ago

    Yeah, if it was just me and my partner and close friends.

    Would you ever go on a blind date?
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    TheMatter started the forum topic The Sanctity of Sex Problem. in the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 7 years, 1 month ago

    See, I find sex to be highly important/significant, emotionally and whatnot, and though I’m an atheist I suppose you could say I almost hold it at a sacred level of importance. Anything from kissing to touching to […]
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    TheMatter started the forum topic The sanctity of Sex problem. in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 7 years, 1 month ago

    See, I find sex to be highly important/significant, emotionally and whatnot, and though I’m an atheist I suppose you could say I almost hold it at a sacred level of importance. Anything from kissing to touching to […]
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    TheMatter posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: TheMatter posted an update Well, after a lot of thought and a bit of googling definitions, I’ve added ’Abuse’ to my ’experienced with’ list. Nice. View

    @Milo86, Yeah, I was definitely emotionally abused when my ex held my love for her hostage and drove me to self harm, sudden onset anger, panic attacks (still occur about bi-monthly now, 22 months after breaking up with her, but were a daily occurrence two years ago, teenage alcoholism, self-hatred, paranoia and depression by self harming more…[Read more]
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    TheMatter started the forum topic I'm in love with a lesbian in the group Group logo♀ Teens ♂ 7 years, 1 month ago

    Unfortunately it seems for me, I’m in love with a lesbian.
    Not just any lesbian, but one who also isn’t always understanding and kind towards me, which makes it hard to not also hate her on occasion
    It happened […]
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    TheMatter started the forum topic I'm in love with a lesbian in the group Group logo♀ Teens ♂ 7 years, 1 month ago

    Unfortunately it seems for me, I’m in love with a lesbian.
    Not just any lesbian, but one who also isn’t always understanding and kind towards me, which makes it hard to not also hate her on occasion
    It happened […]
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    TheMatter started the forum topic I'm in love with a lesbian. in the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 7 years, 1 month ago

    Unfortunately it seems for me, I’m in love with a lesbian.
    Not just any lesbian, but one who also isn’t always understanding and kind towards me, which makes it hard to not also hate her on occasion
    It happened […]
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    TheMatter started the forum topic I'm in love with a lesbian. in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 7 years, 1 month ago

    Unfortunately it seems for me, I’m in love with a lesbian.
    Not just any lesbian, but one who also isn’t always understanding and kind towards me, which makes it hard to not also hate her on occasion
    It happened […]
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    TheMatter joined the group Group logoSexuality Questions 7 years, 1 month ago
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    TheMatter started the forum topic I love a lesbian in the group Group logoSexuality Questions 7 years, 1 month ago

    Unfortunately it seems for me, I’m in love with a lesbian.
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    TheMatter posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: shiloh posted an update i have an appointment at a gender clinic to talk to a therapist about the issues i am having, but the only way i can get there is if my mother takes me but she won’t take me without an […] View

    Tell her after saying that you just need ‘my mum to keep supporting me’, which implies that she has been supporting you which makes it seem like less of a change, and appeals to her maternal instinct.
    You have the right to talk to councillors and therapists about whatever you need to.

    I’d like to suggest that you consider that it is okay to…[Read more]
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    TheMatter posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: shiloh posted an update i have an appointment at a gender clinic to talk to a therapist about the issues i am having, but the only way i can get there is if my mother takes me but she won’t take me without an […] View

    Tell her after saying that you just need ‘my mum to keep supporting me’, which implies that she has been supporting you which makes it seem like less of a change, and appeals to her maternal instinct.
    You have the right to talk to councillors and therapists about whatever you need to.

    I’d like to suggest that you consider that it is okay to…[Read more]
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    TheMatter posted an update 7 years, 2 months ago

    Well, after a lot of thought and a bit of googling definitions, I’ve added ’Abuse’ to my ’experienced with’ list.
    Nice.

    Mood : Pissed off
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      Milo86 replied 7 years, 2 months ago

      You mean that it wasn’t just a ”strict” upbringing or ”motivated” spouse? Wow. ;) Seriously, it is quite the awakening when you discover you are an abuse victim, eh?

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      Oli replied 7 years, 2 months ago

      Don’t let anyone abuse or hurt you @psychicwings, you deserve to be treated with love and care by others, remember to be strong and focus on making yourself feel beautiful, you will overcome and beat all your struggles, believe in yourself and make great things happen, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me…[Read more]

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      TheMatter replied 7 years, 1 month ago

      @Milo86, Yeah, I was definitely emotionally abused when my ex held my love for her hostage and drove me to self harm, sudden onset anger, panic attacks (still occur about bi-monthly now, 22 months after breaking up with her, but were a daily occurrence two years ago, teenage alcoholism, self-hatred, paranoia and depression by self harming more…[Read more]

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      Milo86 replied 7 years, 1 month ago

      I hope you can find peace. I have, and it’s wonderful. You can too.

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    TheMatter posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: stuck in the moment posted an update Let me just rant about something because that’s what we are supposed to do on here right?If you are going to get on here and be a ”venter” for the love of god do not be […] View

    Preach this and preach it hard
    People do try very hard to take care of other people, and they come on here. I’ve heard some really poor advice before, but there’s no need to do anything but say than you and move on. The system avoids putting you with the same person twice in 24 hours, so you’ll be fine. Just find someone else to vent to, or…[Read more]
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    TheMatter started the forum topic Would this classify? in the group Group logoSexual Assault Survivors 8 years, 2 months ago

    So one time I was with my girlfriend at the time. We were inside watching a movie together, lying down on the couch. We had been kissing and we didn’t want to do anything because it was her time of the month. […]
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    TheMatter joined the group Group logoMisophonia and Misokinesia 8 years, 2 months ago
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    TheMatter started the forum topic Sick of Lovin' You in the group Group logoPoetry 8 years, 7 months ago

    Here’s a little collage of two poems I wrote, both about being tired of loving a person who would have ended up driving me mad just before they killed me had I not left them.

    I don’t know if you hear […]
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    TheMatter asked “I need help with a personal belief (Mature themes involved)” 8 years, 9 months ago
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