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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 hours, 54 minutes ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update What is time? The past is gone, the future unseeable. There is only the endless now…In other words, quarantine is driving me insane. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling upset or angry @kinkymomo, hopefully quarantine will come to an end or be modified in some way so you can leave the house, please stay safe Kinkymomo, I want to see you living a happy life where you feel safe, loved and protected, your future will be awesome because you are so brave and courageous, you will make it…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update It’s official: my mother knows about the Bump. View

    I’m so sorry @kinkymomo, your mother really should support and be there for you, she has to support, listen and protect you from anyone who tries to hurt you Kinkymomo, please take care of yourself and stay safe, what happened to you was so wrong and you deserve to have good people on your side who will fight for you and always be here to help…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Doctor says Bump is about 15 weeks, give or take a few days. View

    I’m so sorry @kinkymomo, I want to see you feeling safe and protected, what happened to you was so wrong Kinkymomo and you deserve so much better, please know I’ll always be here for you and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Waiting for quarantine to end so i can see a doctor about the baby bump. View

    Please do go and see a doctor when you can @kinkymomo, please try to tell them what happened to you Kinkymomo, I want you to be safe, protected and looked after Kinkymomo, please take care of yourself and know I’ll always be here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Kinkymomo, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update The bump is definitely showing now… View

    Please don’t feel ashamed @kinkymomo, what happened to you is so wrong and you shouldn’t feel at fault Kinkymomo, your abuser is the one who is guilty, not you, I know having a baby after the traumatic events that happened is difficult, but I’m sure you will make the correct decisions and choices going forward, remember you are so brave,…[Read more]

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    Super Woman posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Quarantine has been extended through May 22… View

    @kinkymomo That’s alright. We may chat privately if that’s what you prefer. Feel free to message me anytime.

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    Super Woman posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Quarantine has been extended through May 22… View

    @kinkymomo Stay safe! What are you doing to cope?

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Quarantine has been extended through May 22… View

    We are still under quarantine here too in the UK @kinkymomo, I know it is frustrating, boring and lonely, but try to stay positive and fill with time with happiness and positivity, you are such a wonderful person who is so brave, courageous and strong, please take care of yourself and stay safe Kinkymomo, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update My mom gave me a black eye… it could have been worse. View

    That’s not right at all @kinkymomo, your mother has absolutely no right to attack you, she should believe, support, love and be there for you Kinkymomo, you deserve so much better because what you have been through is not your fault, your mother should protect you from your abuser, not blame you Kinkymomo, please try to find a place where you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update I let my abuser do what he wants because the alternative is worse View

    Your abuser has absolutely no right to lay a finger on you @kinkymomo, I don’t want to see you being hurt or abused, please stay safe Kinkymomo, you are the victim Kinkymomo and please don’t feel ashamed, you are not at fault, please report what is happening to the authorities or someone you trust, you deserve so much better, remember you are so…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update The test came back positive.I’m pregnant. View

    I’m so sorry @kinkymomo, what has happened to you is so wrong, evil and disgusting Kinkymomo, please tell someone about what is going on, you shouldn’t have to be going through this Kinkymomo, you are NOT at fault in this situation, your abuser is the person at fault, I know things are hard for you Kinkymomo, but please know I’ll always be here…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update I think I’m pregnant. I’m so scared… View

    Please try to get yourself seen by a doctor or medical professional if and when you can @kinkymomo, what has been happening to you is so wrong Kinkymomo, please tell someone about it, reach out for support and help Kinkymomo, remember I will always be here for you if you ever need to talk Kinkymomo, you will make it through the dark times because…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update I should just give up and give in… View

    Please don’t give up @kinkymomo, you are so strong, brave and courageous, you will make it through this Kinkymomo, you are a fighter and survivor who has been through so much, everything will be OK, please believe in yourself and know brighter days are ahead for you, don’t let anything or anyone hurt you Kinkymomo, I believe in you, please…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update I just had a very scary thought… View

    I don’t want to see you worried or scared @kinkymomo, you are such a brilliant, awesome and wonderful person who deserves to feel happy and positive, what’s on your mind Kinkymomo, remember to smile and know you are so brave and courageous, things will be OK, remember to keep going forward as best you can and never give up, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update And on top of everything else I am gaining weight. View

    Please don’t feel ashamed @kinkymomo, you are beautiful inside and out, I want to see you truly love and embrace every part of yourself, please don’t let anything or anyone hurt you Kinkymomo, remember to smile when you look in the mirror and see the reflection of the amazing person staring back at you, everything will be OK, always be kind to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update The difference between quarantine and prison is that in prison you can arrange to stay away from other inmates… View

    I know it can be hard to cope during quarantine @kinkymomo, most of the world is basically in the same situation, I don’t want to see you feeling upset or angry, you deserve to be in a place where you feel loved, cared for, respected and appreciated, don’t let anyone in your house be horrible to you, remember to always stand up for yourself, try…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update How do I know if I got roofied? View

    That’s so wrong @kinkymomo, I’m so sorry that happened to you, I would report it to the authorities, no-one deserves to be treated like that, be strong and know you are a survivor, everything will be OK, I know it’s hard but you will make it through this, keep going as best you can and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]