Thanks, it’s been a while! Good to see you here! I’ve been well, I just stumbled back on here out of curiosity so I’ll probably be listening a bit in the evenings on here. How are you doing?

I guess the thing is – does it matter? I dislike it as well, attempting to get some validation from other people that shouldn’t even matter to your relationship seems slightly odd to me, but it is their choice. I find the easiest way is to just ignore them or remove them so you don’t see it again. No point in getting worked up over it at all,…[Read more]

@dorian0gray Sometimes when we’re that confident or honestly not really bothered by thoughts or input from external people – we don’t really feel the need to be bothered. It’s possible it’s something like that. It’s also possible you don’t think it creates such an impact on your life and it could always be worse, maybe you feel lucky because…[Read more]

I can sign in BSL and know some ASL. It’s hard to teach online but there are courses and videos that can help. It’s sometimes better to have someone to practice with in person however. http://www.british-sign.co.uk/ has a large knowledge base for BSL.

There are tablets you can take with a meal that will remove all/most of the side effects for lactose intolerance. It depends on the severity of it but it is in many cases manageable. I can understand the frustration seeing people enjoying foods you can’t really eat without suffering at some point later on.

Tony, can you do both? Can you generate income through other means to balance it out temporarily until you’re able to make more money through your dream?

Life is ultimately how you want it to be, you can mold it to what you want with enough work and effort – even doing little bits here and there, it can get to a place where you’re content or even really happy. If you’d like to talk then don’t hesitate to pm me.

There are a variety of support lines out there for abusive situations. If you’re looking for somewhere to get advice or support to get you away from the abuse then I would definitely recommend that. No matter the situation – no one deserves to be abused, whether its mental or physical, neither is okay. If you need to vent or discuss options, you…[Read more]

One of those days, or more one of those weeks? I get it! They’re always just too much of a downer. I tend to run or ride when I get those, I feel a ton better after working up a sweat.

Sometimes the best thing is to do the opposite, confront your fear and deal with it head on. (Providing it’s relatively safe to do so). It might not feel that way but even small steps towards this goal can help relieve a ton of stress and worries.
If you feel up for talking just drop me a message. We can talk about whatever you feel like, be it…[Read more]

Hi snowyrunes! Why so blah?

Your parents are likely to find out eventually, especially if you plan to go through with the pregnancy. Since you have the edge right now you should sit down with your boyfriend and discuss your options, if you believe you can bring your mum into the conversation without dad (at first) then I would recommend doing that and talking it through.…[Read more]